A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, My husband is not making any conversation with me. We cannot speak about a topic.. We dont have nothing much in common. I'm feeling lonely.. He is a quiet type.. He has also friends.. But I dont know why I cannot converse with him as a friend.. Just the way I talk with my friends or with my family I cannot talk to him.. If I ask about something he says why are you always fault finding me.. He says Im not making him feel relaxed.. but that I'm irritating him always.. But I want me and him to have a healthy conversation.. Im feeling hopeless.. I dont know what to do.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): While most men aren't the type to chatter away about minor things, communication is very important in any relationship. Take a step back and look at your situation carefully. Does he ask for your opinion before making a big decision? Or attempt to vent about his problems? I recommend you talk with him about how you feel without putting blame on him or cornering him in any way. You may also try to talk about the things he likes. But if you seriously have nothing in common, why are you with him in the first place?
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