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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm getting mixed signals!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I hope someone can help me!! There's this guy who I really like, but he is sending me mixed signals!! Does he really like me, or should I just give up on him? First off, I'm 20 years old and I have never been in a relationship. My Dad treated my Mom like dirt, and t... (556 words)

My student/teacher relationship is going good, but he feels anxiety about how we started!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, So Im interested in knowing what people think of this situtation, if not for myself but maybe for my current boyfriend who is struggling with some issues. As a senior in highschool I took a class with a teacher my older sibling had had. I instantly formed a bond wi... (618 words)

I've taen 3 preganacy tests and nothing. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all, kinda puzzled looking for some help please.. well in January I have sex well to put it nicely 2 pumps and a squrt with no contraception(silly I know)anyway... got my period at the end of January on my usual date then the end of February nothing? I have taken 3 ... (229 words)

The girl I fancy calls me "mate" on social netwroking sites, but not in person. Is this bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - is it a bad thing if a girl who you fancy calls you 'mate' whilst on social networks ? but hasn't yet called it you in person ?... (30 words)

He broke my heart 2 years ago, we had sex, and now he's awkward around me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm gay and I just had sex with a guy who broke my heart 2 years ago. I used to like this guy a lot after he confessed to me that he's gay. We were friends at first but I did cross the line asking him out but he said he's not looking for dating anyone at the moment. After that ... (457 words)

How can I have an orgasm?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been having sex for almost 5yrs now an not once i have ever experienced an orgasm. wat's wrong wit me??? what can i try to get 1???... (29 words)

I'm in love with my friend, but she changes her mind about me and reverts back to guys. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, female, and bi. I know they say I may be too young to be 'in love' but I honestly, truely believe I am. There's this girl, who is now a very good friend of mine, that I've known for almost a year and a half. We became friends quickly. Since the day we first talked I was ... (203 words)

Is he interested in anything more than sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have been "talking" since Christmas. We've talked before in the past but things always sizzled out being as we live about 2 hours from each other and don't get to see each other that often. Well, this is the longest we have talked and we have got to see each ... (344 words)

Advice on irregular periods?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a really important question to ask i'm 18 and i am sexually activate anyways, on the 10th of Demember my period came usual, it was due next on jan 9th but it didnt come till jan 28th (yea all tht time i was scared i was preggy), but it came on the 28th an little heavier ... (134 words)

Could it be possible for my girlfriend to be absolutely unable to reach orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, we have both enjoyed great sex, and have done it 50+ times. The problem is that no matter what I do, she won't orgasm. We love each other very much to the point that we would both die for each other. I have tried everything on my... (336 words)

Are we both idiots for staying in an abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm gonna summarise this a bit. Both I and my bf of 5 years are difficult people. We're both sensitive, emotional, highly-strung and easily hurt. He was abused by his mother, and I've been bullied for years. We have an awesome relationship, and a truly strong one but ... (183 words)

Orgasm help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - When I give myself orgasms after a few seconds It feels really good nd I strt twitching nd I have to stop. Y?..... (23 words)

My boyfriend injured my brother playing soccer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My brother and boyfriend play football (soccer) for different teams but they were playing each other. My boyfriend tackled my brother and my brother was in agony on the floor. He had to be taken to hospital and his ankle is broken. My boyfriend says it was an accident and that ... (122 words)

Is the potential for a relationship here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright. This, I'm sure is probably a common (ish?) situation. I'm seventeen. I look older than I am, (around early twenties, so I've been told), so that might explain a little bit of this situation. At my job, there's a guy, he's married and about to be 27. We flirt a lot - he ... (243 words)

Trying to spice things up in the bedroom. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months and i feel like sex is kinda getting old i told her today we should spice things up but didnt tell her everything is starting to get old i asked her if she wanted to try tantric sex she said yes but i want to try other ... (130 words)

Is this normal after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister broke up with her boyfriend because he was cheating and so I've been spending all my time with her. She's really upset and has been crying a lot so I've just being telling her I love her and taking care of her. The last couple of nights she's been coming into my bed ... (92 words)

Looking for suggestions for my love-list

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm writing my boyfriend a list of 375 reasons I love him. Before you start - yes, I know he will like it. I know my boyfriend. So far I have 276 (so evidently I do love him) -- I'm wondering if anyone can help give me a bit of inspiration. It'll probably have to be generic, ... (77 words)

How can I tell if she's a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a lesbian.I discovered i was a lesbian when i was 13.im 18 now.I have fallen for this woman.i think she is about 32.I want to know how do you to tell if a woman is a lesbian.I know how to tell if a girl is a lesbain but not a woman. I applied for this job she works at. e... (225 words)

Am I over-reacting to his flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out a while but all of a sudden he's been flirting with some girls non stop you would think he was single. To make it worse we were at the cinema with a load of friends and he said he wonders how many girls numbers he can get! There ... (103 words)

I'm embarrassed and need advise as to what this could be. Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im actually quite embarassed to be posting this but i really need advise on what i think may be a problem with my vagina, when i put my finger near the hole my finger catches on this skin maybe im not sure but its like a loop that my finger ca go straight through just as im ... (99 words)

He got someone pregnant while we were broken up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex partner of 8 years and father of my two ids slept wit someone else fpr a few weeks wile we were apart.he told me he wasnt seeing anyone and was still having sex wit me wen he called for kids. he has recently found out she is pregnant. when he told me i was just bout to ... (157 words)

She wont look at me when I talk to her, why is she doing this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I talked to a girl that ive found cute after class that has the same major as me in collage that seems really timid. She doesn't talk ever even when the rest of the class has conversations and just sits and stairs at her computer working or surfing the web. I decided hey why ... (217 words)

Is he really attracted to me? Or does he still like girls what are a size 0?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started dating this guy a couple weeks ago and he has been bringing up his x girlfriends all the time. He always says he likes me and stuff but he still ALWAYS brings them up. It didn't really bug me until I decided to be a facebook creeper and see what these girls ... (149 words)

She wont answer my calls, is she still angry with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i have got married to the girl of my dreams and lost her 1.5 months after wedding, the reason was our repeated arguments and i was tough enough with her although i love her more than myself. she left three weeks ago, she is not answering my calls, emails and sms. ive sent her ... (97 words)

I've fallen for my best mates ex girlfriend, and am leaving to become a marine. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people, I seriously need help .. Ive recently fallen for a good friend of mine but we really shouldnt go out.. There is almost everything wrong with this relationship.. *She is my ex girlfriends best mate *She is my best mates ex girlfriend *Ive just got out of a bi... (151 words)

He doesn't think condoms are safe enough and I dislike pills. Should I go on the pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend want to have sex but I am not on the pill and I don't want to, I have regular periods and they a very light, I have no problems with mood swings etc. very lukcy, I think and I don't want to go on the pill because this could change my periods and moods. I ... (96 words)

He takes Cialis for sex with me... but can watch hours of porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We also live together. In the beginning, the sex was great, and he told me I am the best lover he's ever had. However, the past couple of months, the sex has been declining rapidly. I barely get off, and he will last ... (129 words)

I'm jealous and it eats me up inside, how can I get over that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i am a very jelous person but i only am when it comes to my boyfriend. I dont let it afect our relationship cuz i keep most of my jelousy inside. Cuz most of it is stuff that he cant help like girls liking him an stuff like that. But it eats me up on the inside thinking of ... (107 words)

Need Help approaching a girl BUT I have a few problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need advise on how to tell a girl how i feel but theres two problems that are in my way they are that she doesn't really know me as my friends do but we talk abit in class, also she is smarter than me im not jealous or out its just i dont wanna sound stupid in front of ... (147 words)

Is my friend interested in me? He has been acting weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today my friend Rob was acting weird! I hung out with my friends and his brother who is 13 sat. He kept saying that I liked his brother and that he was my boyfriend. He knows that I like him strongly and not his brother. Rob he said that he got drunk and scratched himself ... (134 words)

Married and still wanting to be with my abusive ex boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been in an off and on relationship with my ex for over three years. We and everyone around us from the beginning said that there was a powerful connection with us and it made those in our company always feel like a third wheel. However he would cheat lie and not come home ... (209 words)

I'm very well spoken, and am not sure if this is a good or bad thing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. When i am talking to boys, i find my voice extremely annoying. It dosn't change, but i am quite well spoken, and im not sure whether this is a good or bad thing. would it irritate people? i would love a straightforward answer, thankyou x... (50 words)

Astrology!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I would like to ask what do people think of astrology did anyone read some predictions of his horoscope and it really happened! please give me your experience... (35 words)

What can I do to be able to be affectionate with the one I like.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Since the age of 9 until the age of 14 one of my neighbors would force me to kiss him and he would rub my legs. He does not do it any more but now I cannot allow guys to touch me or I become anxious. It bothers me because I would like to be affectionate with the guy I like but ... (82 words)

I'm a pupil and I can't deal with my teachers backstabbing me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im a fifteen year old girl, and recently i found out that some teachers have been talking about me. im a fairly good student, a bit loud i admit, but nothing too bad. however, my friend's mum works in the school office, and the other day she overheard the staff talking ... (123 words)

He doesn't even know my name... how can I get closer to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please help i like a boy and he doesnt know, he doesnt even know my name. I dont know what to do, hes in my youth club and the boys dont talk to the girls and the girls dont talk to the boys. I liked him a while back but then i started to look at other boys but now i like him... (102 words)

This is to the men... what attracts you to women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Just a general 'i want him to like me' question; theres this guy, 2 years above me that i really like. I want him to notice me for my assets etc. Men and boys; what attracts you? hows the best way to walk, talk, act etc. What do you prefer. thank you, ... (71 words)

Did he really mean it when he said he loved me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 16 (female) and would really appreciate some help. right so the thing is ive been best friends with this guy for about a year and a half now, he's gay and we both had relationships with boys in the past. we do everything together school, shopping, go out for meals et... (317 words)

What am I doing wrong to not lose the pounds?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so recently me and my sis have joined the gym! were both the same dress(16) but Im a bit taller and weigh 20kg more than her! Whenever we go to the gym she also does everything at the bare minium and always ends up sitting down or just asking can we go home yet and i also do ... (137 words)

How can I boost my confidence in the dating scene?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old. I have never had a proper boyfriend and only been on 1 date in the last years and he turned out to be a real idiot. I have very low self esteem and find it really hard to meet new people. I have tried chat sites but always back out when it comes to meeting up ... (98 words)

Whats the difference between these quotes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'd like to ask, are there any differences in meaning when you say " I don't feel I have a right to give you advice" and "I feel I have no right to give you an advice"? ... (41 words)

It's hard for me to see past his looks.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in my late thirties, I have been with my boyfriend who is 3 years older than me for a few months. I thought I would have got past this feeling by now but I don't seem to have yet....I like him as a person but I find him unattractive. He is overweight, bald, jobless and ... (233 words)

How do I handle this situation? My son's father has a new girlfriend and I am finding it hard to cope with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my son's father and I haven't been together in four years. We have always been off and on with relations. Recently he got a girlfriend and I think they are serious ! I think she is living there if you ask me she is always under him always over there when you go in his place ... (217 words)

Should I stay and see where will it take us or just let him go now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I should clarify my question: I have been with my guy for almost 4 years. When i met him his mom was already living with him (moved in since last relationship of his ended. As the time went on and we started having serious feelings for each other i asked him if hell be willi... (271 words)

If I play it cool will he want to be with me and the baby again in time? Or is this the end of the road?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,i could really use some advice.back in january 2009 i had a miscarriage.me and my partner had been together for a year and was over the moon when i found out i was pregnant. the miscarriage was a big shock and needless to say very devastating.a few weeks later my partner ... (489 words)

Is there anything I can do to be more attractive physically or am I just too old to be considered attractive?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to hear a sincere answer. Not a mean one, but a sincere one. I've been feeling very depressed about my age and my appearance lately. I feel like I'm very plain and unattractive and I want SO BADLY to be attractive and desirable. Is there anything ... (313 words)

Do all boys just want sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - soo i really want to know do boys really all just want sex? becouse when i even get close to a boy they ask for sex and so this horrible pick up lines and they say stuff like "but your just soo hot i recken you would be amazing in bed" and its like WHAT?? im 15 and youre li... (108 words)

Should I go back to my married ex who I really loved? Or do I contact this new guy that I am attracted to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all.! I have a love question / dillema. I met a guy I really loved when I was 19 yrs old. I really loved him, but we were young - he cheated on me, and we split. I was very hurt. Anyway we bumped into each othere a few years on, and he told me he had regretted us ... (553 words)

Why do we hurt even if we're in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that even if you and the person you are with are in love why does it still hurt ? i just try to understand that but i can't. i know he love's me. but why do we go through all the thing's we do ?... (48 words)

Should I go out with my mate, or try to get my ex back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so as i have said before, i was seeing my ex for 8 month and we split up 5 month ago now. He was my first love and i also lost my v to him. I still love him and i would do anything to get him back. He has said several times that he doesnt want to get back with me but ... (204 words)

My new partner confessed to cheating on his previous partner for 16 years. Am I unresonable to not want him having contact with this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age - I started a realtionship with a guy I chatted to on a dating site for 2 months. We seemed to be perfect for one another and I wasn't disappointed when we met. A month after meeting (and getting on so well)he told me something which shocked me...... He lost his wife to cancer 3... (597 words)

I can't orgasm during sex. Is it my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and I have been with my partner for 3 years now. We are comfortable with eachother and have very good comunication going. My problem is that I never can orgasm during sex. I was reading this article that says if you masturbate on your stomach you get some sort ... (95 words)

I was sexually abused most of my childhood, married a man who treats me rough in bed, and want to know how to telll him I am not enjoying it without making him angry.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I will try to keep this short,I was raped for most of my childhood from 6yrs untill I left home.with the man I married I was married at 16 hes 10 yrs my senior and have been with him sence, now im 41 my question is during sex its always been very rough to the point of me ... (170 words)

I am gay and every time I see him kissing his girl friend I die a little inside.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* so i told him how i feel about him when we were alone after school and things weren't like the way i expected them to be i was expecting him to freack out and stuff but he didn't he got angry in a weird way he even pushed me(because of him my favourite watc... (423 words)

I regret having an abortion and feel I have no one to talk to about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15 and had an abortion last year in febuary. all i think of know is what if i kept the baby. I have very strong feelings, and have no one to speak to about this. My mom stood by me when i had the abortion but i feel akward speking to her know about it. I really want my ... (96 words)

Does it make me less girly that people think of me as a 'horndog'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) ok well usually when i and i think most people hear the word horndog they think of a guy. Well im a girl and iv been called that before and i dont take ofence to it or any thing plus we were having a good time. I was just wondering why do most people think of guys when ... (78 words)

He wont move out from his mum's house. Should I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my guy for almost 4 years, but anytime wee talk about moving in together he sais he has to live with his mom to help her!!!! Do i stay with him and see where it aill go or do i try to find my happiness somewhere else???... (52 words)

Where do we stand in this relationship on our year abroad? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am British and he is from a European country. We are both on our year abroad in university. He is slightly older than me and we have been meeting in our university campus between and after classes for like two months now. I approached him and sort of asked him for his number ... (636 words)

I love him, but his past is hurting me emotionally. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm hoping someone can give me some advice! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and am sure that I love him. He has told me that he loves me and we are very happy together. It is definitely the healthiest relationship I've ever been in and my family and friends ... (221 words)

My boyfriend is being abusive, is it the Indian Hemp affecting him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend in 2006,he is not that rich so i always help him financially. Everything has been okay until this year.He moved in with me,later i saw hemp in his possession and i claimed to have thrown it away. He beat hell out of me and that's the first time,he promised ... (158 words)

Does he want me to call, or was it just a closing line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After a date, if a guy says ' Ok well give me a call later or something'... do you think they actually want you to call them, or could it just be a closing line?? shouldnt the guy call the girl?? :S ... (47 words)

I really like this guy, but he's always coming up with excuses to not have sex. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya all at cupid Im being stupid hear but theres this guy i like a lot slept with him like 4 times, Talk throughout the day but thats only short conversatings Anyway the only way i think i can see him is ask him for sex and yes last week i did ask him loads and he... (233 words)

My wife embarrasses me, and treats my daughter badly.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a married to the same woman for a few years now. Before I met my wife I had about thirty girl friends. Even though I had so many girl friends I only had sex with two of them. I was looking for a relationship and not a booty call. My wife is constantly ... (223 words)

How can I get over my cheating ex? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I cant get my ex boyfriend out of my mind. He cheated with me and in front of me he dated another girl. I cant face that girl coz when ever i see her i feel she's better then me thats why my boyfriend left me for her. Im always stressed due to this and now im having open pores ... (90 words)

I tried to 'spice things up' and he liked it, but now says he doesn't. Did he lead me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts. ok so my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship for the last one year. a few weeks ago,i decided to try to spice things up and i started textin him dirty,(kind of like phone sex)and he responded very well. he even called me the next day and told me how he ... (275 words)

She's 'gay" but won't leave my boyfriend alone!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ok, I might be making something out of nothing but I'd like some opinions on this. My boyfriend and I are both actors, and a while back he was in a play. He said he got on very well with the Lighting Assistant and she was gay and had a girlfriend. Now, the other da... (301 words)

Am I wasting my time thinking about a man who thought it was acceptable to finish a relationship by text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I guess I would like a bit of reassurance. My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago now, and I think I am struggling to cope with it. We had only been together for 7 months, but I had started to fall in love with him. He did say in liked me but that he couldn't tell me he ... (406 words)

My Boyfriend wants only sex, and wont do anything for me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I only have sex! He won't do anything for me, he won't finger me, or go down on me, when we have sex we keep the top half of our clothes on, and when we're done, he rolls over...every time. What should I do? I want to stay with him, but this isn't fair. I've ... (83 words)

What do American men think of Irish women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

22 March 2010 (F) age 41-50 - What do the American men think of the irish women? Do they like Irish women? Are we different from the American women? Are we more conservative and quiet, as irish women themselves... (32 words)

How can I ever trust someone ever again after what she did to me?

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i was dating this girl for a while, but she hooked up with somone else, got pregnant,and basically started pretending i didnt exist. she ignored all my textes,and didnt answer her phone when i called. we were extremely close and my question is, feeling as betrayed as i do, how ... (59 words)

Which of these texts seems more natural and effective? I want to set up a first date but I'm not sure how to go about doing this

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, So 5 days before spring break (about 15 days ago) I met this girl in my ballroom dancing class. We talked for about 15 minutes while the teacher got there, and I ended up getting her phone number. I just got back from home, and was planning on sending her a text m... (226 words)

He's talking about a relationship and the future but I am not wanting to read too much into this! Help!

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok well i have been by myself for seven years.i meet someone about 3 mouths ago.we didn't start talking only two mgs till now as i was meant to email him but i didn't but some how we started talking on messenger... and then we have also been emailing one other.i really like him ... (100 words)

He said he will wait for me but I'm not sure if I like the fact that he smokes and drinks now, what should I do?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and Jack, we dated for a year in elementry and I have to move and so I have talked to him in 2 years and today we finally talked. He's in 8th grade and I'm in 7th he told me he had started smoking and drinking. But we both like each other a whole lot, but I don't like the ... (220 words)

I want to break up with my GF, I'm so unhappy and I don't trust her, but I keep failing

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* I'm in a 2 years relationship. basically, i do not trust my GF. i'm sooo unhappy, i have been trying to break up with her for the past three months. all attempts failed. in fact, sometimes i end up having sex with her when im going to break up. i don't k... (155 words)

How can I turn my 80% good man into a 100% perfect man?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a good man" but there's one problem he dosen't clean" he has time and energy for sex but not for cleaning how can I turn my 80% good man into a full 100? please help!... (38 words)

Could my boyfriend possibly be gay? Or one day come out?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is wonderful. My family loves him and I love his family in return. He is a mommys boy but I understand why. His mom is a very loving older women from italy and Im a lot like her. His dad is really funny and nice too. My problem here is ... (1653 words)

The guy I hate has a crush on me, and now I am starting to like him too! What should I do?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have told myself I hated this guy scene last year, i told people how much i hated mim when they brought him up in conversation. So recently one of my friends told me someone had a crush on me, I got so exited because from whan I know that has never happened to me before. I ... (230 words)

Am I in labour?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 4th day of back pain in late pregnancy is it labour?tonight has been the worst, i have woken up from severe lower back pain and a pain on the left side of my vaginal wall however i have had no contractions in my stomach is it labour?... (47 words)

Why can't I get over my wife leaving me?

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I'm nearing my divorce. It's been almost 2 yares since I woke up one morning and my wife told me it was over. She was seeing some one else at the time . She has dated a few guys since then.Me no one. Why can't I ever get her off my mind.When will I be okay with are break ... (92 words)

My boyfriend had an affair and now he has a child with her, I want us to work but I am just so hurt!

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and have 2 children together. Last year he was having an affair and the other woman now has his baby. He loves his child and wants to be a part of his life. My problem is I know he and this woman have to communicate and there's no ... (171 words)

The man I love is gay.

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently told my best friend that im in love with him. he confessed to me that hes gay about 2 months before i told him. i dont have any problem with gay people but it frustrates me when he tells me stories about his experiences. i feel like hes afraid to tell me certain ... (111 words)

I need help getting my ex back after 3 and a half years of being together! Please help!

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this is a long read but I urge you to please hear me out! I'm confused and anyone who's had their heart broken by the love of their life will be this desperate for help. I'm in a pretty tough situation right now and would really appreciate it if anyone can suggest what... (1512 words)

My boyfriend does not seem interested in my sexy texts. Why?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am trying new sexual things w/my boyfriend because he brought it to my attention. But when I try to send him a sexy text message he just goes to bed or seems uninterested. why???... (35 words)

Is love a losing game?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This keeps me awake at night all the time and I can't go on feeling like this. I need some help... I don't want to make the wrong decision. I had a boyfriend for the last 6 months but recently I have started falling for someone else. I kissed this other guy two months when ... (912 words)

How can I relax during sex after having been abused?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in therapy the past five years because I was sexually abused repeatly. Things are recently getting better but sex still makes me very nervous at times. I've been in a relationship with my bf for two years now and is very supportive in the bedroom. (He comes from a ... (111 words)

I am in love with my girlfriend but have a crush on her sister. What should I do?

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 years old and have fallen in love with my girlfriend of a year, we've had a fantastic first 6 months but the last 6 we have seemingly ran out of steam and every part of our relationship is falling apart. We rarely have sex, and get in arguments almost on a dail... (220 words)

Now I'm single is it ok to flirt with people I already know or should I stick to new people and strangers?

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - It seems to me that when you meet someone that you would be interested in, you have a very short window to let that be known. Otherwise people get comfortable as your friend. And I've never turned a friend into a relationship, nor seen a lot of people do it unless they were ... (249 words)

Is there a chance I could be pregnant even if he pulled out before he ejaculated?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex but he pulled out a minute before he ejaculated.. i'm concerned now because i'm also ovulating.. i have been for a couple of days.... is there a great enough chance i could be pregnant even if he pulled out way before..? also, ... (72 words)

I feel horrible that my wife was crying whilst we had sex! Does this mean she finds me repulsive?

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi this is driving me nuts. me and my partner have been together for about 5 years we have children together and seem happy we have are ups and downs no big deal.but are sex life has got dull and not a lot of it i mean big gaps.we both made jokes about it how poor it is but it ... (206 words)

What do you guys like being done for you during sex?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I'm looking for some guys' opinions regarding sex. What are some special things you appreciate that your girlfriend/wife do during sex? I'm just looking for some things to make it more interesting. Any opinions would be helpful! Thank you!... (42 words)

Help! This guy makes me have verbal diarreah!

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* I met this guy, with whom I share a lot of interests with. It is fresh and new. Super new actually. We've been on one date but have shared many hours talking on the phone and in person. I get so excited to talk to him I end up blabbing! He has been really... (130 words)

My husband says he is not in to me, yet does not want a divorce or to work on it either.

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22 March 2010 (F)

age - I have been married 24 years. About 12 years ago we started to grow apart. Intimacy became less and less. My husband's attitude towards me was that of disdain. There were in-law problems (they don't like me, I wasn't their choice). This became problematic as I felt my ... (248 words)

I don't think I'm gay...but I've had sexual intercourse with other men

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, to go right into this. I consider myself a straight male, heterosexual and love woman; however, there comes a time where I find myself fantasizing about have sexual intercourse with men. I have participated in gay sex and i was in the receiving end. I just have these urges ... (176 words)

Can you meet a potential partner over the internet if he lives in another country?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this sounds far-fetched, but what are the chances of meeting a possible boyfriend over the internet, if he lives in another country? I would like to have a boyfriend, but the guys in my area don't interest me. I just got back from Spain (I was there for over a month... (679 words)

I'm still a virgin at 18, should I be putting myself out there a bit more?

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well, the thing is im just 18 and im still a virgin, and all my mates as far as i know have done it. im worried about being one of those guys who doesnt loose it until im in my late 20`s early 30`s. i know people are going to say "dont do it for the sake of doing it, do it ... (123 words)

Should I tell her that I am in love with her?

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm in love with one of my best friends. We'll call her Carl, no she's not a guy and her real name is not Carl. Anyhow I've known her since she was born. I'm with her almost every weekend, of course it's not just the two of us, her cousin (we'll call her Sam) and her ... (513 words)

I would love someone to tell me that my decision to see a married man is right.

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've already made my decision, I guess like most women I would love to have someone tell me it is the right one but that is not likely. I've agreed to an affair with a married man. We were together when we were very young and I ended it because I didn't feel I could fit into... (405 words)

How can I make my girlfriend not feel like I am using her.

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a girlfriend and i really love her alot. the problem is that i dont know how to treat her right, without making her feel like that i am using her for my own good. i dont want to make her feel that way at all. i need adive on how to treat her with rrespect and not make ... (69 words)

Parents want to get divorced. Should we talk to them or let them figure it out?

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This question isn't about my relationships but my parents and whether or not I should get involved. Long story short, my parents have been married for 35 years. I don't think they've ever gone 2 months without arguing about something and subsequently not speaking to each... (227 words)

Child abuse... help!

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was 12 1/2 , I lived with my dad. when my step- mom wasn't home he would take showers with me and make me touch his dick, and balls. and he drove semis, and I would go with him, and he started to make me sleep with him and he would touch me In the wrong places. and he ... (86 words)

My husband has colon cancer... need prayer and information.

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been married for over a year and a half now. July 16th will be our two-year anniversary. My husband has stomach and colon cancer. His hair is starting to fall out. He recently lost his job, and will be trying to look for another one so that he can pay for his canc... (129 words)

Sex has changed what do I do?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i dont have sex like we use to and he swears he not cheating, what do I do?... (21 words)

Things are falling apart ... is there any hope left?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling unappreciated and disrespected... I was friends with my bf 3yrs before we got together and we got a long from the start - had so much fun and he had liked me for a long time before we took the next step. I had two kids before this relationship and did not want any... (755 words)

How do I stop this heart of mine from loving such a cruel person? It hurts every day.

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do I begin. I'm even scared to start, because this means I will have to remember all he has done to me. I can't talk to my friends about it, because he was such a jerk, that I am expected to by all of them to be so over him already. Let me describe you to him, he is 22, ... (1410 words)

I know it is probably stupid, but I am really hurt coz the guy I like smokes!

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy I like A LOT drinks and smokes. Well..when I found out he drinks, it didn't bother me at all. When I found out he smokes I felt horrible. I was happy, but then I went completely sad. Ever since I found out about it, I've been sad. I can never get him off my mind. Its ... (187 words)

Problems in bed are making me feel insecure. Should I say something?

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22 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 35 and dating a guy who is 46. He is very handosome and fit. We have been dating for 3 months and he refers me as his GF. We spend weekends together at my place and his place. We travel together and he invites me to all parties, dinners with his friends, so ever... (175 words)

Changing my ways to win a good girl... I need advice.

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22 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, all. I've got a few insecurity issues atm. I'm currently 21 and though I won't reveal my title, I'm an Earl in the south of England. I'm valued at over £6 billion and control my father's estate. I've always been what my parents and exes describe as 'handsome': i.e.... (263 words)