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*elloo62
writes:Okayyy. Well Im 15 and Im with this guy that I love soo much! We have been together for over 4 months(May not seem like long but were so close) and he is the one. I cant tell(Again, may seem like Im too young to know but I know). I just recently gave him a hand job.. Should it feel like I did something wrong....?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): Certainly! your firsts are always going to be great and then guilty or worried, dont be afraid to ask him what he likes, im sure he will tell you!
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reader, Helloo62 +, writes (2 March 2010):
Helloo62 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, thank you. I feel better and no, hes not into me for sex he tells me every single day. He tells me I dont have to do want I dont wanna do. And I made a typo. I meant I *CAN* tell he is the one in my question.
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reader, Helloo62 +, writes (2 March 2010):
Helloo62 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, thank you. I feel better and no, hes not into me for sex he tells me every single day. He tells me I dont have to do want I dont wanna do. And I made a typo. I meant I *CAN* tell he is the one in my question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): Your first (I assume) sexual experience will no doubt feel weird. You have been told for years by parents, teachers, the media, etc..., that sexual contact is taboo. You rubbed a part of his body that made him feel good. Would you feel this way if you had rubbed his shoulders and he experienced pleasure? Why feel strange because the pleasure you gave him was the ultimate pleasure? Would giving a lesser degree of pleasure feel less weird?Guess what? Everyone has sex. Its how you got here (yup mom and dad bumped uglies). You feel weird now, but as the other guy wrote it will pass. My suggestion to you is that you stick with hand jobs. They are harmless and I am sure your boyfriend enjoyed yours. At 15 you should wait before having intercourse. A 4 month relationship is not enough time to give yourself to a guy. See if he is satisfied with hand jobs. If he is then he is into your relationship for more than sex. Don't move too quickly. If he is into you for sex, is that the kind of relationship (or guy) you really want?
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reader, Psychology101 +, writes (1 March 2010):
Its normal you will better about this as times passes by. Dont stress or worry about this too much it will pass
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reader, Araelia V  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 If you've never done it before it's natural to think it wasn't perfect. And it probably wasn't but the more you do it the more you will notice what makes him 'tick' and it will get better.
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