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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I found my 22 year old sister and 14 year old brother in bed together.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I found my 22 year old sister and 14 year old brother in bed together. She had her arms round him and everything. She said they were watching a film together and he fell asleep in her bed and that she had her arms round him to keep warm and that there's nothing wrong with her ... (73 words)

Being needy scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - met what i thought was the perfect guy (im assuming im talking on behalf of a lot of girls lol) he was meeting me all the time texting, ringing then i went and blew things by being a little needy i hadnt heard from him for like 16 hrs so being stupid i texed him and asked him ... (194 words)

Sleeping with a broken heart...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, Here's my situation: i found out through myspace that my boyfriend of 3 years has been cheating with an ex girlfriend for the past year. when confronted, he denied it so i confronted her and found out it was true. when he found out i talked to her, he said i should've... (112 words)

Really getting to quite like him but now I'm getting mixed signals, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm 28 and back at university for the second time. I'm nearly finished the term and just noticed this guy staring at me... a lot! I didnt really notice him much before but now I see him looking at me from the corners of my eyes I cant stop thinking about him. ... (192 words)

They're becoming good friends and I'm uncomfortable about it! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A while back, an old friend, let's say his name is "Ted", and I had a brief fling that ended in me getting hurt really badly. One of my guy friends, we'll call him "John", helped me through it and told me he hated Ted for hurting me so badly. Now, they've started talking and ... (144 words)

School rumours!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I am really worried about this, everyone in school are saying that my best friend and I are in love or that we are more than friends. Which it is not true, i felt really bad and i talked to him, and he said that i shouldn't worry about what people are saying and asked me ... (207 words)

How do I get the video off her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is hard for me to confess, I have been married for 15 years and I am very in love with my husband but I have cheated on him with another girl for 5 years. I care about my girlfriend and feel comfortable with her and love our intimacy a lot but I agreed to something dumb ... (160 words)

She might have to sleep with him one more time to get the car in HER name!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a month now and I love her a lot. When we met she told me she had a "provider" like a suger daddy. She hasn't seen him since we have been together but he just bought her a car right before we met and she needs to get the car into her ... (99 words)

Dreaded pimples!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please i really need your advice on what to use.... have got a date on sunday, and i woke up this morning with so many pimples on ma face... please what can i use to make it go away before my date on sunday???... (44 words)

Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly disgusted. Here is a bit ... (1185 words)

Best friend... or boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey i want to know what to do if you were dating this boy and then yall broke up and your best friend started dating him and they broke up and you wanted to go back out with him but your friend said she would me mad at you??? I am so confused!!... (53 words)

I don't want sex but I still pleasure him orally and he wants more help!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 26 year old healthy woman who has absolutely no interest in sex or any type of physical intimacy. When I first met my bf, I would have sex with him to make him happy but it did nothing for me (we've been together for 9 months). Now I've told him that I'll give him all ... (248 words)

Attracted to my brother in law! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 17 years. I have known my brother in law for that time. He is also married for the last 4 years. all I do is think of him. He is married I haven't told him and probably never will. I love my husband and respect him. I don't know what to do ... (130 words)

Am I being too paranoid or maybe... too naive, here? You tell me.

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been close friends with another couple for years. We spend holidays together, go on vacations together and I feel like they are more family than friends. I knew the guy years before he met his wife, he's been like a big brother to me since we were ... (260 words)

Am I being unreasonable here??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need URGENT advice here, Me and and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years were due to view an apartment this evening which had been planned a few weeks ago. We were hoping to move into this apartment on 24th April, very soon. There has been a lot of planning and effort into this to ... (238 words)

Sex tips needed to spice up our lovemaking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so me a my gf have been together for a while and i want to try something new that will excite both of us and make us even closer. we both love giving each other oral and in bed we do doggie style and missionary. i wanna try other things or tips to spice it up. i also wanna ... (83 words)

Will our baby have a birth defect? No judemental answers please.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im having a relationship with my 1st cousin. I love him so much i would die for him and he would for me the thing is we want to have a baby but im afraid it might be born with a birth defect. I know what people are thinking were sick and its gros but as we said true love only ... (89 words)

Getting mixed messages from him! What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How come this guy told my friend i was sexy but he said he didnt know if he want to be in a relationship. He hasnt talked to anyone this whole year. He asked me to the movies but i said no? Whats up with him?... (46 words)

He's unfair to my kids and favors his own! Should I end this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a man that I love. I have 2 children from a previous relationship and he has one child from a previous relationship. We live together and get along great most of the time. But lately I've been noticing some unpleasant things. He has been incredibly ... (242 words)

How do I ask him to kiss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

24 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - how do i ask my boyfriend if we can kiss in school? like in a nice way? haha i dont know we havent kissed yet and i know he wants to but i havent asked yet.... (36 words)

Big Love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok help how can i make love to my girl. She is a big girl and i am a big guy with a short one. ... (27 words)

Cheating husband! How do make him understand what he will lose if he leaves me for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently married for 7years with 2 kids, a girl and a boy. Me and my husband were happy during our first 4 years of marriage … most of our friends admires our relationship as we are a dream couple…Until he tried to get a mistress (he got jealous because most of his ... (418 words)

Worried that I may have went too far with my cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My cousin and I went out drinking together, alone. We are both in our early 20s (he is slightly older and I have always looked up to him). We got utterly smashed and some of the night is hazy, but I'm almost positive I remember everything (I never black out). So while I'm sure ... (253 words)

He's tight with his money! Am I being petty here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Iv been seeing my fella for nearly 8 months now and he says he loves me, he works as a banker yet i feel he's a bit tight with his money.When i needed a new mobile phone i didn't ask him to buy me one but he did....it was off ebay and second hand.He said he was going to buy ... (124 words)

Would a relationship like this be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I like this guy and he likes me. Thing is he's a teacher and I'm nearing the end of my 1st year of college. He's also a lot older than me. My questions are: 1. Would a relationship with him be legal? We didn't admit our feelings for each other till last O... (123 words)

This boy may like me or he just doesn't care.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a girl of 14 and I really like this boy in my school. He tells me he likes me as well but I get the idea that he's leading me on. My friends think he likes me but I'm still not sure. He even called me boring last night but will not tell me why! He just acts like he doesn't ... (111 words)

My girlfriend is addicted to porn and I hate it...but I don't know why.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has been addicted to porn since before we got togeather but told me she had stopped at the beginning of the relationship. I recently found out that shes been watching porn behind my back, this really pisses me off... Im not even quite sure why. I cant honestly say ... (157 words)

How can I convince my mother to drive me two hours away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so ive just started dating this guy ive known him for 7 months i went 2 go visit him last weekend he lives 2 hrs away....now this is where it gets difficult. I do not have a car but my mom has let me used her car before, but what i need help on the most is trying to ... (145 words)

Is the pill effective after only two weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - If my girlfriend was taken birth control pills for 2 weeks could she get pregnant if I cum inside of her?... (21 words)

How should I let my b/f know that a friend is coming to stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question regarding a friend that is coming to visit me in a couple months that is a male and I want to know if thats ok since I have a boyfriend. I don't have many male friends. This friend in particular I have known for over 13 years, he lives like 4 hours away fro... (396 words)

Concerned about something in my semen

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i just cummed up 3 white things. they look like pieces of chalk. i know its not chalk but what is it?... (22 words)

Do you think my ex would change if I were to go back to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, i really need some help here !! I split up with my girlfriend of 9 months about 6 weeks ago and we've had a really tough time since saying some really nasty things to each other. She finished with me becuase she said she wasn't happy and needed some space. A week lat... (358 words)

Did my mum abuse me smacking me in this way?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm nearly 14 and still got smacked by mom! Me and my little brother who's 10 were fighting out back and mom caught us, smacked my bro's butt a couple of times with her hand then she took off her shoe and smacked my ass 8 maybe 10 times pretty hard with the flat sole - I was ... (154 words)

Did he really actually like me at one point even though he doesn't any more???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on myspace in December. When we first started talking, we talked for hours. We decided to meet on New Years since we live 25 min from each other (a week after we started talking) He was really nice. We cuddled, held hands.. and even kissed. I met his mother, who ... (390 words)

Is my cousin gay and putting on a front to be straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was 15 and he was 16 and About two years ago over my cousin's house i slept with him in the bed and we were talking. He said all the gay boys names who were coming to his school and he said i was one, in a playing way i think he is always playing, i was finna start going to a ... (346 words)

Why did he look over me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i like this guy but he said that he was too busy working to have a gf. but his friend told me that he was thinkin about askin another girl out. why did he look over me?... (38 words)

She said I was too small for her. Do other girls think the same?!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was with my girl and one thing led to another at that time... When the pants came off, she just looked blankly and told me bluntly "Hun... you're sorta too small. I... don't think you can do it for me." Then she got up flustered, apologized, and left quietly. We don't see e... (303 words)

Why doesn't he want to set a date for our marriage???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been together for over two years now. We got engaged a few months ago. He was unemployed at the time. Now he has a job but doesn't want to set a date any time soon. He said he would let me know when he was ready to set a date. He has been living ... (79 words)

He tries to call but never sends SMS to say what he wants

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about my ex, why does he just keep on trying to call me when he can send me an SMS. We are both used to SMS before and after our relationship. The last time he sent me SMS, i didn't reply any more. And so his calls came which I didn't pick up too. But why k... (120 words)

I have digital drama! Somebody help me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone! Okay, i've been with my boyfriend for a year now and things have been great, but im scared my boyfriend is hiding things from me. He has a cell phone (as does every normal person) but he is SO secretive with it. Normally if a text comes through, he will check it ... (355 words)

Unreasonable???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

Is there even the slightest possibility that I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had periods on 4th of march this month. Me and my husband started having sex from 10th of march. From 20th march I started having pain in my abdomen. It continued for 3 days. I thought I may have earlier periods. But now on 24th march pain has gone and I didn't have period ... (60 words)

What's going on in his head for him to treat me this way???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. When we met i had 2 children from the previous relationship, 6 mths and 1 years old, 18 months later i got pregnant with his child. Now 4 years on im having his 2nd baby. I know he loves me but he's got a funny way of showing it!! ... (201 words)

Why do I keep thinking in this masochistic way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've realized lately that when I'm thinking about guys I'm interested in, and I imagine what it would be like to be with them, I'll start out fantisizing about kissing them, but then I'll start imagining them hitting me. Not because I think they would, or because that turns me ... (130 words)

Should I keep dragging this hoping it will get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello i have been with my bf for 3 years now. and I feel like I am falling out of love with him. we have a long distance relationship and we dont see each other that much. he is like the closest to mr. right it would ever get, but at the wrong time. i feel like i am so young ... (206 words)

Embarrassed and confused... could I be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm a 13 year old boy from Wales. I have a question about my sexuality. Sorry if this sounds dumb. Today in English, my teacher taught us about PEE. For those of you who don't know, PEE is a technique that we use in English that stands for Point, Evidence, Explain.... (156 words)

How do I stop my brother becoming abusive like my dad was?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My dad hit me and my brother when we were very young. When he was angry he took it out on us, I was so relieved when he left. My brother (13) has punched me twice in the last week just because he was annoyed, this is exactly what our dad used to do. Even though I'm older he ... (115 words)

Why does this guy keep staring at me all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - At school there's this boy who just stares at me and messes with me sometimes and he barely knows me, he just knows my name and he constantly stares at me every time he see's me like when the bell rings everyone is in the hall he finds me and stares at me only outta everyone in ... (230 words)

How do I get rid of my phobia of spiders??? It's ruining my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't a relationship question but I really need help with a phobia I have. I don't know how to control my fear of spiders. I'm absolutely terrified of them. I think that if a spider were to touch me, I would either have a heart attack, or pass out. I've always been... (261 words)

What should I do about the rumours?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Two of my 'friends' have been spreading rumors that I pole-dance. I swung on a pole once when I was dared to, but it was just a joke. Now people actually believe these girls, and they think I do it for a living.... I can't take it. Soon my BF will find out about these rumors, ... (140 words)

Porn problem!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys, Two years ago I found porn on my pc, me and my partner are the only people who have access to this pc. I found porn searches in the google toolbar, viewed pics, websites etc. He flat out denied it was him. After months of me screaming at him I accepted it wasn... (154 words)

Is it all just a big front with them to fit in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Their are the boys at school that have been known for being gay for a long time because of their actions and two of them are my friends, the first one has been my friend long from 1st grade to 8th grade, he used to act so gay, he'll be dancing and dropping it at school and hung ... (209 words)

I want to meet his family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and I love him to pieces. wouldn't trade him for the world. One thing that's bothering me though, he's met my WHOLE family and they adore him. He's even met my nan's friends! But I haven't met any of his, except his ... (89 words)

Would you consider me a slut/slag/hoe???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, well im a 16 year old girl and i have 3 boys im messing with, i haven't had sex with none of them but other stuff... they dont want a relationship with me and neither do i with them. do you think im a slut? Be honest! i just want to know if i sound like one or i am one.... (113 words)

My boyfriend changed, should I end the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. Before that, we were very close friends... and very intimate with each other. At first he would be so sweet and caring and he never said any mean things to me. I was like a queen. If I were to get upset, he would go ... (368 words)

Relationship sucks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend got married recently to another girl. I think he is happy with his marriage, he still wants to continue a relationship with me and wants to have sex. Not sure if he loves me truly. Can you help to advise me?... (47 words)

What are my rights??? Airport Human Body Scanning?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am due to be flying in about a month's time. I really really detest the idea of this whole human body scan thing where any odd person can view my private parts and genitals. Most men don't seem to think it is a big deal, but as a woman it is a hell of a big deal to me. I do ... (238 words)

Do I end this relationship or try and make it work for our family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner a I have been together for 8 years on and off, we have arguments that have scaled into full blown fights in the past, we have three children together and when it is good it's really good but for years now instead of him talking to me he will find a reason to start a ... (264 words)

Fear is getting in the way of satisfying her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - One night my girlfriend got really carried away when she was on top and it slipped out. She sat on it and it hurt really bad. I was lucky that she didn't break it. Now when she gets on top I go limp. I get hard again real easy but the only way I can describe this is just ... (137 words)

How can I stop my flirty behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found out that apparently I get really flirty around guys I'm even the slightest but attracted to. I would much prefer to come off as cool and relaxed but I'm having trouble doing this because I thought I was until my friends were like 'oh, it's so obvious you like ... (71 words)

It seems awfully easy for her to walk away after two years ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend told me out of the blue that she doesnt feel the same love anymore for me....this happened after we both were frustrated to the max because i kept on nagging her for not giving time to this relationship....we were seeing each other since 2 years and it was a long ... (220 words)

How short is too short to date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

24 March 2010 (M) age 30-35 - hi is it true that girls wont even notice a guy shorter than 6" ? i heard that they always say "at least taller than me" but they are actually looking for tall ones right? can girls tell how short is too short to notice? and how short is too short to date at all? (im... (69 words)

Should I pursue this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. He was a friend of my uncle, and we first met at my uncle's wedding. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 26 now and ... (501 words)

Do you dream of threesomes? Have you ever had one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Another popular topic around here seems to be threesomes. How to ask, how to say no, it's always a bad idea, etc. I'm curious about how many of you fantasize, or are interested in threesomes, either mmf or ffm, or group sex. Is it really only a guy thing? I'm also wonder... (119 words)

Sensitive girl dating very sarcastic man.....will it work out or end in tears?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 goin out wit my 26 yr old boyfrend 7 months for the first 3 months we had so much fun we used to always go out dancing in clubs go to pubs and go out drinking and go to cinemas. we said i love you after only 3 months which is very quick i know but i fell for him so quick... (380 words)

On/ off relationship for 5 years. Can we ever make it right/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here it goes, I fell in love when I was 15 - extremely young i know, The boy was 17 and told me that he'd never been in love before and that i was the only one for him and he'd always love me. Well when he went to college we lost contact and he got a girlfriend however ... (441 words)

My skinny legs don't match the rest of my body.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a healthy and handsome man but my problem is in my legs. i have skinny legs comparing my rest of the body my legs are very very thin .so that i never wear tight pants and half pants .because people will really comment how skinny it is. PLEASE any one help me for this i am ... (122 words)

Why do people think there can ever be a 'bright side' to a break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do people always think "there's a silver lining in every ordeal we come across?" How do you apply this in break-ups? Why do people always say "Look at the bright side of the break-up"? What's the bright side of it?... (42 words)

Why does he wait until alone to talk to his ex when they have both moved on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age - Dear qupid, I have been married for two months. My husband was married 11 years ago and he has a child with his ex wife. Yesterday the phone rang and he did not pick up however he did state it was his ex wife.. he did not return the call throughout the day however he did t... (152 words)

Could you ever take someone back into your life that you had a stale relationship with or that has been dishonest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Not long ago, I discovered that my boyfriend had a non-sexual affair over 6-7 months of last year. This broke my heart when I found out, but things with us had been stagnant for a long time. We've since met up and openly discussed, over many hours, what happened and the issu... (713 words)

I can't feel my boyfriends penis when he's inside of me...HELP

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

24 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - *OP's own title* I am in a relationship with an incredible man that I am highly considering for marriage. My past relationships were all based on the physical but quickly fizzled b/c they had nothing else to offer. My current boyfriend and I started off as friends and even... (186 words)

Caught in compromising footage on the internet, ..but it was all totally innocent!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Several years ago, I was leaving a concert. As we heading to a parking garage a woman on the street took off her top and lowered her pants showing everything. She bent over in front of me and gave everyone a show. The whole thing lasted only a few seconds. Recently an old ... (214 words)

Not interested, .. interested, .. is he being weird?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - okay..i find this weird.. opinions? been goin to this bar alot. seen this guy a cpl of times.the last time i saw him he was w/ a chick, i tried havin a convo w/ him when he was alone (they didnt look like a cpl but he seemed interested in her later on) it was like pulling ... (193 words)

An affair that has destroyed me

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* won't go into the details the affair lasted over a year. We were caught four months ago. My husband wants to fix our marraige I don't. All I CAN think about is this other man. Will I ever get over this. Feel so alone. My heart is broken for everyone involved... (407 words)

Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont want to be with her he should ... (102 words)

6 years on I am wondering if there could be more between us.

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24 March 2010 (F)

age - I have been involved with a man now for 6 yrs. When we first got together I really thought that all it was going to be was a one time thing and nothing more. Now here it is 6 yrs later and we still see each other on a weekly basis. Could there be something more between ... (65 words)

Any good ideas on how to propose marriage?

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24 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello Aunties and Uncles, I intend to propose to my girlfriend in a couple of months. We have discussed this in the past and more recently and truly feel the time is now right for both of us to do this. Neither of us have ever been married in the past and I want to make t... (117 words)

How do men feel when other men look at their women appreciatively?

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24 March 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Do most men get turned on when other guys look at their women appreciatively.What exactly do most guys feel in such situations.real life scenarios would be awesome to hear.... (29 words)

I am concerned that I am choosing to marry someone out of guilt and poor self confidence

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24 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am concerned that I am choosing to marry someone out of guilt and poor self confidence. I recently got engaged after I dated her for three years long distance. She is almost 40 living on on the other side of the country with her parents in a small town a short distance from ... (447 words)

How can I entice him in to a lasting relationship?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Am madly in luv wit this guy,he drives me crazy when he is around me yet we are just having a cordial relationship.I realy want a lasting relationship with him pls somebody tel me what to do.... (37 words)

Why do I feel bored in my relationship???

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24 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - SO lately I've been analyzing my relationship with my current girlfriend. We've been together for a year now. I know its not much compared to someone that's been in one for 3, 5 or even more years, but I'm actually proud of myself because I never been in relationship passed 3 ... (263 words)

My elderly neighbour had a go at me for dressing too revealing!

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my question is regarding wearing saree, i am a housewife. i wear sarees only, recently was hurt when my neighbour, an old lady rebuked me for wearing a saree sexily, whe said that i should not expose hips n navel when i wear saree. i have got used to wearing saree revealing ... (84 words)

Will not having sex early mean I will never lose my virginity?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know, I know this is such a dumb topic to talk about but I'm at a loss. I'm 17 and still a virgin, nothing unusual right? But here's the thing I recently found out that out of all of my friends I'm the only virgin. I was totally shocked by this, considering that I am the ... (161 words)

Why do some ladies judge men on how long they can last during sex?

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24 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* Why do some ladies judge men on how long they can last during sex? I mean me as a young man all I want to do is try and please a woman to the best I can. When they say something like that its really upsets me (example: "haha he doesn't last very long how sad"... (268 words)

I am sick of waiting for this married man to divorce his wife. What is he up to?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm involved with a married man for a year now, he's been clear from day 1, he said his marriage was arranged by his parents, that he never met his wife before engagement and that he's only "obeing" his mom by marrying the woman, he said he never had any sexual attraction ... (441 words)

Another guy advises my girl on relationships and I am concerned he will plant negativity in her mind about me.

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24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's my situation. Both myself and the girl I am dating are christian. We believe strongly in long term relationships, ones that seriously could someday grow into feelings of marriage. For the first time in my life, I have found a girl special enough to peruse with the ... (571 words)

A questions for all the guys out there: Girl A, Girl B, or Girl C?

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24 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My question is not because I would ever change myself. I just want to hear what guys actually and truly think. I'm going to name three stereotypical girls. (Only sort of stereotypical, mainly just three different personalities). Tell me which you would choose. Please answer ... (744 words)

Help! Hopelessly in love and it's killing me!!

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24 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - *OP's own title* I'm in love. It's that simple. We had a little thing 2 months ago. I've liked him 3 years. I waited so long to simply kiss him. My passion for him was wild. And his for me, was too. But in the end, he said being friends is better. We haven't really had a re... (432 words)

I think I might be gay.

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24 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 15 and im kinda alone in the world. Im relly scared because.... when i was younger i was always the one who never cared about girls! ever! and when i was 12 i kinda figured out why! Its becaus im gay... I think? well, Am I? I never get sexuly happy when i see nude girls but ... (196 words)

My controlling and agrressive behaviour caused my boyfriend to dump me. How can I get him back?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been on and off for a year and a bit, he's family hate me, as a posted something nasty about him on face book to everyone. Ok pretty much, i'm really controlling, i get angry if i find out he is calling other girls, or if he promises to do something with ... (226 words)

I am afraid I will give in to sex for fear of being lonely forever.

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im very scared to date. im a 19 year old virgin who is lonely bu i think i suffer from low self esteem. i had one bf in highschool he broke up with me cuz we didnt sleep together n lied about sleepin with me that has caused me major trust issues cuz i figure all guys do that. ... (251 words)

"I just want you to know who I am"

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (Moderator’s note: edited to include paragraphs; OP's title) I don't really know how or where to start...um, I guess I should first explain that I have aspergers, which means I have a lot of difficulty talking to people. When I'm around my two or three close friends, or at ho... (1230 words)

Married and dating a married man for 5 years... am I wasting time thinking he will leave his wife when the kids are older?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met the man that I am currently involved with at my job. I had been married for 8 years and he had been married for 6 at the time we met. (We are both still married to our spouses) We both have children the same age range.(but he is 10 yrs older than me) It started out a ... (610 words)

Will my penis please a girl?

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24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and my penis is 6.5 long and 5 inches around,basically im nervous about sex, do i have good length and girth to please a girl?... (29 words)

I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?

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24 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real.... (31 words)

I am hoping to reconcile with my ex, but should I tell him about my drunken dalliance with another?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex for good reason, then after a few months just as we start talking again about getting back together I got wayyy too drunk and did something sexual with someone else. Now I feel really guilty and I'm scared if he knew we could never reconcile but I realize ... (68 words)

What is this pink discharge?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have pink discharge, it's not much at all, just when i urinate.. i've missed 2 periods, and i took 2 pregnancy tests, but both came back negative. i'm wondering what this pink discharge is... could it mean i'm pregnant? i have that "pregnant feeling" but i don't want to get ... (62 words)

I moved with my boyfriend to another city but I can't find a job and he can no longer support me for free. Please help!

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive asked for advice on here before but now i think it time i asked again... im feeling extremely stressed. everything feels like its falling around me. about five months ago i had a perfect plan. i have an amazing boyfriend who lives with his dad. i met him wen i li... (880 words)

My girlfriend is getting more pleasure from sex than I am. How can I feel what she feels!

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24 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there any way to increase pleasure for the guy during sex foreplay or anything? It is so depressing knowing that my girlfriend is getting 9x more pleasure then I am and I barely feel anything. She says her pussy feels like its on fire with tinglyness and im just thinking "I ... (99 words)

Should I drop the class or go after her?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a girl in one of my classes who I really like. REALLY like. It's not my best class, actually it's my worst, and I'm not sure whether or not to drop it and pick up another half course next year. It's probably better to stick with it, but I really hate it, and am failing ... (208 words)

Is this tutor fair game?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really sure how to go about asking this, so I'm just going to jump right into it. I have a tutor for my science class that I really like. He tutors me once a week and we get along great. I flirt with him a lot and I'm pretty sure that he flirts back. He's only five or ... (132 words)

Should I help my b/f babysit his kid?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I will go straight to the point me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years about a year and half ago things started to get stressful between us so we broke up. He started to see someone else and got her pregnant they broke up and me and my Bf got back together ... (219 words)

How can I start a convo about the times he flirted with me?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy now , and a while ago he would always call ne so hott and try and hug me and sit on me , lol , and i was seeing someone at the time so i couldnt really flirt back , so i was wondering , how could i start up a convo now about those times ? ... (61 words)

I am pregnant by donor insemination, but the kids I teach are saying I got drunk and knocked up!

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright, so im an 8th grade teacher and im 27 years old. I haven't been in a relationship in about 5 years ago, and everyone seems to be taken. My students seem to all know this information about me and they are talking. When I was talking with one of my co workers she said ... (125 words)

Should I approach my manager?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello: I was removed out of a dept. that I was hired into do because of this manager I worked with for two years. Things went bad due to workplace drama and gossip, and lack of communication to clarify things between us. Now this season I find myself out of the depart... (270 words)

Sweaty arm pits becoming a major pain.

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my problem isnt about sex, or dating, but it could be consitered related to that. im 13 and about scence this oct. or nov. i have been experiencing pit stains. but its not just on white shirts in on any shirt i wear! this is quite embarassing. i also had the same ... (160 words)

Ex girlfriends with his children seem very clingy.

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24 March 2010 (F) - Ok, So I have been with my BF for almost 6 yrs and I am so in love with him. He has three children prior to our relationship which I also love. What I dont love at all, are the baby mamas I have to deal with. All three of his baby mamas still have feelings for him and have ... (183 words)

I find it easier to talk to him online, how can I overcome this problem?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy on my tennis team for a little bit. We talk perfectly online, where I can totally be myself and talk about anything that comes to mind. But then, when it comes to real life, he intimidates me. He'll give me a look, and i'll shy away. We made a ... (90 words)

Do I follow her for the sake of the relationship?

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24 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Got into a long distance relationship where this person moved 2500 miles just to be with me. Never before been here and dont know anyone. Before moving, I was asked if there was anything I needed to tell this person that would affect us if found out later. But I did not mention ... (274 words)

10 months and he still wont invite me to his home. Am I just a booty call?

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24 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have dated this guy for about 10 months. He says he's divorced and his kids and ex live in another country. Yet he is always going to visit or they visit. Am not bothered by him visiting his kid but he stays in the house which she got in the divorce.He has the$ to stay ... (220 words)