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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for eight months. when we first met we both had a lot of free time and it was great. once things got more serious things weren't as fun. schedules were off and didn't have much time together for a couple months - like not even a whole day together at a time. he works overtime a lot because he does need the money and has to anyway because of his job. we still do joke around when we can. i care about him and he cares about me. once i heard an old guy say over time people can fall in and out of love with one another but the friendship keeps it going and keeps the two committed to each other. professionally, i'm nowhere close to where i want to be and struggle to accept that in itself each day since i'm a recent grad. He struggles with his things too and he's not quite sure where he wants to go in life. i've been miserable for a few weeks now and thought i might just be homesick or maybe i don't want to be with him anymore but when i think about not being with him, i'm reminded of all the good times we've had. he does things for me and tries to make me happy but it doesn't really work. i'm not sure if i still love him or maybe i loved the idea of him more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): Plainly put: DOUBT MEANS DON'T.
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