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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Lost a bet, have to ask him out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy everyone so heres what happening. okay so me and my friend had a bet that if she made the volleyball team then she had to ask out the guys she likes. and if she didnt make the team i had to tell the guy i liked that i liked him. well sad news she didnt make the team. and ... (151 words)

I love him, and his brother loves me too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm going to be fifteen this may and the guy that I'm in love with(18 years old) says he loves me too. I've loved him for two years now and never even thought he'd love me back. Well his brother loves me too. He says he's had feelings for me since a little after we met ... (275 words)

He talks to random girls and lies about porn use. I don't want to be a single mom at 21!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So he has never physically cheated on me that I know of.. But I've caught him talkin to numerous random girls even his ex. We are now engaged and expecting a child.. I've also caught him looking at porn. His arguement is it will never happen again with the girls or Porno.. Ok ... (115 words)

How effective is the pill "microgynon 30" ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys, just a question about the pill im on.. im on microgynon 30 and i was just wondering how effective it is? when my doctor put me on it, i asked her if my partner and i still need to use condoms, and she said that as long as im taking the pill correctly, there is no need ... (110 words)

Is lesbian sex sexual intercourse???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is lesbian sex sexual intercourse? That is, can a women still be a virgin after 'having sex' with another woman?... (23 words)

I'm enjoying the chase but I how do I get things to progress forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age - I recently wrote about being in a deadend relationship for the past 10 years. I have know this guy for 26 years. Been together 10 and have a 7 year old. Never met his mum or family. Do not live together. I have had enough. does not communicate well either. Met a guy who ... (298 words)

This marine is coming on to my woman!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This guy that recently left for the marines told my girlfriend that he was in love with her and was going to come back for her and was going to write a book about her and all this other stuff. So I told her that it would be for the best to drop all contact with thy guy because ... (123 words)

He said I have issues keeping in touch!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf has stated that i have an issue with keeping in touch. He mentioned that its hurtful when I don't call for atleast once or during acouple of days to intiate contact by phone. This has been going on since we've started dating and its been almost 2 years. I dont know why i ... (236 words)

A follow up from my last dilemma.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Following on from my last dilemma...for the past month we haven't even remotely touched on 'serious discussions'. We've been 'dating'..doing all the normal stuff like going to the seaside, going to the zoo and having meals. All very fun but a bit wierd as they seem such a... (254 words)

Crush on my second cousin.... so wrong but so right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm sure most have felt it..... you meet one of your 2nd..3rd cousins and before you realize hes your cousin you think hes cute, funny, and an all together good guy. Then the dreaded thing happens, turms out your related. I met my 2nd cousin back in May, thought he was sunny ... (178 words)

How do you decide which problems are worth getting through and which you can't handle?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question but don't want to go much in detail so I hope it will be enough information for a response. In every relationship there are problems. How do you decide which problems are worth getting through and which you can't handle. It is hard for me since I wonder if I ... (187 words)

Help!!! Did I make the wrong decision???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been dating this guy since February 5th and I just decided that I dont want to be together anymore. This guy freaks out on me for stupid stuff and whenever he has a bad day he takes it out on me and gets all angry. If I cant hang out with him he finds another girl to ... (194 words)

How do I get him to see that we still have a strong relationship, it's just broken???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone I need help :( My husband and I have been married for 2 years but have only actually been with each other 5 months out of that due to the army and him being deployed. Our relationship before the army was very strong and healthy but while he was deployed he became v... (1680 words)

All I want is my family back again...

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9 March 2010 (M)

- My fiancé and I are having problems because I am not well I suffer from what the GP thinks is bipolar disorder and through this I can become very angry. I had an anger episode on the 22nd of febuary which resulted in me being arrested for domestic breach of the police to which ... (822 words)

Boyfriend has become increasingly distant, am I just being overly sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months, and in the last 2 months he has become increasingly distant. We used to be together pretty much all the time, and when we werent together we spoke or texed frequently. We used to see each other 2 or 3 times a week, he used to ... (307 words)

I don't know if I can wait 3 years...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and live in the UK. I met a friend online a year ago, he lives in saudi arabia and is the same age as me. we have been in a relationship for just under a year. i love him a lot and the feelings the same, but we are not going to meet and be together for another ... (183 words)

I'm scared he will leave me again...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid i have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 years and, he has been the only person who i have ever loved. A few weeks ago he left me and didn't give me a good enough answer to say why he left me, he told me he didn't love me the way i loved him and he have become m... (344 words)

What is the 'secret code" in finding a girlfriend???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am having a lot of trouble finding a girlfriend. I have to admit I am very shy going up to a complete stranger and asking her on a date. The only girls I have the courage to talk to are the ones that i meet at classes or in shows that i do which kinda requ... (207 words)

"Brace" yourself!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and have horrible upper teeth, I have just seen an orthodontist who has said I need a fixed brace for 12-18 months, I have always felt awkward about my teeth and want them straight but I am constantly worried what people think of me and being 27 I really don't want a ... (150 words)

He prefers to masturbate than have sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyrfriend rarely wants to have sex with me. at first we used to do it at least 3 times a week. then it went down to 2 times. then 1 time a week. if possible 1 time every 2 weeks. or whenever he feels horny. i talked to him about it, why dont we do it more often like we used ... (120 words)

Is he getting too close for comfort with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a lot of friends, mostly guys, but some of them girls. There is one girl he is really close to, and I think he talks to her pretty much every day. He has known her for two years, and him and I have been dating for one year. She does have a boyfriend, but these ... (126 words)

Do I let my ex see my son after all the chances I've given him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been apart from my ex for 1 year now we have a 2 and a half year old son together and my ex has cared more about partying and drinking instead of seeing his son even when we were together.iv given him plenty of chances to see his son and he always lets me down not turning ... (252 words)

She wants time out alone... yet says I'm a fantastic boyfriend! What gives???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years now, we only see each other about once a week but she has asked for some time to her self to think! We're very much in love but she has said that she sometimes doesnt find she misses me! I know I've done nothing wrong and ... (78 words)

How can I get my husband to help out in the house more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... I am a mum of two. A 3 year old and 6 month old. Due to my son still being young im not working but my partner is, But he helps out with nothing at home! Its driving me mad. He does nothing for the little ones, feeding, bathing, cooking, nappy changes, preschool run for ... (225 words)

Should I contact this married man and tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I like a man who attracted me at first sight. hes family oriental man a good husband maybe with high flyin pay presentable mature but he's married with wife n kids what should i do? he has a wife who is not pretty why does she deserve him? i dont mean to destroy his family but ... (150 words)

Please help! HOW to get him back???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, basically, my fiance broke it off with me yesterday, on the basis that he felt he couldnt trust me after i cheated on him last october(he found out 2 weeks after it happened, broke it off straight away, but came running back a few days later and proposed, and we had a long ... (261 words)

How can I bring up the subject of STI's without offending him???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, well im in a bit of a dilemma, im 15 and i like this guy who is 18. im not in love or anything and i have seen him a few times, on which occaisions, he fingered me and i tossed him off. He is the first and only guy up to yet who i have done stuff with. i wasnt looking ... (235 words)

My guy has no time for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age - My guy has no time for me! I'm wondering what I should do. He genuinely has just become very busy and we have dated for 7 months. He first said he loves me a few months ago and we say it during all our conversations or when we are together. We have talked about marriage/l... (388 words)

Was my cousin trying to have sex with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Was my cousin trying to have sex with me? About 4 months ago me and her and the family went to France and stayed in a hostel one night our parents left and there was a friend sleeping on the sofa and my cousin was taking a shower and came out naked and covered with a pinkish ... (121 words)

I forgave my wife for the affair, ironically it actually turned me on! Anyone else ever felt this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age - My wife had an affair with her boss from 1984 to 1988. she told me about. it hurt bad, I could not eat or sleep for days. we went for help but i wanted more sex than before. it would turn me on, thinking about what she told me. she told how much he said he enjoyed it. how good ... (117 words)

This relationship with my son's father needs to stop!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my son's father and I have been having relations off and on for the past 7 years!!!! Durint that 7 years my son came into the world. About a year ago he decides to get a girlfriend and he has been with her off and on as well but fot the past year I guessed it's been getting ... (249 words)

Long-term damage from anal?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I was just reading some questions about anal sex and it said that anal sex can damage you in later life. Well I have had anal sex and have been doing so for a few years. I don't do it very often - about once a month. I was wondering if I could have harmed myself and if ... (63 words)

Life after my affair...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair with a man 20 years my senior. We were caught by my husband. yes, I know it was wrong. Long story. Anyway, its been almost three months since we were caught. In the initial weeks after the affair there were lots of texts back and forth between myself and the man ... (503 words)

SOS: In a relationship but in love with teen girls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Greetings to all on DearCupid: I'm 21, from Miami (Florida, not Ohio), and I have an internal issue involving whether I should stay in love with my 19-year-old long-distance girlfriend I've met on a social gaming site about a month ago, or fall in love with a 16-year-old high... (357 words)

I kicked him out but he won't leave me alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I kick my ex boyfriend out going on about a week ago. Sense I did that he calls everyday all day texing me all day and it drives me crazy !!!!! The problem is we didn't get alone and all we did was fuss while we were living together. He doesn't have a place of his own no car ... (187 words)

Obsessed with a married man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid i am 13 years old and there is a 29 year old that i am absolutely obsessed with. but he has no idea. he is married and has 2 kids, but i cant stop thinking of him and my "obsession" has begun to control my life. I need help before this gets out of hand and he find ... (73 words)

Falling for Mr Nice, is what I'm doing working?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, about a month ago I gave up on boy, especially in my school. I just wanted to wait until that one person came around.. the person who understands me and isnt like any other childish boy. Then on my way to school, a boy from another school always gave me evils and i ... (276 words)

Is my boyfriend embarrassed of me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been going out with this guy for a month now and we went out last night with his mates, and he went to kiss me and i always close my eyes when kissing, but i had a look and he was looking around at his mates, and i cant help but think hes embarrassed about me. because ... (132 words)

Does masturbating affect my sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Does masturbating effect my actual sex life??? I'm 15 and i started masturbating approx. 1 yr ago... ... (18 words)

Should I take my teenage daughter to a clinic to get birth control? There are no close females in her life and I am worried about her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age - I am a single father of 3 teen age children, 1 daughter (16) and 2 sons (17) and (19). My daughter has been dating a boy from her school since late january. He seems like a nice enough of a guy but my sons call him a "player". A few nigths ago I came home a found them in a ... (270 words)

I honestly can't believe that he's trying to justify what he did and I feel like I can't help him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at my wit's end. Last night, my husband got angry with me for asking him a question. I asked if it would be OK if my friend's husband drives me over to her house on Thursday. She is at home with her baby, so she can't really do it herself. He said, "Of course it isn't OK. ... (441 words)

Text mania!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all at dear cupid this is the second time i wrote on hear and its still about the same guy, ok well like said before meet this guy october he sent me a random txt getting on great stoped talking mid november, every now and then i text thim saying hi where he replies ... (282 words)

I felt like a complete twat!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy through a friend of mine, ive only sopken 2 him on facebook and from what we have spoken about he seems a really nice guy, the reason why my friend said add him was because he was single, Anyway since then we chat on fb every day day i emailed my number and ... (286 words)

Self conscious about my vagina...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well... im very self concious of my vagina... my husband thinks it's great... but i've noticed that my 'vagina lips' are a little farther apart than normal to me... and my clitoris is a little big... so is there anything i could do to help this... to make it sorta tighter ... (55 words)

What goes on in her head???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok so the story is: We’re both 37 and, if you include the last year, have been together for 4 years. Both previously married – no children. We moved in together after about 8 months but in April of 2009 Michelle decided that she ‘had’ to leave me. Her parting words were: ‘I ... (662 words)

Working two jobs...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is taking a job working night shift as a motel clerk. he already has another job plus school. i know he needs the money but im concerned because a) isnt it dangerous to work night shift in motel-what if theres a robbery? and b) i feel like i will never ever get to ... (82 words)

Committed... or mind games???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a foreign guy for 10 months now his english is not too bad, i first knew him in 2007 when i went out with my mates to a club he would always come up to me and ask was i single which i was not at the time if my friend was out and i was,nt he ... (520 words)

I bumped my bump and am worried I may have lost the baby...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 13 weeks pregnant but bumped my bump at eleven weeks - I like to take regular pregnancy tests cos it makes the pregnancy seem more real however this week the line on the pregnancy test was fainter (took two tests with similar results) and am worried in case i have lost the ... (183 words)

Female always climaxing too soon and now it's becoming a problem! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old girl and my partner is 18 we have been together for a year now and our sex life has always been good. For about a month or so i have been climaxing too soon and then i dont feel in the mood anymore and reluctantly carry on because i dont want to ... (107 words)

Am I looking too much into this dream?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5087 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey it's SFL (15yo) back with yet another problem that I would like to be helped with, if you don't mind. A few months back I got out of a horribly ending relationship. It took a little while to get over it but then I started to like one of my close friends at the time. ... (472 words)

My boyfriend has another girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really in a very confusing situation I have been seeing this guy for almost two years off and on we were dating, we broke up, he met someone else moved in with her, things didn't work out and came back to my town! the whole time I waited patiently I love him so much I knew ... (519 words)

Turkish men... serious relationships???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there, I am Georgian girl and I am in a relationship with a turkish guy who lives in turkey, we are talking almost every day in msn. I have known him 2 years and think that he is a cool guy but there is one moment I feel that I like him seriously, but not sure he likes me ... (188 words)

I feel uncomfortable that he is trying to maintain a friendship with his ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have recently met a lovely guy who is so nice, good looking and charming. We dated for a couple of months and have been going out for a month now. Everything is really good between us: except one thing. He is trying to maintain a friendship with his ex who he was wi... (311 words)

Does she still want me or is it head games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - By ex broke up with me about a month ago She caught me in a stupid little white lie about hanging out with my best friend. I still have strong feelling for her I can't let go..... So we've decide to stay friends, gave her a week of space, call and text very little, never came ... (390 words)

Sweet smelling vagina!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I basically want to know if there are any tips as to making your vagina smell good. I've heard that drinking pineapple juice helps but is there anything else? ... (30 words)

Marriage in a rut???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Married for 8 years 2 kids ages 6 eayrs and 6 months. Me and hubby dont like the same music, tv shows or food. I like to go out, he likes to stay in, I like talking he does not, I sleep with baby girl, he sleeps on the couch because he snores and wakes her up. We are ... (124 words)

I don't want to get into anything serious again right away... and then I met Kelly!

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9 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So about a month ago I became single for the first time in a while. I don't want to get into anything serious again right away. I met this girl Kelly and we're hitting it off really well. We've been hanging out because we're working on a film together. We've ended up making ... (267 words)

I need a female perspective please...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, A few weeks ago i told a girl at work that i liked her and asked if she would like to go out. Her response was that she had no idea that i felt that way about but and that i was a sweet guy but she had a boyfriend. I was disappointed with that but was ok with it i s... (253 words)

Worried about our future... do I leave him because of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for over 1 1/2 years, and we live together. i love him very much and most of the time we get on fine, but he has no direction in life and im worried if i settle with him we will end up struggling and living a dead end life. the reason i say hes... (386 words)

Why do I get attached to women so easily??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age - Why do I get attached to women so easily?? I met someone and we only dated a few times, but enjoyed many conversations on phone and online. when she said she did not want to see me anymore, i could not let go because i had got so attached, and got even more clingy after that. ... (75 words)

How can I make sure he knows I love him just as much as he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a question... but I just needed someone to share this with. My current boyfriend is SOOOO sweet! Here's something he said to me: "idky, but i really miss u right now :S i think its cuz i just want to hold you in my arms, and stroke your hair and... (137 words)

How can he move on so fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I just broke up a few days ago.... i saw his facebook that he reactivated right after i moved into my own place (I used to live at his moms) Then I saw him talking to girls... I confronted him... and he said that he needs to find himself and can't be in a ... (260 words)

He's really into me and wants a threesome!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend, we've only been together a month, but we're really into each other or at least I think he's really into me. I mean, he asked if I would participate in having a threesome. Not a normal threesome. He just wants to have 2 girls give him a blow job. I am not too ... (164 words)

Do I love him as much as I think I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 5 months, I am so in love with him, and every time something bad is mentioned like he might leave me, or we even get into a fight i start crying, I always miss him, and hop he is safe, and i cant ever stop thinking about him, ... (93 words)

Help! Feeling left out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 43, hubby is 65 -- and we have been happily married 10 years. My husband has an only son, very mature and intelligent, age 30. My husband always accommodates and is deferential his son (who has never asked anything ridiculous) and has made it clear to me that the son's ... (474 words)

How do I tell my husband I made a mistake...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I have a problem right now with my marriage and would love to receive some advice on how to handle my situation and also if I am doing the right thing. To start off I have to tell you a little about my marriage and myself. My husband and I have been together since we were ... (425 words)

Warts an' all!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If my boyfriend has a wart on his penis and I had un protected sex with him does this mean I will get one too ????????... (26 words)

She said she doesn't feel anything when she's with a man but insists she's NOT lesbian!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok here's the deal, I'm 44 years old divorced with kids. I have a friend, she's 36 and she's still a virgin and she doesn't have a boyfriend and hasn't for a few years, I think ever since she was about 26. This is one of my best friends. A lot of people think she might be ... (405 words)

Need help to break a barrier...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help! I'm experienced with girls like kissing, talking, but not sex, when it comes to sex i know nothing about it, im an inexperienced virgin. Im a senior in high school and this is my last shot. I've known this girl since we were growing up, like preschool times, right ... (173 words)

Can't grab a guy... help!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just can't seem to work up the courage to ask any of the guys i like out, is that a result of insicurity or bad parenting? i know a lot of guys and some are even friendly on a daily basis. I want a real relationship! but im not the type of girl who dresses up in short skirts ... (81 words)

I'm just in this to please her..."

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and I have condoms and a wonderful girl who wants me I love her and we are ready to have sex. tommrrow is our 1 year anniversary and we are gonna have sex but I don't wanna get caught so what should I do? There is an extra bed in my attic, should we do it there or in ... (88 words)

He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him almost 2 years ago he is still... (611 words)

How do I always choose needy men and how can I stop this?

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9 March 2010 (F)

age - Hello: Okay I called off my engagement January 11th as I feel I do fall at times for the wrong man, my last few have been ones that are not what they say or users or want you to take care of them, one was my daughter's fathers what can I do to avoid this? A friend told me not ... (139 words)

Snapfish!

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9 March 2010 (F) - When using snapfish.com, it doesn't show you the date of when you last logged in right? Before contacting an ex a while back, i decided to quickly log into his account only to see if there was a picture of a new g/f or something... if there was a picture I wasn't going to ... (95 words)

I have herpes and it's making me feel sooooo insecure...

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have herpes. I met this guy who doesnt. After a little while I told him and was sure he would bail on me. but he didnt, and we started dating. We have slept together although carefully. My problem is that the herpes makes me really insecure. Why would he even want to date ... (100 words)

Facebook insecurities...

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9 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - It's me the insecure 1 again, but anyways ive been trippen 4 like a month now over a facebook incident with my fiance i watch over her (quite more often than i should) because im ridiculously insecure. i wish insecurity was an easy thing to get over. anyway, i hate her being on ... (235 words)

I would love him to go further...

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years and we have been to 2nd base and I don't know if I'm intimidating him or what but he dosent seem interested in going any further. I've tried but he always makes up excuses to quit, I just want to go further. ... (54 words)

I'm 20, he's 18. Is it weird?

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm twenty and there's this guy I'm starting to feel attracted to. The only thing is he's about eighteen years old. I was just wondering if that's a little weird because it's usually the girl who is younger. I know it's not a big deal for people who are older but we're ... (67 words)

Should I get a boob job?

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9 March 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm wondering if I should get a boob job. I've always had small breasts and yeah, it's a bit of a confidence issue for me because practically all men I know are big boob obsesed, lo, even my boyfriend, even though they "don't mind" small ones, which just sounds like a bit of a ... (155 words)

Do "nice" girls finish last?

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was recently rejected by a man i like. I think i misread his signs. But meanwhile i'm puzzled how to know if a guy likes you romantically or he's just trying to be nice? And do men really like nice girls? i feel nice girls finish last. ... (57 words)

How can I move on with my life and get over this?

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Its me again this girl that wrote this columb -http://www.dearcupid.org/question/help--how-can-i-move-on-with.html So lately I have hit an all time low. Having the love of my life break up with me for someone is hurting me more and more everyday. We had our whole futur... (276 words)

My fantasy man...

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really confused. I’ve always wanted the best, the prettiest, the most expensive… perhaps I’m shallow I don’t know. I had a string of unsuccessful attempts at relationships with men who on the outside were very attractive. I never got to know their personalities because I ... (352 words)

How can I stop the past meddling in my new relationship?

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the first time, I'm saying this out-loud, well not out-loud, but to someone else, besides myself, so bear with me people. My ex boyfriend and I had a horrid relationship. Constantly fighting, breaking up, you know the usual. But I still loved him with all my heart, I ... (251 words)

Help!!! How can I get over my girlfriend's past?

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9 March 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Hi there, just here really needing some help. I'm 25 my girlfriend is 22 and we've been going out for a few months now and ever since my gf brought up our pasts, I can't get over hers. The whole virginity thing was a big deal for me. Even in university I had many chances... (440 words)

Has anyone ever had success getting over depression?

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9 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Has anyone ever had success getting over depression? Has anyone ever been really depressed in their early 20's and then gotten over it later on in their life without the use of drugs or therapy? Do things get better later on in your 20s? Do things get better in life in your ... (82 words)

Sexy striptease tips!

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to do a sexy strip tease for my boyfriend for our anniversary. I need tips. Like step by step if possible!! :) I want to make this really special for him. Also what should I wear? I am willing to recieve all thoughts!! Thank you. ... (47 words)

He cheated...it drives me crazy...completely crazy...

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - By bf and I just turned one year last Feb. And last Friday I found out that a month right after we got together, he had sex with a girl from our work (it's a restaurant franchise). I don't work there anymore, but I knew the girl he had sex with. My friend who still works there ... (520 words)

Please read! Crazy about my best guy friend

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys ne advice wud be appreciated. In short, i love my best guy friend and actually ended things over a year a ago with my ex of 5 years coz my feelings were so strong. My friend ad a gf but they drifted apart. We both have anxiety but are overcoming it and nw live together ... (186 words)

My question is, all things considered, is this relationship even worth trying to save?

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused on what to do anymore. Over a year ago, I found pictures of my boyfriends ex hidden on our computer. Provocative pictures. This was after 3 years of being lied to on and off about her. I flipped out, we fought a lot, and after a few days, he stopped talking ... (233 words)

Best friend moved, best friend came back, best friend turned into... a 13-year-old-prostitute!!!

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I used to have a best friend I told everything to, then one day she moved away. Lo and behold! A year later my best friend returns, everything should be perfect right? Wrong, unfortunately again, because when she came back she wasn't the friend I remembered. She bleached her ... (241 words)

We should be like rabbits but things are going wrong...

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm tash im23 I hear u can with problems with relationship I'm date this guy have be for 1year and 6 months and we live together . Thing are goin wrong he don't give me sex. And when he do I got ask but he rather wank off over porn dos that mean there something wrong with ... (69 words)

Topsy turvy or bottoms up?

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9 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - okay, well i've been with my bf for nearly a year and ive always been bottom and i love it like that, ive never even thought, fantasied or considered myself to be on the top side of sex it just doesn't do it for me, but now my bf wants me to top him and i cant do it and it's ... (95 words)

Are smaller sized condoms available for regular purchase?

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9 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Yeah, so I've tried using a bunch of the regular/average condoms but they're kinda too loose for me and obviously magnum/large ones wouldn't be any better lmao. Are there smaller sized condoms available for purchase? ;x I've already tried looking, myself, though no result... (171 words)

His little sister is invading our relationship.

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9 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriends sister is coming home from living with friends. She butts in our relationship and is very needy of him. I don't like to share and feel like im competing. She also uses him and he accepts it because that's his younger sister. How do I tell him I don't want ... (96 words)

I'm too "sensitive" when she's talking to other guys.

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9 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months total with a couple of break ups here and there. When we first met, she had a boyfriend, but he wasn't the best person. he was a player, and barely made any effort to see her and it was a big "he treats you like ... (714 words)

Any ways to get rid of stretch marks?

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9 March 2010 (F)