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writes:Alright well I was talking with the this for like 2 weeks... we talked about sex stuff prior and we finally hung out and ended up having sex. Big mistake on my part cause after that the guy started just talking about sex nonstop with me. i told him i get the feeling he is just looking for a sex buddy and he said he was that he wanted either just friends or a sex buddy. I told him im not into having a sex buddy and he seemed ok with it. ok the next day he was all shook up and asked why i changed and that i lied to him and why i just had a one night stand with him. I was shocked i told him having sex with him was unexpected and that he was not a one night stand and he still insisted that he wanted to have sex with me even after explaining that i cant handle the sex buddy thing...ok so now i dont know what to do...what do you all think...i am not familiar with sex buddies and i dont want to be used for that
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 Hey there, I agree with you-you shouldn't be used for that. If this guy is insisting on making you a sex buddy, lose him and fast. What happened between you two wasn't blamed, and he honestly can't blame you for it. Being sex buddies with someone can up being extremely bad. And furthermore, it's an empty "relationship" full of selfishness at times. Avoid it at all costs.
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reader, Tine  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 It sounds as though this guy is as confused as you are. Do you have any feelings towards him?? IF you do then i suggest you ask him exactly what he wants from you, does he want to just have you for sex or does it mean much more to him than that? Maybe he is looking for a relationship as it sounds as though you both get on really well. If he says he is not looking for a relationship then make it quite clear to him that you both will never have sex again, because it is not what you want.
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