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writes:Okay so I started talking to this cute girl about a week or two ago. She goes to my school and all but I've been starting to like her more and more lately. I don't know how to ask her out since I have never asked out a girl before. She is 14 almost 15 and I'm currently 16. She also says that she likes this other guy that goes to our school and she is thinks he's really cute. She has never spoken to him but they look into each others eyes a lot. She also says that I'm cute and she is really open with me. I'll probably wait a bit before I ask her but how would I ever bring it up. She likes this other guy and she also likes this kid who goes to a different school.I was talking to my other friend and she was telling me to try to date people in my same grade but I really want to try dating this one girl.Sorry if my English isn't perfect, kinda hard to type on and iPod. Please if you have any advice on how I can become better friends with her and eventually ask her out it would be very appeciated :) Reply to this Question
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reader, CaliMoore  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 You could do this a few different ways, if your not comfortable asking her face to face you could ask her over text or online. Asking her out on a casual date is the best way, it will make her feel more comfortable and more likely to say yes!A simple everyday thing that doesnt seem like a big deal, like previous answers such as going to the mall or the movies. If she turns you down you can save any embarassment and make it out like you were asking her as 'just friends'. Her admitting she is really open with you is a great start! friendship is the foundation to a relationship, the more comfortable around you she feels the more likely she is to give it a try.Good luck, i hope this has helped :) let me know how you get on x
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reader, Tine +, writes (1 March 2010):
 well it sounds as though your doing a good job already by being her friend. To have a girl open up to you as much as you say she does is a really big step so well done.
If you really want to ask her out then waste no time and i say do it as soon as you feel up to it, the sooner the better!! Does she like movies?? If so i would say to her about the lastest movie that is out in the cinema that you'd like to see, ask her if she has seen the trailer of it and say doesn't it look good? then just say we should go to see it some time. And see what she says. If she doesnt say anything then leave it a day or so and say, hey i'm wanting to go see that movie we were talking about fancy coming with me??
Or if it is just a storll around the mall that you want to do just say i'm going shopping and kinda need some help do you wanna come with me and give me a hand?? its really quite easy as long as your tone of voice is just a friendly everyday tone then you'll be grand!! good luck
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