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writes:Does anybody here love their significant lover, but never says "I love you" to them? Iv been in a relationship for 4 years and he used to say i love you a few times but he never does anymore. I know actions speak louder than words but it would still mean a lot to hear it. If you loved someone so much wouldn't you wan to tell them? Can you really love someone so much but not ever say it to them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): he may just feel uncomfortable saying it. My boyfriend has trouble saying I love you and when I told him I didn't know if he loved me, he told me he would try to say it more! I'm sure he loves you even if he has a hard time saying it!
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (4 June 2010):
 Took my dad 40years to say the love words to me... lol.. he loves to say it all the time now, he's like a baby with a new word..
Just keep on kissing, loving them, and eventually in time they'll say it back if they love you enough.
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reader, raiders +, writes (4 June 2010):
 Yes you can love someone without telling them. Some people are just not the type that will say the three words, they will probably show you by actions which I think matters more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): yeah. it is definately possible. Some people are more expressive than the other. If you can see your lover's actions and you feel like he loves you, don't worry about just hearing it. actions indeed do speak louder than words. However, after a nice make out or sex or a great day out, you could hug him in the night and get him to say that to you. Or just ask in a cute way...baby how much do you love me..? But that is all a lil immature. If you're certain he lvoes you, why hear it?
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