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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I go back to my ex that cheated? Or try the new guy out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ..I just recently got out of a relationship.. Where i was lied to multiple times, but ONLY cheated on once..with his ex..but never told me about it till i had legit proff.. but anyways I have found myself liking this guy from work, but can't seem to get over my ex.. and it ... (257 words)

I don't have a date to the dance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a dance coming up. 8th grade formal... But im afraid I won't get asked to go with someone and even though I'll have my bff to be there with me, itll still kill me inside to see everyone else having someone with them, and then im alone just sitting watching. Help?... (53 words)

Been with my boyfriend for 2 years but I'm afraid sex will change things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I am new at this, I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18, I am very happy with it. And i can tell you that i love him. I have 2 years with him, but he just asked me to have sex with him, but iam afraid that things would change between us. What should i do? acceptihg any ans... (86 words)

I invited a married woman out on a date, now she completely ignores me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello there. I'm afraid I'm one of those rotters who has children, is not married and asked another married woman at work out on a date via e-mail (having sought permission first). I thought I was getting signs of encouragement. Oh dear - I appear to have misinterpretted her ... (368 words)

I am really interested in cross dressing and having sex with men, but not sure how it will affect me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a normal 20 year old guy and life is going well at the moment. I have one 'problem' though. I have crossdressed from a young age and get a sexual thrill from it. A couple of years ago I started watching gay porn and found myself very aroused by it. For a long tim... (154 words)

He broke up saying he isnt ready for committment

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for about 7 months. everything was going good and all of a sudden he breaks up with me and says that he just waants to be friends for now and he doesn't want to be in a commited relationship. i never said anthing to him about that im not ready to be in ... (97 words)

I hate my dark, dark skin

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am Cuban and I am dark skin and I like to think that Im exotic with my foreign tongue and look. But all my life I have had people be mean and criticize me for who I am. The media in America portrays majority of the people being beautiful as white people or light skin black ... (302 words)

My boyfriend is prone to anger so we can't discuss our sex problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have recently started having sex without a condom. I'm on birth control and have been for a while. Sometimes we still use a condom as well. Sometimes while we're going at it without a condom, he can pull out and "let" loose in a towel or something, but other ... (259 words)

I am obsessed with masturbating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok recently i have been masturbating more frequently than i normally would. I have been doing it every day sometimes twice. I feel like im becoming obsessed with it and its worrying me. Is this normal? Please Help!... (39 words)

I feel I may have reacted to her cheating badly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - am i wrong for what i did? i was dating a girl that left her boyfriend for me... all along saying how crazy he was and how much she wished he would leave her alone... at first things were great she was ALL about me we started spending Alot of time together staying with ... (418 words)

Is great sex worth being cheated on and lied to?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl's a liar and a cheat but she's so good sexually that I can't ditch her. She lets me do ANYTHING. Tempting? How am I supposed to go out and meet other girl that compare to THAT? Comparatively, every girl I meet is so boring sexually.... (47 words)

I think he may be cheating with an ex, but every time I ask he has an excuse for everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half last year in march his ex girlfriend that he was with for 3 years called me telling me that in november(a month into us going out) he cheated on me and she didnt know he had a girlfriend. i asked him about this and he said it ... (299 words)

He wants to get married but I am his first serious girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i are in our 20s, 22 and 23. he wants to marry me but my question is that this is his first serious relationship, but not mine. in fact he was a virgin before me. i wasnt. i love him but am worrying he will feel like he missed out on meeting a variety of people ... (86 words)

One year anniversary coming up! Are we supposed to exchange gifts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend (21) and I (18) will be dating officially for one year next week. Is he suppose to give me something or i should be giving him something? my first relationship. So i don't know what to do for our one year. can someone please help me!!... (50 words)

Does this sound like I have an eating disorder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It seems to have been a really long time since I last wrote in. I don't know how long it's been. This time though, my whole life is totally out of my control. My only way to control it is not to eat, I've lost a stone in 2 weeks, and I'm frequently cold. I'm also light headed ... (97 words)

He cheated and lied but says that he has changed. should I give him another chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have tossed and turned everynight now for about a month over the same problem. So hopefully someone out there will be able to give the right and honest advice to help me thru it.. Okayy.. Its been about 6 months since me and my ex broke up.. We dated for about 2 years.. ... (384 words)

I like a guy 2 years younger than I. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, this guy is almost two years younger than me. evryone who knows us says he likes me, i know i like him, what should i do?... (40 words)

I have been faking orgams for my entire marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age - I have been pretending orgasm and climax for all of my marriage. I have tried to bring myself to orgasm but when the feeling builds up inside me like something I just dont have the words to describe I find I cannot bring it to a conclusion I have to stop because I find the ... (70 words)

My bestfriends boyfriend likes me and I like him, what should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my bestfriends boyfriend likes me and i like him. we always look at each other with "the look" when were hanging out and sometimes we touch each other when were with his girlfriend too but we can both tell we like each other. yesterday was the first time we really told ... (164 words)

I need him, but I am just not in love with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. There were no fireworks when we met but he grew on me through his kind personality. We slowely became close but I always felt that he was not ultimately the one for me. He is incredible thoughtful, considerate and understanding, ... (136 words)

Getting married and a virgin. How can I have good sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all plz help me! I getting married soon but i never had sex can you help me how can i have good sex in my married life? How can i please my hubby and what are the interesting method of sex? Plz help me. Thank you all !... (49 words)

I'm in love with my school's resource officer! How can I tell if he feels the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how can u tell if someone likes if even though they are not aloudd to be attracted to you? im basically inlove and im positve i am with my schools resource officer.. i use to think it was jus comfort i was feeling but i KNO i love him..the problem is he is 30 and im 17.. whe... (314 words)

I beat up the drunk who groped my GF, now she's mad at me. What gives?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF and I were at a bar and while were standing at the bar waiting for our drinks, some dirtbag in his late 50's comes up to us, drunk off his arse. Stands between my GF and me and puts one arm around my shoulder and one around my GFs. We did NOT know this guy at all, never ... (321 words)

He's scared to say "I love you", what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man (we are both in our 40's) for almost a year and a half now. We have a great time together, talk, laugh, awesome sex, great friends, etc. I love him and I've known that for a long time, however, I waited and waited for him to tell me first, hoping that ... (339 words)

How can I suppress my feelings until we get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So here i am again, and my question is in big contrast to the other one. Me and my girlfriend decided that we were going to take some time off from dating so she could get some aspects of her life on track. The thing is i really, really miss her. and she's one of my regular ... (91 words)

What could be going on with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I told my close female friend that i really liked her and she told me lets just be friends for now and that she wanted to focus on her studies so now i'm trying to keep my distance from her however now she keeps talking to me alot more than she used to and keeps trying to touch ... (118 words)

I think my crush likes me back but his mum is our geography teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i hav had a crush on a guy for like wat seems forever... i think he likes me too... we hav all our classes together and get on really well.... there is one small problem... his mother is our geography teacher! :( although i flirt with him right under her nose i dont think she ... (86 words)

I have a higher libido than my girlfriend and it may cause problems in the future...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I need some really good advice. I am currently engaged and getting married in one month. But I need to know if my fiance's behavior, outlook is normal on sex. I love her with all my heart. I am kind, loving, gentle with her. I spoil her rotten, even she says that. She l... (625 words)

Too tired for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - ... When it comes to bed time, a lot of the time, I am too tired for sex. I want to have more sex, but have you got any suggestions to make me a bit more to wanting sex and be a bit less tired. Also, my partner likes me to put my fingers up her pussy.. Is this good to ... (74 words)

Is this relationship acceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm 18 years old and I have recently left the sixth form at my school. I noticed that one of my male teachers was becoming increasingly flirty. He was winking at me on the corridors, touching my arm at any possible chance, and he would ask me to stay behind after class to ... (314 words)

Is this what I think it is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 40 years old, but I can pass for a twenty something student. I ended a 10 year relationship two years ago. Afterwards I did the whole dating thing Internet, friend setups blind date, even the call the ex late at night for a booty call...I was content, stress free happy to ... (213 words)

Should I contact him and figure things out or let him contact me first when he's ready?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, when i was 16 i started talking to one of my friends best friends. It came out of the blue and a couple months after i got out of a realtionship with my ex. we decided to take things slow since i didnt want to rush into anything new. we talked on the phon... (663 words)

Help! My boyfriend never wants sex anymore!

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my current boyfriend about 2.5 years ago. For the first year and half or so, the sex was amazing. We'd be intimate with each other almost every time we saw each other, sometimes multiple times per night. It seemed like both of us couldn't keep our hands off each other. ... (980 words)

Should I work it out or am I the rebound with no hope?

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - so here is the story. I was lab partners with this girl all semester, she had a bf of 5 years (complete loser duchebag drug addict but very very wealthy). I never hit on her because i respected the fact that she was with someone. we always had a connection. anyways the semester ... (647 words)

How often do men like to have sex in one night???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How often do men like to have sex in one night? Would most guys be pleased if a girl liked to have sex a few times? Me and my new bf had sex 5 times our first night together - he said i was incredible. i thought it was great too but i heard that some men find girls that like ... (95 words)

Help! Did I make the right choice???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Help My boyfriend fraser dumped me on friday and then asked me back out sunday night but i rejected him and then asked me out today and i said yes. i guess i really missed him but the thing is that he really hurt me emotionally. But this boy called simon told me that he ... (113 words)

I'm doubting whether he is into me...

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and this guy where i work is 25. I met him about two months ago and we been going out on dates. One of his friends there told me that he said that i was the one calling him, and asking him out which is not true. I asked him if that was right and he replied ... (246 words)

My boyfriend has stolen from me but I can't prove it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. Our relationship has not been great. He drinks constantly and I know he has messed with drugs since we have been together. He got laid off from his job and gets unemployment but still says he doesn't have money. We always eat ... (210 words)

My pierced nipple is being a pain in the neck. Is something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - If you've had experience with nipple piercings or work in a piercing parlor, PLZ HELP! I got my nipple done a little over a year now and it still hasn't healed, I am cleaning it in sea salt soaks. Should I be moving it while doing this? (I have been moving it) I have s... (186 words)

Am I wired wrong for forgiving him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I should call it rape but I felt so dirty and used after this. We first had sex and then we were laying down in the bed talking. I was laying down on my front and he suddenly climbed on top of me and started kissing me and such, I didn't mind because we've ... (350 words)

Have I messed up here?

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year about 5 months ago and immediately met up with this other boy as that is just my way of getting over things. I went out for a drink with this boy, he was very nice.. paid for everything but in my head all i wanted was a "sex buddy... (265 words)

Is it possible I am pregnant? We were very cautious so I don't see how this could happen!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex on the 20th of Feb, and we used protection of course, and i even checked if there were any holes in it by filling it with water. my period is due real soon and yesterday i felt like i had it all day but i didnt, and today ive been getting brown icky discharge, I've ... (129 words)

What do you think about rebounds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im having a little situation with my ex-boyfriend we broke in Oct. of 09 and it was kind of a wishy washy thing he never really said it was over and i never really did either we never really talked it over, one nite i went to his house to give him back his ring i had chan... (947 words)

My wife left me for no reason and now she's refusing to talk to me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife left me on Valentine's day for no apparent reason and now she is refusing my calls and pretending I don't exist. She has had a torrid life, her partner died in her arms when she was 23, then had a relationship with a dominating and abusive man. Plus a few other problems ... (487 words)

Who am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well, this is quite the tough question to ask random beings, but i am desperate for an answer i cant seem to find, let alone know where to start searching... Back to the question, i am 16, but i am a ward of the state (i dont have parents, i just have a guardian), and i was ha... (259 words)

I slept with my ex and now he is blackmailing me claiming he will tell my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i was in a relationship with a physco he got angry a lot, and destroyed me emotionally as well. he stopped me seeing my friends and told me who i was and wasnt allowed to see. and got rid of all my friends. i found a new guy hes amazing, i left my old boyfriend and im now happy ... (166 words)

How can I help my daughter with her confidence and self-esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey all! I have a little bit of a problem. my daughter is 12 years old and has stretch marks going on her upper thigh and hip. she is very insecure about her self and thinks she is ugly. she is a teenager this year and i think she may been going through puberty...her co... (68 words)

Is she playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - PLEASE read all of it. Don't give me she just wants to be friends crap because this is more than friend behaviour. Either she is playing me or there are other things going on behind the scenes. I asked a girl out after 2 weeks of talking to her she said she just wanted to ... (849 words)

Love triangle with a twist

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - its a bit of a long story but here goes.. last year when i was 14, i went out with a guy that was 17, i really liked him and we fell in love with each other. after a while of being with him his boss somehow found out about the relationship, see he works at a primary school a... (443 words)

I have a feeling she cheated on me but no evidence, and she really wants our relationship to work. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating the same woman for 3 years now. An incredible relationship. I truly love her inside and out she is my best friend and I truly trusted her with everything until a week ago. She feels the same way about me, I am certain. We had a fight about 3 weeks ago and we ... (708 words)

I don't love him and its making me depressed to keep on pretending. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont fancy my boyfriend anymore. Well ive never really thought he gorgeous not a 100% anyway. I thought i did love him and thought it would grow in time but it hasnt weve been together 5 months. Hes besotted with me and loves me totally and i feel really bad cos i tell him do ... (145 words)

What should I do about this girl?

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl. She's my first love. I had a couple of crushes but I know that this one is different from others. Unfortunately as she told me over a year ago, she already has a boyfriend. I was really hurt when I knew about that. Since she acts like she does not ... (406 words)

Should I just wait it out and hope he comes back like he has before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some help and advice, and maybe just need to have some sounding boards. I would like to make this simple, but I feel I need to add a lot of detail to make my relationship understood. So sorry if this runs long! My boyfriend is 50, I am 39. We have been together... (1073 words)

I don't want him to ask me out! What should I do if that situation arises?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really dono what to do! I've recently met this guy whom i've grown really close! he's sort of kissed me once! We are close friends..share almost everything n i'd broken up with my ex two months back n he wants me back i don wanna get back..its been torturous n I'd suf... (129 words)

How do I contribute as a wife and step mum and still throw myself into my career as I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I'm 23 years old and I need some advice. I meet my UK partner about three years ago. I am from NZ. We fell in love and after six months got engaged and were married by the end of the year. After we were engaged I moved to the UK and have lived here since (now about... (819 words)

How can I be there for my little sister now her dad has died depsite us not being very close?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my younger sister who is nine not yet ten, father died last night we both have different dads. im 18 and we dont have a great relationship if even a relationship. shes not taking the death very well and of course everybody is worried about her but everybody has turned to me ... (188 words)

Pregnant, but wish it was my ex's!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a tricky situation. I split up with my ex Tim, who I dated for 4 years, 3 months ago but we have remained friends. I was 2 timing him for a few months (which he doesn't know about, and for which I am truely sorry). I have been dating Ed (who I was drawn to due to he ... (357 words)

What does he mean when he says he wants me to bring my vagina to him during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend have had sex he tells me that he wants me to bring my vagina to him but I don't no what to do. Please help... (31 words)

How important is it to men that women take care of themselves? And should she take care of the house too?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

- do guys think it is important for a woman to take care of herself? i mean like always looking good, having her hair done and nails done? or would they think that she is too high maintenance and be put off?? also when a guy moves in with a girl is it important for her to take ... (101 words)

How do I deal with getting over the relationship part and switch back to friend mode?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright... So my bf (sorta) and i just got out of a really big argument... We are long distance I had cheated, but believe me i have learned my lesson.. and i realize how much he means to me.. i would never ever cheat again.. it was the first time i ever have and it was a huge ... (278 words)

My boyfriend has been verbally abusing me for two years but I cant live without him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im going through a lot of depression.of late my boyfriend is just acting very weird with me.hes always to rude and harsh with me i love him to death and i cant just live without him.im helpless.what do i do i have done everything from my end to be good to him.im fed up.he ... (76 words)

He blows hot and cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - He blows hot and cold. I have been seeing some guy for about 6 weeks and i don't want to expect too much and think he has to be in touch all the time, but i also dont want to think he can treat me however he likes. He was constantly in touch to start with and now he'll ... (113 words)

How do I overcome my nerves when I am meeting his family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

- In a few weeks i am due to meet the rest of my boyfriends family, at a surprise party for his aunt, however i am really really nervous. Just after Christmas (after seeing my boyfriend for only 3 weeks) i met a huge chunk of his family and that day i felt that nervous i thought ... (162 words)

Should the girl always make the first move when it comes to sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

- Should it be right for the girl to always make the first move when it comes to sex?? I have been seeing my boyfriend now for just over 2 months and he's 28. I wouldn't necessarily say that he's shy however some nights when i go down to see him we just sit and watch a dvd and ... (134 words)

Why did he decide to ignore me for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing a guy I really like before I went to Thailand for a month, came home and seen him once.. then he didnt contact me again... up until a few days ago 3/4 weeks later) He always called me on private number so although I deleted his number (so i wouldnt be tempted ... (143 words)

Can a guy man have gay friends? Is it the same as a married man being friends with a single woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

2 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am gay and have a boyfriend and he thinks a gay man in a relationship shouldn't have gay friends. To me that shouts insecurity but from his perspective it is a genuine moral standard. Neither of us had gay friends so it never even came up. I then made a few and he got all u... (213 words)

I really want to know if we have a future!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Having sex with my sex buddy for a year. both have us have recently come out of long term relationships. I am not ready to have a full on new relationship. But would like to know if we do have a future. He dosent give much away and says he likes me a lot but does not love me. ... (149 words)

Is it ok to watch blue films with a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a committed relationship.i and my bf really love and understand each other.well one of my close friend asked me to watch blue films with him.just for fun.i don't know what to do.is it ok to watch a blue film with my friend?we are just friends..while talking with my bf,i ... (72 words)

He doesn't always respond to my texts. Should I keep trying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OK everyone I was kinda seeing this guy in october last year, but ended in novemebr I really liked him and have told him this Anyway my point is every now and then i txt him 2 see if hes ok sometims i get a reply sometimes i dont And sometimes he txts me saying rand... (227 words)

Is it ok to tell my gf that I fantasize about a MFM threesome with her and another guy?

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it ok to tell my gf that I fantasize about a MFM threesome with her and another guy? I am in college with my gf and we have been going out for about 2 years. Lately I have been thinking about what it would be like to have a threesome with my gf and another guy. (no... (146 words)

Is dinner and a film at his place too soon for a second date?

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is the second date too early for dinner and a movie at his place? Don't want him to think something in the wrong direction is going to happen but also don't want to offend him. I'm really old fashioned when it comes to dating...what do you all think? Is it too soon for a date ... (58 words)

Now that it's time for us to meet, he has become distant. Is he trying to give me the brush off?

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have been talking to this guy online for five months and we have been talking on the phone and texting for the past couple of months. The time has come for me to meet him and he seems offish now.im traveling from another city to visit him. We have said some very l... (184 words)

I'm not getting any younger, and I want a chance at happiness. Would it be selfish to leave my partner?

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have two young boys with my partner of ten years. It seems that most of those years have been a series of mounting stresses. My partner has always had difficulty with intemacy; relating to some abuse experienced as a child, but I have always had a high sex drive and so am ... (508 words)

My husband and his female best friend cannot stop communicating! Any advice?

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2 March 2010 (F)

age - I have been with my husband 28 years and married 23 years. He has had a "friendship" with ("R") another woman for 18 years. She was divorcing when he met her, she then got pregnanat and married the father of her 6 year old son. I met her four years after he first mentioned ... (335 words)

What advice can I give my friend? And should I even try with this other girl?

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey aunts and uncles. I've been on here before and got some great advice. I just got a couple questions. my friend (pretty much my sister) is in some trouble. she's currently breaking up with the father of her child. she is in love with an old friend of hers. she doesn't want ... (301 words)

She said she'd get back to me, but still no word four months on

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay, so I'm a middle-aged guy and I e-mailed this woman I went to high school with to see if she wanted to get together and chat sometime. She said she was busy with work, etc., and then finally e-mailed me that "I reeeally want to get together soon" and would write me w... (122 words)

Is pubic hair on a guy more acceptable than on a girl?

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I have been very close to my boyfriend and we talked about sexual things. Not sex though. We talked about fingering and hand jobs and I gave him a hand job. He hasnt fingered me though. Not to share this to the world but he has pubic hair and I am wondering if he will ... (64 words)

My boyfriend has posted a picture of me - bikini clad- on his facebook and now it's attracting unwelcome attention

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend decided to post a page of me on tagged. With pictures of me on my bathing suit. It is attracting all sorts of pervets to the page some much older men. I don't like it. One his friends has now seen the page and I find this shameful. I told him to delete it and he ... (180 words)

Is it worth pursuing?

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - In the real world we live in, if two people start working together, one has a happy family but is not married and the other single and a complete mess but very capable of being amazing with the right events happening in his life, one is the manager and the other is the rookie, ... (309 words)

My boyfriend and father of my three kids won't marry me

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok the question i need to know is should i stay or leave? I have been with this guy for 6 and a half years and have three kids with him. Im only 21 and i want to get married and i feel like im wasting my time. He always tells me he does not want to get married but he is the f... (113 words)

How to get rid of stretch marks

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys well i need some tips on how to get rid of strech mark on the side of my leg a little next to my booty.now i havent had any children i'm not even sexually active at all something i plan to keep going,and i'm still very young and athletic with a slim body.things like ... (67 words)

Should I stay and wait or just go?

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, So ive been wanting to go see my LDR gf who is currently living in texas, but when i told her she told me not to come. She said that she doesnt want me to waste soo much money to come and visit her cause she gunna come back to MD(where i am living) in the summer anywa... (74 words)

Shaving bumps becoming bothersome.

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay this is pretty personal but I just wanna know. I shave down there and after eveytime I get those red bumps and they bother me. I just wanted to know if I'm the only one getting them or if there is any way I can prevent them or how I can treat them. ... (54 words)

In love with someone who doesn't even know my name.

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ladies, I am seriously in love with this one girl but she doesent even know my name I've tried talking to her but I don't know what to say how to impress her or what girls like. I'm not after sex I really love this girl but don't know how to talk to her help? ... (73 words)

Alone and scared hoping to find some Assistance/Guidance.

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was cheating on my wife and "think" I left her to be with the other woman. Subsequently, things didn't work out with the woman I left my wife for, so she leaves me. Thus, I almost immediately begin thinking about my wife and all the good times we had together (completely ... (107 words)

Wanting a relationship, not friends with benifits.

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this boy have been messing around for almost a year...i havnt done anything with anybody else and he hasnt either and he lives at my house.wouldnt you call that a relationship? because to him we are still friends with benifits (i think relationship)..i just dont no ... (74 words)

How much will anal sex hurt and is there a way to make it easier?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so here's the thing. I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend have had sex a couple times and done everything else exept anal. well we tried once and he couldn't get it in. He wants to try it again but when he first tried he said my ass hole is really tight. The head barley made it ... (88 words)

Feeling ready to give my virginity to him.

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am a virgin and i have very strong feelings for my boyfriend. we have know each other for all most a year now and i think that he may be the one i lose my virginity to. how do i get him to see that i am ready to give myself over to him without saying those exact words? am i ... (72 words)

Do guys feel it when a girl orgasms?

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys feel it when a girl orgasms? Do they feel the contractions, or anything else? Since I'm not a guy, I've wanted to know the answer to this for a long time. ... (37 words)

Tips on controlling my outburst during an orgasm

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so here it goes. i am 13 and have recently started masturbating. i have orgasms every single time and its hard not to moan or sometimes scream with pleasure! i usually do it when my parents are asleep or when im by myself. do you know anyways to keep it quiet. my paren... (75 words)

My little brother's ex-girfriend is now having sex with our step brother

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'm probably just butting in where I dont belong but my little brother's (he's an adult) ex'girlfriend is acting like a total hoochie and breaking his heart. She's screwing our step-brother (he's between our ages) and playing them both! If I weren't so short I'd beat... (205 words)

How can I soothe genital warts before my surgery?

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have genital warts and i just want to know maybe some interesting facts about it and i also want to know how to sooth them until i have my surgery. have can you tell if you have them sereve... (40 words)

I finally admit to myself that I have feelings for him, but now he's moving abroad!

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy, we've been talking for about a few months. I used to get these feelings when i'm around him, but i usually brush them off. Then finally, when I choose to accept them, he tells me he's moving this same month and he's not gonna be in the same COUNTRY anymore. ... (93 words)

Does it sound like my ex is angry with me?

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. We dated for a year and 8 months. We broke up because he is suffering from depression. Since the break up we have seen each other once and we text every couple days. He said I was the best he had but it wasn't fair to me for him ... (304 words)

Everything was fine, but after an argument over something minor, she wants her stuff back

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, My girlfriend and I had an argument two days ago. She called me and I ended up calling her back. She answered jokingly and I played along by joking back with her.Prime example; the old commercial when everyone was calling each other up saying wassup. It wasn't the sa... (247 words)

I think my ex wants to reconnect

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a follow up to a question I asked on 2/1/2010. My ex asked my daughter to ask me to call him after a year of being broken up. We lived together for 3yrs, and I had not spoken to him at the time for 9mths. He had been out of a bad relationship of a few mnths(she ch... (210 words)

My old friend is leaving his wife for me, but I don't want to be known as a homewrecker

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, when I was a senior in high school my best friend was a guy named "Jay". We were inseparable, we both kinda had a crush on each other but neither wanted to ruin the friendship that we had. All through college we stayed close friends and then a few yrs ago he moved aw... (417 words)

We have sex about once every 2 months! What do I do?

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2 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Where did my wife go? You could say my life is very typical, to an extreme! Before we got married, my wife did everything, unprovoked. I NEVER pushed sex on her at all. She went down on me in the back of a cab once, I never even asked or flirted about it, totally unexpect... (637 words)

My husband leaves me and his daughter to go out drinking constantly.

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2 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I been married for 4 years i have a a 6 month old girl. My husband drinks to much and i suspect hes using drugs he never wants to take me out anywhere. He just wants to go out and drink with his friends and forgets about us should i leave him or not?... (54 words)