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writes:Me and my husband are trying to have a Baby. So if i were on top of him and he came inside me like halfway almost at the tip of my entrance and i stand up then go and lay on my back for like 5-10minutes. Could that help us to have a baby. We are just starting to try now...... Please give some advice what could help and is it possible to choose the baby's sex before the time i would love to have twins a baby girl and boy But i dont wanna sound selfish but i would love a little girl. Reply to this Question
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reader, meg2989  +, writes (2 March 2010):
 Yeah I'm not too sure about being able to choose the sex of your baby or the theories, but I can tell you that I felt what mine was at 12 weeks!!! Like at first I really didn't know and one day I just woke up and looked at my boyfriend and said "It's a boy!" lol. He looked at me like I was crazy. And he's like we will see you don't know for sure, and for some reason I insisted I did!!! Sure enough I had a 16 week ultrasound and we found out it was a boy!!! I just had him on Jan 24th!!! Still a boy lol the ultrasound wasn't wrong like my boyfriend started to imply that it could be at the end of my pregnancy. lol. I think the best positions to fall pregnant in is missionary or doggy, but right after sex you need to lay back put a pillow under feet and tilt your pelvis up for about 10 - 15 min, to let his erm "seed" really get in there lol. It really does help to fall pregnant. I hope that helped!!!!
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (2 March 2010):
 You cant choose the sex of your child - there are a number of theories on this but I honestly dont believe them. Best to use Google and type in something like this "how do you have a baby girl" - this should bring up a number of articles that apparently tell you how to have a girl. As Angzw said - twins generally are a genetic thing so if there is a history of them in your family then you have a chance, but if not then the chances are very low that you will have twins.
As for actually having sex in order to conceive - just think of gravity at all times. There is no one fail proof sexual position, it is more about having sex frequently and around the time you are ovulating (you can buy ovulation kits which tell you when you are ovulating from pharmacies and chemists). But keep in mind the fact that sperm have to swim upwards, so gravity goes against them by dragging them back down. So if you are on top, for the sperm to swim upwards is almost impossible! Whereas if you are on your back, or even with your hips tilted upwards (use a pillow or 2 under your hips/bum while you are having sex and this makes a good angle) then this makes it easier for the sperm to reach your egg.
Also, if he ejaculates right at the opening of your vagina, this is in no way deep enough to help the sperm reach your egg in your womb. His penis needs to be fully inside you when he ejaculates in order to give his sperm a helping hand!
I dont want to sound rude here but it doesnt sound like you know too much about sex or getting pregnant so I think it would be a good idea for you to do your research on getting pregnant - maybe buy a book on the subject and do some research online through Google. Just type in "getting pregnant" or "conceiving" and this should have a good number of results so you can read up on what you need to be doing. It is never a good idea to try and bring a new life into the world when you dont know what you are doing, so be responsible and actually learn a bit about sex and conceiving. It might take a while to really read around the subject but it will help you in the long run.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (1 March 2010):
The best position to become pregnant in is doggy style. He should climax deep inside you. If you want a boy, the best time to have sex is 2 weeks after the first day of your last menstrual period. For a girl its best about 10 days. These are just theories though and they are not 100%. Its unlikely that you will have twins unless they run in your family.
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