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writes:i am 19 years old. i have a little boy. i am not currenly married but i am living with my boyfriend, my babys dad. we have been together for 3 years and i love him.he also has a good job and he supports me and his child. however, an old ex-boyfriend came into my life again.i had very strong feelings for him and i felt that even though we broke up he still had a place in my heart, and i also love him. but he dosent work and he is getting ready to go to college. he told me that he had strong feeling for me and that he would accept me and my child in his life. and the other day he asked me to chose between him and my babys dad and i dont know who to chose. what can i do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 June 2010):
Simple. You choose the father of your child, the man who has been there for 3 years and who has worked. You don't choose the ex who knows you have a boyfriend, is willing to wreck your family, doesn't have a job and already broke up with you before. Do that and you'll lose everything.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (4 June 2010):
 There's a reason why you broke up with the old ex. You don't think that reason wouldn't come up again if you go back with him? Stay with the baby's dad, who seems to be a really good guy.
You will make the biggest mistake of your life by going back with the ex.
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