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writes:Been seeing a guy for 5 months, texted, emailed or msn'd most days, but only met 7 times... and each time had amazing sex.I thought he was a player... so set him up with a fake profile on internet dating site. He fell for it and arranged to meet her for sex. She was meeting him near his house, and he would drive her back. I was so cross I turned up. He was livid (I couldnt tell, he has a very quiet manner, but he was embarrassed). Because I had had a drink I had to stay with him, we were very amorous but he wouldnt have sex with me, just 2 hours of foreplay.Now he refuses to see me. His last e.mail he said 'you're a beautiful woman nd good company but you do need to back off I think in future. I have no prob keeping in touch but that would be it'. All other texts just said he wouldnt see me, but nothing saying it was finished.He said I contacted him too much, so by going quiet for a few weeks can I win this man back with my silence, I am totally smitten by him, and have apologised profusely.Any suggestions are most welcome, I am so lost without him, and want to win him back.
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reader, DearAlice  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 Darling you have to let it go. He just wanted sex and that's ok but if you knew that then you also should of known that it wasn't gonna work out. He said to back off and I think you should....
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (4 June 2010):
 I have to ask...Why would you want to continue to see someone who, firstly was just using you for sex, who arranged to meet someone else for sex (even though it was a set up). The fact you set him up in the first place must have meant you had doubts.
Also he has asked you to back off! It can't be any clearer that he isn't interested in having any kind of relationship with you. Of course he will keep touch, and probably just for sex but right now he has said he doesn't want to see you (probably because he's having sex with someone else).
It's up to you, if you want to be used like a bike, but really c'mon...you can see it's dead in the water and if you persist, he will probably have you up for stalking.
Do yourself a favour and forget him.
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