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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there a way I can get on the pill without my parent's knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm thinking about going on the pill, is there a way I could get it without my parents noing?... (19 words)

I want my child to know his father but I don't want him in my life at all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex rang me up after 2 months of no contact. Am pregnant - in the last month of pregnancy - he has doubts over whether this is his child or not so have had the DNA crap from him. I don't doubt he is the dad. Anyway, I said okay to DNA and all, but trying to make sense of his ... (611 words)

What does sex feel like the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so everyone is having sex lately and i mean everyone ..i feel so left out but i dont really care. I could have sex if i wanted but im scared for some reason. I feel my body isn't ready for that.. I heard that sex makes girls get bigger i was wondering if that was true ? Im ... (91 words)

She left me to date another guy and now she wants me back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - It all started as a happy relationship between me and my gf until she started hanging around other guys. now at first i didnt mind, cuz she only befriended them so she can get me jealous. then eventually it started bothering me cuz the guys tried kissing her. soo i started ... (222 words)

I don't think I could be just her friend as I like her too much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - One, before anything else... i suck at dating... Two, sorry for writing too much... but its because of #1 I've met a girl last December and we've been dating since January. It seems to me she was of the caring and loving kind. So as we started to date I kinda got the fee... (543 words)

Is my cousin's fiancee flirting with me or am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right well basically i am 17 and my cousin's fiancee (soon to be huspand)is 22 i think is flirting with me. i have known him since i was 6 and we always got on really well but latley since i turned like 16 he has become a bit too over friendly. for example me and him always ... (267 words)

What does it mean when girls play with their hair as I walk by?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i've noticed that almost always when i pass girls on the street, in a store, on the subway wherever, they always start playing with their hair...does this mean they find me attractive or that i make them nervous? i've been told that i'm really attractive by a lot of my girl ... (63 words)

I had unprotected sex on my period. What are the chances I could be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the chances that I'm pregnant? I'm on the birth control patch and it fell off for about five minutes during sex We also had sex while I was on my period, unprotected. Xo... (45 words)

If you are on birth control can a guy cum inside you as many times as he wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy cum so many times while you're on birth control pill, and you never miss a day. Can you still get preganent?... (24 words)

He is with a new girl but still wants to be with me. He is scared I will hurt him again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex for over 3 years and we were engaged and living together. I was going through a really hard time and went of the rails a bit and ended the relationship for no apparent reason. Afterwards it was like i completely forgot he existed and went out having fun all the ... (274 words)

I don't know if he is scared of ruining our friendship by dating or if he just likes me as a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5368 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try to make this as short as possible. I have fallen in love with my best guy friend and don't know what to do next! We are both are in our 30's and have been friends for almost 10 years. In the beginning we weren't super close, but over the past couple of years we ... (319 words)

Sometimes I feel like I love him then on other days I don't know how I feel.

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I want to be with my boyfriend anymore and it scares me to even say it. For the past couple days I've been wondering, why do I feel like this? I've come to realization, that I haven't felt the same since we had an arguement on Saturday. It wasnt anything big.. I ... (267 words)

Can the messages see into the real him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So yeah,there's this guy I talked to on this website,whenever he sees me online he messages,we have discusses serious matters and we just like talking to each other period..he said it's rare to find someone intelligent like me on a website etc. We both appreciate each other.He ... (819 words)

We are no longer talking because she feels guilty about cheating. How do I get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age - I am married and have been having an affair with a married woman for 6 years. We are both in our late 50's with no kids at home. We both work for the same company but in different states. Our affair started after some playful flirting on one of my frequent visits to her work ... (498 words)

I think my boyfriend and I are going to have sex. What is the best method of protection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three years. he is 17 and i'm 18 we've talked about sex but i'm not quite sure. if we do what protection would you recommened because someone once told me that condoms aren't always good enough. Help please if you have experience.!... (51 words)

Should I talk to him and let him know I'm not mad anymore or just let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I stop talking to this guy that I really like and because I found he was a lier and a player. But still had feelings for him , we used to be really close but I avoid him all the time. Hes leaving high school in a couple of weeks ( i will probably never seem him again) , sho... (157 words)

I love my best friend's sister. Is she interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i love my closest and bestfriend's sister where she is 1.5year younger than him and 2.5younger than me i feel like she love's me as much as i do to her i was @ there house sitting in my friend's room -he left to do something where i stayed in room surfing youtube whe... (189 words)

Is it normal for a girl to masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a girl is it nomal for me to masturbate? because i feel i want too ... (17 words)

I want to love her but I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so i really liked this girl and everything and we started going out and now she's in love with me but i can't seem to fall in love back even though i really, really want too. I don't want to break up and hurt her. I want to keep her and love her back because she is great. ... (60 words)

I'm worried I will end up like my father!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to become scared of myself. My father was a paedophile and had a number of other bad things too, like an large collection of porn and also he tried to rape my mother a few times when they were together. Sometimes I can really feel his blood pumping through ... (146 words)

I can't change him back to how he used to be. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend hes greek, i really dont know much about greek guys. but this one is difficult to handle.we're are turning a year this month. and things havent been going well in our past. it used to be great the few months we were dating but then too much fights start to ... (233 words)

Should I call him back and get closure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - He's been calling and wanting to talk! Should I call him back and get some closure? Is it too late for us to be friends? If he love me so much how could he treat me like this? Don't know what I should do! I'm a mess! I reconnected w/a old high school s... (256 words)

How do I go about telling her I'm sorry for everything and I'm getting help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

- Hi I could do with some advice. I had an anger episode a couple of weeks ago towards my fiancé it was just verbal not physical and I'm not trying to justify my actions and I regret them everyday, I have seen my GP and we are in agreance that I show signs and symptoms of ... (479 words)

She seems to be testing me. How do I get her to just call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend and I get into fights constantly over communicating. So usually we text each other to find out when each other is free slash what each other's plans are for the day/evening. Of course, both of us don't have our cell phones on us 24/7 or sometimes we're in... (291 words)

She says she doesn't want anal, but she seems to want it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I spoke with my GF recently about fantasies we shared some. She has known for sometime I want to have anal sex, however, I absolutely respected her choice not to. Fine, not a huge deal, as a relationship is caring about your partner not forcing them to do painful things. ... (300 words)

I'm worried my ex will date my best friend and hurt him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, almost a year ago I dated my now ex for about two months. It doesn't sound like very long, but we were friends for a very long time before we started dating and I guess that's why the break up had more of an impact than most two month break ups. Anyways, in that... (438 words)

I feel so guilty for breaking up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just broke up with my partner 16 months, we were engaged and since the 12 months mark i have been more unhappy every month, finding faults about him I cannot live with any more. He is a lovely person with good intentions but were just not compatible. Today I finnally ... (171 words)

He plans this stuff, gets me to agree, then cancels. What the hell is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Years ago, I had a thing for my ex boss. He wouldn't date me at the time because I was 20 and he was 31. Despite the fact that there was no romance, he took me out anyway. Dinner, movies, theme parks, his house. He never touched me though- and I made my feelings for him very ... (936 words)

My husband does not want another baby. I need ideas to convince me why I shouldn't want one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

10 March 2010 (F) age 51-59 - I just need here advice please. Im 40 years old, i have 3 children, the youngest is 12. Im wishing too deep in my heart to have another baby. But my Husband dont want to have a baby anymore. I insist. he said i should give him two years time to think about it. if were going to ... (280 words)

I want advice on how to dirty talk over msn!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to know how to talk dirty to my boyfriend over msn! He's really good at dirty talk, but I'm not, he says stuff about me having soft skin that he could run his hands up and down all day and how he just wants to pull my body close to his, and how horny he gets and... (93 words)

How can you get someone to notice you, aside from just going up to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - What's one of the best ways to get someone you love to notice you, or even better, date you? Now i know you'll probably say oh by going up to them, but i mean other than that.... (37 words)

Is my relationship worth saving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. Before we met he was married, but his marriage broke up when he was caught cheating with a girl in his work. He claims he was unhappy in his marriage however and this led to the affair.In the early stages of our relationship I ... (149 words)

I have a big vagina. Is there anyway to get it smaller?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, before I ask my question I'd like to let everybody know that I know not all females look like the women in porn, not all of us have a tiny vagina like the way they do but I am a little concerned about the size of mine. My pubic area is rather large and I have to pull it ... (205 words)

What can I do for my 22nd birthday? My husband has to work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what can i do on my birthday?I'll be 22yrs my husband ask his boss for the day off but she said noooo....so what can i do for my birthday while my husband is at work plz plz dont say anything bad becuz i'm a good wife/mother and hate liming with anyone else other than m... (64 words)

I have been single for so long but want to start a new relationship. How do I go about doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been a single mum now for 10 years and with the exception of a brief relationship that went sour ive been single. recently a married guy who i have a crush on admitted he likes me and he asked me if he could kiss me as much as i wanted to i said no which was obviously the ... (105 words)

Do I believe the 4 people who told me, or my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my question is a little complicated, as in double sided. on the one hand, i'm avoiding some friends of mine because they are either trying to get with me or trying to set me up with one of their friends....it's taken me a long time to even be around/talk or hug guys again ... (241 words)

What in the world does his comment mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age - Have been involved with a man now for a little over 5 yrs and care for this man very much. I recently asked him if he was happy with what we have and he said that he was. I then went on to say if you're happy, comfortable, and getting your needs met why was he still havin... (93 words)

Would guys like a 19 year old virgin. Or would the innocence drive them away?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

10 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - How many people like me still a virgin? I mean as far as age goes..I'm not ashamed of it but here where I live there's very few girls who remain virgins. Reason being I just haven't found the right guy yet. I also wonder do guys usually like virgins? Or does the inocence drive ... (56 words)

I told her friend a huge secret she told me in confidence.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A couple days ago I betrayed my love in the worst possible way. She told me a HUGE HUGE HUGE secret involving her like 3 months ago, and I kept it secret for all that time until two days ago, when I told everything to her so-called friend after I drunk with sadiness. I fee... (272 words)

I need help moving on from my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i got with my ex over last summer and i got really close to him, even though it was only around 4 months everything seemed so perfect i really think i fell for him he made me so happy. i never wanted to split from him.. he was so gorgeous and im the most pickiest person ever ... (160 words)

I'm over the fact that she left me, but not the resentment.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - To cut a long story short, my partner who I loved very much left me for another guy. This was 3 months ago. I have gotten over the jealousy and the feeling of sickness when I think about 'them' but I can't seem to shift the anger. I've tried to tell myself to let go and all ... (160 words)

Is it wrong to get advice about my marriage from a man I am attracted to?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I haven't been seeing eye to eye on things recently,which causes us to fuss heatedly. I recently met a man who I can talk to and vent with. We are attracted to each other. Is it wrong to Get his advice?... (46 words)

He said mean uncalled for things that he can't take back. So why do I want to take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright I'm having the hardest time trying to figure out what's going on in my head here. I was with my ex boyfriend for a little over two years and I felt like he was the man I wanted to marry with no doubts. Our personalities, mannerisms and habits all went so well with each ... (463 words)

He is threatening me because I won't have sex with him.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend hooked me up with her ex *joe and we have been going out for two weeks now. he is 15 and im 14. he already said he loves me and i fell for it.now all he ever wants to talk about is sex.i thought i wanted it but now im not so sure. he is starting to scare me. he keeps ... (105 words)

Unsure about having a MMF threesome.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, we have had discussions of having a threesome, but always decide that realistically it's best left as a fantasy. Ok, fine...wrong. I find lately my dreams are constantly on the subject. Sometimes I am turned on about it, sometimes it pisses me off. Probably a good ... (225 words)

My friend watches lesbian porn and now I feel awkward around her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok basically one of my oldest friends (who I'm not that close to anymore) lended me her laptop recently and she forgot to delete her history and I had forgotten the adress of the site I had already visited so went to find it there and a link flashed up so I opened it to find ... (122 words)

My penis sometimes won't get hard.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my penis is some times not getting much harder, and it not getting hard enough for sex...... wat to do ??... (24 words)

Nothing I do is helping my high sex drive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a mother of 2 little kids and I am married, just recently i have noticed my sex drive has been really high and my husband doesn't have a high sex drive anymore. When we make love it won't stop it, I then use my toys but that don't help, please I am asking what should I do? ... (78 words)

How do I get my friends back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and couldn't be happier. We spend everyday together and cant get enough of eachother. I seriously think he could be the one, and he's said the same to me. Problem is, none of my friends like him. And they have no reason ... (112 words)

My married friends cheat and discuss it with me. It's immoral and I'm sick of hearing it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a situation here I don't know how to deal and I think I need advise on what to do. I am currently working now in a place where people basically come and go. Oddly enough, I am one of the few who is truly single. Most of my women friends are married in my country and a... (385 words)

I am in love with him but not sure if I should tell him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - When Im at my boyfriends house i usually stay there 5 days a week...he wants to do everything for me, he talks about the future with me in it, hes kind, generous, thoughtful, loving and calls me beautiful all the time. He's mentioned possibly moving in together. We always laugh ... (153 words)

Do I tell his girlfriend he is flirting with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy friend who has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for over a year. He claims to love her, but quite often he acts in a really innappropiate way around me, and sometimes other girls, that suggests he doesn't. For example, last weekend I went out with a group ... (448 words)

We used a condom but I'm ill and scared I could be pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, 16 in July.. Me and my boyfriend of just over 5 months now have had sex. the last time was about a month ago. For the past few weeks i've been feeling ill and last night my mum kept asking me over and over and over again if i have had sex and it got to the point i just ... (249 words)

Is it normal to feel down at the end stages of pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - is it normal to feel down at the end stages of pregnancy?? i dont want to see anyone really, one minute im fine the next im getting frustrated very quickly, i dont want any sexual attention from my partner and i cry at night because i have trouble sleeping where i feel con... (66 words)

My partner doesn't want my friends around for weeks after the baby comes.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im due to give birth soon my partner is taking two weeks off when baby comes to spend time with me and baby and help out with my other son but has told me for the first couple of weeks he doesnt want any visitors as we need to get into a routine and so does my other child and ... (199 words)

Are all of these things normal in pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im pregnant with my second child due in 4 weeks time however every morning when i wake up my stomach feels really painful for about half hour and then wears off it feels like my muscles are stretching trying to get my stomach to enlarge is it normal to have this as i didnt have ... (136 words)

How do we deal with such ignorance toward our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the situation: I am in the military, assigned to Tokyo (where I'm currently living) and I have a job where I am one of only 2 females. Most men here take up Japanese women to be their girlfriends, or brides and most look down upon those who chose to have a non-Asia... (154 words)

Should I end this LDR so I can meet someone in person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm here because i need other people's advice other than family members or friends. Me and my man have been in a LDR for one year and 4 months now. we have never met in person but i speak to him on msn, skype, video calls, webcam everyday. My family know about him as... (335 words)

My friend wants to send our teacher a love letter.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my friends has got a huge crush on a teacher and she wants to send him a love letter. Well, I think it's a stupid idea and she'll just get herself in big trouble. What do you think about sending a teacher a love letter?... (48 words)

He has been using me for attention this whole time while waiting for his ex to come back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He's been playing me because he's waiting for his ex girlfriend to come back to him. I fell for this guy about 7 months ago. He gave me every single sign of liking me, but he never made a move on me and always wore a ring. He didn't ask me to hang out much, but he gave me tons ... (189 words)

Is he like all others, does he actually like me and that's why he was nervous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Whenever I ask questions on here, i only get 1 or 2 answers and sometimes they dont help. So im going to do my best to tell you everything. 2010, fresh start.. This year I decided to be a different and better person. And oh my god, its worked so far. In 2009, I was more... (291 words)

What gives? Why is she behaving this way???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship. I'm confused bout my gf. she acts weird sometimes. We both really love each other but nowadays she gets annoyed with me very easily... without letting me know the reason, and then she will tell me later... moreover she argues and this ... (215 words)

Why has he started being nice to me again? And what was all that about with the phone call???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this may be be a strange thing to ask, i was kinda seing this guy, slept with him twice, second time i slept with him he got this text and he didnt reply he said dont worry its only natalie And i replyed to him by saying is natalie your gf, he said no anyway didnt think no... (193 words)

One ring and he hung up but from the caller ID it was HIM!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age - Okay here it is I haven't heard from him for over a year and last time I told him I still loved him he kind of got really annoyed. Then I sent him various text messages till six months ago when I stopped coz he would either not reply or reply like he was real bothered. Yester... (173 words)

I know I'm not in love with him... should I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have a 4 year old daughter together but I'm not in love with him anymore and I can't decide if I should stay or go. To everyone else we have the perfect relationship which we do but it's not what I want. I'm a very social pers... (424 words)

I want to leave my marriage to pursue another as I am NOT happy...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband was unfaithful to me when I was pregnant nearly 8 years ago and right up until I found out when my child was a toddler. We worked through things, have amazing sex now, he genuinely cannot get enough of me, I am early 40's but I have decided to leave him. I guess I ... (343 words)

What am I doing wrong for him to treat me this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I really need some help or advise. I'm starting to feel depressed and I have no self confidence, I feel like I'm becoming a disappointment to him. He can be very moody when he takes it out on me. He says hurtful things to me then says he sorry or he says he's gonna finish with ... (111 words)

Where does the ex-girlfriend sleep??????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old. I've known this bloke for 2 and a half years and I've been seeing him for just under a year. The problem I have is him and his ex-girlfriend. I'm friendly with her and have known her also for 2 and a half years. I've heard from her son and a mutual friend of ... (133 words)

How can I make sure I keep him interested without seeming too desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been talking to a man for a few months now haven't met him yet as both have really busy jobs and live 200 miles apart. We text a lot. I have on occasions text him and he doesn't answer so text to ask if he's still alive which he then replies too. I did text him too much ... (159 words)

So tired of the dating game...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Single for the first time in a long time, with no single girl friends to enjoy it with. My girls all have boyfriends, why would they want to go out with me, when their boyfriends will pick them up by car (instead of with me by bus lol) and their boyfriends will pay for the meal... (278 words)

Please help me decode his signals...

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i'm talking to this guy on MSN, i met him recently but he just moved a few hours away so we talk a lot on msn and through text msgs. any ways before we would talk a lot and stuff, he mostly initiated the conversations, or we would take turns..recently he's been busy and ... (201 words)

Help!!! Should we break up?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well.. I have been with my partner for nearly 2 years, we live together and have a child! But just lately i'm questioning if we should really be together! He's extremely lazy, he leaves plates and cups lying around, throws his clothes on the bedroom floor and just assumes ... (294 words)

I just want to forget him...

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17, and this is quite a pathetic situation really but i spent all of last summer with my ex, it was the best summer i had, im really strict with the lads i get with andd he seemed perfect for me. first met him in a club january 2009, was toldd he thinks hes a player and i ... (851 words)

Should I take sexy classy pictures for my boyfriend??

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend wants me to take sexy pictures for him but he also said he don't want me to take nudes just sexy classy one like EX1) Me wearing my pjs shorts and a tank top.To be truthful I'm really shy and I only take pictures of my face lol. Not that I don't like my body I love ... (96 words)

She slept with her ex 4 months ago... need advice please!

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10 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, first time poster... in desperate need of some advice. This time yesterday i was the happiest and most content i'd ever been with anyone, i truly believed i'd found that special person, to me she was perfect in every way. Today i'm struggling to come to terms with th... (499 words)

Is this just a crush or have I really fallen in love with a married man?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i like a man who is 10 years my senior. he told me that he always quarrel with his wife . both of us are married with children. when he look at me i try to escape his eyes for fear that i might give myself away. he doesnt know that i like him. so is this a crush or i really ... (104 words)

I'm getting paranoid that I could be pregnant!

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am on birth control, i just had my period, i get it on tuesdays and it lasts till sunday at the most. well now its wednesday, my period went away on sunday but now i am bleeding a little again? this has never happened to me, am i paranoid? my friend recently got pre... (97 words)

Is it ok for us to be together when I am nearly 16 and she is only 13?

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10 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 15, 16 in may, Iv got a very close friend who is only 13 turning 14. I like her she she likes me back is it ok for use to be an "item'/together? what are your thoughts?... (38 words)

Why does my husband still want sex from me if we have been separated for 3 years?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why does my husband want sex from me if we have been separated 3 years now and says he wants a divorce? we have 4 beautiful children together and he says he wants a divorce because i cheated on him. i take full responsability for what i've done. we have been married for almost ... (155 words)

How do I end this affair? And should I tell my wife?

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10 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a married to a lovely wife with 2 fantastic children. I never thought cheating on my wife,never. But last January i met a single woman during a work project, we have a chat and we exchanged our phones. till there i was doing my job, nothing was wrong for me having her ... (217 words)

My sister is sleeping with the guy she hooked me up with!

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I "had" this crush on a guy that lives in my apartment complex my sister knew I like him and ask him to come meet me he did and we hit it off there. He made it clear he wasn't looking for a relationship so I did the big no no and we had relations early while trying to no him. ... (336 words)

He's giving me mixed signals! Is he just being friendly or does he like me?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy and he's giving me mixed signals! I catch him staring at me sometimes, and he's always friendly and saying hello, and he always gives me his fave foods when he has them. And he's ALWAYS teasing me. It sounds like he like me, but I was on his twitter once, and ... (95 words)

Should I tell my girlfriend that I went to my mum for advice about the sexual abuse in her past?

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10 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I met this girl and we became real close, anyway she was sexually abused when she was young by her father, I needed advice about all this and I asked my mum about it, I told her about the sexual abuse. Now I feel real guilty, shoud I tell my girlfriend, I love the girl and ... (63 words)

I have really low self esteem and I'm worried that I'm not the one for him

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Im having a normal teen relationship problem, im just gonna shoot out my problems and then ask. Well i been with my boyfriend for a year and few months now. Im 18 and he's 19. I met him on myspace and everything was going so well, we talked on the phone telling ... (668 words)

There have been a few small signs of agression towards me, do I walk away or give him one final chance?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been getting on exceptionally well and he is positive about our future together. He has made me so happy and is a loving caring person, i couldnt have asked for more. I cant stress how good this relationship was. HOWEVER, whilst drunk he hit me on the ... (169 words)

My partner cheated and I could do with some advice

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10 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel it might help me to write on this forum to ask for advice. I have been with my current partner for almost 6 years and we have a 14 months old girl when I discovered she cheated on me. We are not married as both did not want to, but have been living together for 4 ye... (702 words)

I want to start a family before I get my dream job, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand!

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi =). i'm kinda new so dont abuse me or anything please, unless i say somthing stupid. I'm 18, and i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, also 18. basically we're both in love, and well he wants to go in to the Raf, and i am encouraging him too, and i want ... (229 words)

I cant sleep! Does anyone have any advice?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically i cant sleep at all. The doctor reckons its aniexty and ive been put on calming pills, which dont work. I could take louds of sleeping pills and still lie awake. Some nights i do sleep. its totally random. But i feel tired but my mind will refuse to switch off, Im ... (67 words)

I don't understand why he wants this break, its so out of the blue!

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf of a year and a half get along great, we never fight and are always really happy together. Our families get along and his family loves me and my family loves him. When I say we never fight... we never, ever, fight. People thing we have a model relationship and they say ... (244 words)

How can I discuss all this without making the situation worse?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid: I am 20 years old, by boyfriend of nearly a year is 31. for the longest time, we have been happy and telling everyone that "age is just a number". But lately, I've been beginning to wonder if there really are problems related to age and/or maturity level. ... (291 words)

How do I break up with someone that was never my boyfriend in the first place?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing the same guy for the past 6 months. We go on dates, hook up, etc. and he contacts me every single day. We are not officially dating though and honestly, i'm tired of wasting the energy into something that doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Every day i tell ... (227 words)

Am I doing the right thing by joining the marines?

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10 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm going through some issues I'm going to join the marine corp in a year after I complete highschool and I'm not sure if I should go into a relationship would it be worth it I'm 5'3" and joining so im short never get the girls and recently I'm starting to want to have a g... (94 words)

Should I take a chance with him? I get the feeling this could be too good to be true

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been dating three weeks he says that he knows I'm the one he will marry, he's been divorced 9 years. We share Worldview and our basic values are similar. His invited me to meet his family and friends. I feel like I'm being seduced is it too good to be true he tells me ... (115 words)

My boyfriend still doesn't have a job after 7 months....

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have been going out with a guy for over 2 years now. We both went to the same college, in fact we met here. I have less than 1 one year left but he graduated this past August. It has been 7 months and he hasn't gotten a job yet. At first he refused to take just any... (263 words)

Should I tell my mother and risk my whole family finding out what happened?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there Aunts and Uncles. This is is something that has been playing on my mind for a long time. I'm remaining anonymous due to the topic. I was molested by my cousin as a child. The earliest incident I remember was when I was 4. My cousin was 25. It continued until ... (423 words)

He is a liar but I cant prove anything

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - theres a guy at work who ive become very good friends with and am fond of. however very recently ive noticed hes been lying to me a lot which hurts because we get on well together and i though he trusted me but lately my intuition has been bugging me that somethings not right. ... (227 words)

He's leaving for college in another state and I've just started really liking him.

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've recently started talking to this guy and hes really sweet and smart. But he's leaving for college in another state in a couple of months. should i stop talking to him? because i'm beginning to really like this guy. =/ please help. hes currently a senior and im a junior. ... (51 words)

I've lost the love of my life, how do I get him back?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age - I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months now and a week ago he left me. He was living with me in my place, and when he left in the morning he kissed me and said have a great day what time do you work today...When I came home there was a "dear john" letter on the table ... (488 words)

What is the best sex position to lose your virginity?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what is the best sex postition to lose your virginity? i just dont know what to do and how to do it can someone please help me... (27 words)

Why do people who go through a break up need space from the other person?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is why do people who go through a break up need space from the other person? My bf over 1 year broke up w me to "focus on himself" last week. He says he loves and cares for alot but is not ready for a relationship. He says its too soon after the relationship to see ... (97 words)

We met while clubbing, but he won't let me club anymore!

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend who wants to go clubbing and drink. We have been together for 2 years, we met at a club and for the first 6 months always went clubbing together and we went to every music festival together. i dont go clubbing to get ... (293 words)

He's great in lots of ways, but he's dull and argumentative too

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a fiancé whose main points are he doesn't snore, do porn, watch cricket or sports fanatically, tries hard to be attentive, doesn’t womanise or socialise with the boys as he prefers to be with me, doesn’t gamble or waste money, drinks occasionally, sexually compatible, ... (202 words)

He has a young daughter and we don't get time to ourselves

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and he has a 2 year old daughter to another woman. He has her every weekend, and the weekend is the only time we spend any time together so we never really get any time to ourselves. this doesn't seem to bother him but is really ta... (263 words)

I want to please him but I'm shy

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently dating a 46 year old man we have been together for 4 years and I feel that i could do better in bed. I love him dearly and want to please him more what could i do to help this I do not know how to address him cause I get shy. But am also not sure what to do i ... (79 words)

We love each other, but there are complications!

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so this guy..he's my best friend and he knows I love him and recently he told me he loves me too. Great right? I'm 14 turning 15 in two months and he's 19 turning 20 in a few weeks..hi brother is in love with me too (he's 17) we don't know what to do..he won't tell ... (155 words)

Is it selfish for me to want him in my life?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been so troubled lately. My bf and I broke up just over a month ago. We were together for five years, and I am having trouble moving on. I initiated the break because I had not been happy for quite some time. My feelings for him started to change about three ye... (479 words)

Texting in a relationship...I'm confused!

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok :)im 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and we mostly text each other during the week and hang out on weekends. Well lately im all ways texting him first but i really wish he would. Do you think if i keep texting him first he will think im annoying? and if he doesnt text me first. ... (127 words)

My penis jumps with my heartbeat -- is this normal?

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10 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - okay, when i have an erection i for some reason have a pulse. that is my penis kind of jumps at the beat of my heartbeat. is this normal? ... (29 words)

Should I continue to allow him to be sexual with other women?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 5years now. Married for less than one year. I have allowed my husband to have a threesome..should I allow him to continue to be sexual with other women? ... (35 words)

Is this too good to be true?

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for about a month, he told me that we was falling for me almost immediatly. We seem to share the same world view, he tells me he's been looking for his mate for two years. He is divorced since 2001. He has opened up his finances, we have similar ... (192 words)

Agreed to a three-some, am keen but nervous

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10 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my guy friend and I been having relations it's nothing seriouus just relations. He ask me to have a threesum with him and another women and I was surprised ! I always been curious about a women but never went there with a female. I told him yes I would do it but I'm scared as ... (92 words)

Lack of sex was a problem, but now I'm reluctant because it seems she's only doing it for me

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10 March 2010 (M)

age - My wife hasn't a huge sex drive. For most of the 25 years of our marriage, our sex life has been hit and miss. And despite an arguement now and again about it, I've always left her off the hook. But recently we had a huge arguement about it and I told her I'd been deeply ... (139 words)