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Is it silly to feel jealous of my mates?

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Question - (4 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2010)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I don't know if I'm just being silly or anything but I am really starting to get jealous of my mates. Don't get me wrong they're great friends and I couldn't imagine my life without them but the fact that they can all go out and hook up with girls on a weekly basis and I can't is getting me down. I'm 21, single and have only ever slept with one girl.

To be honest, I'm not very good with women in general, not just in clubs, but in any situation you would find is good to meet women. One of my mates is my age and has slept with over 100 women. Every time we go out he hooks up no problem, and my other mates aren't so bad either. I usually find myself standing alone in a club like a numpty whilst they're off with girls. They never rub it in or tease me about it so is it silly to feel jealousy towards them?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010):

Wow, CaringGuy is truly a wise uncle. His advice is great - I totally agree.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2010):

No, it's not. I've never really had much luck with girls either, and there was a time when my friends were all taken and I was the one left alone. But I'm the one dating the best woman now. And I know that for sure. It's not about how many women you are with. It's whether you can take one woman and make her happy. Your friend has had over 100 women, yet not one has committed, and you can be sure not many will be happy with him. Just take your time, and find a decent girl who you don't just want to use. You'll be the one with the better girlfriend at the end of it.

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