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I've fallen for my best friend, but I'm not sure where to go from here

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - ive grown really close to my bestfriend. We started off as friends but over the past year have just become closer and closer. Now we spend practically all our free time together (we are both at uni doing the same course and share a flat together). I definitely feel there is ... (524 words

I never thought I might be gay, but ...

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I've got a confusing situation, rather situations, on my hands. I have had feelings for the same woman for the past five years, and eventually came clean to her, and admitted everything. She took it well at first, but our friendship ended. I didn't speak to ... (273 words

Several arguments led to a break up - is there any chance he will want to be back with me again?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi, my ex and i broke up in november. This was due to arguemens from moving house, buying a doberman, money, being told he doesn't love me and i ended up seeking advice from his male boss who confessed feelings for me in the space of 3 months. we had been living together for 2 ... (241 words

How can I be happy when I'm so neurotic?

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Iv only just realised that im Neurotic and life is really miserable. I just want to be happy for once in my life, without something really minor effecting me? How can I be really happy? and what can I do?thanks!... (46 words

How to I break up without breaking his heart?

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - i have beem with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months now and when we have good times like when he isnt in a bad mood, the times are good, however when we agrue its bad and it seems to be more recently when ever i see him its good when i dont so like if we are on the fone or ... (171 words

Does this define this guy as a player?

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Why does this guy i used to like "play" my friend , when we have a history. Does that define him as a player? I heard he was, but i refused to believe it untill i saw it with my own eyes. If Im honest, from the bottom of my heart I still have feelings towards him Or is he ... (96 words

Should I feel odd about the cyber sex that I had?

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well I am not quite sure what I am asking... a few weeks ago I ended up having cyber sex with a girl I have known online for a few months. It wasn't really planned, but we had admittedly found ourselves very attracted to each other. We talked about sex for hours one e... (169 words

Could they be more than friends?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My fiance has a female friend who's been living in another country for a few years. He used to take care of her cat when she'd go on vacations and such (before we met). Now this same girl is coming back to our country, the US, and is wanting to go out to lunch or dinner with ... (85 words

Why is she like this and how to make her talk to me again?

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - my best mate went out with this girl and i started to talk to her over msn and facebook she and my mate broke up and i told her that i liked her she said it was sweet and then i made the mistake of telling her that i loved her but she let it pass and we didn't speak for a while ... (172 words

Help - my brother-in-law is hitting on me!

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is kind of long, so thanks in advance for those who read and respond. :) I am married to a wonderful man, "Jay". We have a very good relationship, and talk about everything, but there's one thing I don't feel I can bring up to him at this point. It's concerning his o... (790 words

Was I wrong to tell him not to expect sex right away? We met online.

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17 March 2010 (F age - I met a guy online three months ago. We hit it off right from the start with tremendous passion and chemistry and have butted heads a few times too. We were supposed to meet next week and he was going to come out here and I requested he stay in a hotel. we have discussed sex ... (207 words

What subjects should I pick for my GCSE's?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello Everyone! (: I was wondering if ye could give me some advice, Okay so im doing my junior cert this year(GCSEs) and i have to chose the subjects ill be doing for my leaving. and i havent a clue what to pick, I have to choose between 1.Music 2.Accounting 3.Tech ... (135 words

Signs of attraction?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I was wondering if any guys could help me out. Are there any body language signs that guys give when they are attracted to a girl? What are some signs of attraction? Thanks!... (34 words

She says she wants to be single, but we're hanging out a lot

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17 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 2 months now. She is the one that decided to break it off because she felt that things weren't working out. She said that now was not the right time for a relationship and that we can try again later. The first 2 weeks were ... (351 words

Am I the only one who fancies much older men?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 15 and all the men I fancy or have ever been fixated by, may they be celebrites or people I know, are in their 30s. I've been like this since I started secondary school. If I walk past a guy who looks my age and is attractive, I am not interested at all. I just love olde... (112 words

My Fiance broke our engagement.

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17 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Please I need advice in what to do to get my Ex fiance back. Have few Questions? please give me good advice. My Ex and I were together for almost 2 years, got engaged last december, looking to get marry this coming april, we are going to close in a house by april too. I am ... (593 words

Teacher marks me absent when I'm there but I need proof to work things out.

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my mum is gone on Holiday and am at college (NOT uni) ive been tryna find a job soo much but ive not had a any luck yet. the whole week ive been in college and am doing my work. one of our teachers we dont really have to go to his lessons just gotta give him work. w... (182 words

How do you make a male orgasm feel better?

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17 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - what does a male orgasm feel like, and how do i make it better?... (14 words

I have fallen in love with an older, married man. How do I overcome the pain?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I started an apprenticship a year ago to be an offshore electrician. There I met a guy almost 20 years older than me (I am 21) who taught me on one of the offshore platforms. He looked after me really well and was so kind and taught me so much and eventually I developed a big ... (320 words

How can I get her respect with wanting to be with me?

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Plz help me out somebody...m in a great depression as i loose all my respect. Im in a 3months old relationship with a girl who proposed me as she liked me back from 2years. Now everything has changed, she never calls me never use to take care of me as she did before. When ever ... (142 words

How can I win my friend over?

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - basically me and my close female friend get on great but recently i realised that i was in love with her and so i told her but got the lets just be friends for now speech. its been about a month now but i'm finding it really hard to find out to talk about with her and so we ... (270 words

How do I raise the subject without looking easy?

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been fooling around with guy and it was fine to begin with me just french kissed and touched each other up, we have moved on to my giving him a hand ob, he now wants me to go down on him, I am a little nervous (never done it before), I have so far refused as he never ... (126 words

How do I get my long-distance fiance to reciprocate more?

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - My fiance and i are far away for the moment. He is living in usa and i am living in uk. The situation is difficult because there is 8 hours of difference, so we try to chat with the webcam as much as we can. However i feel like i have a lot of romantic details and try... (159 words

Should I come clean and take my punishment?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I cheated on my husband in a moment of passion, I am such a bad person and regret it, what should I do? I work as a bartender and this older guy that stays after closing time as a friend (we recently have had a couple break-ins/robberies in the neighborhood of my bar) misun... (303 words

Does my teacher's behavior mean he likes me in the "wrong" way?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need to know if this teacher in my school who doesn't teach me likes me. I'm being very serious, I'm not giving him any hints or egging him on that I like him. In fact, I wish I didn't like him...it would make life so much easier right now. Oh well - what can you do? :/ ... (330 words

Worried about my first time.

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - hi guys i am in a serious relatioship i have been seeing her for a year and we both feel ready for sex just we have not done anything else yet. i am worried if something goes wrong what should i do ? ? ... (55 words

Why can I not get my boyfriend to orgasm?

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Why doesnt my boyfriend orgasm when i give him a handjob, i try but he has to finish it himself, please answer i need help!... (25 words

My ex is using the kids to prevent me from being with the woman I love

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17 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - What should I do? I met this young lady in which I fell in love with problem is we do not have any children together but I have children from a previous relation. Well the mother of my children moved my kids more than 11 hours away and the only way that she will bring them back ... (86 words

Do I forgive him for hitting me because I love him?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - i am in a relationship since past 4 years and my boyfriend hits me time and again sometimes he has reasons and sometimes he dosent have any reason. we both love each other a lot and thats d reason why i keep forgiving him? i really dont know what to do plz help... (53 words

Lost the love of my life, help

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17 March 2010 (? age 41-50 - So my girl friend who is the love of my life broke up with me recently. We dated about one year and it was the best time of my life. When we met I had many girls as friends, some were girls I dated in the past and some were just friends. We had a long distance relationship ... (335 words

Does my teacher's suppressed smile hold a hidden meaning?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Although he is friendly and chatty, he has a very dry sense of humour and is oh so serious and VERY level headed. He is definitely not one of those people that will laugh at every little thing, he is selective in what he finds funny, but he isn't strict or anything. What is b... (343 words

Why can't he just break up with her if he likes me?

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - So ive liked this guy for two years... he has a girlfrend though. I told him last year that i liked him and he told me that he liked me back. heres the problem... hes been telling me for about 6 months now that he wants to break up with his girlfrend for me but he doesnt want ... (134 words

Can you die in real life if you fall in your dream?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Right i know how stupid this sounds but i really must ask. Surely all of you have heard of the "if you have a dream that you fall(e.g off a cliff) and u hit the bottom you die in real life" which is why you always wake up. Well i also heard one goin about when i was young... (144 words

How do I get through the intolerable pain?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - To cut it short, I ended my special relationship a month ago. But it still hurts to walk around all these places I went with him. We went to a lot of places which I usually go to. There are just too much memories evoked when I go to these places which I really can't avoid. The ... (225 words

Would you date a sociopath knowing how handsome many of them are?

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17 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I ask, because a lot of women say they prefer bad boys to so-called nice guys. Is a bad boy someone who who has a harley, wears a leather jacket and sleeps around, or is it a sociopath? Would you date a sociopath knowing how confident and how handsome many are? What is ... (146 words

Boyfriend can't seem to orgasm through sex.

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi. i've been with my boyfriend now for about 8 months and we love each other more than anything. we have sex on a regular basis and it is amazing but he has never ejaculated, not once. he says he can on his own through masturbaion and i know he has with a previous girlfri... (147 words

Is virginty that important?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My friends make me feel like still being a virgin is something to be ashamed of. most if not all have had sex before and whenever they bring it up they always make it sound like whoever hasn't yet is either ugly or an outcast...it's not like i haven't had the chance to have ... (155 words

Does my boyfriend's Dad have a crush on me?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and we both love each other deeply. I've not noticed this much but lately it's been bothering me a little more than it should. I think my boyfriend's Dad has a crush on me. When both my boyfriend and me are aroun... (200 words

I love him even though he has a girlfriend.

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have a friend, weve dated before but now he has a new girlfriend. i like him again a lot more than i ever did. now were best friends and really close intamitely, but he says he loves his girlfriend and won't break up with her. he does really like me i can tell. i might be ... (98 words

Concerned about going on the pill.

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I turned 16 four months ago, and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. My mum has given me the ''all clear'' to go on the pill, any many of my friends are on it. There are only a couple of things im worried about. Im worried that i will put on weight, im trying my hardest ... (108 words

How much can a long distance relationship take?

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17 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - We've been in a long distance relationship for over two years now. It's been a struggle for much of that time due to insecurity and the occasional bout of jealousy. This is mostly due to the sporadic sex life, which has left me with severe doubts about whether I can satisfy her ... (391 words

How would you take this compliment?

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17 March 2010 (M age - OK I gave this lady I like a compliment in a round about way here is the way it happened. I feel this lady is attracted to me but I was walking with her co-worker and she was communicating with her back and forth while we were walking together but never seemly communica... (285 words

Has anyone ever taken their ex back, and if so, how did it work out? And how long were you seperated?

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - So my ex and I remain very close friends after dating for over a year and agreeing that we had a great relationship but, not at the right time. I had baggage that he didn't deserve to put up with and he wanted committment, even bought me an engagement ring, he still feared he ... (941 words

3 weeks till I give birth is it normal for my urine to smell almost like bleach?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have three weeks left before i give birth and am just wondering if it is normal for my urine to smell.for the last two days i have noticed that it smells something like bleach a really strong and not a very nice smell is this something to worry about?... (50 words

Is it legal for cousins to have a baby together?

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17 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Is it illeagal to have a babby with your first cousin in the united states?... (15 words

My boyfriend wants nothing to do with me because I kissed his mate.

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i have been in a relationship for nearly two years now and even though im only young know he is the one for me. I am totally in love with him and no one else could make me happier. Recently, i went out to a club and had far too much to drink and consequently kissed my ... (161 words

He told me to move on, he wasn't interested

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17 March 2010 (F age - Hi Have known this guy for the past 4 years - told him how i feel about him from the start - use to phone and speak for hours and chat online nearly every night. He lives about 4 hours from me. Have met up on a few occasions. Over the years we have had our fall outs but ha... (189 words

Guys, ... why do you watch porn?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - A question for all you guys out there... Why do you watch porn even if your sex life is brilliant? why do you feel the need to watch some random girl when you have your girlfriend? Do you know how it makes normal, non-plastic women feel when there boyfriends are masturba... (98 words

I want to quit my job but have to work to pay off my husbands debts from his previous girlfriend.

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17 March 2010 (F age - I love my husband very much. But, I am totally disgusted with my life. I hate my job (used to love it until I stepped on someone in authority's toes and have been nitpicked to death ever since) and I want to quit. My husband does not want me to quit because he says we can't ... (354 words

What do you make of his behaviour?

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - so there's this guy in my class that i really like. i told him and he just said he had a gf. after that he carried on talking to me like we were just friends and he didnt seem interested in it get any further than that. which obviously wasnt going to happen if he was already ... (271 words

I have this feeling that change is in the air...has anyone else had this before?

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17 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi All, I have a rather strange Dear Cupid!! I have had a feeling for the last few months that a huge change is in the air in my life and is heading in my direction. I'm not sure what it is, and even my Mum said she can feel it, and she is one of the most practical people you ... (208 words

Can someone offer some more perspective on my situation? My husband blames me for his problems

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

17 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for 10years and with my husband a total of 20years. Because of financial problems our family (3kids) had to move in with his parents 2 years ago. He started staying out all times of the night and sometimes not returning at all. He started accusing me of ... (243 words

I think I want my ex back, but he is with someone else now. How do I get over this?

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is kind of complicated and will sound very contradicting on my part. I started dating my ex 3 years ago. While it started really well, as many relationships do, a few months into it, he cheated on me. I found out, confronted him, we spent a few weeks apart and then he ... (869 words

Is it a bad idea to see this guy if he is acting like this?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy just before Christmas.. we were seeing each other quite intensely for a few weeks, but then I went to Thailand for a month. I cam back from Thailand, we saw each other once and then after that I didnt hear from him again, which was quite upsetting for me.. anwa... (310 words

My boyfriend doesn't want sex, does this mean he finds me unattractive?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello im 19 and my boyfriend doesnt want sex does this mean he find me unatrative?... (16 words

Is he cheating, or is it all in my mind?

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17 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - when i met my now husband..he was into all the online *women*...said it was because he was in a bad relationship at the time..we got together ..and when we was apart ..and i was pregnant with his child..he did it again said he was *lonely*..i gave him a chance..n we got ... (235 words

It seems I am the outlet for his negativity despite us both having affairs!

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17 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - My husband had an affair last year with a woman he was working with. He is no longer working with her but still has contact with some aquaintances. Initially it lasted about 6 months. All of this time he made me feel worthless and I now know that he was considering leaving me ... (418 words

Am I right to keep my distance from my ex?

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17 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi Ive been dumped twice by the same person , 3 years ago and again last year, since then 8 months ago ,Ive met someone else and really get on well with her, my ex is coming to live on my street again, Im not really that bothered, but I do want to see her , not because I want ... (525 words

I'm trying to keep my virginity but my 19 year old boyfriend really wants sex!

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Im a young teenager trying to keep my virginity, although my boyfriend respects my decision but it kills him, im 15 and his 19,what should i do becouse i really love him ... (34 words

In all my date went pretty badly, what sould I do?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - k well i started talking to this guy he saw my picture on facebook and he went totally gaga over it.we went on a date and he was totally strange he was walking too fast not bothered whether i am walking with him or no,he is attending his ex-girlfriend s call when he was with ... (90 words

How do I get my boyfriend to spend more time with me instead of playing videogames?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is sucked into his videogame, how do I get him to spend more time with me? I've talked to him about it but he doesn't seem to change his habits.Is it impossible to change men?... (37 words

Am I the only one that has constant discharge?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I constantly discharge, I have to constantly wear mini pads. Do any other women have this same problem? I am too wet, i do not have an STD, i have been checked many times and have been with the same partner for 2 years. Apparently it's natural but it doesn't feel natural. I ... (63 words

How do I stop myself getting back with my cheating boyfriend?

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend cheated...how do i keep myself from geting back together with him?... (13 words

I cant break up with my boyfriend but I could not turn down the chance to be with the guy I have liked for years either!

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay i started to date this guy jj out of symphathy cause no one likes him and this weekend i started to hang out with this guy i had feelings for like a year ago, and well we clicked and he asked me out and i could not say no and i can't break up with jj until spring break is ... (114 words

How can I tell him I want to slow things down a bit without making him feel like I don't like him anymore?

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay here i go my problem is relationships and how guys take things to fast. my question is how to slow them down without hurting them and still letting them know you still like them i have tried i think we should slow things down a bit and don't you think were going to fast ... (99 words

Am I wrong to say no to being her daughter's godmother because my friend has never bought my son anything?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - my bestfriend and I been friends for over 10 years good bad happy and sad. I had a beautiful baby boy in 2006 and of course she is the nanny. My son is 4 years old and she hasn't did anything for him haven't brought nothing ! I can only recall her buying things when he was ... (137 words

So many guys want my girlfriend, its so hard not to get jealous when guys are flirting with her all the time!

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17 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - well, i really need some good advice around now, mostly from guys since i havent had a father figure in my life for years now. i met what to me seems like to be the most amazing girl in the world. we have been dating for months now, and she actually fell in love with me before ... (199 words

Embarrassing BDSM fetish....

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have a really embarrassing BDSM fetish. I have always had a deep desire to be humiliated, degraded, and owned. The problem is that my boyfriend and I were both raised very traditionally and when I brought up the subject he completely freaked out. He was really disgusted by ... (165 words

I cant let go of my boyfriend's past, his ex is all I think about!

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm not sure what I'm doing writing on here again. I've written at least four times, and nothing's changed. I keep falling back into the same trap I'm trying to escape from. I'm running out of people to confide it, but I just can't seem to shake this feeling... I'm 21 (as of ... (1073 words

Is she telling me I'm good in bed just to make me feel better?

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - i am 19 and have only been having sex for about 5 months with my girlfriend who im still with. she promises me im am the perfect size and that i am amazing in bed but still something in the back of my mind wont let me believe it fully even though i know she wouldnt lie to me. ... (165 words

Is he into me? or is he bored?

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months. I have two concerns. First, he does not express his feelings. He says he loves me everyday but that is about it. He will not say anymore. He says he just don't show his feelings. He does act as if he is in love with me, be... (204 words

27 and desperate for a baby....

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am 27 years old ,never been married and I want to have a baby... I fear I may never meet anyone who will want to marry me and have children and I turn 28 this year so time is ticking.. its not like i've put it on hold, I've always wanted a family... but it hasn't happened, ... (68 words

What are some signs that your best guy friend (I'm a girl) likes you?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey! What are some signs that your best guy friend (I'm a girl) likes you? my best guy friend hasn't dated anyone in six years, ive known him less than a year. and I'm getting the idea that he may like me more than a friend now. However, he was extremely hurt, I won't go into ... (88 words

She doesn't trust me for no reason!

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for two years i have been faithful.before we got together i was known as a flirt but she got past that. there has been instances when i random girl texts me i reply because im not rude and sometimes im just bored but i never lied about any of the ... (150 words

Boyfriend spread a secret around school

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I told my boyfriend, whom I tell everything to, that my best friend was pregnant. I assumed that he would keep this a secret, like he does with anything personal I share with him, but found out that he told his friends at school. My Pregnant best friend has chosen to get an ... (216 words

Witnessing a horrible crime a few years ago is making it difficult for me to have sex with my girlfriend

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was a witness to a horrible crime a few years ago. I saw a women being raped. I have never had sex. After this happened when I have been with my girl friend I can't get aroused. I think about what I saw and I get what I think must be a panic attack. I am extremely upset ... (146 words

I've had orgasms before but I've never "cum", is there something wrong with me?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - so, im going to be almost 23 years old and has never cum before.. i've had orgasms, or some form of them since losing my virginity. but i'm beginning to wonder if somethings wrong. as i get closer to climax though, the sensations i feel are so intense for me to handle - so i ... (86 words

We got married in private, and because of this my cousin does not feel this marriage is "real" and he wants to end it. What can I do?

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17 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - My cousin and I are in a relationship. . I was married at the time and he was not. We both loved each other deeply and were crazy for each other. So we got married behind the closed doors and was not done in public. We took this relationship very seriously, and I also had ... (382 words

Am I screwed until I get a job?

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17 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am living with my ex, and I'm unemployed. She is constantly telling me she's moved on since the divorce, but always wants to go with me wherever I go. I sense that she just loves that I'm trapped living with her and is holding on. We have sex and do stuff now and then ... (77 words

Should I have sex with him?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I havent asked a question in a while but i need all the help i can get. I have known this guy for about 6 months we've always liked each other but never did anything about it until now. I am going to visit him this weekend and i have been falling for him very fast, we have ... (164 words

Girls is it confidence, appearance, attitude; what?

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17 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Girls: does confidence matter more if the guy is generally seen as "unattractive"? I have good days where i'm super cocky, other days where i'm almost shy. As confident as I get and as much time as i spend on my appearance and personality, I get this vibe like i went too ... (102 words

I believe she's the one but I'm scared

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - So first i'd like to thank everyone for viewing my question it means a lot that your willing to help people you don't know with no strings attached =). Ok so I met this girl in 6th grade at a lunch table when we just started talking about chicken patties and spongebob lol. I ... (380 words

Is it harmless or should I be moving on?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of several years is looking at online dating sites and "classified ads." I have caught him emailing some of the girls and when I confront him he says he is "just looking" and would never do anything. Is it harmless or should I be moving on?... (50 words

I love my mistress but I feel bad for leaving my wife and kids

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17 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am 35 years old, married for 9 years with 3 kids relatively young - 7 and twins of 4 years old. I met a girl 4 years ago (Kelly) but we really started to see each other more often like twice a week over the past 4 months, before it was once a month. I changed everythi... (280 words

I want to convince her that I've changed

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17 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - I want to know if there is anything I can do now to repair or recover my relationship. My girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me 2 months ago and I am completely devastated. She had tried to tell me several times that I wasn't giving her what she needed. I would go one or two ... (225 words

Are we having an affair?

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - This man I work with is very sexy to me. We are both married so everything is off limits. We became cool and we talk about our sex life which is boring on both parts. My husband doesn't do some things I like and vice versa on his end. Anyway, I told him I like sex toys and ... (166 words

How do I initiate a friendship?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I am back in my country after a 2 years break. In that other country I was,I made tons of friends and had the time of my life. Now that I'm back,I am facing a lot of difficulties.One of those is New Friendships. I'm a really energetic,spontaneous person.My ... (354 words

I want my friends to understand

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17 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 3 months into the age of 15 years and I've had a boyfriend since August but we broke up in January. He's 17 and I've known him since June 2009, if you're wondering. Ever since the week after we first broke up, we immediately began talking again, more on a friend level than ... (441 words

Why doesn't he make a move?

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17 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey all. So I'm not sure if this guy in my class likes me or if he does this with every girl... But he's 25 and he's a little quiet/shy. Around his friends he isn't (I know this because I'm really good friends with his good friend). So ever since I met him, I always caught him ... (253 words

Loose? Or control issues?

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ok...I have visited this site on several occassions with the same dilemma...my boyfriend complains about sex with me. He says that my vagina and anus are loose and I do not feel the same way I did when he met me one year ago. The anus I can expplain, he is rather well endowed ... (317 words

Do you think he is using me to take care of him since no one else will?

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17 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well...I have a question and I'm hoping someone can help me by answering it or giving me suggestions. To start things off my boyfriend (to whom I have been with for almost 6 months) He has been living with me for the past 2 months, he is in school still, he does not have a job, ... (273 words

Husband drinks, and I'm attracted to someone else

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 years, and lately I have been REALLY unhappy and torn. My husband is a binge drinker on the weekends. He ignores me often, and can be very verbally abusive after drinking. I feel like 10% of the time I'm really happy, 80% of the time indifferent, ... (162 words

In love with a drug dealer

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17 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - i want to be with a guy who i love and he loves me. the only thing that is stopping me be with him is the fact he is a drug dealer. i want to be with him so badly and very tempted to give it a try despite knowing the concequences if im in the wrong place at the wrong time if he ... (108 words

I feel like I've lost my daughter

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17 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi Guys, I'm posting in a real state of distress re one of my daughters. She has been going out with in appropriate guys since she was 16 and is onto her third boyfriend now who is pleasant enough but unemployed and seems to depend on her for everything. I brought my two ... (507 words

Didn't want to appear clingy, which backfired

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17 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - So me and this girl are getting rather serious. Today she asked the question "If i kissed another guy would you be jealous" I didn't know what to say. So i decided to say "No i wouldn't mind" because I didn't want to appear clingy. But now she is mad at me because she thinks ... (72 words

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