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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 7 months now. I met her online and we clicked right away, i found out that she lived with her ex (that she dated for 3 years) cause she didn't want to live at her house. we talked for a couple of months before dating And i trusted her that she wouldn't do anything with him. I would go down to see her a lot even tho she lived a state away. We would usually fight because i was uncomfortable when i saw them together, because they still had a very strong bond and still do. They would usually just play around with each other and would get close. Her ex would let me stay at his house until his parents found out and weren't cool with it. so i moved down and she moved back in with her parents, but it feels like were not even a couple sometimes cause he would be with us all the time. we all talked about it before and i even told him i want some alone time with her, but still nothing changed. Her family loves him even more then they love her (i think thats why they broke up) and would invite him over too. he also spends the nights at her house. I never told her she had to stop talking to him because thats wrong but i feel like she dosnt even want to hang out with me alone anymore. oh yea i dont have a car either so he drives her everywhere like to school and work, and she lost all her other girlfriends so hes her only friend. what should i do? need help...
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (1 March 2010):
 Move on...you are being taken for a ride
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): Why are you with this girl? It's going nowhere fast but somewhere you don't want to be.
What if you stay with her? Can you marry her? With her ex around all the time?
This girl is messed up and if she honestly thinks there is nothing wrong with what she is doing she is crazy.
Move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): It sounds suspect homie, either she with you or with him. Which is it? If he drivin her everywhere, sleepin over her house, always with you all, loved by her family, and etc, its like you a third wheel. And its like he gets more quality time with her than you do, you make it sound like. Its only a matter of time before this "Ex" wins her back, if he hasn't already and they just haven't told you yet.
Walk. or tell your girlfriend where your stress lies. And say you are close to walking.
Her reaction to that will tell it all.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 March 2010):
Personally, I would move on now.
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