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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend nearly 8 months and right at the start i was with someone else who i didnt want to be with and had gone to australia for a year. but when i met my boyfriend now i was due to go out and visit my ex which i had to go because i thought it was unfair not to go but when i got out there i hated it and ended it with my ex and camehome after 5 days. since then i have been with my boyfriend but he hates my 2 best friends and i spent everyday with him when i first got back. one of them began to moan about him to me calling him names which caused an argument so i no longer talk to her but i feel i have made him my everything and im so scared of losing him i do anything to make im happy but now he has started flirting with a girl he slept with before we was together and i hate it. i feel that im getting very suspicious of everything he does and i dont like leaving him alone for too long incase he rings or texts her. am i in too deep? do i need to sort things out or get rid?
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reader, fozzish +, writes (6 June 2010):
well i think the first thing you need to do is make up with your friend. You always need your friends no matter what. just explain to your friend it hurt you when she started calling him names.
You need to talk to your man. If you felt you had to go to australia then your right, even if it was to get closure from that guy.
Talk to him about it, you shouldnt be made to be insecure about anything, if you love each other you can get through it but he is playing with your feelings, especially with some other lover. i hope it all goes well, communication is key.
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