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How do I let go of the pain?

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am torn and in need of advice. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and was told that he had cheated on me in September of 2009. Just recently he stopped denying it and told me the truth that he did indeed cheat with his ex girlfriend from a long time ago. It ... (149 words

Should I breakup with my clingy BF?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 months now. There was this one point in our relationship a while back when I started to get bored of him (because of his clingyness and almost routine visits,) and I thought of just breaking it off with him then because I ... (217 words

Should I tell a friend about to get married that I have feelings for her?

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14 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - im in love with my best friend but she is getting married in a few months. i feel jelouis when i see them together or hear about what they have done. do i risk our friendship by telling her? and how do i get over my feelings for her and move on?... (52 words

I am avoiding kissing anyone coz I don't know how to go about it!

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14 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old male and I don't know how to Snog I've always had chances to but I've been too embarrased and my mates wonder why I turn down girls that are really good looking. Does it just come naturally? And is it obvios that it's my first snog? I'm 17 now and it'd just ... (71 words

I need help with social skills.

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14 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend, both 15, are always talking but we can never figure out what to talk about. We always end up saying so, but it gets boring after a while. We are both quiet people but I have little to none social skills. Any ideas what I can do to make it where we can talk ... (78 words

Boyfriend brought up his ex in a drunken conversation

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i really love him. I always thought we had a good relationship despite the obvious ups and downs every couple has. The main downer at the moment is that when hes drunk he just can't seem to control what comes out of his mouth. ... (249 words

Is mutual masturbation considered sex?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Just curious about two things. Is mutual masturbation considered sex at all? That is the most I have done and I'm not sure if I count it or not. Also, is there an age at which it's considered weird to still be a virgin? I just turned 21 and I feel like a freak that mutual ... (122 words

I need to get a morning after pill, ... but I have been grounded!

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14 March 2010 (F age - i have had sex with my boyfriend and im getting the morning after pill problem is im grounded so i have to tell my mum, but im really unsure what to say can anyone give me some idea's? would be a big help thanks x... (48 words

My wifes low sex drive is driving me crazy!

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14 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - We both 30 and have been married for two years. we have a daughter who I love dearly. during the first year of marriage sex was great, but now my wife is no longer interested in sex, she hate it so much, if she goes in bed, she does not want to be touched,kissed or hold. I ... (159 words

My boyfriend wants a break. What do I do?

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14 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 1/2 months and he said he wants a break. Everything was going great, we spent the weekends together and always expressed to each other how much we care one another. The day before he asked for a break he did seem a little down and ... (80 words

My boyfriend wants our sex life spiced up. How should I go about this?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So my boyfriend has told me lately that with regards to sex we do the same thing and he wants me to mix it up and make it more exciting. He has expressed concern that I don't seem to take any initiative, which is something I have to change. My problem is I grew up very ... (90 words

We are head over heels for each other but she says she loves me too much to subject me to being with her.

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14 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Dear cupid, My gf and I split 5 months ago yet we continue to see each other about once a week. At best, I'm confused as to what she is doing to me and what she really wants. I have been having a terrible time coping to the point of affecting my work performance. Obviousl... (855 words

I was attacked, am now pregnant and don't know if my partner is the father or if I should have the baby.

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi hope someone can help i am in a relationship wiv someone i also have a son wiv.Not long ago i was attacked who i didnt know now im pregnant i took a test and it was positive im about 2 weeks late and i dont know what to do for the best.if i go through wiv the pregnancy it ... (125 words

How long should you wait after a divorce to start dating?

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14 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Well i just wanna ask how long u should waite after a divorce to date its been 3 months and i know you ganna say its too soon but i didnt chose to leave my marrige i wanna be married i like it its fun someone to care for and charish but i have a problem with working i own my ... (104 words

Should I call it quits over my boyfriend getting high?

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for a year that I knew smoked blunts(get high) when I met him. I never asked him to quit cold turkey or even quit at all. I know its hard and he has to do it for himself. I just ask out of respect for me cause Im not a smoker and I hate the smell ... (242 words

How can I make things less awkward?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ahhhh. Ok, so last night my best guy friend was having a huge party, after we both had a lot to drink we started dancing. We went from one dance party to another in separate rooms. When we got to the second he kissed me. HE initiated it, but I definitely went a long with it. ... (165 words

Is our love fading?

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14 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've been together with my girlfriend since 2007 till now.. In between we broke up for a year.. Early this year, she went National Service for 3 months, and I promised to wait for her. I did. She's back now.. Throughout the waiting period, I missed her very much..... (264 words

Sex with others in the house.

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Thoughts on having sex with parents at home? I'm 17 and I live with my mum. I've been with my boyfriend over a year. He'll probably be at my house for his birthday and it got me wondering what we should do if my mum's in.... (46 words

I'm unhappy with my large breasts!

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14 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - my boobs are way too big, i realy hate them! a friend suggested i wear two braars but it dosent work. wat do i do? i alwayz admire galz with smaller ones, they look so gud especialy in those tiny summer tops, i want that too. i cant afford a breast reduction opp. i alwayz wear ... (78 words

Just friends with benifits.

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am in a physical relationship with a boy who has recently come out of a 3 year relationship. We see each other and are intimate but he claims we are just friends however aspects of our relationship are those that couples have it has been 2 months and i am very confused and ... (62 words

Ready for marriage. Why is he holding back?

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Help Please. I've bee with my boyfriend for 11years now. We moved in together about 5 years ago. and been engaged for 6years. Now here's mt problem he won't set a date. He says we are soon. But then he says its just a piece a papper and that he loves me and can't see him ... (135 words

Impotent man who has completely lost his sex drive.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

14 March 2010 (F age - My husband is impotent. The doctors don't know anything wrong with his health. He does not know why. He never wants sex,and he gets limp,when finally we have some. I don't know what to do anymore. It goes on like this 5 years ago. I can't do this anymore, I feel so hur... (120 words

Long time pursuit.

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have fancied this guy for ages, we go way back in primary school. We did used to fancy each other like crazy, but then i went out with someone else. After i dumped 'someone else' the guy was asking me out loads but i kept turning him down. Then i moved, but 5 years later i ... (159 words

Get back together or no contact - did I make the right decision?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My ex boyfried dumped me about a month ago, I don't know why, and has been texting me recently whilst I've been sticking to NC (Mod note: No Contact). I replied to the first few just incase he had changed his mind, but after realizing he was just being friendly I ignored the ... (366 words

Should I stay with my parents or move out and get a room-mate?

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14 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Here's my dilemma? My boyfriend and I are 23. We live in different states, 800 miles apart. Right now I'm living with my parents, making $2,000 a month. I have $3,000 saved. But, I have $10,000 in credit card debt and $10,000 in student loans. I also have poor credit which ... (451 words

My crush makes fun of me!

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14 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Every time i see my crush he makes fun of me. He calls me ugly and 'manvoice. He is even getting his friends in on it. How do i get him to stop? How do i know if he likes me back? Please put answers!... (50 words

How can I help my girlfriend overcome her trust issues?

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14 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I think my girlfriend is losing interest or getting scared. I have kids, I'm 11 y older, I'm divorced. She don't have kids, is going to University soon. My life is more stressful and more relax activity wise. My friends are all from different group of age from 20 to 65 years... (97 words

His libido is gone and I'm not sure why?

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14 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating a great guy for a little over 5 months. We are both in our 20's. He has a very demanding job, and is extremely busy, while I am a college student with a much more flexible schedule. Our sex life has always been great- we have awesome bedroom chemistry, and it ... (242 words

I have no idea what's going on in her head..need advice!

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14 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - Last month my ex called to say that we were over and she needed a break from us, we'd been going out for 2 1/2 years,we'd been arguing a lot over the last few months,and I guess she'd just had enough. taking a step back from us has made me see some of the causes of why we split ... (432 words

After we broke up we agreed to meet again. Is there hope for us?

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14 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year broke up with me last night. We had a fight and basically we didnt speak for a few days then i got a text telling me it was over. It seemed out of the blue because we are crazy about each other and my friends thought that it may be that he thought it was ... (113 words

Inlaws are making my life hell!

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - the problem i have is the age old problem of the in-laws. My sister in-law is the main one i have problems with. recently my husband an i had a breif separation. she rang him up to ask why and like a mug he told her. she then rang my home and screamed expletives at me and told ... (466 words

Could this be implantation bleeding?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone, is it normal to bleed after a week ur period was done? Before the period i was really worried that i wasnt going to get it because i had sex (protected though) 2 -3 weeks before my usual period, but then i did have it. and i was super glad, now my period ended 5 ... (156 words

How often on average to people have sex?

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Just another question out of interest. but how many times a week is it considered normal to have sex? I heard a guy at work the other day say He and his partner had sex at least 4 times a day. I thought that sounded pretty excessive? I realise this would be different depend... (79 words

Girlfriend is giving very mixed signals... what does she want??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

14 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 years; everything went pretty well, except for the past couple months when we both had a lot of stress from our jobs. Things are better now though (better work hours). The problem now is that she says she's unsure about "us... (208 words

Can men with high sex drives remain faithful?

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14 March 2010 (F age - Is it possible for an alpha male man with a super high testosterone amd charged up high sex drive to be in a committed loyal relationship for a long time? Or are they not capable of being faithful? ... (39 words

Am I aiming too high to not want a boring boyfriend?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm permanently single.. And it's driving me insane... I never get any interest from guys at all unless they're really boring and mundane. Am I aiming too high or something ? Should I settle for uneasy conversation etc? :( ... (39 words

I'm fed up with my boyfriend not trusting me!

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14 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - im 15 and i have a 16 yr old b/f and he treats me like a queen buys me anything, nd always by my side but he doesnt trust me for what reason idk b/c im never cheated b/c im not that type of person. we been together for 2 yrs now nd im really geting fed up with the "who calling ... (103 words

I'm scared to tell my ex that I still have feelings for him.

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Just really need to know what to do. My boyfriend finshed me two months ago and I still love him so much.. We had really bad fights like he told me to go and die and everything and my councillor said that am Letting him do it cause a still love him and don't want to be annoyed ... (147 words

I get jealous and angry at people in relationships.

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14 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I get jealous when I see people dating or people mention the fact that they have a gf or bf.....Argh, I envy them sometimes...and it makes me mad.....What should I do? I'm probably going to move out of my parents house next year...it's frustrating. ... (45 words

Should I continue neglecting my own feelings for my wife and child?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

14 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - i married my wife because we had a kid and i didn't want to be irresponsible, but i don't think i can do it anymore. It's almost 10 yrs now and words cannot described how i feel! I have try to be the husband that my conscious mind wants to be, by giving her the love and ... (173 words

Do all guys masterbate?

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is just out of interest, but is it possible for a guy to reach 25plus without whacking off? ... (19 words

He's playing me against my friend!

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok i really don't know what to do. so i'll start from the beginning. there is this lad that has liked me for 4 years and we recently ended up together he was really sweet and told all his mates that i was the one and we had a great time, but we rarely saw each other so i ended ... (276 words

Will time apart help give us the answers?

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, There is of course so much more depth to this and so much that we have done and tried, but i will keep this as to the point as I can. My partner and i have been together for two years, living together for 6. He has some health issues that sometimes impact on ... (340 words

My boyfriend got annoyed with me when I told him his relatives were coming on to me...

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am seeing an asian lad, i met him through working somewhere and some of his relations also work there. some of his relatives ask me out even though they are married with children. I find them disgusting and tell them to get lost! nobody knows we are seeing each other it has ... (100 words

Depression - my boyfriend - poor me!

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14 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello Guys, My bf went into depression because his granddad who raised him is sick and about to die. Everything started with this. My bf went to his country for 2 weeks and when came back he did not want to see me and told me give him time during the time he barely texts me... (423 words

My wife is getting a better deal with a group of swingers

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14 March 2010 (M age - hi a few months back my wife and i went on an oversea holiday with 2 other couple. one we knew (well thought we knew well) and the other we had been out with a few time. Both the other couples at som 5 to 8 years older that us too. whilst over sea and being warm and feel... (269 words

Should I cut off all contact with him and ruin a potentially good friendship?

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm 28 and I've just come out of a six month relationship with a lovely man. The main reason we broke up is because I was suffering from really bad depression and I used to act irrationally and pick arguments with him a lot. I broke up with him over something silly because I ... (386 words

I have a difficult marriage and have now fallen in love with a friend... help!

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi i am desperately in need of help and advice, i am married have been for 4 yrs been with the man in question about 14 we have 4 children together, but our relatinship has never really run smoothly , he is jealous sometimes possevive argumentative, he shouts and awful lot and ... (307 words

Move and chance losing him or stay and try something?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - About a month or so ago I got out of a bad relationship, it was turning into a controlling one and I didn't realise until I was out. At the same time it was ending, I started speaking to this guy. After a week I knew he was something special. He allowed me to complain for hours ... (275 words

Why do guys look at other girls?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - why do boys when going out with girls look at other girls? does this mean that they do not truly love their girlfriend?... (23 words

Why is he asking me for money? Is he using me or what?

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14 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Please i need an urgent answer. My ex and I have been dating for 3 years. It was a long distance relationship. during this time he was in school and i was working so whenever he had any financial need i was there to help him financially. Until the 2nd year i went to school too. ... (147 words

He's going into the army and I sooooo don't want him to go...

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14 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend is going to the army soon, i really dont want him to go because i know things will just mess up when he's gone. My mates are begging him to stay and i do like every day! I'm going to be really upset when he goes, i know he will see me sometimes still but im used to ... (79 words

Good morning babe!!!

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14 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am in a long distance relationship .We have been together for 6 months. We fly to see each other every 4 weeks but talk and text almost every day. My problem is... usually we text each other good morning. Lately I have been recieveing 2 or 3 good morning, good morning babe, ... (186 words

How do I let her go without hurting her?

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14 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I got a problem. funny redundant statement to start it off. im in love with a co-worker. problem is she has a boyfriend. she loves him. yet she tells me she loves being around me and it sucks too work when im not there. she leaves me notes in my work locker when shes working ... (445 words

Why is she having so much pain when we have sex?

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14 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - hey all, sorry i know there are about a billion posts on this but i dont have time to trawl through them all. my girlfriend and i are both relatively new to sex, and thus far the half dozen times we've done it she has been in a lot of pain. for me going in there doesnt see... (125 words

Who can be my baby father???

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14 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I know this crazy, but my boyfriend was locked up for 7 months, he got out the jail on sept 22 but anyway on sept 7, i cheated on my boyfriend, me and the guy had unproteced sex but not that long probably like 3 ump , i made him put on comdon then i had a period on 16 of sept ... (105 words

Should I let him take my virginity?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Right I really need help! I just turned 18 and I really want to lose my virginity but I don't/ never have had a boyfriend... I'm not sure why and alot of people think I'm lying when I say I'm a virgin (mainy becuase of my huge 34J boobs) but Its true and untill a few mo... (343 words

I've been losing heart...

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Lately, I've been losing heart. I would like to have a boyfriend but I'm feeling discouraged. I've been in love before but no one has ever reciprocated my feelings. I've dated guys but never been sexually active... I don't know that I'm saving sex for marriage, per se,... (372 words

I want so much to be with my cousin...

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14 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm 20 and I had never been in love until I met my cousin.. I was free guy who always believed in SEX and FOOD. I have never been involved in much girls. But my cousin is sexy and smart and right now I am just feeling for her very much. She's 21 and exactly one year elder th... (1671 words

What to do... should I get back with this guy I think I really like?

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14 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am really good friends with my ex and I would really like to get back with him but when we were going out,everything was so awkward,we wouldn't even talk and he was just so shy and so was I but I still like him and I want to know whether I should get back with him and I'm ... (89 words

Why would someone completely out my league want to be with me?

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14 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - The woman I have been dating is 1 year older than me, we have been together for about 2 and a half months, but I have been interested in her for about 5 months prior to us having a relationship. And I feel that she is the smartest, most beautiful, sexy, caring, incredible woman ... (472 words

How can two such committed people change and let go of everything so easily??

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14 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I was with this girl for 2 years... she is 18 and i am 22... she was simple at heart, very caring towards me, beautifully understanding and very practical... on the top of everything crazy about me.... she made me feel SO SO special every time since two years... she never ... (762 words

I should never have married and never had children.

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14 March 2010 (F age - I have been married a long time and I have never really loved my husband. I need to get out of this relationship for both our sakes. My teenage children despise me. I was abused in childhood by my father and his brother - both men are still living - and I feel I will never get ... (116 words

Why do I feel so irrationally heartbroken when not with my boyfriend?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Aunties, I have yet another question: I'm very much in love with my boyfriend. I was curious as to why I always feel so irrationally heartbroken when he goes back to his house. I know I miss him, but it's a ripping feeling in my chest and sometimes I end up crying. ... (66 words

Will she go back to her one night stand because he has a bigger penis?

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14 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - Last year was the worst. I had an afair last year that last about 7 months on and off. My wife and I seperated, she didn't see anyone until the 7th month and when she did it was a one nightstand. She picked this guy up at a bar, took him to our house and had sex with him. The ... (484 words

One minute he says he is happy, the next that he can't stand being around me!

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - ihave been with my boyfriend for a year. we moved in together a few months ago. he has 2 kids from a previous relationship. everything has been fine so far but a few weeks ago out of the blue he said he thinks we shouldnt live together anymore but he doesnt want to break up. he ... (122 words

Should I stay with my husband or take a chance at happiness?

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am married, and while I deeply love my husband he ignores me and I just feel like I'm falling out of love with him. He hasn't done anything wrong...I'm just not happy anymore. I don't want to hurt him, and I don't want to go through a divorce, but.... A good friend who has ... (86 words

How many times a day should a boyfriend call?

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14 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend that lives with me used to call me on his lunch break and when he got off from work (after work he goes to his friends house to chill) but now he does not i ask him why he says that he knows thathe will be seeing me when he gets home! but i mean can'yt he even text ... (113 words

How do I get over an ex?

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14 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have blogged here several times about someone I was involved with last summer and into the fall. I ended it in October of 2009, but some reason I cannot get over it, I still see him when I go out, and we look at one another, I feel his eyes on me when I'm chatting with my ... (208 words

How can I cope with everything that is going on in my life right now?

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14 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - im 15 and a girl who said she was my bestfriend going out with da boy i personally tole her myself i like; nd my dad is in jail; my b/f nd I are on and off, but we know we love each other. my other suppose to be bestfriend spreaded a rumor a/b me. nd i have so many friends and ... (120 words

What's wrong with wanting to marry a woman others might call a slut?

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14 March 2010 (M age - I am an older gentleman. Raised in a religious family but never made the connection. Over the years, I have known people from all walks of life, but, other things being equal, have felt most comfortable with people who are open-minded about sex. The girls I liked most in ... (217 words

Did he give me too simple an answer for too big a question?

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14 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - In one of my previous questions I wrote about me falling in love with a younger guy and about him pushing me away after telling me he loves me. Well here is the up date. I got tired of waiting for him to give me some type of response to why he was pushing me away. So I text ... (146 words

Should we get back together? Does she want me back?

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14 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I lied to my ex a month ago that's why we broke up we decided to be friends hung out a few time at first Just friend. We made a few drunken mistakes here and there and fooled around every time she get drunk she tells me I love you and trust to get me to say it to her well latly ... (242 words

Does depression cause a man to fall vulnerable to having an affair?

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Boyfriend leaves me behind far to often.

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Birth control pill's effectiveness.

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Graduated and now engaged to my former teacher. How do I tell the world?

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She contacts her guy friends non stop. How do I deal with this annoying habit?

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I can't seem to get over him. What can I do?

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What can I do about his controlling father?

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How do I ask her out? Is this email good enough?

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Should I have sex with my boyfriend? I don't know if I'm ready.

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His family didn't like me and now he doesn't talk to me anymore. What can I do?

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My husband doesn't want sex anymore. Could he be cheating?

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