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writes:I'm afraid that if i dont have sex with my boyfriend he will go somewhere else.Help? Reply to this Question
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reader, HefferLynn +, writes (2 March 2010):
HefferLynn is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks so much.i really learned alot
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reader, chloeapple  +, writes (1 March 2010):
Have sex when you are ready too, and because you want to, never, ever decide to sleep with someone out of fear that they won't love you otherwise. I promise, it is far better to have him leave because he isn't getting any, than for him to leave for some other reason after he has slept with you. If he doesn't care enough about you to wait until you are ready, than he isn't worth being with anyway. You don't always have to be in love with the person you first sleep with, but you MUST trust them enough to be vulnerable with them and still feel safe and not pressured.
What he needs is not more important than want you need. Ever.
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reader, preciouss  +, writes (1 March 2010):
if he loves you he will wait untill you are ready.if he doesn't want to wait then he doesn't love you.you mustn't have sex cuz you want to keep your BF unless if you are ready to have it.you can hve sex with your BF but he can still go somewhere else
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 March 2010):
If he does go elsewhere, you're better off without him anyway. Never throw away what you believe. If he presses you, then he's not worth your time.
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reader, rcn +, writes (1 March 2010):
 Then your boyfriend needs to go else where. No guy is worth tossing away what you believe and your principles for. If they aren't with you, just for you even if sex free, they're not your type.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 If you don't give him sex and he goes somewhere for it ,then he is not a worthy b/f.
He is not really in love with you but only have lust for the sex.After he had enough or bored with you , he will dump you and go after another.
In the end is it worth having such a player as your b/f?
If he really loves you , he would wait for it. You need to seek those who are really in love with you and not someone who stays because you offered him sex.
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reader, Faraday +, writes (1 March 2010):
 So what if he does? Your ONLY consideration should be if it's truly what YOU want, bearing in mind that it is probably illegal in your State at your age, and for him too?
At worst, if found out, he could get a prison sentence because in law, you are deemed not competent to give consent, so it counts as Statutory Rape.
If he presses you, it will tell you that his only concern is for his own selfish needs and not considering you or your feelings at all: best show him the door, in that case.
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