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writes:How soon into a new relationship (approximately) would you expect things like love and commitment to come up? I know every relationship and person is different, I'm just wondering if there's a point when I should think hmm, maybe this guy isn't interested in anything serious! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): Thanks for the advice! It's been over 2 months now and we see each other basically every day... He does call me his girlfriend and has told me he could never do what our mutual friend does (which is go out without his girlfriend and try to pick up). But still, I'm not sure if there should be something more.
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reader, PM  +, writes (4 June 2010):
 This may not be the answer that you're looking for, but I typically judge whether or not things like love and commitment should come into play based on the amount of time two people are spending together.
If he's only seeing you less than once a week and there are no reasons why he couldn't be seeing you more (e.g. he lives in a different city) then I would think that he may not be looking for anything serious. If he's seeing you more than once a week, however, then I within a month or so I would expect some kind of relationship talk to take place.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (4 June 2010):
 It's different with every guy, but sooner or later, you know. You've had several dates, he's pressing for a physical relationship, yet not talking about exclusivity.
He's wanting physical, yet not wanting to connect emotionally with who you are.
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