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36-40,
*ettyBoup
writes:How do you seduce a man who has gone off sex? I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years but our relationship is on/off in nature as I spend half of my time away for my studies. I think this affects our sex life as he takes a while to get used to me again and doesn't desire sex as much as I do. Where as I feel we should make the most of our time together sexually as we only see each other half of the year.He says I just need to force him to have sex with me when he's lazy because he is happy not to have sex for a fortnight at a time, whereas I'd love it every day! But the idea of having to force or bully/nag him to get him to sleep with me is a complete turn off.How can I seduce him so that he will want to sleep with me more? He says he is very attracted to me but he just loses interest in frequent se once he's in a long term relationship.Help!
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (2 March 2010):
BettyBoup is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, he's not 'young' per say, he's 40. So age is a factor. Men's libedo's decrease with age and he has a physical job. I have thought about him not being 'that into me' but he protests this is not the case and we're still together after all this time and distance so we do love each other a lot. I really want this to work.
How can you tell if a guy's really not that into you sexually and is just pretending to keep you happy? Or how can you tell if there's a genuine libedo issue there? I don't want to delude myself, but our sex life was great to start with so I know he is into me sexually, or was at least.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 March 2010):
Not to put a point to it, but a young man acting this way when his girlfriend comes home would indicate that he's not interested enough.
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