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writes:I liked this guy since 2008 and in the 8th grade we would always look at each other...and glance too. I would catch him etc. Nothing happened I was always so shy and I thought he liked this other girl. Now I know he doesn't. K.This year we would be a little fuzzy on the looking at each other thing, until it started up again. I still like him. I noticed he would never talk to me. But if I talked to him, he would be all nervous and everything. Then he started to hangout with this other girl and I kinda got the hint that they would go out and they did. I was so sad after that but I liked this other guy at them mean time, but I didn't really like him as much as this other guyAfter she broke up with him they both cried and I notice we didn't look at each other for a while but after months we started again and this time it got really extreme, I got my friend to count and she said he looked 18 times, and my other friend who doesn't have any classes with me says he looks at me too, which is in the hallways I guess.I told my friend a bunch of stuff about me and him and she thinks he likes me. So I told her that he would be so shy on the bus if it was just me and him and he would stare at me. She came along one time after school and me and her were joking around and I was being funny so then all of a sudden he starts talking to me and he says my name a lot, like full (first and last name. o.o) He would tease me and the weirdest part? the asked me the same exact thing that he told me in October (months ago!)when I had that ONE convo with him (where he was really nice) and remembered everything! I remember it only because I remember everything he says cause I like him! A lot! I don't remember things I say to my friend in Oct! So what's his excuse? My friend also said that his pupils were dilated. He keeps saying I never move in class and that he never notices me. So that kinda means that he stares at me to see if I move? so I told my friend and when he said the same thing, she laughed hard man xD so I left the bus and he said it again to his friend and my friend said ''you stare at her enough to notice she does nothing? '' and he watched me walk away and shake his head lightly but he said nothing!I asked my friends what guys do when they like a girl and one other friend what HE does when he likes a girl and she said ''he says stupid things and laughs a lot'' and he did say stupid things but didn't laugh much. My other friend said he looks a lot at me like back and forth a lot like a guy used to do inher elemntary when he liked a girl. All this and I saw the way he looked and talked to that girl he went out with in an assembly. He leaned toward her slightly and It p*ssed me off. I dunno if she still likes him but it seems like it he still looks at me and teases me its annoyinghelp!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): Thats a tufy. Well first i reckon you should wait a couple of months/weeks, and see if the relationship goes any furher or not. If the relatonship goes bad, and they break up, ask him out, be brave. So what if he says no? Ask him once more a couple of munths after that if he says no. If u get rejected more than 3 times, you know its never gunna happen. Find someone else. I know you can do it. Good Luck, xoxo :)
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reader, CaliMoore  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 It sounds to me like this guy likes you, eye contact is one of the biggest give aways when people are attracted to one other, when you catch him looking, stare back at him and give him abit of eye contact before looking away, or give the occasional smile maybe? make him feel comfortable to come and talk to you more, smiling will help this, also if he starts thinking you like him, it will give him a confidence boost around you, making him feel even more comfortable to come up and talk to you.
Ignore this other girl, stop analysing how he acts with everyone else and concentrate on whats going on between you too, now hes spoken to you why dont you take the initiative and go and speak to him first, get his number, his msn, anything and start having more convos. Build up your friendship, and if there are any other girls he has his eyes on, they'll soon disappear the more time he spents with you and thinking about you.
Good luck, i hope this helped :) keep in touch and let me know how you get on x
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