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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I try to get my ex-boyfriend back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a guy two years ago. We were together for one year. One day unexpectedly I received a job offer to work abroad for one year. The opportunity was so good that I took it. My boyfriend wanted me to stay, but did not tell me. He said before I left that I must come ... (406 words)

How close is too close for married friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How close are you to your best friend's husband? My best friend is more like family than a friend. I am very good friends with her husband as well. NOTHING sexual or anything like that, but we do talk, text and hang out. I was just wondering how close are some of you to ... (62 words)

How do you react when you cause your girlfriend to cry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - from a guys perpective how do u react when your girlfriend cries because of something you did to her? ... (19 words)

He doesn't call me from work anymore. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so my live in boyfriend and i have been together for a year we have been goin through some problems certain things he has done to me, it really hurt me! the thing is when he leaves for work around 2 i do not hear from him until he gets home around 1 or 130. Before he used to ... (193 words)

Could I still be pregnant even tho the test came up negative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was just womdering if there is still a chance I could be pregnant and if this has happened to anyone. My period was due on tuesday and never arrived I am a very regular person for my period and normally comes on the day or the day before. Lately I have been feeling well ... (126 words)

How do I protect my brother an from internet stalker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My brother has a girl on his facebook page that he's never met but she writes on his wall nearly everyday. She calls him babe and hun and seems quite obsessed with him. I'm worried that she is not who she says she is. I've told my parents but they don't seem bothered and say ... (86 words)

My ex is a liar but I feel bad for ignoring her. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my 4-year GF for good. We'd had complicated problems for a year (she is a liar). I cut her off completely after the talk, she chased after, and i got in my car and left. She called a few times. Left a message. A few weeks passed and she either called or emailed ... (128 words)

I'm not over him and Facebook isn't helping. Should I delete him as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this boy i like and we went out for a week and then he ignored me for a whole month, and then he came back and was like i'm sorry. he wants to get back together. I really like him ALOT. however, he's like you know what type of relationship i want. i really want to but ... (869 words)

She said my penis was "kinda thin". What is normal and what can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was with this girl and she told me that my penis' erect length (4.7 inches) was just fine, but that it was "kinda thin"... My penis is about 4 inches in girth and 1.5 inches wide when fully erect. I read somewhere the average was 6 inches in girth and 2.5 inches wide... ... (164 words)

Best friends since babyhood... how do I shift things to a deeper level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Ive been best friends with this guy ever since we were babies. His mother and my mother are like total best friends. I heard many times from them we should be dating or that we'll end up together. My feelings for him are growing and Im trying my best not to make... (109 words)

Do I give my ex another chance, or should I pursue my friend who loves me and let my parents know about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like your advice on a dilemma. Coming from an Asian background, i am at the age where most girls are married. My Parents are searching for a potential partner for me, which i do not have a problem with, as i have the final say regarding the guy in question. But over ... (301 words)

Bf idolizes his adult daughter... she can do no wrong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I are both in our late 40's. He has a teenage son and a daughter in her first year old college. He treats his son well and discipline's him appropriately. His daughter, on the other hand, gets away with murder. Everything she does is 'cute' no matter how ... (222 words)

My GF has too many male friends... how do I proect our relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

21 March 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My girl has a bunch of male friends. Like a whole slew of these guys. Is it wrong to be insecure about that? She tells me when one comes onto her her and tells me everything that happens, usually, but the way I see it, I believe she is loyal now, but if we ever get in a ... (112 words)

Am I stupid, naive and frigid.. or is he manipulating me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and I have my first proper boyfriend (who is also 14), we were bestfriends beore going out what made everything abit easier, after a while of going out we started touching eachother through our clothes, I soon told him that's As far I'd like to go but he asked if he ... (138 words)

Should I move on and never look back or wait for his crazy madness to go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) age 36-40 - -+My ex boyfriend just broke up with me. We had lots of issues due to my past. I’d been with guys he knows, and he demanded to know every detail. Because of the nature of this situation, it was hard for me to be 100% honest all the time, so he didn’t trust me. However, when I ... (405 words)

Should I wait for my ex to be ready for a relationship again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, its been like 3 months since my ex and i broke up, We've been together for a year then out of the blue BAM went down the drain :/. Soo anyways she wants me to wait for her but its my choice if i want to or not. She also wants me to stay close and stuff. From my point ... (170 words)

I am getting back pains after sex. Is doing it daily too often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all ! I want to ask you that is it good to have sex daily or it cause problem for health? I get back pain after sex. We usually have sex whole night but i desire it more n more is this so much sex drive cause back pain for me? Plz help me how much i should have sex and ... (66 words)

I was drunk and don't know what I did...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and i was at a party and i sort of took a 21 year old boy back to my house and got into him :/ and let him stay till the morning but my friend was thier to and i was really drunk and i dont remeber anyhting! so i dont know what i havve done! i fell asleep downstari... (82 words)

He refered to me as his girlfriend, but his facebook status still says he is single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy Okay, I have started seeing this guy, however he works on cruise ships and I see him every 4 month. I know what seeing each other means, but when I asked him what he meant ... ie seeing only each other or seeing each other with no committment he seemed confussed, so i s... (158 words)

If he didnt want to pursue anything with me, why didnt he just leave well enough alone in the first place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy about 4 months ago, we started dated and everthing was fine, about 2 months in he disappears, starts ignoring me. I decide to give him his space and didnt contact him except every now and then on chat. About two weeks go by and he suddenly contacts me to ... (395 words)

I forget to take the pill once or twice a week. Is it possible I am pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am on the pill but i sometimes forget to take it once or twice a week I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and now im panicing Is it possible to have pregnancy symptoms 2 weeks since? I feel like im going to be sick alot, Im always really warm and feel faint My m... (86 words)

My boyfriend has been sending and recieving naked pictures. I love him but am terrified of what he might be up to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a young mother of two little boys, who had to leave their father. it has been about a year and a half since i left him, and now i am living with a man whom i feel i love very much. however. i have some trust issues with him, because i found him having online "chat" with ... (181 words)

He cheated and now I get angry and jealous when other girls are around. Can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help i don't know what to do :( ! Me and my boyfriend were going out for 8 months then i found out he kissed a girl while going out with me ( he wasnt drunk only 13) i dumped him as i needed to think and after 2 weeks i had given him another chance its a month on and ... (131 words)

What would my kids say if they knew I got involved with their Uncle?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help. I am the mother of three children, all grown up. My husband died unexpectedly when I was pregnant with the last one, nineteen years ago. Although I had my share of relationships over the years, none was good enough to make me settle down again. Last month I v... (167 words)

Condom leak??? Help! I need opinions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* I've never really noticed this before. I was straddling my boyfriend (sitting position sex) and he came (with a condom on of course). I know this was stupid, but he stayed inside of me a couple of minutes right after he came. I realized he should definitely pull... (195 words)

Could I still be pregnant despite having my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex the day before valentines day and then in about the early part of March i had my period but the problem is that i still have the pregnancy symptoms like the left side of my lower abdomen is hurting me slightly but constantly i have fever and constantly sleepy and ... (88 words)

I messed up. How do I make it right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Qupid please help! Ok so like I have kwn this guy names victor for 6 months and like I told him I like him and he liked me to..we didn't hook up though..he's a very cocky guy but with me he was so shy and wouldn't tlk. Wed text a lot though practically 24/7 and like @ school w... (425 words)

Need help turning my boyfriend on....?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How can i get my boyfriend in the mood? There are so many Q and A's for this, i know. But it seems like they're all for serious relationships, marriages, and adults. I'm 14, boyfriend 16. We've been together for 5 months, but haven't gone any father than making out.... (132 words)

I want to be accepted my muslim girlfriends family.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriends mum has recently found out that her daughter is dating me and she will not accept it as she is worried that the rest of her family will frown upon it. They are a Muslim family and they will not accept me, a White British male, even though they have never met me. ... (79 words)

I think my brother has been raped, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My brother has been acting really strange for the last week, he's hardly been eating and seemed shy and distant. His girlfriend even rang me to see if something was wrong that he didn't want to tell her. We share a house and I needed to look something up on the internet so I ... (224 words)

Was this just an excuse to not go out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i've liked this girl for a while and id talk to her as often as i could. Finally i told her i liked her and she said she kind of figured but then wouldnt tell me how she felt (i didnt want to push it just kinda let the ball lie in her court) until a while later when she ... (160 words)

How can I stop this constant fighting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years lately we've been fighting a lot. We fight over petty little things and they get blown out of proportion or we fight over big things and seem to never get dropped. I love him so much, I just don't know how to stop ... (82 words)

Is his behaviour obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently begun dating a guy. We have a six year gap between us and at the start, before we went out, we chatted on Facebook. In our relationship at the moment, he is clearly more interested in me than me to him. During our web chats, he expresses how much he 'loves' me, ... (166 words)

Am I missing something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok theres a guy i sit next to, we;re all friends in the class but me him n this girl sit at the back. Afew weeks ago we only had one lesson so half of us didnt bother turning up, Him along with the other half did. The thing is a mate of ours was talking to him on msn that ... (156 words)

Could the bump in my mouth be due to prior drug use?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know you guys aint doctors, but by my attempted research on the web it seems pretty commen... Let me explain, i'm 18 years old and for about a year i've had a little bump on like, i dunno how to explain it really, it's in my mouth, behind my top front teeth, on my gum. It's ... (179 words)

Why would my friend do that?? am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* my friend always say shes gnnna come to my house..but then doesnt show.. and textts me late in the evening saying shes tired and making up excuses. shes done it 4times now. she invited me to a wedding yesterday.. i got ready waiting for her..she called ... (164 words)

How do you get over someone you still love when you have to see them daily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - how to get over someone you still love and have to be around daily due to having children together and living arrangements... (22 words)

How can I make a guy like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15, and i like this guy who is 19 :L He works at tesco part-time i see him like 3 times a week :) He gave me his number and we text every night :D, but he goes out alot. He has a friend (female) and they do absolutely EVERYTHING together, shop etc. He likes her and she ... (169 words)

Is there anything I can do to get my boyfriend permanent residency without marrying him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I need some advice. I have a boyfriend that I love a lot, we met online and then have been flying back and forth since then. We are both in our early 20's. I'm crazy about him. I was planning to relocate anyway (even before I met him) so I was going to move to his city. ... (253 words)

Can you dry hump naked?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you dry hump naked?... (5 words)

Should I admit to my husband that I was not a virgin when we married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for a long time now and I am feeling guilty. When we met my husband asked me if I was a virgin I lied and said yes. I have only been with one other man and there is no way he will ever find out. If I tell him I am afraid I will break his heart. I am ... (100 words)

Was breaking up a good decision or a terrible mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend of six years. I know it is an impossible question but how do I know if it was a good idea or a terrible mistake? In the lead up I was very torn. Couldn't handle some things the way they were but wanted more than anything to stay... (203 words)

I am considering divorce because of my husband losing his erection during sex. What could be causing this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) age - I really need to know,if anybody else has the same problem,than me.. I'm just about to make the biggest decision of my life. Here is my story.. 24year long marriage,always good sex. Than suddenly my husband losing his erection ,middle sex, totally out of the blue. So it ... (217 words)

I don't want him to think I like him but I also don't want him to think I'm ignoring him. How do I make him understand I just want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have this boy best friend that I love to death but not in a way that I would want a relationship. I am a very flirty girl and I joke around but everyone knows it's just my personality. My guy friend told me that he liked me and I realized that I must hav... (145 words)

My husband and I don't have anything in common. How do I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age - How to cope with my husband we do not have any thing in common for the last 2 years.... (19 words)

How do I tell if I am bored with my relationship, or just bored with life in general?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - just cannot decide what to do. i am very depressed and still living at home and in terms of relationship have been with my girlfriend on nd off for the last 6 years and frankly i am bord but the thing is i am bord and stuck in a rut with life in general so i am finding it hard ... (238 words)

What do men think of lots of pubic hair?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 14, and i already have LOTS of pubic hair, which i hate. I'm a swimmer, and i'm finding it hard to cope with shaving, and i dont feel ready to wax yet. the hair spreads way past my knicker line. Also, do men find lots of pubic hair unattractive or is it something ... (70 words)

How Can I Get a Girl Back?

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl had been talking for 2 months but for the last month she said she's wanted to be just friends because she doesn't want to get in a relationship because of what happened with her ex. But we still talk 24/7, just not on the phone or how we used to. I haven't seen ... (76 words)

My boyfriend seems frustated that I don't get pleasure from oral or manual stimulation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and am very happy. However I feel that he is frustrated with me because when he performs oral sex on me or uses his fingers to pleasure me he notices that I'm not getting pleasure from it, he gets really upset and downhearted ... (156 words)

How do I make a 'titwank' pleasurable for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the bluntness of this Me and my boyfriend want to try a "titwank" I know the basics of this, such as, where it goes etc But I have no idea what I'm supposed to do, if I want to give him pleasure Can someone please tell me what to do? I'm a 34B cup, and he told m... (106 words)

Confusing life... badly need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 4 years ago,i was going out with a boy for three months...i was the one responsible for our breakup...i was afraid of my father because he's a strict man and he don't want to hear any boyfriends type of things from me...for him, at that time i had to be serious in my ... (622 words)

Am I being bullied?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a man at work who may be bullying me. At first he was really nice and charming and went out of his way to make me feel special. He knows that I am in a relationship but he spent a lot of time telling me I was nice / attractive. Then I made a small mistake and acci... (227 words)

Paternity testing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible for a child to resemble his/her potential father and the paternity test results come out to be negative?... (21 words)

How to gain back a man's trust???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How to gain back a man trust? He is virgo and I'm pisces. He likes to test me and I always fail those mind games. I always mess things up no matter how careful I am. Anyone have similar experiences and can teach me what to do?... (51 words)

I feel as if I should be Hispanic! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I'm an agony aunt on this site, but now I'm in need of help. I studied abroad in Spain (I did a Tefl course) and I got back a few months ago... the trouble is, I fell in love with Spain and now half my heart is over there. I'd give anything to go and live the... (837 words)

I have large labia minora. Please help, and give me your opinions!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16, and i have large labora minora (outer vaginal lips) i worry constantly, and what happens when it gets to the stage when i'm going a bit further in relationships? Please, male and female, give me your opinions. and i know its normal, but i find it gross. No one el... (70 words)

Molested by dad's friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend let's call her "Giselle" and myself were touched by my parents friend. Last Friday my parents were having a small party most of the people there were grown-ups that worked at the University with my dad. Anyway half way through the party my dad told me that one of the ... (549 words)

Any ideas??? How can I get him to open up and tell me what he's really thinking without actually just coming out and demanding to know??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

- I recently got back with my ex after him breaking up with me giving me no explanation and just before getting back togther we had a heart to heart and he told me that he has never been in a relationship before and this is his first time giving it a go with someone. He told me ... (303 words)

What do American guys think of the Irish girls?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) age 41-50 - What do the American men think of the irish women? Do they like Irish women? Are we different from the American women? Are we more conservative and quiet? ... (31 words)

I would not mind him masturbating if we had a normal sex life - but we don't and I feel rejected.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved across the country to be with my bf of 4years. He have broken up several times before and have cheated.When i moved we talked about leaving everything behind and forgive each other in order to be happy. I still have trouble with it sometimes and the way he treated me at ... (313 words)

Is he afraid of commitment, or is he's playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help understanding my relationship.I been seeing this guy since September and the first mistake I made earlier on is sleeping with him before we established a relationship with each other.We kept communicating with each other days after we had sex,but when I asked ... (678 words)

Should I leave him because he keeps stalling on having children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is incredibly selfish. I am feeling right now like I am living his life with him, and I have nothing that I want, nothing of my own. I am from a different country than him, right now neither of us live in our own country, but he wants me to move to his hometown with ... (359 words)

Is this guy crazy? Is he dangerous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age - It is me again. Thank you to everyone for thier wonderful words of advice and wisdom. I met a charming man online. we have been communicating mostly through email and a few phone calls for three months. I have not had sex for years and years as I have been waiting for the right ... (348 words)

Would you sacrifice some of the passion to preserve a relationship that is fufilling in other ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I guess I don't know where to begin. I have an issue that is pulling at my heart. I have been dating a man for about 8 months now. We are great friends, we can relate, similar interests, etc. We also seem to have passion in the bedroom. But the romance aspect has never been ... (183 words)

University is my chance to get away, but will I be able to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - *Op's own title* I'm going to uni later this year because I want to start again where no-one knows me. I hate preconceptions and being judged, and it's hard to grow in confidence or re-invent yourself when people already think they know who you are, does that make sense? When ... (189 words)

Does he want to kiss me? Why doesn't he kiss me back? How can I understand what he's thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm not quite sure how to do this, or how to say it for that matter. I've recently got a boyfriend. We're similar and yet different. We're both athletes, both love the same kind of music, grew up in slightly similar situations, both have dated before, but here is where we ... (716 words)

She delays in answering my call. Should I do the same?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* I have a friend who says she is in some financial problem. My problem is that sometimes when i call her, she takes forever to call or flash back. Sometimes when i call, i feel 'she may not have enough credit to call back' and then i call only to get no reply... (428 words)

Should I believe she never went further than texting another man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i found out my partner for 18 years was texing a blokes phone that she meet in work, she told me it was just texing anh had been going on for 5 months. now she does not going out at weekends to pubs our anything, only calls to her mothers , and goes walking after work. we ... (207 words)

How long should she need after her husband committed suicide to start seeing me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am writing because I need serious advice. Here is the story. I am single but fell for a married woman who has 2 young boys and her husband was an alcoholic and severe depression. He was a good guy but created a big stress in her life because of the consequences of his ... (379 words)

Should I try to resolve our problems with another couple?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I have quite a dilemma (another one actually:P). In my past I was in love with one of my best friends. She was a little older but we had a great connection. We went to the same school and we would flirt all the time but more of a friendly flirt, nothing serious. She had a ... (661 words)

My girlfriends insecurity is making us fight. How can I make her understand how I feel about her?

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i love this lady-my girlfriend and respect her too. Problem is she is too insecure and i think doesnt trust me coz i had another before we met. She thinks i dont love her more than my ex.what do i do?dont want to loose her but have tried all i know to show her and ... (76 words)

My heart is in a million peices but I can't seem to move on!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i need to move on and i dont know how to. im a girl of 25 and i was with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years. im still so in love with her and i feel like im dying without her but i need to move on for her sake i just dont know how to. i would love to be with her again but she ... (120 words)

He pursued me, ...and then decided he just wanted to be friends.

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I met this man on a dating website we were only friends for 2 months then he decided to pay for membership to contact me he even told me that he just paid to contact me so he sent me his email address so that he can contact me and send me pictures and emails tell... (508 words)

Would it be ok to break my own hymen before having sex?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, This may be a silly question, but I don't know if there`s a possibly for losing my virginity, actually, for intense breaking my hymen by myself using something in place of an actual dildo. I've never had sex, but I want to have a first time WIHTOUT bleeding... (212 words)

Should I try to get my ex to date me casually and see where it goes?

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21 March 2010 (F) - First off, i have been dating and trying to keep busy. Was with my ex for 3 and a half years..it was petty stuff i think that broke us apart..fighting over things i regret..noone cheated..we did have alot of love..he broke it off...a year later i leave him a vmail and he cal... (1063 words)

Should I tell my sister in law that he husband cheated on her?

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - When I graduated I moved into an apartment with my sister and her friend. By the time my sister got married her friend and I had gotten to be very close. After my sister moved out we stayed together as roommates and I want to make it clear that we became very good friends ... (282 words)

My boyfriend and his mates are groping me. It turns me on but I am scared they will take it further.

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been grabbing me in front of his friends and they have been joining in on grabbing me, ass smacking and pinching and grabbing my breasts. It is a turn on but I'm afraid they will go farther and want more. Any advice?... (45 words)

Why is she paranoid? Unless she has done or said something behind my back?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 2 months ago a so called friend of mine lied to me about something, I basically helped her out and then realised she was using me. So I wrote on my face book a comment about people using others etc.... Now 1 of my colleagues, after reading my comment quickly commented ... (240 words)

Another woman is pursuing my boyfriend and it's making me feel insecure.

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - a 'friend' of mine i met through my boyfriend sent my boyfriend love letters and clearly has professed her love for him. Despite the fact he's told her its not going to happen, he is still contacting her a fair bit, and she is contacting him, and it seems to me that she is ... (317 words)

He had a girlfriend the entire 3 years we were together - so what else is he capable of?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have had a shit time recently - I have been with my boyfriend or I should say ex-boyfriend now for just over 3 years. It was my first serious relationship as I am 19 now. I recently found out he has been stringing me along. He was a litte bit older than me, he is 24 now. I ... (325 words)

Is she into me or does she just see me as a 'mate from the club'?

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - SO heres the thing, I was out with my mate and his work mates, i met one of his girl co-workers and we was chatting for a bit in this club and that was that for a while. Little later on in the night we met back up and we was talking for a bit, then she made a move to kiss me, ... (384 words)

Should I propose to her even tho I don't have the ring yet?

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21 March 2010 (M)

- Heya! This is a quick but potentially huge question to ask of you guys. I am planning to propose to my girlfriend:-) I have permission from her dad and I am commissioning the ring, which I know she'll love. However, today we are going out to a special park which will provi... (111 words)

Do I give him the space he needs hoping he's going to come back to me when he has sorted his head out?

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21 March 2010 (F) - im so confused right now, i started seeing a guy a few months a go and everything was going great, then he went to see his son (obviously his ex was there) and since he got back hes been different with me, not contacting me as much or when he does its breif, weve seen eachother ... (353 words)

I know she has a boyfriend but I feel like I am losing her as a friend.

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a guy. i like this girl who is my classmate. we just started of speaking as normal friends. we used to talk all day on phone, even in the night, i used to stay on line while she slept, we became best friends. while talking she told me she has a boyfriend and she likes him ... (449 words)

I really think she is the one... but she says she needs some time to get rid of the ex. Is this a game?

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I really need some help here. I met this girl about a month ago and we really hit if off. We have alot in common and I really think the world of her. We hung out almost every day for the first 3 weeks, then her ex came back into the picture. It started off with him telling her ... (260 words)

Please help me convince her to marry me!

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I plan to settle down with my girlfriend. We share a long distance relationship for the past 3 years. I am well settled however, my girlfriend is still studying and her studies are expected to get over by April 2010. She says its too early to be thinking about marriage and she ... (131 words)

Stag Night Dilemma!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys, Just wanted some advice really. My boyfriend went on a stag do last night and rang me after to say that during the night he waited outside the strip club with the Bride's brother who is a Christian and didn't want to go in He wasnt supposed to tell anyone but six ... (165 words)

He hits me for speaking to other guys!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i really need help. am in a relationship since past 4 years and i have cheated upon my boyfriend and we broke up. after an year he came back to me ans said that he wants to be with me. so we hooked up again. now the problem is he hits me even if i speak to any guy and he ... (137 words)

All my friends knew my man was cheating and none of them said anything. I feel so stupid and alone!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boy friend for almost four years its been a terrible four years but I still truely care about the first year of our relationship we broke up for the summer he went on a masive partying bindge with his ex he ended up goin to the city hall and gettin married the ... (203 words)

What signs should I look for to determine if he likes me?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need your advice. I need to know what signs i could look for that this guy likes me. Some of my mates reckon he does as they reckon hes so shy around me. Hes not a flirt, he doesnt do anything with people other than friendly stuff, he is quite shy when it comes to the big ... (173 words)

I feel I may have settled for less

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Last night my b/f and I attended a function and bumped into a couple we met several years ago, who at the time, were married to different people but found each other. I watched them from across the room when they did not know it, and obsserving how affectionate they were with ... (324 words)

Pain upon insertion...who can help?

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - jus replay if u can realy help me am am 28 yr male.having problem in sex with my girl only in the time of insertion i cant jus do it becoz she crays out of pain.we tried oil,my slightly large penis may be the problem,some body who have gone throu the same situation please h... (72 words)

I thought what we had was worth trying to save

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21 March 2010 (F) age 41-50 - i have a serious relationship with my boyfriend for the last 1 and a half year. We work in the same place in managerial positions, due to his profession he stays in the workplace and 5 or 6 days a week I was also sharing his apartment, very happily living together... Until i ... (1509 words)

What do I do, he seems to be scared of a relationship!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What can you do with a guy who isn't sure he likes you enough or is afraid of the idea of a relationship or SOMETHING, who knows what, that's stopping him from being with you? He sometimes says things like I'm the only woman he ever thinks about but then he also changes his ... (142 words)

We broke up but are still having sex

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago see caught me in a stupid lie and was hurt. We stayed friends recently we began haveing sex agine and I stay with her alot she calls me hers but were still apart last night I stayed with her as we were cuddleing she asked me if we ... (130 words)

A dedicated Christian is preaching at me!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a friend of mine who is a dedicated Christian. He has been preaching most of the time we meet, but, despite some 'miracles I have seen, I refuse to convert. I would like to tell him to stop the preaching but I am worried it will come out offensive, which is the last ... (98 words)

Was my teacher checking me out?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of times when I've walked by him in the hallway and he says hi, I'm looking right at his face and his eyes sort of give me the once over, like they flicker up and down, once or twice this happened when he was standing waiting to go into a classroom with a whole bunch ... (231 words)

I am 14, my boyfriend cheats, should I stick with him?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - erm, you might not think its much, but I don't know how to react. me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months, and a couple of months ago he got off with this girl a couple of times and we nearly split up. I stayed with him but it took ages to regain my trust for him.... (145 words)

We sleep in the same bed, but I want to ask her for sex

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok guys and girls i really need some help here, i have this female friend, we've been friends for a few years now and through this time we have both had relashionships with others, now we are both single, we kiss, we go on overnight getaways together and sleepin the same bed, ... (77 words)

My wife doesn't believe it didnt go past sexting

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I made a mistake about 6 - 8 months ago. I started sexting (sexual texting) a younger woman. I have been married for 12 years and have two beautiful boys. Over time though, it seems as if that spark that we had during the first couple years has gone away. I still love her but ... (257 words)

I am 17 and attracted to older men

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm a 17 year old girl, soon to be 18, and I tend to find myself attracted to men in their late 20s and early 30s. My whole life I've been told if I date a man so much older, then when I get into a relationship with a man my own age, it will really screw with my head, but ... (140 words)

Although I don't want a serious relationship, I want to go further than second base

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a senior in college and went through a messy breakup about two months ago. Since then I've decided that I don't want a serious relationship with anyone for a while and I would rather try dating casually. I met this girl while helping out a friend on a film project and... (216 words)

I cheated on two boys, does that make me a slut?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How much of a horrible slut am I? Here's the story. I was 17 and 1/2 when I met a guy, who shall be called Mason, only a few weeks younger than me through my cousin on XBOX Live. We talked for a few weeks but didn't actually meet because he lived 4 hours away before we sta... (544 words)

Although I am not a virgin I would prefer to wait before having sex with my new boyfriend

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a question for the guys mainly, but any feedback at all would be appreciated. This question is a bit long, sorry. See, I've been dating this great guy for a few weeks. We've known each other a couple of months through a mutual friend but have only just started ... (264 words)

I am shy and don't know what to talk about to my online boyfriend

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really desperate for help. I have a boyfriend online but recently he keeps asking if I'm mad at him because I don't talk to him a lot. But I don't know what to do cause I'm a really shy and quiet person and I'm really bad at starting up a conversation and I don't what to ... (75 words)

My boyfriend says we have lost our spark!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How is it someone can just gradually lose that spark of love and compassion for another? Is there any way to gain it back? I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and a month before our anniversary he says he's just not feeling it anymore. He says I make him ... (126 words)

After twenty years of being strung along I have had enough!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age - I am a Pisces. I have been in an on again off again relationship with a Scorpio for over 20 years. I am so tired of being lied to, being disrespected, and having my feelings and wants ignored. I want out! I can't seem to break it off. Please help me!!... (52 words)

How do you contract herpes?

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21 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - If I get cold sores occasionally, am I going to get genital herpes? Or is that only if your partner has cold sores and gives you oral or if he has genital herpes and you have unprotected sex???... (40 words)

I don't know if her texts means she likes me

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this girl I like at school I know she likes me when I see her in the hall we give each other hugs and such I took her to a dance a while back and it was getting to the end and we started to stare into each others eyes I wanted to kiss her she probably could have read my ... (221 words)

I saw footage of my wife masturbating on her brother in laws cell phone! How do I approach this?

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - recently by chance when i got to check my wife's elder sister's husband's cell phone, i saw a video which shows my wife masturbating. her face is not there. but i know that it is her's. i dont know how did this video happened. whether with her knowledge or without her knowledg... (70 words)

Is this my fault he's gone off again?

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21 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - *OP's own title* Let's call the boy I'm interested in, "Jeremy". So for the past 3 years, I've been very attracted to Jeremy. He seemed amazingly perfect for me. He wasn't like any of the other guys I've ever known. He dresses nice and has style, everyone likes him, he ha... (1147 words)

Lifeless relationship - Is this how it is suppose to be when you have kids?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* I met my current "fiance" and 2 months later we were surprisingly pregnant, it was a shock. We had a hard pregnancy and didn't get along well. Now 2 years later our relationship is still failing; he doesn't show affection, caring or any interest in me. When... (118 words)

If the messages in the Bible can only be revealed to the reader by the Holy Spirit residing in you, then why are there so many denominations?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this isn't a relationship question... well not a romantic relationship question. But this has been bugging and confusing me for a long time. I don't really have anyone I can talk to about this. I thought of myself as a Christian but I doubt my salvation a lot. I w... (746 words)

Four year disfunctional relationship put to rest.

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* I met him the first months of high school. Now here I am two months away from graduation and our story is ending. Ive stepped back and realized everythings completely changed. I have been heartless to other people and im no good girl like I was two years ag... (99 words)

The only time she really acts like she loves me is when I break up with her and she wants me back!

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months and i think i love her but everytime i talk to her it makes me sad. but when i dont talk to her im also sad. i have broke up with her 3 or 4 times but i always start to miss her in an hour or two and take her back. she would ... (185 words)

Why didn't this shy girl say goodnight to me?

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - * OP's own title* This just happened last night. I was at my friend's house and everything was going swimmingly. My crush, his sister, showed her usual signs of liking me (mainly looking at me). In the past, she would show other signs of liking me such as such as looking ... (458 words)

He stood me up. Should I cut him loose?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - DEAR CUPID, I have been talking to this guy from work for about a month and half now, well things have been going ok, it started off as a sexually thing and it seems like he might want more because we went on your first official date the other day. Tonight we were suppose to ... (152 words)

My good friends girlfriend kissed me.

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About 6 months ago a friend that I've known for some time now moved across state for a change of scenery and to attend college. He left behind his girlfriend of 4 years. They did not break up and are currently together. We all graduated high school together. I've know this girl ... (399 words)

Video games and his friends come before me!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and i love him so much but i feel so alone, he plays video games for hours and his friends come first all the time. We rarely hang out and when i bring this up he says i should be used to it, I just want to feel wanted and with ... (71 words)

Guys: can you shed some light on the dating game?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I took a break from dating a few months ago, but after joining a social site we had an event and I met one of the men who was also on the site. We were the first to arrive, so we had about an hour or two to chat. He was engaging and I instantly liked him. We had maybe spoken ... (574 words)

Should I go and meet a guy from the past when I'm married?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently and old "friend" has contacted me through facebook. We have not seen each other in 21 years. And we had sexual relations at the time. I feel that everything happens for a reason. And I think that we are developing some feelings for one another again. He wants to see ... (181 words)

Should I cling to the hope we will fall in love one day?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I’m 13. I’m a really competitive basketball player, and I have been going to this training place for, oh, 2, years or so, to help with my conditioning. My problem is there’s this trainer who I have a huge crush on. Let’s call him “John”. He’s 22. John’s great, funny and sweet ... (232 words)

Why do I hurt others?

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to make this short and honest as possible.I am a very nice person,but sometimes for some strange reason I do things that hurt others.For example I would de-friend people on Facebook,and send them a message telling them what I did.Other times I would send an e-mail and ... (99 words)

Will it affect her child if I split up with her?

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21 March 2010 (M) age 41-50 - I'm 26, not exactly a teen anymore, and my gf is 24, we've been dating for year and a half now.She recently started a new job 3 months ago.But shes been acting really distant the last few days,shes been dressing up really nice,hardly calls me or lets me know when shes onli... (927 words)

Everyone takes advantage of me!

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21 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So heres my problem. Everyone takes advantage of me. My last girlfriend constantly walked all over me then borrowed a bunch of money, never payed it back, and now refuses to admit im alive. My friends constantly have me help them and do work for them and loan them money and ... (181 words)

Will I ever know the truth or will he just lie?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im working with a guy ive become extremely close to. we've worked together 8 months-clicked from the start and he feels the same we're really good friends and get on so well. i like him a lot-adore him even everytime i see him i get that shivery feeling i really like him. ... (179 words)

Has he just been playing me this whole time?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! am confusd!my boyfriend of 5yrs used to talk to me like daily. He would call me sometimes 4 times a day and sms between 20 to 25 messages a day. We would spend hours together enjoying company-no sex. After we started having sex, it was great for a year. Now, suddenly he ... (168 words)

I don't want to lead my boyfriend on, but I am in love with someone else.

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I know I'm young but I have been through so much in my life that I just need someone to talk to me like a person and not like a silly and cute 5 year old little girl. I am having a horrible issues with 2 boys in my life. About a year ago i went to another state ... (321 words)

My boyfriends past relationships are eating meup on the inside, How can I stop this when I know it is ridiculous to feel this way?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know where to start on this, I suppose right at the beginning. I'm sorry, but this is going to be really long. Before I ever had a boyfriend, I thought I'd be the kind of girlfriend that wouldn't care about my boyfriend's past or if he hangs out with girls o... (616 words)

He's married but I got pregnant and now he cheats!

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very serious problem i met my kids father 8yrs. ago and we started out having sex before we got to no each other i was very sexual back then i was young single, no kids and very dumb and i meet him and i was instantly hooked the sex was amazing we kick it three before ... (372 words)

He doesn't know if he loves me or not?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i been with my boyfriend for almost a yr now and i had fallen head over heals for him. i love this man with all my heart. the problem is that he says that he doesnt know if he loves me or not. he says he feels something deep for me but does not know what it is and does not want ... (179 words)

How can I say what I mean to him without getting all tongue tied?

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21 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have seen this guy for about two weeks. He seems like a good guy and I would like it to work out for us. Unfortunately, I am not very good at reading people's character and know about them deep down. I can have a good laugh but when it comes to issues, like how to phrase a ... (138 words)