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writes:I feel like my Boyfriend dont appreciate me anymore.. ;(whenever i call him he talks to me for like 3 mins and sometimes he just ignores my calls and he blames everything on me..when we fight he just hangs up on me and it hurts idk what to do because he never use to be this way at all he use to be sweet and we would talk for hours and hours...we have been together for 2 years now and i dont want to break up with him bc i love him so much but i just dont know what to do anymore =[ Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 "If you ever want something badly, let it go. If it comes back to you, then it's yours forever. If it doesn't, then it was never yours to begin with."
Bless him and forgive him.
This article may interest you .
Learn to let go..
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/how-to-let-go-of-someone-you-love.html
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reader, Tasha_17 +, writes (3 March 2010):
Tasha_17 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys so much for your advice i really appreciate it but i need to update you guys some....I broke up with him i know it seems hard to believe that i did believe me it was so hard and im trying my best to get over him because i know he is not right for me as much as i wish he was i have to do whats right for me even though its killing me but anyway what made me break up with him is because i was trying to tell him how i felt like talk it out express my opinion on how he is treating me and he got mad and said i was nagging at him and i was just trying to tell him how i felt so he said he didnt want to talk to me because i pissed him off and i was like i was just trying to tell u how i feel and he hung up on me so from there i was like ok im done....so my question this time is how will i get over him...does this heartbreak ever get better because its killing me and does anyone have any tips for getting someone off your mind
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reader, Think pink +, writes (2 March 2010):
 Ok if you dont want ot break up with him because your so in love with him you need to make him fall back in love with you. Its hard but worth it. If you dont call him and show him it dont bother you that hes not putting you first i promise he'll wake up. Once he sees your not worried about him he'll start getting scared he's gonna lose you. A boy dont want a girl that calls him all the time or shows him affection alot . I know that sounds crazy but ive learned the hard way. Back away from him dont call when he calls you say you are busy. And once the tables are turned dont start calling alot and going back to how it was because he will go right back to acting the same way.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (1 March 2010):
After 2 years , the relationship has lost it's sparkle. You need to work at your relationships.
You have to give him some space and yourself too. Go out with your friends and explore your world.
Do not be clingy because it is a turn off.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 March 2010):
When it gets this bad, it's time to give an ultimatum. Either he and you talk and work this out, or it ends. He's still a young guy and is still defining himself, so perhaps he just can't cope with the relationship, or perhaps in growing up he has lost interest. I suggest that you now give him an ultimatum and mean it, because you're just going to become even more unhappy.
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