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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you get over your ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there. My question is ultimately how do you get over your ex? I have read so many answers to this question but all fail for me, I've believed time is the best healier, kept myself very busy, exercised, didnt resort to drugs or booze like I use to in the past. But i... (799 words)

My ex got another woman pregnant while we were together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i am truly hurting right now. i have been with my ex off and on for the past 5yrs. well next month would have made it 5 yrs since we're dating. but i found out that he has been doin stuff behind my back so i ended our relationship. well when i met him (my ex), i ... (733 words)

Could I still be pregnant or am I immediately protected because of the pill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started the combined pill on the 2nd day of my period last wednesday. I took it Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday at exactly the same time of 7:30. On saturday nite i had sex without a condom with my boyfriend and he came inside me could i still be pregnant or am i ... (60 words)

How do I handle it when my boyfriend's work and bad moods take a toll on our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - He is abroad on work tenure, coming back in June/July. We are a great couple and have maintained well so far even in long distances. It has been 2 years and most of our relationship has been virtual only as he left right after proposing to me. And its getting really hard now ... (815 words)

My ex wont move on....should I stop contact for a while?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me nearly 4months ago and we still stayed very close afterwards but I realised 3weeks ago that it was not helping me get over him and I was only ended up upset after talking with or meeting up with him even tho we would have a great time. I love him soo ... (160 words)

Is it bad that he's 2 years younger than me lol that makes me laugh cause I dated older guys but am worried about someone younger than me lol anyway guys.. whatcha think??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone! Needing some advice. i'm an almost 21 year old lol and i prefer older guys.. i've only had 2 'serious' if u like relationships - my 1st being for 4 years, and my 2nd only lasting 2 months. when i say serious i mean by having a sexual relationship wit... (278 words)

I'm worried I have chlamydia again!.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - almost a year ago i had a boyfriend who i loved so much, but in the end things never worked out and i found out that he had passed me chlamydia, i didnt know i had it until a few months after we broke up. i went to the clinic and took anti-biotics and they said no sex while on ... (330 words)

Remembering my ex....It's as though I'm living in my own fantasy world. It's not good, is it...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I remember the things I've done with my ex? I constantly flash back those moments when I am about to sleep. Sometimes I feel it's not healthy because I tend to act as though what we had is still going on. But just merely the thoughts were so exciting and they really lit ... (94 words)

Can I ever trust my wife again...after her affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I found out my wife was having an affair at the early stages by accident. That was 3 weeks ago. I was shocked and heartbroken - my world collapsed, partly due to the fact that she told me that she did not feel anything for me anymore after I found out. Well as the song goes... (775 words)

Three years after our split...shouldn't I be over this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i'm 43 and was married for around 20 years. i separated from my husband 3 years ago but cant seem to move on.. i thought i had accepted his relationship with his cousin but i find i get really upset when we are getting on and just talking and he drops into the conversation ... (188 words)

My gal is webcam crazy! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend started chatting to her friends using a cam a while back, it was ok at first as it was only an hour here and there but now it's getting more serious. She found out about lifecasting and now has the cam on almost 24 hours a day. She hardly goes out and now she'... (161 words)

He loves me but the new gf just had his baby! What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I got married at 17 and had a child 6 months before we got married, we were very much in love and still are to this day . I filed for divorce two years ago because .. well basically he drank too much and it caused issues. I was a child , had to be right all the ... (488 words)

He says premarital sex is wrong and we need to wait...is he gay??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have been telling myself he is just a late bloomer and inexperienced. He had sex for the first time in college and then found religion. He is a born again christian and since then he says premarital sex is bad. His ex ... (305 words)

Is this true?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend's mum told me... a woman sleeps with a man, has an orgasm and thinks shes in love. The man just thinks he had a wonderful night. Is that true?? ... (38 words)

Why doesn't he call when he says he will?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy ive been chatting to.. i really like him.. i gave him my number...we flirt alot..hes got my number... he use to text me often but not anymore.. hes only called me once..and after the convo he texted me and told me i sound nice. we dont really talk anymore cos whe... (133 words)

Tempted to sleep around with a lot of men, as I have a high sex drive! Will I regret doing this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like some advice from fellow adult females. I have just got out of a long relationship and don't want to get into another one for a good while. I have a high sex drive and miss that aspect of relationships. At present, I am tempted to sleep with men casually, using ... (98 words)

I really like this guy but I love my boyfriend..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend been having some relationship problems for 5 months. we brake up and make up. i love him,he says he loves me too. he doesnt show it. he doesnt wanna hang out with me in daylight anymore. everytime we do its like movies or over his house at night. because hes ... (273 words)

I need to choose between these 2 guys! But I love both of them...help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hallo great helper! Am wondering what to do. My ex has finally managed to win his way back.. I met him over the weekend after months of writing,a few phones and the like. His latest statement-"you love me, i love you, so take me and be happy." My current guy (have been with... (156 words)

He neglected to tell me he had another gf! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everyone, i really need ur sincere advice, i met a guy when i was visiting my country , i met him through a common friend, but i always heard of him ever since i was a kid, he's 7 years older then me, not specifically handsome but very charming and funny. bottom line , he ... (462 words)

Could this get me pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfreind were dry humping, he asked me to relieve him and I let him cum over my breasts and stomach and there was loads of it, I cleaned it up with toilet paper and had a bath about an hour later, my friend said that was silly because I could get pregnant. Is this ... (65 words)

Cut short on pleasure.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, ive been with my boyfriend for a year now. I love him more than anything and am 'head over heels' as they say. However i feel like im being cut short when it comes to sex. Im definetely an oral type of girl and i orgasm every time, dont get me wrong.. i love sex but i ... (144 words)

Sex still hurts and I'm wondering why?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i've been surfing the internet for the past two days trying to find answeres. What i want to know is, why does it hurt me so bad when my boyfriend and i have sex and he goes in kinda deep. i'm not a virgin i've had sex about 8 times and i don't have anything wrong with me ... (128 words)

Getting back to the possibility of dating a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i need some advice. Ive really liked my best friend, well one of them for some time now. Things werent always great but just recently we've started going out with others and they've noticed how hes been behaving. And its not till recently hes actually showed he liked me. ... (238 words)

Cold shouldered from a guy friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I got this harsh cold shoulder from my guy friend. I haven’t seen him in a week and then today he acts like this. Why, could he hate me? He stared at me all day and I looked good today plus I’ve been losing a lot of weight! He never admits that he could’ve missed me. I ... (187 words)

His mother left him but how much can we excuse his behavior.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 4 years. We not had children of our own(o jam two sm he had one) his son has always done what he wants being an only child for so long and having been abandoned by host mother contributed in my husband and mother Im law to spool Jim rotten. He is now 15 ... (183 words)

My girlfriend can't get over losses ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advise please,I have recently asked a question and I have another please,It's to do with my girlfriend.She is always crying and stuff,she is like obsessed with her lately passed aunt.She's always going on about she misses her and she don't know how she can live ... (203 words)

Coming out as gay -- by letter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a gay 19 year old male. I think it's time I came out (I've been certain of my sexuality for 4 years), but don't know how to do it. Do you think it would be OK to come out by letter to my Mum or both my parents, because I don't know how I could say it to their faces? I'... (146 words)

How do I tell him I gave him chlamydia?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It All Started a couple years ago, when i met this really nice boy richard, he gave me his number and we started talking more, we got really close then we started going out this boy was my "first love" we was going out for almost a year!. when we broke up i was really heart ... (330 words)

We're in love, but her Mom wouldn't approve

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with an amazing girl,though she is like a family member to me,we have known each other since the begining of our lifes (or for as long as we can remember or been told) her mom is like my mom she took care of me when I was a baby,I hardly grew up with her because ... (239 words)

Terrified of my future, I feel lost!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't want to go into detail because this is the internet and nothing is private. But I'm really worried about my future. I'm terrified that I'm not capable and that I'll never be a successful person or have a career. I'm worried that I just don't have it in me. I jus... (1013 words)

I've got four guys on the go because I don't want to be lonely!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my first b.f when i was 18. i had waited for the one. he was a complete looser emotionally messed me up, tried forcing me into eveyrthin.was my first kiss honestly broky me heart. after him i had another b.f exactly the same again. I started seeing a guy and now it ... (208 words)

I feel as though I am waisting my life and it's really getting me down. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have been feeling really down for a while now. I am 22years old and work as a nanny. The only reason I am doing this job is because the pay is not bad and I don't mind the job, but I do feel I am wasting my time. I have no idea what I want to do in life and the ... (154 words)

My OCD husband really gets on my nerves sometimes. How can I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for 3 and a half years. I just want an honest answer to some things. There are some things he does that gets on my nerves so bad that i can feel it physically. I have anxiety and he has ocd. He repeats himself, for example, 3-5 times in a ... (95 words)

I know a Japanese widow, and would like some advice on how to appraoch dating her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age - Hello, I would be grateful for any advice on the advice of starting dating a (Japanese) widow. We live in London, England, and she has been living here 20 years. Her husband died 10 years ago. I am in my late 40s, she is about 5 years older. Many thanks in advance.... (55 words)

I need some help with how to get pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 36 and I'm trying to get pregnant for 4 years. I've tried IUI who came negative and my fertility doc say that I need IVF, whitch I couldn't afford at this time. I don't want to adopt and I want to have a child on my own. Can any one help ?????... (53 words)

Miserable husband clouding our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OKAY! Me and my husband got into an arguement yesterday because I asked him about his bank account. Make a long story short he tells me that he is miserable, he has come to the point where he is content with him being miserable. He cheated on me before we got married and I only ... (338 words)

What is up with all of this???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age - A couple of weeks ago, I went to visit an associate of mine. She had a possible health problem and I wanted to make sure she was okay. When I got to her house, this tall, handsome guy walks out and introduces himself as her son. I asked for her number and he also gave me his. ... (195 words)

We're mates but I don't know whether he likes me as more than that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I'm 13 and I've liked this boy for a while. I asked him out but he said no. But I still really like him. We're mates but I dont know whether he likes me as more than that. I know I like him more. Any help would be appreciated. Thank-you.... (52 words)

She keeps nude pictures of her ex lovers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age - My spouse keeps pictures of her ex-lovers (even nude ones) and still talks to them. When asked why, she says that they are now only friends. I have mentioned that obviously she doesn't have a closure with these relationships and lives in her past. It kind of bothers becau... (70 words)

Will she hurt me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've not been with this girl long, things were ok, when we are together we get on great but then she will send me texts saying she is very scared of being hurt as she has been in her past and as a defense she now sometimes hurts people first. I really like her but dont want to ... (84 words)

I made a big mistake!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am experiencing deep guilt after making a stupid mistake last weekend and trying to deal with... My boyfriend and I have been in a steady and beautiful relationship and living together for about 4 months now. Yet we have been on and off since last july. To me he was the be... (567 words)

A year on and he's come back into my head... Help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i feel so shit today and i dont know why i let this man control how i feel. i split up with my ex boyfriend nearly a year ago now after a really awful 3 years of mental cruelty and name calling making me feel like crap basically. Him going out with friends never inviting me, ... (671 words)

Is he giving off obvious signals that I seem oblivious to...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so one of my best friends went out with this guy I like but then they broke up after 4 days. They are still really close firends though, for example I went shopping with my friend on saturday and they were constantly texting. But another friend is always saying that we are f... (119 words)

I want my son's father back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My son's father and I broke up before I had my son and we never got back together after that. He's a great father yes we had our ups and downs but over all his a good dad. We don't live under the same roof but he's always by me or I'm over there. We are still sexually active ... (162 words)

Rules for a MMF threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hypothetically speaking what would your rules of engagement for a MMF threesome be? I know the risks as we have discussed them. We have a strong line of communication and respect for each other and know that this is strictly for fun. With that being said here are some of... (346 words)

Why did he spend so much on his cheating ex girlfriend but wont even put in a little bit of effort when it comes to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hello - as shallow as this sounds, give it a chance as I really need hep with my thoughts. I have been in a three year relationship with a man. Before he was with me, he was with a girl for two years. During those two years, he spent so much money on her that he is still... (208 words)

How do I help my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age - Got a phone call from a friend of mine who was terribly upset. I asked her what was going on and this is what she said. She told me that the man she has been involved with for several years had his 5oth birthday this past weekend. So being the person that she is want... (230 words)

Does he want me or not? I don't want to risk anything and lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im stuck and it hurts so much. Before i continue i need you to know that this guy is NOT a player of any sort. he has never used anyone, hes never had a proper girlfriend i dont think, he is a very nice guy, abit big headed but then again sometimes a little shy. But as with any ... (927 words)

He wants me to be honest with him, but when I am he goes mental!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend always tells me to talk to him and be honest, but whenever I am honest with him about something he's done to upset me, he goes mental. He doesn't hit me or anything, but he just argues constantly with me when all i want to do is get it off my chest, and tell him... (172 words)

14 and may be pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and just lost my virginity one week ago. My boyfriend and I didn't use a condom. I was suppose to have my period this week but it hasn't came yet. Is this normal or may I be pregnant? I don't think he cum inside me but I'm not sure because it was quick since it was his ... (186 words)

What goes through someones mind after a breakup?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, my girlfriend broke up with me a little over two months ago. Im a lot better than what I was after it happened. She wont talk to me now for some reason. I would just like to get a better idea what goes through a girls mind after they break up with someone. Do they ... (134 words)

Questions about the Pill......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone after a long decision ive decided to start taking the pill But want to ask some questions Please if anyone can help then great thankyou......... Do u have to pay for the pill? Where do u get the pill from? Is it good for you? can you stop and start ... (122 words)

I like her but I'm not head over heels for her, should I stay with her or get out now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - well this girl that i am dating i like her. but i am not head over heels for her. She is sweet and quiet and pure. a girl that i really would want. but the thing is she is just cute. i don't find her greatly attractive. but i like cuddling with her and holding hands. but now ... (148 words)

Having problems communicating with boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a long distant relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years, he have been together all most every day and now he has joined the air force and he is 5 hours away from me in tech school .. We can text , video chat , phone call .... However when we do any of that ... (127 words)

Why is my friends ex talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So its been probably two years or more since my friend and her ex broke up. They werent together for very long. Maybe 3 months officially. She finally stopped talking to him recently, in the past month or so. Before that he would send me these random messages on this dating ... (210 words)

I have been thinking about getting a divorce non-stop for 6 months, how do I know if this is the right decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married for seven years and have 2 sons (3 and 5). Even though I have a good husband we just dont seem to click. We are constantly fighty and cant seem to work out the problems. After a big fight we would get up in the morning and make as if nothing happened. My ... (256 words)

Wonderful man but not enough sex and bad at housework

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been seeing my boyfriend for four months and he moved in to my apartment after two and a half months. I know this seems soon and it is! However, I know others who have managed this successfully and we thought carefully about doing this. It made the most sense financia... (525 words)

I am still sleeping with my ex, and he is happy with the way things are

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I need some advice – am I being a complete idiot here?? Me and my ex got together in July 2004, and we split up in March 2009. He had cheated on me a couple times early in the relationship and I forgave that, we broke up because we just wanted different things. A year o... (205 words)

HE spends a lot of time with me, but says he can't love anybody

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all :) i'm in a bit of a situation. there's thing guy i've known for 2 years. i started liking him after a year. he teases me about my other guy friends, talks to me quite a bit, and we spend a lot of time together because of school, tuition etc. he keeps asking me whom i l... (227 words)

What am I doing wrong? None of my relationships last

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

- i am completely useless in relationships and really need your help. I did go out with a guy for 4 years and he ended up cheating on me and i stayed single for a few years until i got over him. BUt lately i met this guy 3 months ago and we hit it off right away immediately i was ... (218 words)

We've been together seven years but as soon as we got married he started pulling away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I'm not entirely sure what my aim of writing this all down is, but I suppose I am seeking some kind of reassurance that I am doing the right thing.... I've been with my husband for 7 years. We work in the same department (we don't work together) and have lived t... (1270 words)

I'm confused about which boy I like, and my relationships don't last

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Moderator's Note: To ensure our Aunt have all the information available, two questions submitted have been combined into one. Umm..once my bf came to my house and got some of his friends with him..i was only introduced to one of them..after like 1 or 2 weeks one of his frien... (279 words)

He won't leave me alone and it's getting to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just ended a 6 month relationship with a guy. As he began to become more involved in my life, I realised that he was aggressive (even though he never actually hit me), neurotic and a martyr. I ended up feeling suffocated and controlled in an indirect way so i ended it. ... (215 words)

If a guy goes that far with you on a first date, what does it mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so i met this guy and we talked and flirted for about a week. then we were hanging out and he asked if he could kiss me....i said yes and we started to kiss. it was great at first but then he started touching me everywhere and he asked me to touch him back...down there if ... (81 words)

How can I learn to trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my partner for a year now, we get on so well, have a laugh, have a good love life, always telling one another we love each other... everything is perfect apart from one thing, i have really bad trust issues. before him i got hurt and my heartbroken and i find ... (278 words)

I just cant move on, please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a guy that has been in love with my female best friend for three years. Met her four years ago and at the time she was with a boyfriend for five years who left her and ripped her heart out. I was there for her (NO alterior motives, I didn't feel that way for her then). ... (373 words)

Would I be making a mistake if I broke this off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and I live with my boyfriend (we are engaged to be married). The thing is that I moved to his country to be with him and I am just not happy here. I don't even think I really love him. BUT he loves me soooooo much and it kills me. I told him over the weekend ... (175 words)

I was attacked and now I am pregnant, I don't know if I should keep the baby

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi im in a bit of a mess, i am in a relationship with a person i have a son with. i was attacked about 4 weeks ago and now im 2 weeks late my partner doesnt know i was attacked no one does. I am in debt of 6k and im out of work im struggling finanically with paying debts and ... (133 words)

Do you think I am a loser because I visit prostitutes seen as I cant find love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been a while since i wrote on this thread but thought it was time to do so ... Ive never had a girlfriend and always feel lonely even though im in university but i live at home and dont socialise much as i havent met people i like at my university. Its one of the best ones ... (265 words)

How can I make my vagina tighter? My boyfriend thinks I was not a virgin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hiii!!i am linda!!my bf says that my vagina was loose wen we had sex for the first time..!!!he jus suspects me a lot tat i mite hav had sex before and that i m not a virgin wen i slept wid him:(...!!but im sure that i dint hav sex before:(...he was the first person whom i l... (85 words)

My homophobic family and me

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont no what I'm going to do, i grew up believing that I'd live my life,how I needed to,doing what felt right to me,but everyone tells me they thought the same thing at my age an now look where they are,stuck owing money,married to the wrong people,working jobs they hate.I ... (341 words)

Should I meet his family despite their racist background?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.. I have been dating my boyfriend for around five month's. We have a good relationship and he is close with my family but i feel like there is a big "elephant" in between us because i haven't met his family .. and don't have any interest in meeting them after all he h... (100 words)

I love him because I know he can be a good person, but he is never the person I really want him to be

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old an i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. He comes from a terrible background and i think that is most of where his personality traits result from. He is a crude and an insulting person. He says terrible things like telling me to shut up if i had said ... (307 words)

Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?... (44 words)

How can I learn to have squirting orgasms?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i been with some of my ex's in the past, and they made me cum but i all ways wanted them to make me squirt, n they try, but i cum instead of squirting, how can i get my self to where i aquirt?... (47 words)

Why does it hurt so much when the person you love is away from you?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunties, Why does it hurt so much when someone you love is physically apart from you? The pain seems... Irrational when one considers that one is still loved by that other person--there is just no geographical togetherness. e.g. The ripping feeling and welling of tears... (76 words)

Does he just want to be friends? Is he just stringing me along for fun?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently friends with this really great guy. Every time we are together we have a great time, whether we are talking about something serious or just goofing off. Sometimes he'll compliment me on how I smell nice, or what I am wearing that day, small stuff like that. When ... (252 words)

I'm coping so well with the break-up that I don't want to see him again, but he still has some of my stuff! What should I do?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me almost a month ago. The funny thing is I'm actually perfectly fine. lol I think this is the best I've been after a break up. I have decided the last thing I want is a reconciliation and having time to reflect... I don't really want to be his friend ... (346 words)

Two men, one good and one bad

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met back up with this guy that I dated about ten yrs ago. We told and thought that since we are older now we know what we want in a relationship. It started off great he would call and txt all day long. The one night to spent the night nothing happen we cuddle all night a ... (239 words)

I don't know how to express my love.

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so I'm trying to figure out how to express my love for this guy. I'm writing him a letter but I don't know how to start it or anything I know what I want to say but I don't know how to put it on paper. can anyone help me ? please .. ... (53 words)

I can't orgasm!

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello All, I am in a new relationship and when my boyfriend and I are together we have sex on average of 3-4 times a day. I am really turned on by him even when he does something as small as rub my back and sex feels really amazing BUT, I can never finish. I never even get... (164 words)

What are my chances of being pregnant?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well.. Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on either 3/11/10 or 3/12/10... im not on birth control or anything. we've been having unprotected sex for the past 2 years and he ALWAYS pulls out. it's never been a problem. Well we had sex at his house he pulled out like ... (200 words)

How do you know if you are in love?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when your in love? And can you love someone that you have never seen, but always talk to? If you can, how?? How do you know?? Please help!!... (32 words)

Should I tell my friend I keep having sexual dreams about him?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! So, my pickle is recently I've been having these really sexual dreams about a good friend of mine. A few weeks ago we went out for a friends birthday celebration and nothing happened between us but there is still obvious chemistry between us. A couple of years ago we h... (236 words)

Do I tell him the truth or carry on keeping it a secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and me have been together for 2 years. He says that if i lied to him he would leave me. So i did lie to him. My first boyfriend made me do stuff and most of the time i would just kind of pretend it wasn't happening to me. and for some god awful reason e... (147 words)

Is he just a friend or does he like me?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have this really good guy friend and sometimes it gets annoying cause he is always around me. And always has to sit with me so when I joke with him but I tell him he is annoying he shuts up and I always find him looking at me. But everyone thinks he likes my friend but ... (97 words)

I'm scared of making a commitment to someone who doesn't want the same future as me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, we have been a bit rocky at times but really love each other and always work our problems out. He smokes a lot of weed and this is usually what we argue about, he has made it clear he will never quit but has agreed to cut down. W... (422 words)

Should I take the leap and move aborad with him? I am scared of being financially dependent on someone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3 years has moved back to his home country due to visa issues.Hopefully he will be back soon maybe 6 months. He has been gone since July 2009. We have been doing the whole long distance thing visits, phone calls, and emails, however, we desperately want to be ... (180 words)

Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has always been great and we have ... (184 words)

Boyfriend's ex-girlfriend was kinkier/better in bed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* So I've been dating this wonderful guy for a couple months now, and everything's great. We have great sex which we both enjoy, but he has mentioned in passing a couple times the more adventurous things he did with his last girlfriend(s). For example, road head... (139 words)

Am I the only one who thinks it is bad if sex dwindles over time?

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15 March 2010 (M) age 41-50 - From reading questions on here I get the strong impression that most people think it normal, natural and okay for a couple after time to just not have sex very often. There are so many posts and replies on here making mention of sex and often not much of it that end in stuf... (350 words)

How do I tell her that I love her? And will we have problems due to her religion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

15 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am a non Muslim guy, I met this Muslim girl. and yeah, I fell in love with her; I know it is not infatuation, because I never felt like I feel with this girl. I am not sure what to do, she does not know I like her and I am afraid to tell her and lose her. And if... (95 words)

When is it ok to love again after the one you love is gone???

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The situation is that my 1st true love got killd Sept. 09 n i havent really been able to cope with that to well. then i met this guy n he seems wonderful n i really feel comfortable around and his child and his parents are very nice and sweet. him and i have ... (235 words)

Should cunnilingus be reserved for relationships only, or something you do with any sexual partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

15 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has told me that he likes going down on a woman. And in the past has gone on all women he has been with even one noght stands! This disgusts me. I don't really like a being gone down on and any way what my boyfriend has told me turns me off the idea more. Q... (90 words)

Does she love me or not?

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15 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm divorced she had a bad relation! I have a lot of experience and she only had one and it ended badly! Why won't she admit that she love me or I should say she just really afraid to say it she came close to say it once but she stop and just say no with a nice happy smile! ... (66 words)

He is living with his ex and hardly has any time for me, all I want is to get him back!

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15 March 2010 (F)

age - i have been a relationship with this man for yrs now. about a year and a half ago, his ex starting calling him again. well he began telling me he wanted to go see her again to see if he was still in love with her or not. she lived out of town then. i knew he was going to go ... (301 words)

Can I become a daddy, if foresking doesn't retract???

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15 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am uncircumcised and a few years ago acquired a yeast infection. Did not get it from my wife as she has never had one, the Dr. told me it was because I cleaned me penis with soap and that washes away natural antibacterial whatever and long story short it became a yeast ... (133 words)

He is leaving me in the dark; do I text him tonight or just disappear completely?

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15 March 2010 (F) - First off--i have been dating and trying to meet someone and also keeping busy but it still doesn't change my feelings for my ex. my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but noone did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just a... (681 words)

What color should female discharge during orgasm be?

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15 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When i have sex with my boyfriend, i cum? or orgasm? or whatever it is. hhaa, but isnt mine suposed to be clear? i mean, when i do, it comes out like a whitish color. should i see the doctor? and no, its fersher not his cum, we use a condom. and its not lube. so what does it ... (63 words)

The passion has faded... he hasn't touched me or made love in nearly 2 years

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15 March 2010 (F)

age - I've been married for over 32yrs and for about the past 4 or 5yrs our intimate moments have got less and less. Now he hasn't touched me or made love in nearly 2yrs. Its breaking my heart becasuse I love him more today then I ever did before. Our relationship is good in every ... (611 words)