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writes:what if your girlfriend appears to be in love with her lesbo best friend (who has already told my gf she loves her), but says they are only very good friends and she is not a lesbian?they sleep together anytime they can and when she comes home she bloody smells of her perfume all over her body..would you sleep with your homosex best friend even if you are not homosex and do not share the same feelings?
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (2 March 2010):
 If you believe her I have some Ocean Front Property in Iowa I can sell you
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (2 March 2010):
 I feel badly because I don't want to hurt you but I feel that it's best to give a truthful opinion.
I'm not a trusting soul at all; I would be very suspicious. I know that in order for a relationship to work, you have to have trust... but I don't trust her.
I don't know for sure that she's in love with her friend, but she's being really disrespectful to you.
There's nothing wrong with being a lesbian, per se, but she is sleeping with someone who could develop feelings for her. I think it's really thoughtless of her... you wouldn't want her sleeping with another straight guy. I'm surprised that she doesn't know how disrespectful she's being to you.
I wouldn't trust her because she's bound to realize how uncomfortable her behavior makes you. You deserve a girlfriend that cares; she sounds quite thoughtless. She's sleeping with someone else that obviously has feelings for her. You don't need that.
Regarding your other question... would I sleep with my gay best friend?
I'm a straight woman and my close friend was gay. I did share a room with him once on a trip. My case was a bit different than your girlfriend's situation, though. I thought of him as almost an extra brother, and I know he wasn't interested in me sexually because he was gay.
There's nothing wrong with having friends but I wouldn't trust your girlfriend, if I were you. I'm really sorry because I don't want to make you sad, and only you can decide wheteher to stay or move on, but you deserve someone who treats you with more respect.
Que te sea leve.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 March 2010):
I would suggest that it's time to move on. They're a little bit too close to be honest.
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