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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex flirt a lot I tell him my dreams n fantasies about him, we dirty talk n feel each other up. We're both virgins we understand it’s a joke, he’s made it clear he respects me too much he says he doesn’t want to use me, he's s said many times he will never use me he doesn't want a relationship with me, even though I still have feelings for him I completely understand, I just can’t resist flirting with him it makes me feel confident sexy attractive etc. Its weird because usually I wouldn’t be like this with any other guys, but i enjoy my ex touching me. Earlier this week we were at a friend’s house n i was distracting/teasing him whilst he was playing him playing Xbox with our friend. I had my hands up his top around his chest feeling him up and on his thighs, whispering in his ear, tickling him, touching his but a lil bit when he pulled me behind him, moving around on his lap. Whenever I’d stop he’d always ask for more saying distract me in a nice way, sayin it made him play better.He started teasing me to touching my chest, inner thighs, he pulled me in front of him. It was also exciting as we were trying to be discreet. I have noticed when were alone my ex doesn’t seem to really touch me, but when we are around other he can’t keep his hands of me he loves being discreet, as if he likes the thrill of being caught?Later on I guess my hand was on his thigh again n went up 2 is d***k over his jeans, it’s weird coz I don’t do anything like, and i didnt feel uncomfortable does that make me be a whore, he told me he enjoyed it too, I cud tell by his facial expression he did he was trying not to make a sound as our friend would have heard, he was surprised dat I did and wanted to know wheter i was ok. This is the most I’ve done with a guy not even kiss I know it will not lead to sex as I know I don’t want sex now just a bit of fun. My friend wasn’t impressed as we kinda forgot about him and we kept giggling, he said finds it awkward being around couples especially when he had no1 else 2 talk 2, he cusses me a lot playfully saying I hate it when u 2 act like a couple. Or I wasn’t distracting my ex I was arousing him n dat made him play better. I do feel bad because of that. Does it look like I’m being used do I deserve better? Advice much appreciated thank u xx
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (7 June 2010):
 It doesn't look like you are being used. In fact... in my opinion it looks like you're being more of a tease to him. He's openly said he doesn't want to use you, but he's not stupid... if you want to touch him he's going to let you.
Why are you touching him? You're clearly still attached to him and still like him, why aren't you still together?
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