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writes:this guy and i are coworkers .. ive never really been in a relationship before this guy, but we're really close. we have been making out, flirting, etc.. last august he asked me to be his GF. it didnt work out in august we were never official cause i was shocked and i didnt know what to say. Though we continued to flirt, text, make out, act as if bf/gf just not official. we never hooked up though. A few months ago, we stopped talking for about a month because of crazy false rumors going around about us, like i was pregnant. (restaurant industry loves to talk.) Anyways, we grew close again in time and now i feel like i am falling in love with him all over again. Yesterday, i went in the back outside to make a call to my father, he followed me after a minute and he kissed me out of the blue while i was on the phone. for the first time since like, march. i had to hang up the phone with my dad and was just speechless and just.. looked at him. i had to get back to work though.. ha.anyways when he is around me sometimes he says .."i want you" if i ask him if he wants a coffee or water or whatever. What am i supposed to say to that?? i am too shy to ask him out again, so if i can come up with a clever enough response.. i am thinking that can do the trick. soo... hellppp?! we dont hang out really outside of work anymore. we did last summer though, we went to the park 2x and just hung out and kissed. (though my schedule will be changing to one that is similar to his in 2 weeks so i can drive him home and stuff.) i just want us to be official. any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): dont be shy if you like him show him you do.maybe he wont even ask you out because he asked you already and you didnt give an answer but if you show him you like him maybe he will ask you out again.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (4 June 2010):
 he sounds sweet but ur so shy he loves making u speechless and that is why he chases u. i think that u should just get over ur shyness i mean u guys have kissed and hung out so why not feel comfortable when he comes around? ur not as shy as u want us to think since u have kissed the guy. Ur like a little puppy that hasnt gone outside for a while and when u get the chance u sniff alot around. u should just go for it its clear he likes u and try to be together again..but maybe he likes u just for the heck of it just for the making out reason? u gotta figure it out good luck!
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