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*odie_Kinsz
writes:Hey, I am fifteen years old, sixteen in November. Me and a boy was boyfriend and girlfriend for two weeks back in August - but before that we were very close and on the verge of being boyfriend and girlfriend all the time for about two months before that. He broke up with me saying that he wanted to be alone for a while and be able to flirt with other people, which I found understandable even though I was devastated. I haven't moved on yet - neither has he. I want to be more than friends with him still and I have since we broke up.But the thing is I know you can say "Oh just tell him how you feel" but last time I did which was back on new years eve he rejected me, so it will be more difficult this time.And this boy that I love seems to want me sometimes and not others like I went all the way to town to see him and he took me off away from the friendship group and walked round town with me and held my hand and not only did it seem to me like he wanted me then - But my friends also thought he did and said it looked like we were back together.But then today I text him and he replyed a fair few times, I know he has unlimited texts by the way, and the last text he didn't reply to but there was something to say back even if it was a little something and he didn't, which shows he might not want me too.I have no idea what to do, please help me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): There is a good saying that you would be wise to remember...
If a guy likes you, you will know it.
If a guy doesn't like you, you will be confused.
It is such a true saying because if a guy likes you, you won't be able to shake him, you will recognize this as soon as it happens to you :)
Forget this guy...he's just not that into you and you could be with someone who truly likes you (which is bliss)...but anther guy won't come into your life while YOU are still attached.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 March 2010):
I'm not going to tell you to tell him how you feel, because it won't make a difference. Young men do not mature emotionally as quickly as young women do, and this causes problems. This guy doesn't really know what he wants, and doesn't understand the whole idea of dating at this time. He needs to find himself and understand himself before he can be a good boyfriend to anyone. Your best bet is to move on from him.
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