A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I met this man who I fell in love with but there was a big problem and that was that he was always spending time at her house even though he was spending time with his little children. Fine he always came home to his own home but did a lot of activites together as a family, including going out shopping and having coffee even though the kids are toddlers. every holiday was having family dinners at the his mother's house. all I wanted was to be introduced to his mother and sister, but he refused after 17 months so I broke up with him. I feel that he has not let go of his wife or cannot commit to me even if he tells me that he loves me.. Then my question is why am I a big secret? can you help me understand? i love him but dont miss the bad tension.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): He is keeping you a secret because, he just isn't that into you or the relationship they way in which you are. Your bf holds the "power" in the relationship b/c he cares the least about it. Maybe he is hoping that he can get back together with his ex...who knows, but I wouldn't stick around to find out.
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