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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I believe he never physically cheated, but things are unresolved. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Unfortunately when I was pregnant with our son my husband took it upon himself to seek out other people on craigslist and sent private pictures of himself to one of them, well I found out and confronted him. He swears that he never met with any of them and never physically ... (192 words)

I'm torn between two guys, my ex and one who walked into my life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right I'm confused. I'm in love with my ex, I miss him so much. I loved bring in his arms I felt so comfortable, I told my friends how I felt and they said tell him, just as I got the courage to tell him another guy walked in my life. He's funny and kind I don't know hm that ... (98 words)

What can I do to get over this unrequited passion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a fairly new male friend. I have strong feelings for him, I told him about them. He was nice about it but said he could only ever see me as a friend. I said to myself ok, I can live with that, but here is Where it gets confusing... He is constantly hugging me, asking ... (214 words)

Is he just using me for a game or does he see a future even it is just with me as the "other woman"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am falling for a male colleague 20 years my senior. We are both married and I know he loves his wife and she is pretty stunning. We have started texting and it is becoming quite sexual. He tells me things like he is feeling randy etc. We have also said we love each other by... (237 words)

He's barely talking!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok Peoples I need help!! I've been with my boyfriend now for nearly 6 months and lately he doesnt seem chatty and he barely answers me and my texts, he says he's fine but i think theres something wrong and i think it could be me..... so i need your advice and help co... (77 words)

I don't think my boyfriend's mum likes me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont think my boyfriends mum likes me, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. and the other day, he said somthing that i didnt think he meant to say, he told me his mum thinks i moan to much, and just attention seeks? i know i moan, but i dont mean to all the ... (333 words)

I wish it was me he liked!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best guy friend used to be in love with me, or so he says, he says he's never liked anyone as much as he liked me. About a month back he got a girlfriend, it was like a slap in the face when I found out, but I guess thats because I thought he still liked me. While with his ... (156 words)

He's not hitting me up to chat anymore, what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok guys,I'm about to go nuts. I started talking to a guy on tagged probably 2-3 months ago.He would always message me ask me how i'm doing etc.We would have serious convos sometimes,he confessed im one of the very few women he can carry a decent convo with...etc.We ne... (306 words)

He says I'm a great dancing partner, does this mean more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant tell if this guy at my salsa class fancies me... lol. Doesnt sound like the biggest issue of the week but, I've been hung up over a guy for a long time and this is the first man i've looked at since, so I want things to go ok... A week ago i started this salsa class and ... (440 words)

What is your take on this love letter?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and heart. I want the message conve... (1133 words)

Can I call him my boyfriend? Or what? Are we going out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, we have been going out together since the end of Jan. He hasnt made a move on me physically until now. However we have amazing conversation and we know everything about each other. I thought I was more into him but recently he invited me to a black tie event as his date for ... (192 words)

I need your advice guys... What to do for the best???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently accepted to myself that i am in fact bisexual, but haven't really figured out a way to tell my very very conservative family just yet. My question, however, is not really about this. A part of my acceptance of myself involves a girl. I recently started at a new coll... (323 words)

Do I come clean or leave the reason for the break up as is?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I have made a mess of things and I just want to try and do the best I can from the mess I've made! I've been dating this guy for about 6 months and it has been really good and I have NO complaints, this guy is almost perfect.... He has been in Iraq for the majority... (269 words)

How do I get over my insecurities and say "hi" to this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so insecure, it's really bad. I cant give people eye contact because I'm so scared they're gonna judge my face. I know they do it anyways but im scared of what they think, even though I know I should'nt. For example ,I really wanna talk to this guy but I can't because ... (136 words)

I made a HUGE mistake last night!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I made a HUGE mistake last night. In a moment of passion (during sexual foreplay) I asked my GF a hypothetical question of "If I wasn't in your life, and you had to be with one of our/your friends/acquaintances, who would it be? The problem is she answered, and being in the... (149 words)

How do I make him realise just how much I truly miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my ex broke up for good in about november but we had been on and off since june of the same year. no contact between november and early december. he then contacted me and said he is moving a few states away. i was devastated. we hung out many times before he ... (265 words)

These stretch marks are the bain of my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. im really insecure about my body. ive got stretch marks all over my boobs, bum, in-between my thighs, and knees and starting to get some on my hips. the thing is im not even fat, im a size 8-10. i had this boyfriend and when ever we got closer and more intimate i pulled ... (111 words)

Help! When would be the best time to tell him how I really feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so basically i am going out with this really great guy unfortunately he happens to be one of my ex's good friends but sometimes you cant help these things. Ive been seeing this guy pretty much on and off since september and now we are officially together this is all grea... (132 words)

I think I've jumped out of the frying pan into the fire...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age - Hi, I've been dating a woman casually for about 9 weeks. I'm still not fully over my ex who I had a big row with around Christmas but I thought I'd try dating again. Anyway this new lady is bossing me around. She wants me to get a phone with the same network as her so she we ... (394 words)

Why would he stay with me if he misses his ex so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance' for 6 years, have 5 kids. We are going to get married in a few months. I thought we were the most perfect couple. Well anyways back in 09 I found out he was writing his ex through e-mail I never thought he would do that. But it still bothers me and I ... (124 words)

Lies or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - K. So I don't know where to start . I'm 16 and she's 15 . We were going out for almost five months it was starting to get ... Irritating. We were both just being stupid and getting angry at each other. So we decided to take A little break.oh and her reason for the break is ... (798 words)

She got with me for a bet.. now she really likes me but how can I believe her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) age 30-35 - Back in September I went to a church dance with a really nice girl. The dance was at another church and there was a whole bunch of us going back to our church in a van. Most of us fell asleep. Well the girl I went with was asleep in the seat behind me. I fall asleep to. I ... (650 words)

How big a deal IS sex and fidelity in a marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 24 year old married girl. I got married 2 years ago. I dont have any kids and my husband is away for the past year. I want to know how big a deal is sex. I love my husband, but i do not think that I should only have sex with him. I occasionally have sex with my male... (157 words)

Am I just his booty call or does he really like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i met this guy off facebook. He actually initiated the conversation first. We never spoke before, but one day he just decides to message me and we have a nice conversation, we exchange screen names and start talking on aim. He would always be the one to message me first. ... (1504 words)

Friend gave me head while I was asleep.....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was at a party with my GF and we slept on the couch of a female friend that was hosting the party. I was on one end sort of sitting back and my GF was laying in the opposite direction. Well the problem is I wake up at about 6:30 am and look down and the girl (whose hous... (154 words)

I am confused and miss my ex but she's moved on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Any advice please?? I was with my gf for 8 months and everything was perfect, we both got on so well and really loved each other. A few months ago she went back to university and i have had to move away for 18 months due to my career. Everything was initially fine but as time... (365 words)

Problem with husband's communication

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really need help with this and I don't need anyone to tell me that I need to leave him because I have had enough of that. I'm having problem with my husband's communication. He asked me what I don't like about him and I told him but he said that wasn't it becau... (493 words)

"Wide ride and fat ass!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a just turned 31 year old, divorced, but engaged mom of a 7 year old. While I am not overweight, I have a figure that is a little wide and flares a bit at the hips. In other words, I am not fat, but I've got a butt. My fiance has a soft spot and loves to gently prod m... (178 words)

Help! What can I do to get him to trust me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over two and a half years. We currently live together overseas but are going home soon and I am going to start studying next year. I have always wanted to study drama and so will hopefully get into the course I want. My boyfriend however is ... (169 words)

A different question to the "I love my boyfriends best friend" issue.

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, everyone. I am asking a somewhat different version of the "I love my boyfriends best friend" question. As implied, I have fallen for my boyfriend's best friend. My boyfriend and I have been dating 4 years and we are a perfect pair; no fights, great sex, passionate, s... (165 words)

30 and still never had my first kiss...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i am female 30 years old and i never even got my 1st kiss nor 2nd kiss or 3rd kiss. never had a 1st boyfriend either, I know I am very heavy, unattractive face, short, I have been rejected more times then i count. I feel such an abnormal freak. Please don't be harsh, i ... (85 words)

How to get this boy without hurting my friend's feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5152 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked this boy, on and off for about a year. He's really good friends with one of my friends, but he says he doesnt like her at all.. so does she, but in school she's trying to be close with him and he just cringes away. Anyway, i like him and he sort of likes me; the only ... (116 words)

My friend is being all weird... is he just messing me around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok... so basically my best friend was going out with this guy Matt.. ok so Matt is like the best looking guy in the year.. hes gorgeous.. you know high cheekbones, pert lips, models blah blah blah. Anyway.. when he and her were going out he would call me up and ask what to do ... (575 words)

Living together... is it too soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend 2 1/2 months and he's 100% different to any other relationship I've ever had. From day one we met, we got on amazingly, we both felt like we'd known each other years but that massive spark of attraction was there, and still is just as strongly. ... (345 words)

My world fell apart when my husband started this affair...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My world fell apart when my husband began an affair on the 23rd of December 2009. As far as I knew all was well! Its made harder by the fact the girl is everything he has ever tried to change about me.. she is a large girl who is covered in facial piercings and tattoos and ... (1061 words)

He broke me in every way one can think of. Will this pain never end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a strange dilemma. I met this guy six years ago in college, and we began dating, more so because he forced me into it, and I did not want to break his heart by saying no, so I went along. He was someone who has always been brilliant, but he was someone who was awkward, ... (1112 words)

Words of encouragement needed...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel terrible. Everything's not right. Everything has gone downhill. My grades are suffering. I didnt get into the national team. My love life's awful, I'm single and I miss my ex sometimes. Everything doesnt seem right. Can anyone please give me some words of encouragement? ... (65 words)

What do these symptoms mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I had my last period on 4th of march. Me and my husband are having regular sex. On 21st I started having pain in my abdomen which lasted for 3 days. I thought I may get early period. But I didn't. On 25th while having sex I started bleeding from my private organ. I thought ... (106 words)

Pregnant ex has completly shut me out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Can you al please help me. Long story shory, I met the girl of my dreams in Nov 09. We got on so well together. That well that before we knew it, we had each others names tatooed on each other as she wanted a symbol of us. We had separate houses. When I helped her at work, she ... (748 words)

How long do you wait until you simply agree to divorce this person and move on with your life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

- If your spouse came to you and said they did not want to be married any longer, moved their stuff out of the house and began separation procedings. Months after the initial discussion, this same spouse tells you their feelings have grown platonic, they no longer want to have ... (209 words)

I told her I like him, but she was all over him at the cinema!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I went to the movies lastnight with my friend and this boy I really like came too. My friend and him were all over each other..... I am so mad what should i do? I mean I think I might love this guy and I talk about this all the time to her but it sounds like she dont ... (61 words)

How can I stop being so shy around people my own age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so, i wasnt sure what site to post my question on but i decided this one was the best cos i know theres a lot of people on here and someone has to be able to relate to my problem somehow. so any help you can offer please. thanks:) my problem is, im pretty quiet. at home i... (222 words)

I played with fire and I got burned!

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm desperate! I know I did wrong ... (117 words)

Jealous and insecure about my boyfriend's sexual past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

- This has been bothering me for a very long time now, but im very jealous and insecure of my boyfriend's sexual past. He has been with 17 other girls, and just before we got together slept with an older woman (we are 20 she was 40+) this is what bothers me more than anything as ... (322 words)

Girlfriend's late phone calls with another guy!!! All input appreciated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before the split up we been together for like over 3 years. Anyway, when we got back together we wanted to start off new. But now I'm concerned with something. I do not want to ... (397 words)

Love Letters to an Ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK, let’s be real. Love letters to exes don’t really work, do they? Have they ever worked? I wrote one, but haven't sent it yet. Maybe it will work for me, as I know people who have gotten back with their ex and have had successful relationships afterwards. My story is lo... (74 words)

Is my relationship REALLY over???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf last monday.. We have been together for 7 months. The reason why I broke up, one day I asked him about his facebook and he told me that his little bro is using his account and he doesnt want to open a fake account so he can see what his little bro is doing... (391 words)

I don't know how much more I can take of his sarcastic ways...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my boyfriend for more than a year now, we got along great had so much fun together. he made me the happiest girl alive and i felt so lucky to have him as he did with me. but this past month things have changed, its like everything i do is wrong, i feel like he puts me ... (262 words)

Do I continue to hang out with him as a friend even although it kills me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy who goes to the same school that I do while on vacation with my friends last week. We hit it off and and by the end of the week, it felt like we'd known each other for years - we could joke freely and talk seriously with each other like I do with some of my best ... (258 words)

How did my partner manage to get into so much debt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together a year and a half and there is an age difference of 32 years (i'm 18 and he's 50) this is not the problem. When we first met he was out to impress me as all guys do but i thought he was different. he is the love of my life and i don't wa... (461 words)

My partner seems confused, he wants to break it off then he doesn't. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, where to start, Been with my partner only a short period of time but in that time things have been really good, we have met each others families, friends and all get on very well. Every couple has a moment and we had one at 6 months and worked through it because we love ... (271 words)

I wearing my fiance's clothes and she doesn't know!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I wearing my fiance's clothes and she doesn't know!! Ever since I can remember I've found myself really aroused by the thought of being sexually dominated by another man. Then a couple years ago I finally started watching gay porn - I immediately felt 'at home' and very a... (327 words)

Hearing problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well im 15. And i have really sensitive hearing so it really bugs me when i cant hear. Well my left ear feels clogged and i can barely hear out of it. :( it kinda scares me. I'm pretty sure its not water cuz i havent been swiming and i clean me ears every time i get out of ... (109 words)

He can only offer me friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want him back I have been dating a guy for 4 months. During this period he doesn't care for me much. But I loved him so much. One day I couldn't control my emotions and I call him and cried explaining the things I am expectng from him. Also I said if he caanot give me e... (188 words)

Nervous flyer!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone have any helpful tips on how to stay relaxed while flying? I am a nervous flyer and would appreciate any tips!... (23 words)

Girlfriend's late night calls

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

My best friend is being really nasty to me... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! Okay, my best friend and I fell out last year (she was dumped by my other friend and had become OBSESSED with him, I told her I didn't want to be stuck in the middle and she turned on me, that's the jist of it). Anyhow, we have a few mutual friends who since then have ... (141 words)

Why are my two friends being so distant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know whether I'm right or I'm paranoid. lately my 2 best friends havent been talking to me. they're both in the same collage and I'm not. I stopped talking to best friend number 1 or well she stopped talking to me because of her boyfriend she doesnt really talk to ... (187 words)

I feel as if I'm sabotaging my relationship due to my insecurities.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for about 2 and a half months. So far, everything seems to be going well. We haven't had any major arguments, we spend a lot of time together, and we have a lot in common. I met his friends, and he met mine, and he is caring and thoughtful. Here... (230 words)

Does he sound interested from his text message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex split up about a month ago due to lots of arguing and personal issues - we needed space. Two weeks into the break up after no contact between us he tried to reach out to me by texting me asking how I was doing, and I politely told him I needed space, he was ok... (302 words)

Why does rejection have to hurt so badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate that I'm pretty, I hate that boys like me. I hate it, because I have to truly be careful to see through which ones are jerks, and which ones aren't. I've been betrayed once by a very good friend, and the pain from that has weighed heavily on my heart. I feel like I ... (369 words)

We are throwing my sister a surprise engagement party, but it is the same weekend when I have planned a trip away! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that my sister is getting engaged this weekend. This is also the same weekend that I have a flight booked with my friend to go visit our other friend for the long weekend. I honestly don't know what I should do. My family is having a huge surprise party for ... (139 words)

4-5 days late on my period should I do another pregnancy test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all I have been with my partner for a year now, we love each other very much. i usually get my period on time and i am never late. i get my period every 3 weeks (its always been like that since i started when i was younger). 3 days before i was even due on my period i took a... (188 words)

Was I selfish because I concentrated on my career so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Can someone help me out please? I was in a relationship for about 8 months last summer with a girl who i met at uni and lived close to my home. The relationship was amazing and we got along so well, never argued and spent all our time together. She was everything i wanted in a ... (543 words)

Should I be in love at 17 years of age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello im 17 and i had a boyfriend and we just finshed... i dont know what went wrong ..one day he just finshed everything.. i was heatbroken and cried for a day over him.. we talked about it but he still didnt say why we finshed but we are friends now but every time i see him ... (151 words)

My mum's dark secret...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M)

age - I am very upset with my mother and I don't know how to handle this situation. My mother never gives me credit for what I remember. My dad was in the army and was being sent to vietnam. I was the oldest and my brother wasn't born yet. I remember my dad getting dressed up in ... (427 words)

Boyfriend as your best friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Following my recent breakup with my boyfriend, its been very difficult for us not to talk to each other as he always said that our friendship was the most important part of us. Recently we've been texting, casually. He's still able to make me smile but I'm worried I'm doin... (123 words)

I am completely in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am completely in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do. It started a few months ago when we first met and i'd just split with my ex boyfriend and he really cheered me up. i have told him i like him and he says that he does too but the trouble is is that not ... (179 words)

Can you give me one good reason why I shouldn't just dump him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love this guy with all my heart; he's my first love, and every time I think about us breaking up I just start to cry. We began our relationship online in 2008, but since he and I were both under 18 and living on opposite sides of the country, we weren't able to meet until ... (714 words)

I don't know if he really means to break up or if he is rethinking his decision

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for about a year. We were in love, he moved in with me, I spent every Sunday with him and his family, the whole 9 yards. In the last few months we started arguing a lot. He was staying out late, drinking more, etc. Obviously this was the instigator ... (324 words)

He says he wont divorce her because I wont put his name on my house

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old son that he never wanted, took me to the abortion clinic 11 times but each time i could not go ahead with it because i wanted it and he ended up leaving me but came back. I have had my suspicions over the ... (317 words)

Usually I am an all too confident man but this girl has knocked me for six!

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30 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is kind of silly for me, but being an all to confident man, Ive recently ran into a new experience, ive found this hot interesting girl, we started hanging out as she showed up at my next door neighbors house, a freind of a friend, we have been hanging out here and there, ... (270 words)

A much older married man says he loves me as well as his wife, how can this be?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i m a 25 yrs old acrective girl,my problem is that i m in love with a married man he is 43 yrs old.he has one child 14 yrs old.and his marrige is also love marrige.he loves her too much,but he saying he loves me too much also how can its posible...?is it posible.... (131 words)

I feel romantic towards my bestfriend, and bored with my boyfriend

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I choose between two guys I am very close to?? Nr. 1. I am together with him about one year and two weeks ago still loved him. Then suddenly there was nothing left.I lied to him once or twice but told him everything about me.. there are no secretes.i can trust him bu... (126 words)

She introduces me to other women as her boyfriend, but to other men as just a friend

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30 March 2010 (M)

age - What does it mean when my girlfriend continues to see other men she claims are "friends" for drinks. She introduces me as her boyfriend to other girlfriends but only as a friend when introducing me to other men as to not offend them it seems ... (49 words)

I don't understand why I feel so needy all the time

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since I ended a relationship two months ago, i've always been feeling vulnerable, especially when at times things don't go right. Why do I feel as though I really need someone? It's a needy feeling. I didnt feel so before knowing that guy. Why is it that knowing this guy ... (69 words)

I want him to give me a sign about how he feels.

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going on a date with a guy this week who knows I have a huge crush on him. He's been playing hard to get for some time now , but not completely ignoring me. I think we both know the ' lets be friends' routine is a nonsense. I would like him to show some sign of how he ... (73 words)

I still love my ex, and to make matters worse, I just started a relationship with someone else!

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30 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, here's one for the record books! It's a bit long, but it's worth reading...you will be amused! I met a girl nearly a year ago. We don't live in the same city, but both of us are professional athletes and we travel around the country a lot for our competitions. I ... (1020 words)

My fiance has sexual pictues and videos of his ex girlfriends.

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiancé has several sexual videos and pictures taken with past girlfriends. I found them before and we almost broke up. He told me he would get rid of them yet one year later I see by his compter history he has them hidden on a file on his computer. This is a man I am sup... (76 words)

My mum has threatened to kick me out of the house if I don't do what she wants!

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30 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16, pretty independent, mature an very respectful. but lately ive been stressed out an realy upset cause of my mum. she is extremely controlling, in fact she grounded me until i am mature! my mum knows my dream is to be a great chef, and she is doing everything to prevent ... (104 words)

I've never even kissed a girl before. Is this normal?

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30 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Help, I have recently became depressed because I have never been kissed before let alone have had a girlfriend. Is this normal? All the other males have girlfriends and it makes me sick and depressed when I can't find one of my own, hell some are planning to get married when ... (55 words)

He doesn't have morning or nocturnal erections. Is this health issue?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age - My friend is having problems! He used to take a long time to come; he said it was because he smoked pot. Now he has quit pot and he doesn't even have nocturnal or morning erections. Can anyone explain what is going on? He is afraid of doctors.... (53 words)

I'm a thinker and he's a doer. How can we find common ground?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend and i are fighting my point of view- i prefer to just talk and hangout with people when we are at peoples houses to hangout instead of always running around and playing games, i feel as if though that when i want him to sit by me he is miserable and all he ... (560 words)

Oral sex whilst on my period.

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to go down on me while I'm on my period. I've never let anyone do this. My only concern is, should I show up with or without a tampon?... (32 words)

I told him I was not stupid when he asked for a loan. Now he wont speak to me, ...did I handle this wrong?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone please help me out. I have been dating this guy that I once dated before. So getting to know each other would not be a deal. We were so happy getting back together. About a week ago his calls and txt messages had stopped. Even when I would txt him he wouldnt even ... (294 words)

He's 47, I'm 35 - he doesn't want mother of his little girl to find out about me

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* Ok, here is my dilemma: My boyfriend of 3 months and I are very happy together. The relationship is sound and we are on the same wavelenght. Some facts about him; He is 47, lives with his parents (!)never married but, has a 5 year old from his last relation... (955 words)

Should I continue pressuring a friend to have a relationship me even though he doesn't want to?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend and i have known each other for almost 8 years. him and me have been having sex or years. i've always pressure him to be in a relationship with me. we haven't spoken in two months because he got tired of me telling him to be with him. he change his number, should i go ... (67 words)

How can I regain my boyfriends trust?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are on a rocky patch and he doesnt trust me. he says everything will be better once he trusts me again. i've lied about stupid things one to many times. i really want to regain his trust. any advice? im guessing it will just take time... but any other ... (56 words)

Is it appropriate to go to a guys house on a second date?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - BIG question...What's appropriate for a first or second date? I went to dinner with this guy for our first date and now, he wants me to come over his house and he admitted that he was really attracted to him and joked we might end up in bed or something...I'm really new to the ... (95 words)

I don't want to be in the endless breaking up/dating cycle, ... but I also don't want him to move on completely.

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question that will seem like there is a common sense answer. But I will ask it anyway. My boyfriend and I have been on and off again more times than I can count. We have only been together for about 3 months but it feels like years. I honestly don't even like the ... (636 words)

How would you deal with your partner putting pictures of their deceased ex everywhere? Am I being insensitive?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My man have his deceased ex pictures posted on everything, Am I being Insensitive? My man posts pictures of his deceased ex on his profile page. She died a year ago. The picture posted as his main photo is him and her together hugged up. At that moment and time they were ver... (354 words)

I feel guilty for my affair with a married man, ...yet want him to move to my country. What should I do?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i want a couple of months ago to cuba there i met a man which he is married with two kids, we had a affair, I'm going back very soon to see him. i feel like I've falling in love what should i feel very guilty because on top of that his aunt is marry to my uncle and the family ... (76 words)

Two Guys I REALLY Like...Help!

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* I really like these two men: Mateo and Ed (fake names of course). And I just don't know what to do, who to choose, etc. Ed is a sweet guy, 20 yrs older, good-looking, and extremely kind to me. We joke around constantly, tease each other, and yet, sometimes I... (430 words)

Are you likely to fall pregnant having sex during your period?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex well i was on my period and we did it the pull out way cuz we both herd that it was unlikely to get pregnit well your on it. Does any one know what the chances or percentage that i could be pregnit? I wouldnt really mind haven a baby. But i want to ... (70 words)

How can I get my husband comfortable with the idea of me having sex with other men?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for ten years. I think that i have a healthy and realistic view of sex. I have told him that if he ever gets bored with our sex life that he is welcome to sleep with other women. He of course told me that he could never do that. I have a ... (241 words)

My breast size is affecting my self esteem. Any tips on how to make them bigger?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My life is just crazy I guess. I have low self esteem very low I think I am so ugly. Everyone tells me Im beautiful and that I have a pretty smile and pretty eyes, I just don't believe. So I like this guy well love actually I have known him forever but Im scared to go out with ... (131 words)

My boyfriend is in the army and I miss him like crazy.

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have a boyfriend, and he is now in the army. He hasn't left yet but he will in August. He just turned 18 in March. Lets call him....Rambo XD. I love Rambo with all my heart and soul. He says his job doesn't involve any combat so he cant get killed. But I am still w... (279 words)

Is it wrong that I am 42 and dating a 23 year old?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - im a young 42 and recently started a relationship with a 23yr old, looks bit older! sex great and txt each other every day! is this wrong lust or do you think anything can come ov it! i havnt had sex for nearly 2 years so.. but i do find we get on really well and have things i... (88 words)

My husband of 10 years had declared he no longer loves me. Is he just in his cave emotionally?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 10 years. I love my husband. I love our family(three children).. I believe we are truly blessed. He told me a year ago that he didnt love me. I have been trying my best to keep it together. I t has been ok until recently. We do have a good sex life.,But ... (81 words)

Fantasizing about my abusive ex makes me feel perverted.

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a very physically, verbally and emotionally abusive relationship for two years. After a handful of counseling visits, countless occurrences of being reprimanded at work for bringing my phone places so he could call and listen to where I was, countless ripped... (627 words)

I need to gather peoples thoughts because I don't believe my doctor.

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* I have this problem that I went to the doctor with. It used to happen almost everyday but sometimes it's once a week, once a month, multiple times a day, it varies. But my heart will suddenly and without cause, start beating really, really fast. It's unco... (165 words)

Another guy instead of my boyfriend gives me butterflies. Is the allure just that the other guy is a mystery to me?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's to hoping you guys can give me some opinions. I've never been in a serious relationship before the current one with my BF. We've been together for 9 months. Before him I always chased the guy, getting all excited if my crush talked to me, looked at me, etc. It was... (265 words)

Sometimes I feel like a failure and other times I'm great

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30 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sometimes I feel like a failure. Don't get me wrong I'm a happy guy and my grades are way above average. It's just at times there is something I can't do and it's like my mind just shuts down and I am unable to do that or any other tasks. I am a very motivated person and get ... (113 words)

Pregnancy test was negative but I still don't have my period!

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i take a test last week and on my home pregnancy test said its negative , but then i still haven't gotten my period im really scared what is going on with me. But i don't feel any symptons ! soo anyone can help me . I still haven't gotten my period for march i don't know ... (64 words)

It's been a couple of months so would it be appropriate to ask if we are a couple or if our relationship is just casual?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy back in February on a night out we talked for about twenty minutes and he added me on facebook and got in contact the next day asking me out for a drink. We went out for that drink and over the following weeks we've spent quite a lot of time together. He made val... (225 words)

Why did he do that?? He's destroyed me!

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf ( should I say my ex) accused me of cheating and messing him around. and didn't contact me for 2months and i didn't call him either cos I knew he was not interested anymore so i got on with my life hoping hed contact me. he rang me on private..i was out so i tol... (186 words)

He was bummed, and seemed disappointed. What can I do to help our budding relationship?

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So the other night this guy who I really like and me had sex for the first time. I was a little confused because I couldnt tell if he was enjoying it or not... it was hard to see any facial expressions in the dark but I could feel that he was starting to sweat. Did I do ... (106 words)

I think my boyfriend raped me. I'd say 'no' but he wouldn't listen!

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my boyfriend (21) for 2 and a half years. Im 22. We broke up 8 months ago as it was a terrible emotionally abusive relationship. He was so so nasty that I just cracked and eventually developed some type of anxiety. He cheated on me, called me names, ignored me when ... (297 words)

Spent the night with my ex trying to make my co-worker jealous. Didn't work, and the hickies didn't help either!

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30 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i really like a new coworker of mine and we talk to each other at and after work but i dont think shes very interested in me.i spent a night with an ex girlfriend who gave a few hickies and my coworker thought they were gross.i was trying to make her a little jealous but it ... (69 words)

I cum too fast!

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30 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my problem is that, I cum too fast. The second my boyfriend sticks it in, I just cum and idk what I can do to keep myself from cuming so fast. Any tips? Is anything wrong with me? ... (46 words)

I am totally out of control over my feelings, and can't see how a counselor could help me!

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30 March 2010 (F)

age - Hi Everyone, You may remember some of my posts about my text cheating husband. Well, things are no better (because basically I can't move on). Last Fri/Sat he went on a golfing do for a mate's 60th birthday and when he returned home I started accusing him of all sort... (391 words)