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writes:Well i have a problem. My husband is behaving like a naughty boy in front of the people he works for. So i ask him why is he trying to be someone he is not? He says he is just enjoying himself. But then he gets out of hand. I never knew him like this. Towards his parents and now me he tells me piss off and get out of my life. So yesterday his parents visits us he doesn't talk to them so they and me chat the whole afternoon. His mom in tears by me and me by hear says t ome he is realy rude and getting worse so i had to stand up for my husband even for him being the pig he is No he is just tired and under stress. However i kno whe is Not .So i ask his parents would they like some cooldrink they say yes please it were a hot day yesterday so i fogot to make ice so there is no ice. His dad said ill go to the shop and get some dont worry. Then my husband says he will just bloody go and get some ice. WHen he came back he told me infrunt of his parents i must take my bags and get the fuck out of the house. He's mom were devistated by the why he is treating me. So she tolds me i have to stand up to him. When he told me that infrunt of his parents i did say anything i did not wanna argue. So when they left he tells i dont like you more and more less each day we are together for 13years! I mean im always friendly,cook,clean, get him his drinks take his food/dinner to him. Iron the clothes When he wakes up in the morning i will have his towel ready in the bathroom, when he is done showering and gets to the bedroom his clothes will be ready for him. And all his stuff wallet and watch together also with a nice cup of coffee. He told me this morning my coffee are not nice anymore even the toilet water will taste better. But he loves my food and coffee now he hates my cooking and everything i do. Im doing all this stuff for him because i wanna be a good wife. But now im getting sad more by the day. i did try to talk to him he says i dont have time for your childish talks. He says i want a women that have her own car earns more than me My salary pays for the Rent,monthly food and 2 of his account and one of mine. So i asked him in a soft calm voice My darling could we please perhaps if possible ( i know we have money for it) Get some new linnen ours is a bit old and we defently need a new one. He freaked out and told me we do not have many for shit like that! I work with the money and i tell you No there is none for that. But then over the weakend he bought some booze and spendid alot off cash on nothing usefull. So am i wrong to tell or talk to him bacause i did try and told him darling could we perhaps try and buy each month something for the house please? I mean even 1 pillow will make a difference. We moved into a new place 5months ago and i wanna make the place very stunning. He told me he wants me pregnant within 1months time. But then i feel we should atleast make our house nicer! But then we just end up argueing and im tired of that so when ever he says something that will make me upset and wanna fight i keep quite and dont argue back.So he told me last night leave me alone dont touch me fuc.. off then when i just fell asleep he started acting all horney and i am very sexual active but its like i would like to have sex like 2-5 times even. So i did please him last night i had like 6 Orgasms and made him very wet also gave him oral while doing it and off coarse i did some moaning. He then did hold me tight even this morning but then when he got ready for work he were grumpy/mean/rude again. Oh yeah im not allowed to talk to anyone i want to he gets jelous and upset but he can talk to whom ever he can i dont have a problem with that its just what counts for one person counts for the other? He told me this morning he just looks at me then i iritates him. Please help me and give me some advise Am i doing anything wrong here if so please help me.
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reader, Psychology101 +, writes (1 March 2010):
It sounds lik he has some unresolved issues that he needs to take care of with help from a psycholgist. You are aware that he is abusing you.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 The only thing you're doing wrong is tolerating his abusive behaviour. No one deserves the treatment you're getting; the fact that he feels he can treat his parents the same way speaks to a poor upbringing.
If he's prepared to kick you out, you should have advice from a lawyer about what your rights are in this situation. He cannot just tell you to piss off and forget about you -- the law gives you certain rights.
I can't imagine how someone like this might be persuaded to change, but you should start by suggesting counselling. My guess, though, is that your choices are to continue to tolerate this man-child, or to leave.
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