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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My problems started a few weeks ago, when my boy friend of 3 and a half years admitted that a girl that he is always texting likes him. He said that he would talk to her and sort it out, saying that he just wants to be friends. But he's started to act completely out of character. He started talking to her more and becoming distant and has gone completely off sex. He has changed his password on most things and keeps everything private even though we've never had any secrets. We have started arguing about it all the time lately and its gotten really hard to cope with. on friday he decided to tell me that he wanted space to try and figure out what is going on. When I asked if he still wanted to be with me he said that he didnt know... I have given him what he wants but cant help feeling i'm getting the raw end of the deal. Can anyone explain exactly what he is thinking, sometimes he wants me and then he doesnt... I'm so confused...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 March 2010):
Let him go. To suddenly go off sex and change all passwords would indicate that he is probably cheating. And to then say he doesn't know if he wants to be with you seals it. He's not the one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): I don't know what he's thinking, but give him his space. In the meantime take this time to find some inner peace with yourself and focus on your self worth. Know that this situation is not your fault. He's a coward because he doesn't have the guts to tell you what's really going on. If he chooses to be with this other girl then konw that he wasn't and isn't worth your time. Hang in there and keep your head up!
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