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writes:Hello everybody, well i have a simple question i am 18 years old im still a virgin and well im starting to want to masturbate i already tried a little by rubbing my clit hard and fast but after like a min i get like literally hot like all over and i stop is that normal? And can u guys help me with tips of how can i please myself more i dont really like the toys maybe ill use my finger but which one? ok thanks hope you guys help me -bye
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reader, Faraday  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 Might I suggest that you follow my link.....
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/need-help-climaxing.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): Use lots of lubricant. The slipperier the better. Try K-Y jelly and apply a spritz of water from time to time to keep your vaginal region slippery. It is water based, so use a lot, it cleans up easily in the shower. Do not use a petroleum based jelly!
I hope you know the medical terms for your body parts. If so, follow along with me and you'll be happy with the results.
Really good masturbation involves exciting all of the senses.
Touch:
You need to vary finger motion and the location of your stimulation a lot. If you rub the clitoris too long it will de-sensitize. You should run your fingers around your labia, finger your urethral opening, your perineum, and alternate penetrating your vagina with one finger to start and then add a second finger once you are ready. Some girls also like gentle pressure and probing of the anus.
Pull back gently on the clitoral hood from time to time to expose more of the clitoris button end for stimulation. Starting at the upper most limit of the clitoral hood (top of your labia majora) you should feel your clitoris extending up into your body under your skin. Start rubbing gently at the top and work your way down your clitoris to the bottom (button). Then go back up. Alternate all of the above.
Sight:
If you have access to one, set up a mirror down at the base of your bed so you can watch yourself fingering your vaginal region. Prop your head up on a pillow for a better view.
Smell:
A lot of my lovers have gotten turned on by the smell of their own vaginas, so you may want to try fingering yourself (before using lube) and smelling your fingers from time to time. I had a few lovers who liked to rub their fingers in their vagina and then rub their fingers on their upper lip so their female fragrance would be inhaled into their nose as they masturbate or when we make love. I also noticed that many of my lovers got more aroused during intercourse after I performed cunnilingus and my face smelled like their vaginas.
Taste:
Don't forget taste. You may also want to try licking your fingers too. A few of my lovers did that, but they said they don't really taste anything. They say that licking their own juices is more of a mental turn on than anything else.
OKAY now you know the routine. Masturbate and get all of your senses into the action and you will orgasm like crazy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks girls :) i will for sure use ur advise :) -goodlooking gorgeous
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reader, Miamine +, writes (1 March 2010):
 Your doing perfectly.. that hot feeling is the beginning of an orgasm. It's really better for us not to give you instructions. We are not you, we don't know how you feel and we don't know what will give you pleasure. Keep doing what your doing, and yes, there is no need for toys, and you don't need to penetrate. Most of the feeling for a woman is in the clit, so keep rubbing, slow, fast, use a little Vaseline, or do it in the bath. Do whatever makes you happy and turns you on. It's really best for you to try and experiment rather than listening to anyone else. It's trial and error, just enjoy the feelings you are having already, and relax, this is not a test it's supposed to be fun.
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