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writes:I have a girl that I met in Berlin when I was there studying...i came back to the USA(where i live)...and then visited her in Italy(where she is from)....We have been talking for a very long time now and we are in love......I have a really good job in Washington DC and she is working a lot in Italy....I'm really, really in love with her and she is really in love with me.....we have for the last month been breaking up with one another because we are getting stressed out because we can't be together...we do the whole, "I want you to be happy so we need to move on"....we both dont, we want things to work.....i guess, my question is should i move on...or move to Italy....she is actually romanian and can't just come here...she has to interview with the embassy and what not and she is working 15 hour days and the embassy is 4 hours away....being a US citizen i can be there tomorrow....i just don't know what to do....any and all advice would be much appreciated. Move or not to move....or move on.
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reader, Hippieman182  +, writes (4 June 2010):
 I have the same situation as you..I'm from england and i have a mexican girl living in America. Been together three years. All i have to say is Love is most important. You find love only once in a blue moon yet you can find a job anywhere. If it doesn't work out between you both then you could always move back to the US and at least you can say you tried to make it work. A bit of closure..but then if it does work out then its an amazing love story. Either way good luck and i hope things work out for the two of you
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (4 June 2010):
 I dont think moving there will solve anything because ur stepping into a whole diffrent world u might not even see her as much there either u say shes busy? she has her own life there and she isnt going to make everything stop just to be with u and ur going to be unemployed just living at her place like a homeless its not gonna work out and ur gonna go back to washington jobless. If i were u i'm sorry but i would move on their are so many women in the us expecally washington D.C the reason u cant find any is because u are looking or maybe ur looking to hard there is such thing as more then one soul mate. I really support u wanting to move to Berlin but its a whole diffrent thing and u guys might have the sweet for each other in the beginning but ur going to become depressed no job no one u know and lonely while shes going to be working and working and working. and even if u wanted her to come to the U.S it would be the same thing for her she would need to find a job, meet new friends. Maybe it isnt meant to be but good luck i'm here if u need anything :)
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