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writes:hello there, I'm new to this site. Recently, about two weeks ago, my girlfriend broke up with me after two years and started dating another guy, two days after we broke up, they "did the deed" and I didn't find out until around 3-4 days after. I have broke contact with her since I feel so miserable, but I want to eventually get back together with her, she is still everything to me. I've been working on bettering myself in the past two weeks and this morning around 4 AM, after posting new pics of me on facebook, she commented on them and sent me a text saying "I miss haning out just so you know".I don't know what to make of this and I know she is still sexually interested in this guy. But this text seems like there could be two reasons behind it, she could either want to get back together, or just generally miss me being around. if I would respond, what should I say, or shoudl I even respond at all?
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reader, A Board Game +, writes (5 June 2010):
A Board Game is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, after talking to some friends, I responded. I said "well, I do need some new clothes, want to go pants shopping one day? You can be my judge haha." Should I have done that? I want to prove to her that I'm not the same person I used to be, when I took our relationship for granted. I'm a new person. She also has not responded to that yet either, she is more than likely out with the other guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): Welcome to Dearcupid first off :):):):)
Ok....your ex is a cheater and she only wishes to use you that is....if you allow her. Don't respond to her text messages...she only wants you around when things aren't going right with whomever she is dating at the moment. Obviously she didn't love you that much or care much for the relationship b/c she left you for another guy. This woman is NOT someone you want to build a future with, have a relationship with, have children with or keep in contact with. If you have to change your cell number, block her from any of your networking contact cites. Of course she misses you....but that does not equate to her loving you or wanting to be in a serious relationship with you.
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