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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is still actively looking online and he avoids discussing the subject

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age - mi feel jealous of my bf's web usage. we live together. he still meets girls online. he keeps his singles/dating profile active. he tells me they are just friends that he chats with. what gives? i don't know what to think. to me this is cheating. is he looking for someone else? ... (68 words)

I'm caught in the middle of warring friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Two of my friends have had a severe fallout.A guy and a girl.They are not romantically attached to each other.Neither am I.We are all a gang of bozos who hang out together.Both of them have been telling me stuff and I don't know what to do.I am so confused.I do not want to take ... (74 words)

He seems to be interested, I want to approach him but am scared of rejection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I am kind of interested in this guy from work, and looking for signs that he could be interested in me. There are a few things I’ve noticed, I just want an objective opinion on whether they could be signs that he's interested: . When we're in the same room, even if h... (283 words)

How can I stop hurting myself? I’m in really bad shape and think that nobody likes me?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m really confused and I feel as if my heart has been broken in half. My boyfriend dumped me because we didn’t know each other. My guy friend that I do have strong feelings for I think likes someone else. He writes on her wall I love you buddy and always apologizes to her. Me ... (163 words)

I really do feel that my heart is breaking in two...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone offer any advice on my situation, my heart is breaking. I have been with my husband since we were 16, we are now in our fortys. Things havent been easy for us, there have been troubles along the way but we managed to ride the storms and i thought we would always b... (459 words)

Is my boyfriend going off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been with my boyfriend 2 years now and he used to be lovely, he would always tell me he loved me and hed kiss me any chance he got, we would even go further with people sitting in the next room, he couldnt get enough of me but now hes different, he only kisses me wen he ... (139 words)

Help me get over my girlfriend's past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help, or just looking for opinions on a topic that is bugging me. I have done searches but the best way is to ask my exact situation and get some peoples opinions. First, I am 22, she is 28. We met through mutual friends and went for a date 1 week after meeting. S... (768 words)

My best friend believed lies and now hates me

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - please i need help. my best friend form when i was 8 years old now hates me, people have told him that i was jealous of him liking my friend and he did beleive those stories he made me cry so hard, i was red and now i am all out of tears, he didnt believe me he thinks that i... (170 words)

Love at work place

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am married for the last seven years and I have two kids, however my marriage is loveless. Last year I met this woman at work she is divorced with kids. From the first moment I saw her, I felt attracted to her and she was to me and in no time we were together talking. In the ... (230 words)

Do I fancy my teacher? Does he fancy me? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am new to this site but I was wondering if you could answer my question. I have this science teacher let's call him luke. Luke has been my science teacher for 3-4 years now (by the way I'm in secondary school.) He has been my favourite teacher ever since he started... (292 words)

How can I stand on my own feet and support my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I'm a 24 year married Indian woman who has a one year old child. Two years back I got married to a man who does not take any decision on his own but always depends on his mother for anything, however trivial the issue may be. The problem is that the mother happe... (422 words)

Why does my husband always cause me to lose my temper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so horrible. My husband and I were fighting and I scratched him. I was minding my own business and he came in the room bitching about how bad the dog smelled and that he is allergic to the dog. All of this was said to get a rise out of me because he knows I love the dog ... (552 words)

I not longer feel like sex, why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I really haven't felt like sex at all, even when my boyfriend initiates it i'll go along with it but i never feel the same urges i used to say 3 months ago? Nothing has changed in our relationship and i know passion dies out a little but we only see eachother once or ... (74 words)

If you were me in this situation... how would you feel?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has children from a previous relationship. I am fine with that. However, his babymother keeps calling him for for so-called rides. He is a Sedan driver. The first incident I was fine with it because she was drunk and stranded with their child. The very next day she ... (461 words)

He said he's spending time with his family... should I believe him?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for almost 5 months now. We have known each other for almost 3 years. The whole time we have been friends he always tried to be with me, telling me how much he had fallin in love with me. So I finally gave him a chance, and found myself falling in ... (175 words)

My girlfriend says I am not the man she thought I was, and now won't consider moving in or taking the relationship further.

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend says I am not the man she thought I was, and now won't consider moving in or taking the relationship further. We are stuck in limbo! We have been dating for 3 years. A year and half ago I did something stupid at work, I stole. Not something I’m proud of but I c... (203 words)

I just can't kiss him... Epic failure at kissing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Arghhh, I feel really stupid and awkward now, and I'm pretty sure he does, too-I really need some help! I know that this is very long, but I just really need to pour my heart out to someone... We're both 15. We are both long haired music fanatics, into the same type of lit... (369 words)

Going on birth control

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - going on the pill, my girlfriend is going on birth control. She said that now that shes going on it i can cum in her and she wants me to, i did anyways with a condom on but now that shes going on birth control she wants me to without one cuz she won"t get pregnant. i am kinda ... (94 words)

I'm racked with guilt but think I'm developing a real crush for this guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid. I'm writing this letter because i'm at my wits end. Having lived with my boyfriend for 8 months, he had to move away to a new job having lost his here two months ago. He travels home every 2nd weekend and we stay in touch daily via phone internet. This arrangement ... (213 words)

Should I stay celibate until I meet someone worthy enough to be in a serious relationship/marry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm single now. My ex and I broke up because of his retroactive jealousy, he was starting to treat me like I was, literally, a bitch, sometimes I felt like he saw me like an animal and not a person. He was so cruel and mean. Funny enough, I lost my virginity to him. He was m... (547 words)

How do I handle this just now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, last year I spent a lot of time with a female colleague and her young son while she was separated from her boyfriend. We became really close, but quite suddenly she announced that she was getting back with her boyfriend and they are now expecting their second child. Even a... (426 words)

He posted online for male sex partners! Is he just bi-curious?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently discovered that my boyfriend has been posting m4m ads on craigslist. For some reason, this is more comforting than m4w. But that's another story... I don't know if he's acted on any of these (I only know of three) but why is he doing it in the first place? ... (82 words)

Oh no! Confused and scared! Am I pregnant??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm on the pill, and me and my boyfriend have regular sex. the other week, i stayed over at his, and i forgot to take my pill for 2 days. we didnt have sex on those days, but when i stopped taking it, for a week so i can have my period, we had sex during that week, but when i c... (115 words)

Some red flags are wavin' here..what's happening?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - where to start. im worried i wont even get a reply but here goes, i have fallen in love with a guy i work with. i know i have because i have felt like this from the first day 7 months ago so its not a crush. ive been on my own over a year. my ex left me to the point where ... (219 words)

My love life is a total ruin and I feel so empty! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm feeling awkwardly strong depressed. In the last 2 months I've been trying to watch at my life from a third person perspective. My opinion aobut it is terrible. I have no happiness moments, and those that seem to be some ate just placebos built by myself.... (649 words)

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i need some advice this is quite long but here goes I have gotton myself into a situation i am not very proud of. I am 27 female never had a boyfriend and lack confidence. I fell for someone at work who i know just wants a bit of 'fun' no strings, i was never happy with the ... (312 words)

I feel like my mom is interfering with my relationship with my brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20, 21 in September. My brother is 20 in November. We get on so well. Like we have the same sense of humour, and the same views and opinions. We hardly ever argue, and when we do, he will come up to me within the next hour and start flicking me and stuff and we'll make ... (271 words)

1st Time Questions 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am the same guy from yesterday's post 1ST TIME QUESTIONS(Today me and my girlfriend(we both virgins) had to go to a date for sex 1st time in 2 and a half year relationship. I asked about condoms, pills, protection etc). I want to thank all the people who took time to answer ... (306 words)

Has anyone else experienced similar pain during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone I have been having sex since the age of 16 with my b/f who's now my husband yes he was the first guy and the only guy i'm having sex with... the problem is most of the time when we're having sex its just so painfull and when i goes on top of him i feel like their a ... (166 words)

Being raped - can you experience it and it not then affect your relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* My girlfriend and I have been together a few months, we are both in our early 30s and things have been developing very quickly. We're seeing each other once during the week and at most weekends. A few weeks ago, I disclosed to her a difficult experience i... (458 words)

What do my dreams about my teacher mean?

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26 March 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hey. suddenly I have been having dreams about my teacher. There mostly about him comforting me when I'm upset then him kissing me. I like these dreams. I was just wandering why I'm having these dreams and what they mean? Extra info. We get along really well, he is ab... (123 words)

What is the whole tight/ loose thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - *OP's own title* i don't understand the whole tight and loose hing for a girl. if you have sex and then after you are loose then who is going to ever going to have sex with you. the guys say they only want a tight girl. i'm confused... (50 words)

How can I make my boyfriend understand that we need couple time? It is not happening when he has his friend over constantly.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. Our relationship is great, except for his friend. "Kevin" is at our house constantly!!! My boyfriend works different shifts, but if he is home in the evening, "Kevin" is at the house when I get home from work, and is ... (184 words)

Is my penis size a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have a small penis about 4 and a half hard and about 2 thick is this really a big problem to most ladies... (24 words)

Broken Promises From My Boyfriend/Fiance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. He is an audio engineer and has to record people ALL the time, even at 3 or 4 in the morning because "that works for those he records" or so he says. To get around that all I ask is for 2 days, just 2 days of j... (313 words)

I'm confused between my b/f and my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have been dating this dude for 8 months and he hates my ex. Well I saw my ex a couple of days and the memories of what we went through just came into my head so I decide to im him and see how he was doing. To my imagire he was doing good except for missing me and ... (146 words)

Controlling boyfriend interfering with my dreams

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have just joined this site to answer peoples problems... but i also have a problem myself. i have been with my boyfriend for a year now, i love him more than anything in this world. but these past few months things have changed, its like i dont know him anymore. he trie... (300 words)

Should I just get out of my daughters life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What should i do ? well i have 7 kids all together. my oldest one don't live with me because her father is a real ass . and the people my daughter live with i can't stand them at all. she's going to be 12 yrs old . now they r telling her lies about me . things that just ain't ... (127 words)

Is it just hormones, or is it reasonable for me to be angry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I live in a two bedroom apartment with my husband and I'm nine months pregnant. A little over a month ago I asked my husband to clean the second bedroom out so I can clean the carpets and put up the nursery. I even went out and rented a storage unit for him to put the stuff in. ... (120 words)

Why would he sleep with men when he loves this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im a girl i have a really good friend and hes a boy. he has been with his girlfriend for a year now, and he recently told me hes sleeping with men behind her back... what i dont understand is he doesnt act gay, look gay, i have known him for ages and he still says he aint gay ... (218 words)

6 months together and sharing a bed is STILL causing petty arguments. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months now, and from the very start of our relationship we've had problems sharing a bed. I tend to move around a lot when I'm trying to sleep, and it bugs her. I don't blame her, but she tends to lash out at me. Not so long ago she ... (174 words)

Ladies... Fingers in your mouth during "passion". Yes or no?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Lets say you are in the heat of the moment and he is being very passionate during sex..... Do you find it a turn on when your partner puts one or two fingers in your mouth to suck on? Or do you find it a bit weird? Of course, this is all during sex whether it be vaginal or... (71 words)

My b/f is going back to India and I may never see him again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what can i do? please help! my boyfriend moved here from india two years ago. we have been dating about six months. im an american girl. we are in our 20s. his family back home is having tons of problems and he set his mind to go over there and fix whatevers wrong, despite the ... (153 words)

Am I out of line to be angry at this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf went to a friends tonight and said they were going out for dinner. I called him around 8 because i had been upset about an argument we were having and he was out so i said well do you want me to let you go? He said yeah ill call you when i get home. It is now 2am, no c... (125 words)

My boyfriend seems a bit obsessive about his privacy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - basically my boyfriend acts really suspisious around his mobile phone. it's always in his pocket (along with his keys and his wallet) they never get left on the side and he makes a thing about how it's private to him etc. fair enough, i can see it from his point of view - he ... (241 words)

Should I be worried about the position my baby is in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 38+ weeks pregnant, saw midwife today she says she wants a second opinion from the hospital as she cant feel babys head in my pelvis and she wouldnt class it as in breach position however it is laying across my stomach.she said baby can come at any time but told me to go down ... (83 words)

I feel unloved, both by my hubby and by the guy I had an affair with

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and started seeing a married man. A little bit of history... I knew him back when I was 16 (he was 21) and we worked together. He never lead on like he liked me, of course I would catch him looking at me. I totally was crushing on him and never let him know, bu... (1607 words)

Found out that he kissed another girl..how do I bring this up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night, I was at my boyfriends house, and he while he was outside smoking, I was very very bored, and randomly decided to look through his phone. I don't know why I did it, I trusted him implicitly, and didn't expect to find anything. But people do random things when the... (236 words)

He was a cheating man so I dropped him...did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age - I have been involved with a man now for 6 years and have known all along that there were things he was concealing from me but you know how it goes I bring it up he denies everything. So for awhile I leave things alone until the other day I called his number and a female ans... (199 words)

He wants to reach the height of pleasure! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hi guys! my guy and i hav had sex heaps of times and now he wants to have an all nighter, foreplay then intercourse and then more foreplay. he said that if it is alright with me he would love to reach the height of pleasure in one night. should i say yes? and what should i ... (82 words)

Do I believe what this woman said about my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night I got a facebook message from a woman that is my husbands ex-wifes friend. I had requested to be friends because I remember her from my hometown and she was a friend incommon with someone else. But it turns out that was a bad decision because she thought that I had ... (126 words)

My boyfriend wants to go down on my but I feel uncofortable with it! Could it be I just don't like being licked?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm not sure what to do. My bf wants to go down on me, but I feel very uncomfortable with it. My ex tried it several times too, but I never really like it. I can't feel very much when being licked. If my bf uses his hands it feels better, but not really great. I've tried ... (244 words)

Wondering if he likes me..should I hold back and be patient or ask him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't get to understand this guy! Once he said he likes me and feels possessive about me! And then he used to msg and call regularly! But now i don't know what is happening! I feel i'm the only crazy one to be liking him! I feel embarrassed to ask him again if he likes... (124 words)

Does he like me? What do I watch for?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i really like this guy, ive met hi twice, and have a laught, but i only started talking to him as a friend told me 2 add him 2 facebook, Anyway i like him, but not sure what he really thinks of me He told me he was kinda seeing a girl at them mo, which i said 2 him i... (206 words)

My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend and I fear I will be all alone if we break up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so alone! I've been with my bf for just one year and we're quite happy. Lately though we've quarreled more and more. Nothing too serious though, and he's always very sad afterwards and we make up quick. Anyways, this quarreling is making me nervous. We've just moved, and ... (221 words)

Is this guy I like...straight, bi or gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, Im confused I am bi and there is this guy at school that I am really attracted to (I feel guilty when I think about 'being' with someone else) and I can not tell if he is straight, bi or gay. He seems to act straight but plays around and seems to flirt (I cannot ... (121 words)

Waiting to have sex until I am ready So is this why my bf avoids me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is a nice guy, very caring and loving, but the problem is that i dont see him all the time. he is always occupied with his work. even when we get to see each other, it will just be for a little time. Now he said he doesnt want to be alone with only me around because it ... (86 words)

His depression affected our relationship and my confidence. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am absolutely head over heals in love with my ex boyfriend. Even though we've decided just to stay friends because things had drifted with us, I look in his eyes and all I feel is love and remember everything we've done together. The first two years together were he... (324 words)

My wife seems in a dream world, while I feel I don't have time to think of myself. Are there others like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in my 40's and married. We have 4 children who I adore. We live in a place which is where my wife grew up and where she wanted to live. She lives near to her family and is very close to her mum and sister. I do not really feel like I belong but have no other place that... (408 words)

To the men: how do you feel when you are in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To all the Men out here, how do you know when you are falling in love? What does it feel like?... (21 words)

I'm going to the club without my boyfriend, am I doing anything wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and bf have been together for 2 years, in the past couple of months he has decided he no longer wants to go clubbing. i still enjoy going out and dancing, i really enjoy dancing with him but he says he will no longer go. we came to an agreement that i would only go when it ... (245 words)

Should I tell my wife to stop mailing the guy who has a crush on her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody, My wife of 6 years went on vacation with her aunt for a week recently. Apparently she met another guy (I don't think anything happened between them, at least that's what she told me) but that guy had, and still has, a crush on her. He emailed her stuff like how... (139 words)

I don't want to stay with him if he doesn't want a child in the future, what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well ive been dating my boyfrend for two months and he has a three year old daughter..and the relationship with his baby's mamma sucks, the bitch hardly lets him see her..and im 23 with no kids..and i dont really remember how we got on the topic of kids but anyways..i asked him ... (147 words)

With whom do I live my life with? My Husband or this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 year old married girl from Mumbai and studying in second year at commerce and my husband living in Allahabad doing post graduation from Arts .i'm ALSO DOING JOB.my husband don't like i'm doing job and he also want I'm settled in village but i can't do it. he ... (209 words)

My girlfriend is getting late night phone calls and texts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, My girlfriend and I use to have problems with her texting and calling guys late at night. I told her I was uncomfortable 3 times with it but she has done it again. Even though we both never cheated on each other and been together almost 4 years. I still feel very unc... (440 words)

I am bleeding after sex and wondering if I need to go see a doctor.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am bleeding after sex and wondering if I need to go see a doctor or not. I have only had sex a few times and it was kind of rough. I was also wondering if using a condom can make you bleed after sex and if switching to another type of birth control could help. I was a little ... (91 words)

Married for 3 years and found my husband looking at porn in the toilet at 5am!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,I've been married for 3 years now and everythings been fine until recently.I caught my husband looking at porn In the toilet at 5am! We had a huge fight about it and I didnt speak to him for quite a while neither were we intimate. Then when I did start talking to him the ... (168 words)

How can I get him to be dominant in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy tends to be sexually submissive. How do i get him to come out of his shell and man handle me? I've tried telling him enough that won't hurt his ego, but I don't know what more there is for me to do or say. Help! How can I get him to be aggressive? ... (55 words)

Should I tell my mother about my love for my cousin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off I already know this could be considered incest, but that it's legal in the US, at least in this case cause he's my cousin. He's the son of my grandmother's half brother, correct me if im wrong, so he's my 1st cousin once removed. Back in the summer of 2007, when I w... (625 words)

Should I live with him and start a new life with our son...?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - here's my story...I had a boyfriend 6yrs ago..we've been together for a year and then when he met my family..I kinda left him..meaning I didn't talk to him or see him anymore because my parents didn't like him..he's been calling me but I never had a chance to talk to him ... (618 words)

Is this illegal in South Carolina?

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and my girlfriend is 16 is it legal for us to have sex in the state of South Carolina? If not and we were to get caught would I be branded as a sex offender for the rest of my life? ... (44 words)

Will he get in trouble for having sex with me?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am turning fourteen this year, my boyfriend is turning sixteen. We've had sex, but im worried about when his finally legal. Will he get in trouble for having sex with a fourteen year old? PLEASE HELP! He turns sixteen before i turn fourteen so for a few months he will be ... (69 words)

Made a mistake losing my virginity -- will a guy who wants someone pure ever love me?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i am a 17 year old girl who made the mistake of losing her virginity to someone she isnt going to spend her life with.I regret it and now i dont know how my future husband will take it and have fear he wont love me the same way as if i were a virgin.i had the mentality of ... (265 words)

40, Gay and given up on love! Is there any hope?

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 40 this year and as one would expect, I have had, by now, a few mini mid-life crises, but nothing too major. Most recently, I realize that I have almost given up on EVER finding love or meaningful relationships, and it's starting to bother me. I came out when I was 15 and, ... (464 words)

Girlfriend is upset wont tell me whats making her upset

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend who I'm deeply in love with. We've been dating for about 7 months now and have had our ups and downs but recently, just a couple of days ago, she got really moody towards me; answers my questions with one word answers, she ... (328 words)

I feel I've lost something very special

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, where do I start? I believe the best way to describe my situation is that there are too many gears working against me in this system in order for this relationship to work, however I feel as though I lost something that was incredibly special. Short story - We m... (886 words)

I'm jealous about his ex, and he lies

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have this issue with my boyfriends ex girlfriend. i am very jealous of her and im not sure if it's because he lied to me about her or because she seems so much better then me. He said he regrets dating her but it just seems like he doesnt. she was still texting him and he ... (232 words)

How would you work around this problem?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There are so many questions I would like to ask... I'm an American college student who is in a relationship with a (N. mainland) Chinese boy who came to the USA 6 months ago. He loves me very very much and always wants me to be happy but he has hurt me emotionally and ... (633 words)

I'm pregnant and found out he's got another girl pregnant too

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years and we decided to take a break last october, I got pregnant in December by him.Im 13 1/2 weeeks now and I just found out he has another girl pregnant right now she is about 7 weeks.what should I do? should I get an ... (69 words)

Burned foreskin, and what do women prefer?

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - About two months ago I spilled some hot coffee in my lap and I burnt my genitals. Well it was very painful and took some time to heal but it finally healed. The problem I'm having is that I'm not circumcised and my foreskin is very tight. Sex is not possible and just having ... (147 words)

How do we sort this out?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! What do you do if you and your boyfriend have just had a really big argument and it's the worst youve ever had.? It's been a day and we still can't seem to come to terms with our differences and usually we do. Do i leave it for a day or two? because it seems the more i... (116 words)

Am I being paranoid? Is this weird behaivor for a new relationship?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started a relationship with my best friend. It was kind of sudden, and before we started dating him and I made plans to see Cheech and Chong stand up comedy live :). well last night he spent the night and today we decided we're dating. Well he just told me that after the ... (182 words)

How can I make my girlfriend squirt?

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i make my girlfriend squrit? ive been wanting to make her but idk how to help me... (19 words)

I am in a relationship blackhole. Am I being too picky?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all ..... Im having a huge problem.. a relationship "black hole ". since i split up with my ex fiance (3 years ago ) i have been going up and down with relationships, and i just dont know if im being to picky or ifs its me that the relationships are not working out. ... (162 words)

Would losing weight make my breasts smaller?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this isn't about relationships but I hope you can help me. I would like to hear from anyone who has knowledge or experience about this. How much smaller would a person's boobs be likely to get if they lost 30 pounds? Would they be likely to shrink at all? I ne... (168 words)

How can I prove I have changed when I am not even with her?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im AuntyAlexxmo and i am not used to asking questions on here answering them is more my thing, but i have seen the good advice given to other and well i dont know what else to do to be honest with you. I can feel myself falling apart, my gf of 14 months has broken up with ... (166 words)

Am I handling this well?

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26 March 2010 (F) - First off, i have been dating and trying to keep busy. Was with my ex for 3 and a half years..it was petty stuff i think that broke us apart..fighting over things i regret..noone cheated..we did have alot of love..he broke it off...a year later i leave him a vmail and he cal... (1000 words)

If I pay my girlfriends cell phone bill do I have a right to ask about numbers she has been calling?

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are on the same cell phone plan and I pay the bill every month. When I paid this months bill I saw that she was talking to someone late at night for 216 minutes. We have been going out for 4 years. Do you think I have the right as her boyfriend to ask who ... (73 words)

I am scared confessing my feelings will ruin our friendship.

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Right this is really picking my brains and is rather silly to be honest but i need an answear. There is this girl who i have been friends with for absolute years now and iv always had a little crush on her but nothing id bother moving on, she is just adorable to be perf... (200 words)

Is there some way I can get him to miss me?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently madly in love with someone who isn't speaking to me. Brian and I dated for over 5.5 years, and I wanted nothing more than for us to get married. In December he (while extremely emotional and in tears) told me he needed time apart. After about a week I couldn't ... (621 words)

Would it be weird to tell my crush my problems even tho he has said I could?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago, I was crying in study hall when a sort of friend of mine that I kind of have a crush on came over and gave me a tissue. He talked to me and asked me what was wrong. I was really vague and I was kind of sobbing and in hysterics; I was too afraid to tell ... (197 words)

I don't want to be used, ... but maybe I am using him.

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this new guy and we hungout for awhile but i realized i didnt really like him. he asked me last night if we could be friends with benefits. im not sure what to do, i hardly ever get attached to guys but then again i dont want to be used. my ex (different from this guy) ... (105 words)

Have any other guys overcome feeling inhibited when it comes to sex?

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26 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Alright...First off I feel really stupid and emasculated to even ask this, but I think there has to be other guys in my shoes or who have been in my shoes. First off, I'm 31, male and recently divorced after being married for quite a few years. I've been with 13 or so women in... (357 words)

Is my boyfriend ready to hear the important details about my affair?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I cheated on my boyfriend 5 months ago and told him almost immediately, but left out details as he didn't want to know them. All he knows is that I cheated on him, we didn't have sex, and it was a one-time thing. The guy I cheated with lived in my building (I'm at ... (453 words)

I lost my Grandad a few weeks ago and have lost all interest in my relationship since.

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know whats come over me lately but i'm just so down about everything and the one thing thats worrying me most is that i seem to have lost all interest in my relationship of three years. We have a holiday booked for later this year and i'm worried we won't make it that ... (167 words)

I'm 16, if I get pregnant does that mean I can legally move in with my boyfriend?

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26 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and were deciding to have a child. if i get pregnant does that mean i am emancipated? can i move in with my boyfriend?... (32 words)