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female
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36-40,
*rsdelarsa
writes:my boyfriend of five years has been talking to me about getting married as soon as i get a divorce which i have been been married for 4 years to the same man that i was married to when i met my boyfriend. Now im finally getting a divorce in a couple of months and he doesnt want to get married to get married until 2012 and thats when he believes the world will end and we have 3 kids together and i have 2 other kids by the previous husband but they only know him because they were babies when we got together he has stopped helping as much as he should and im scared of us not being together i need help with figuring whether i should stay or go.....
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reader, Tine  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 have u sat down with your boyfriend and told him exactly how you feel. Maybe there are some underlying issues with him that is causing him to not want to get married for a few years. Maybe he wants to save until then, or maybe he is scared that incase what happened with your ex happens to him?? Or maybe he wants you to have some time after your divorce to really get over it? Either way he wil have an explaination of why he wants to wait so long, and you can figure it out from there..
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