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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

18, pregnant and so confused about what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i have recently found out im 9 weeks pregnant and i am so terrified. i havent told anyone yet, not even my boyfriend who i have been with for a year. i am going to tell him when i feel ready, i dont believe in abortion but now im thinking of it as im still young, im ... (158 words)

My moods switch all the time, what is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im an 18 year old girl and over the past 2 years i feel like there is something wrong with me, my moods switch all the time, one minute im hyper and energetic and happy, the next i switch into a really miserable mood when i feel like shutting down and not talking to anyone i ... (130 words)

I know I'm too young for sex, so what should I do to get it out of my system??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and I can't stop thinking about sex. I know that I'm too young and don't want to risk getting pregnant. my parents r very strict n would never let me buy a vibrator. what should I do?... (40 words)

I feel like my boyfriend is bored of me, and maybe he's already cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (Note from Mod: Three questions in one!) what are the signs that a boy is bored of you and fallen out of love with you? i just want to know because i feel like my boyfriend is slowly falling out of love with me and i wanted to know some signs, thanks. x Should I be c... (428 words)

My Mom feels neglected now that I'm really happy with my first boyfriend, do I have to choose between them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I had a quite troublesome childhood with an evil and neglecting father and a mother that was depressed and very fragile. I have siblings but since I was the youngest my mother have always treated me like I was her little baby, and that I would always be her little baby.... (967 words)

When an ex says that he wants to be friends... is that true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for two days then he broke my heart and said that we rushed into this to fast. He said that he knew nothing about me which is untrue. I don’t know why I cried because I never liked him like the way I like my best friend. But he said that we could still remain ... (150 words)

Am I gay/straight/bi or confused?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, i am 20 year old guy, and a virgin =/ it appears i no longer consider myself straight since i had 2 incidents (not sexually but the way that you feel about someone you just met and you want to spent every hour of your time with him), that changed my way of thinking.... (273 words)

Any advice on how to make things better between us to stop our arguing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 1 year and 8 months. I used to be so happy with him and we never argued but recently we have started arguing more and more. Normally by this stage I would have broken up with them but i just cant, i love him too much and know i would ... (101 words)

What should I say to make things up with my estranged brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents always used to favor me over my twin brother and they were really mean to him (they once said that they wished they'd only had me). They'd always buy me things but never him and I used to tease him about it (i know i was wrong but i was young and stupid). When he was ... (92 words)

I fell asleep on her and am really embarrassed about it. How do I approach her now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Last night me and my girlfriend were watching a film and I fell asleep on her. Anyway I woke up on the sofa under a blanket. She left a note saying 'good to see you found my company so interesting, sleep well babe". I'm really embarrassed and I haven't spoken to her since what ... (59 words)

My girlfriend and my ex are comparing notes about my bedroom activities!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have a good relationship but recently something has happened that is really not cool with me. I had to go to my ex girlfriend's place to tie up some loose ends. It's pretty involved so I just want to leave out unimportant details. I told my girl friend ... (367 words)

Should I contact her to express my sympathy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have recently found out that an ex-girlfriend of mine, her father died last July. When I went to qualify this information that I was given, I also found out that her mother had died 3 years ago. I have very fond memories of her, although we have not been in contact for 20 y... (68 words)

Should I tell him the truth or just I say he tripped and fell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my brother had a big argument and I lost it and pushed him down the stairs (I know this was wrong). This knocked him out he has no memory of it, the doctor said he probably won't regain the memories. Should I tell him the truth or just I say he tripped and fell? ... (56 words)

After hearing he verbally cheated on me I feel all these years together have been fake.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost seven years now. Last year I found out he was cheating on me through email. The girl he was talking to had an ex that actually told me. I guess they used to chat online alot back when they were younger. They some how got in touch ... (301 words)

Does my best guy friend like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. So, I was wondering if my best guy friend likes me? We get along so well. We're constantly chatting, laughing, and having a good time together. We make a lot of eye contact, sometimes during class we'll randomly look at each other, or he'll make a sexy face at me (that's ... (149 words)

Why did he make this comment to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - last night my boyfriend made a freaky comment to me. i was lying down and when i got up i said im starting to feel like an old woman because i was aching, he turned and said "your body is taking its toll being pregnant" and i turned and said dont say things like that, i dont ... (121 words)

Not been on a date for aaaaaaaages and need some advice guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Readers, tomorrow I am going on my first date since splitting with my bf of 9 years in Aug '09 (after I discovered he was cheating on me), and I am terrified and need some advice, please! We met via an online dating service (never thought I'd use such a thing, but my friend ... (213 words)

Where can I find out more about Indi cars?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone i am really into racing and i have been karting since i was young and when i get older and when i have the money i want to go to america and race there. my dream is to race in the indy car series and at some point when i am in america i was going to go to ... (150 words)

Advice needed! Does he like me or is he just a player or just wants to hook up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright well there is this boy in my school hes in 7th grade and im in 9th im older than him but anyways okay around the beginning of the school year he always ask for a hug i don't know him and i was like "umh do i know you" "and no i wont give you a hug" and he kept doing ... (166 words)

Is he too old for me or should I continue to pursue him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 14 in May and i really really like this guy in my school but he's 18 in August so there's four years between us, plus he's leaving school soon. I asked him out once and he said he would - IF i was his age. We're really good friends already so should i pursue him or just ... (65 words)

Is he attracted to me, he teases me so much, please help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He is really lovely, and he teases me about random things like my shoes, teasing me about the state of them when they were falling apart on several occasions, then when I wore decent ones for the first time he was like 'oh glad to know you're prepared to spend a few extra quid' ... (403 words)

Why do I feel so sad all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think that it's normal to feel sad most of the time? sometimes i'm happy not always. i feel a sadness inside that i can't get rid of. it feels like i'm dead already. i try to keep a happy face 4 my kids and family... but deep down i just want to run far away. Can you ... (66 words)

Her protective mother made up break up. Should I have gone along with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship with a girl I never physically met. We was going to meet but something always got in the way. Her mum is very protective of her because she got raped in the past and that's why we haven't met. Her mum says she likes me but can't allow me to ... (153 words)

My wife wants another child, ..but I am not sure I can cope with her mood swings.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - We have a two year old daughter..a bit minnxy..but very independent. trouble is, my wife would like another and although I'm quite keen, my wife does suffer terrible mood swings through period and did suffer extremely when pregnant before and I'm not sure i can or indeed want ... (93 words)

Could these negative pregnancy tests be wrong. I hope so!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my husband and i are trying to conceive, and my last period was in january, i completely skipped over feb and i took 2 tests but both came up neg. i felt pregnant, my boobs are bigger than what they were before, enough for my husband to even notice, and i've been ... (176 words)

How can I make up for cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - right i have a boyfriend who i have been with for over 10 months. i cheated on him just before christmas. he knows about this and i was completley honest but feel like i need to make it up to him, how do i do this?... (46 words)

Recently split, tough choices ahead

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hello, me and my girlfriend have just split up after a year, its really tough at the moment, feeling lonely. although it was my decision i do really miss her, we got along great but the physical side of our relationship just wasn't ever there, which i think is a massive par... (155 words)

Why do I need to shave everyday, and what can I do to stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i have a bit of a problem, and i dont know if this is normal or not. when i shave my legs, armpits, or anyother part of my body it grows back within the next day, so i have to shave everyday and its really winding me up. the thing i dont get is i get hair in unusaul ... (179 words)

Can me, a gay guy, be in love with my best friend - a girl??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! :( im a gay guy and im so confused... im 16 and im definately gay theres no question about it. I fancy guys, ive had sexual relations with guys and everyones knows me as the "gay guy". Im totally infatuated with a guy from college he's amazing and i want him so ... (318 words)

Is there any way I can stop blushing. It makes me so self conscious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old, i like my life and am a happy girl most the time, have a good relationship with my boyfriend and family, there is just one thing that really gets me down i blush all the time over the most silly things, i literally go beetroot and i can feel my face burning, ... (184 words)

What can I do to lift this feeling of lonliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive recently been made unemployed, i have had failed attempts for getting to a job. my boyfriend is never with me anymore and always at his mates, my friends are all still at school and im feeling really lonely lately as my sister has moved away aswell, i dont know what too do?... (53 words)

Am I overreacting about him adding attractive single girls to his Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a long distance relationship for just three months. We were doing pretty good except for a few minor issues. He speaks of love and marriage. We had a conversation regarding how we both believe that talking to the opposite sex online is a doorway to infidelity / ... (318 words)

My boyfriend does not respect the rules of my house. Am I being unfair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Im having a little bit of trouble with my bf and im not to sure if this is the relationship for me anymore. The reason being is that i find him very selfish, big headed and just down right rude some of the time and it gets me down really badly. Im at Univeristy ... (583 words)

Should I date him if where on seperate sides of the cool line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, i hang out with the jocks/preps but i am friends with everyone. i just reacently developed a crush on what you would call a slacker. but i don't see him like that really. hes so nice and a good guy really. but i know how it doesnot work out because of who you hang out with, ... (71 words)

I have approved of my wife having an affair. Do you think this will lead to problems in the future?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is having an affair with an older man at work. She started this relationship around 10 months ago. She told me about it 1 month ago. They never had sex yet because she is 8 months preggy. we have talked about her having another man before and i have approve of it. I ... (82 words)

How can I spice up a boring sex life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Im 19 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and our sex life is getting boring. I thought about a 3some but i dnt think he would go for it and how would u go about that? any advice on how to spice it up would be very helpful. Thank you.... (57 words)

How do you know when he has cum? Does he pull a face?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi how do you know when a boy has cum during sex? it just confuses me coz i dont know what face they pull or what sound they make when they get to that moment, i never seem to know when my boyfriend has cum. i feel wet and soaked after sex down that area and sometimes i... (82 words)

I'm gay but falling in love with a woman

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a gay man. In my life i've never been sexually attracted to a woman, only men. My dilemma i now I think I am in love with a woman. Im not sexually attracted to her but I believe I love her. Is this normal? ... (47 words)

I haven't been able to bring him off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello people Ive been seeing my new guy for about 2 weeks ,we have slept together and hes never cum when doing anything what is all this about?? I no he does smoke weed and is always drinking down the pub ive just never experienced it with any other guy ive been with ( hes ... (169 words)

I feel trapped; I want to leave but he makes me feel bad them I end up staying! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so there's been so much going on in this relationship. I'm 22 and my bf is 21. We've been together for two years and lived together for 1. Ever since being with him I lost alot of my friends and family. So at the beginning of our relationship I would still talk to my ex ... (351 words)

First time questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 21 years old. Tomorrrow, me and my girlfriend are going to have sex for the 1st time in our 2 and a half years relationship. So here are a few questions I want help with from experienced people: 1. How hard or gentle should I be with her during intercourse? Will goi... (205 words)

How many partners has he had?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Readers, I have this fascination with each boyfriend i have ever had, to ask about past relationships. with my latest bf i asked him numerous times how many women he has slept with. each time answered is a different number sometimes less and sometimes more. i dont know if this ... (78 words)

I hate the father of my unborn child!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

- Im 26 and 34 weeks pregnant by my ex. We were spiltting up when I fell pregnant but I didnt want an abortion and my ex said he will stand by me. However, as time has passed I have grown to dislike him so much that I dont want anything to do with him. For the past 7 months of my ... (548 words)

She said she wanted me gone from her life forever, then she texted me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. This girl I was in love with for 2 years, told me not to bother her anymore and she'll not bother me too! She's turning 19 soon. She had on and off feelings towards me. She told me she had feelings for me, wants me and don't want to lose me. But was in a relationship with ... (291 words)

We're arguing over dumb stuff while she's ill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I argue. My girlfriend is going through an amputation of her leg soon and several surgeries before hand. She definately feels helpless and argues with her mother constantly. I love her so much and we've been arguing a lot. Stupid things. Like when I visit her... (112 words)

Missing my LDR terribly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a commited relationship.i and my bf love each other like mad..its a ldr.ok so the situation is that few months back my bf used to visit me every month and we used to have sexul activities...we also had oral sex bt couldnt have sex.now its been 3 months i haven't seen ... (175 words)

Could her "ball sucking" cause problems for me in later life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am getting concerned over something my girlfriend does to me almost every day. I am worried that it may have long term affects on my sterility, or worse. We have a great sex life (she is really hot!) and make love almost every day. During foreplay, she sucks my balls i... (257 words)

I'm not happy with my body at all... how can I get out of these feelings of paranoia?

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is not really a relationship problem, but it`s about finding your existance so it has some conections with love relationships. I`m not satisfied with my body - I`ve never been fat, but I constantly think that I should be skinny. I`m 170 cm tall and I have 53 kg. 3 ye... (250 words)

My lecturer's stares are becoming very uncomfortable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Am 24 and in the university. I have a lecturer that keeps staring at me and at times when he stares at me he starts saying things about himself (things like i dont smoke, drink etc) at times he even miss words. The way he stares at me makes me loss concentration i cant even ... (117 words)

My wife pre empts all lovemaking by saying what she wont do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I have been married for 20 years, love my wife dearly, we have a good sex life. I would do anything for my wife , sex wise too. My concern is everytime we want to have sex, foreplay , the first thing she says is I am not giving you a blowjob ? This really hurts me, i ... (107 words)

I am not interested in maintaining a friendship with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with my gf for 7 years and all of a sudden out of no where after this past xmas she turned around and left me saying she didn't feel the same and wasn't happy (mind you no signs of being unhappy) but needed to know if she was going to miss me...in turn I did the wrong ... (251 words)

I love him but he is a stoner and I wonder if there is better for me out there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. I love him so much and the thought of him not being in my life or being with someone else breaks my heart. Our relationship is really good sometimes -meaning we get along so well and have a blast together but other times it ... (228 words)

Should I wait a bit or move on?

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi guys...met a guy on a dating site a good few weeks back he joined my msn and we chatted a bit..i felt he was a cautious guy as he said he had been hurt in the past but he told me that i seemed like a nice normal girl..which i am!anyway we swapped numbers last week and i rang ... (129 words)

Is it normal to feel pity for your ex if you think they might be getting cheated on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to feel pity for your ex's current situation? I mean, in my case, the guy I used to date "suddenly had a change of appetite" and went for another girl. Or in other words, he dumped me for someone else. Yesterday he wasnt in campus the entire day. I saw tha... (168 words)

My husband says I do not please him sexually. I'll try harder,... but what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm having an problem with my huzzie....Our problem is in our early year or two married i use to lie to him alot and the reason for that is that he never wanted me to do anything for my self or go anyway things like that he never liked me to go by my mother so i use to go ... (338 words)

I keep dreaming about the lap dance my husband got during his bachelor party and don't know how to heal this hurt.

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've seen some similar questions to this, but I'd like to get your advice on mine. I've been married three months to a wonderful guy but for most of our relationship, we have been apart from each other. He lives in the US and I, somewhere in Southeast Asia. ... (405 words)

Has anyone taken a partner back after an emotional affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if any of you have ever forgiven your partner and taken them back after an emotional (non-sexual/physical) affair? I am seriously considering taking my partner back. I can't believe how much healing we've done with our talks since I dealt with the grief. ... (282 words)

Help me win my ex back before she ruins her life with alcohol poisoning and one night stands!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi there, i just got dump by my girlfriend, after a 2 yrs relationship..well mostly its my fault, not that i cheat or an big major asshole phychopath but mostly i am way too busy workin and i dont put enough effort to spend time with her...and i start missing her important days ... (481 words)

My boyfriend makes me feel insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend to death - I feel like we're perfect for each other and we communicate really well and love each other so much - but we have a huge problem. Firstly - Because of our culture we do not have sex, but we are soon to get married. I am a very insecure girl... (546 words)

Why does he want to stay married to me if he doesn't want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age - my husband and i have been married for 14 years, he has been gone for the past 10 years. I tried to give him a divorce in 2002 because he asked for one, when he received the papers, he wouldn't sign them. He has been living with the other woman for the past 10 years. why ... (60 words)

Should I ask him to commit to me when he goes away touring with his band?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for nearly a year now, and the beginning of the year we've started to become more serious ( seeing each other the whole weekend and week, he admitted he is in love with me and is crazy about me etc) he told me he isn't seeing anyone else either. The thing ... (125 words)

I know he is married, ..but I like him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - there this guy that i work with 2 days a week, he's married. we exchanged numbers due to work contact. he starting texting me and we were having a banter and joke for a few days. i saw him at work 3 days later and we were really flirty. he has sent me loads of texts during work ... (190 words)

He lies, cheats, drinks, watches porn, and wont have sex with me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - help my partner wont stop lying. drinking. he has cheated on me with a woman from his work. have found text messages from another woman he lied and said it was his sister. he barley wants to have sex with me, once saying i was too fat, so not true. even cheated with a very fat ... (69 words)

He said he only wanted friendship, but now he is in my country he wants to meet up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What do i do? Sometime back i asked help on how can i go about my X, and everyone one discouraged me not to go out with him, 1. because i dont think i know him so well or even love him 2. because it was going to be in a dinstance relaationship(he lives in a neighbouring ... (185 words)

I am female, watch porn, but feel awkward watching sex scenes in movies if my boyfriend is around.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know my boyfriend and me both enjoy watching porn, tho we never speak about it to eachother. it seems socially awkward. i masterbate to porn behind his back sometimes, i dont believe he even knows. and i dont believe he masterbates to porn(unless he is hiding it well). ... (109 words)

I am not interested in sex anymore, ...am I falling out of love or just bored with the same ol things.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - READ THIS!!!! PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!! okay. so. my boyfriend and i are both 20 years of age. have been dating for 3 years now, and for the past year, i have completely lost almost all of my sex drive that i used to have with him. like most relationships, we began our relati... (365 words)

He sent flowers and a bear from overseas, but I am not happy coz they arrived at night after I waited all day for a call.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone! okay,so it was my birthday a week back and my best friend stays in another country. He sent me flowers that reached me the evening of my birthday and a cute bunny bear that said I love you. But throughout the day,I was waiting for a call or a text from him,wi... (109 words)

My loyalty is to my deceased wife, ... so how can I stop other women hitting on me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

25 March 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have four beautiful daughters who mean the world to me. They range from 13 months-8 years. I became a widower 8 months ago and my daughters and I are still dealing with the shock and grief. There isn't a second that goes by that doesn't make me miss my dear wife. This brin... (590 words)

The poor guy is in love with me, but I only went for him as a challenge and now cant stand his clingyness and sensitivity.

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Before, I believed myself to be extremely loyal and a great girlfriend, however I've come to realize that I am not one for committment in a relationship, and I don't know how to fix it. I am my boyfriend's first girlfriend. I was the one who went after him first as a sort of ... (659 words)

How big of a deal breaker are stretch marks on a guy?

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25 March 2010 (M) age 30-35 - hi i know its weird to hear that from a guy but i wana know what girls honestly think about stretch marks on a guy? im fit, and good looking guy, and i think im not short too (5'10) but ive got shtload of stretch marks from gaining weight too fast. they are not "visible"... (131 words)

How do I get through this game she's playing and stop it all?

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* im a lil frustrated and ticked off at this situation im in. i have strong feelings for this girl i work with. shes extremely attractive, one of the nicest people ive known, and is into alot of the stuff im into. but she has a boyfriend. she says im a great guy ... (514 words)

What sexual positions are good for couples with large height variations?

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - me and me gf are really different when it comes to height,I am a foot and a half taller than her so intercourse is complicated are ther any positions that we could use that doesn't strain our hurt either partners?... (40 words)

We get on soooo well but he physical appearance puts me off... help!

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend and I live together right now and I am planning on buying a house and having him rent from me there too. We are incredibly close and are basically never apart unless we work different shifts. We work at the same restaraunt and everything. The problem is that he ... (449 words)

She wants to end our affair to pursue a family life.

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Internally I'm going crazy! I've been holding this stuff inside for nearly 4 years without sharing it with anyone, and it is eating me up inside. I'm married, and I'm having an affair with a woman I met several years ago. We met innocently enough and seemed to click immedia... (368 words)

Wife says she is faithful, but likes teasing other guys?

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are in our lower 30's and had a recent bad period where she said she was bored with our relationship and wanted to leave me. I made some changes and started spending more time with her and was able to turn things around. Even though she doesn't want to leave ... (79 words)

So, should I stop hanging out with him so much, or get even closer with him?

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen and my history teacher (who's 24) has started openly flirting with me. It's so weird. He's really cool, and we have a lot of inside jokes... I hang out with him pretty much every day after school because my mom works late and can't pick me up on time. My teacher's ... (162 words)

Why does my husband post perverted uotes on his blog for all to see?

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my husband post perverted quotes from movies in his blog? Is he wanting to gain attention from a female friend on his buddy list? Everyone can read it including the people he works with since they are on his friends list. Is this normal? Am I over reacting? Our ... (59 words)

I had sex with my sisters teacher. Would this be a relationship that could be pursued?

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just recently I had some relationship trouble in my life. I have a sister who is quite younger than me who is going to the school I went to. She is in fifth grade and has the same teacher I had. She told him about what had gone on. At her school play he told me that I could ... (152 words)

Is it safe to have another abortion when my last was only in December 09?

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently went through an abortion in December of last year. The baby was my current boyfriend's. Well, I'm extremely worried that I could be pregnant again. I'm not 100% certian. I'll take a test in about a week. But I'm having similar symptoms as with the last pregnancy: ... (162 words)

Facebook concerns.

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25 March 2010 (F) age 51-59 - *OP's own title* 1, I see more and more people installing something like ""who checked your profile""... That creeps me ,because I do like to check profile with innocent curiosity, but I dont want to look like a stalker because IM not.. Do you guys think it really works I h... (133 words)

We were attracted to each other, but now he does not message me back. Why?

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25 March 2010 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for over 3 years. We met through Facebook and have spoken through chat programs as well as over the phone since then. If one person was single, the other would be in a relationship, meeting up didn't seem "right" since we each have flirted and ... (286 words)

I am scraed something is going wrong with my pregnancy

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I think im going crazy. Im 15 weeks preg.... and I have pains. And im haveing cramp like pains. Some times if I move 2 quick its a sharp pain. It don't last long less then 3 sec... and also if I sneeze pee comes out. Also sometimes I feel like something his puching my blader ... (109 words)

Should I risk removing her from my life hoping it would inspire her to date me instead?

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so let me just give you guys a little bit of my backstory before I get into my question. I have a friend. She is a girl. I'm in love with her (heard it a million times before, I know). So I asked her to be my girlfriend a couple months ago and she rejected me because "there ... (241 words)

I would cancel plans with anyone to be with her, ... but she won't do the same for me.

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I beleive that your partner should come first, come before your friends, except in emergencies of corse. I also beleive that any arrangements made with friends should not be set in stone and can be cancelled at anytime if your partner wants to be with you, no matter why. My p... (190 words)

How do you make a three person relationship work?

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I just want to know if anyone is in a 3-some relationship. If so can u tell me how you make it work cause I'm in one and sometimes i feel uncomfortable. ... (32 words)

Are my instincts trying to tell me something or is this just paranoia because of what happened to me?

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to deal with the premise that there are so many paedophiles active and within the government. I'm 19 and when i was at school i was abused by a teacher from when i was 12 till when i left at 18. The school never did anything about it and covered it up, i went ... (430 words)

Is there a chance for us if she moves back here?

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so recently my LDR girlfriend broke up with me. She said that this relationship wasn't working for her and she just wanna be my friend. She told me she don't wanna be in a relationship nomore so don't wait up for her and that she hope I find the right girl. I remember she ... (171 words)

Needs vs Needy?

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like concrete advice on the difference between being needy and needing someone. How do you convey needs without coming across needy? Please give examples. Thanks!... (32 words)

My ex is back in my life, and I don't really want her there

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys and gals, Recently my ex-girlfriend contacted me. We haven't spoken in 8 months or so, (she broke up with me). Now she Kind of entered my life again, she had a very nasty time last couple of months. She kind of blamed me for not being there, however I was tryin... (169 words)

I'm having trouble moving on because I don't know why he dumped me

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I hope you can give me some opinions on this. I met this guy last year and he asked me out. We hit it off really well but he had to leave town for business right after our first date. While he was away for about a month, he called me every second night, texted me... (345 words)

In love with my b/f and falling for another guy too

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i need advice i am in a relatonship , and i was not looking to find someone else , but i started talking to this guy and he is the most amazing guy ever ! and i always ask my boyfriend to comment me and be cute and say cute things to me and he says that he cant , a ... (227 words)

I'm seriously considering ending it with this mama's boy

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend (not for the 1st time really, but the breakups have only ever lasted 2 days at the most) and I'm so ridiculously confused. Here goes: we've been together for 4 and a half years. Since I was 15, and he 18. I met him through mutual frien... (649 words)

The baby girl I had adopted is in my class!!! (I'm teaching her!)

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm an 8th grade teacher and when i was younger I had a baby girl and put her up for adoption because i was only 15 at the time i had her. Now I recently recieved an email from the parents of a child informing me that my daughter was in my class. Now whenever I look at her i ... (127 words)

How do I tell my friends I'm moving away?

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello again peoples, I'm finding it difficult to confide in anyone at this point in my life because I'm afraid I'm going to regret it, like I regret most things I do. I live in South-east england, it's quite busy, always something happening, quite busy, quite a lot of crime. ... (292 words)

Does this brother - sister relationship seem strange to you?

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25 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend (21) seems unhealthily too close to her 13 year old brother. She calls him sweetie all the time and seems obsessively interested in his life particulary any girlfriends/relationships. She has him round her house every Thursday night and they watch a movie etc and ... (80 words)

When did your little girl start to grow up?

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25 March 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Maybe this question is irrelevant to the point of this site. But I figure I'll give it a shot. I have four daughters. My oldest is 8-almost-9 and in third grade. A few of her friends are growing up fast. They wear deodorant, bras (even though there truly is nothing to suppo... (546 words)

Cultures, Shyness, Both of us or...

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Detailed so that I can get careful analysis. I apologize for the length but I want to learn and leave it.? So, I want to know what I can do to grow from this experience and help with the future: Please tell me all the possible lessons I should have got out of this. I liked a... (976 words)

I don't want to tell him the baby is NOT his!!!

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am the one who posted pregnant by my old flame I am pregnant by my old flame and have a boyfriend, we have been together for 5 years and its been rocky, I have messed with my old flame two times, I am pregnant and have not told my BF, he is very violent and I can't tell him ... (114 words)

Porn stars!

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25 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my husband comment to porn stars and thinks its okay? He has our family picture his default image on his site. I told him a dozen of times that it is embarrassing to me. What the heck is wrong with him he doesnt get it?! Am I over reacting??... (52 words)