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writes:Need Advice! Being talking to this co-worker for couple of month's, Were both interested in each other, So I thought, He ask me to the movie several times, but I never confirm a time or date, Since we are co-worker people have notice the time we spend together, woman have being making comments, epecially this one particular woman at work, He keep telling me to just ignore her. Today, she and her friend follow me to restroom at work. After my encounter with them, I immediately told him, she going to start harrassing me. Once again he told me to ignore her,He even told he didn't want to lose our relationship. We both notice the change in people bahavior toward us. My question? Today, I ask him when are we going to hang out(We were surrounded by other co-worker) and his response was "You know I can't hang out at work, they have me so busy, Yea I don't think we can hang out at work, it not that I don't trust you, I don't think we can hang out at work" he keep mention at work. Which I really didn't mean hang out at work, but since we do most of our communication at work, I'm assuming he thought I meant work. I take this as him brushing me off. Most people say he wasn't brushing you off, He seem like he want to take this relationship outside work and he want to keep people out of you guys business. Advice Please? I know he did or still like me, should I move on? Is this a sign he want to let the relationship go? Or is it just work related? I know he mention that he didn't want to lose his job.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (4 June 2010):
 Sounds too complicated, what with your co-workers questioning you about him and everything else.
No, he doesn't want to risk losing his job, and I guess you don't want to risk losing yours either.
Let it go.
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