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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girlfriend lied about unprotected sex with other guys, now I'm worried I have an STD

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy, im 16 nearly 17 (male). Ive just broken up with my girlfriend and we were sexually active. We had sex a few times without a condom because she told me she hadnt had sex with anyone else. While I was going out with her I caught thrush, at first I didnt know what to do,... (159 words)

How can I get my boyfriends parents to stop being clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get my boyfriend's parents to stop being so clingy? We are both in graduate school in the same town as his parents. We have been dating for over 2 years, live together, and have talked very seriously about getting engaged sometime within the next year. The only ... (339 words)

My abusive parents won't let me be with the one I love!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating this guy about a year ago. At first, I didn't think it was anything. I had not really had a real boyfriend before that, and I wasn't expecting it to last very long. I'll call him mr. A Well, after two amazing dates, I was really falling for him. He is 2 yea... (963 words)

Any ideas of interesting topics?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am running out of conversation topics when ever I talk with the boy I like. It always ends up being silent and boring since neither of us can think of anything to talk about. Rarely, do we have a conversation where the talking lasts more than 10 minutes without long pauses of ... (59 words)

I'm 15, he is 26. Is this bad?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right well im 15 .. and ive been going out with this lad who is 26 ... but ive been with him for nearly a year .. and where so happy .. he treats me like a princess and buys me what i want and loves me loads ... and evryone says im a very mature 15 year old aswell...but there's ... (87 words)

I always think about doing it with a girl. Am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - for the past few years I have been masterbating and thinking of having sex with a girl but I have never done such a thing but it's always on my mind. I started having sex in early march at the age of 22 but long before I started having sex I always think about doing it with a ... (142 words)

Should I risk confessing my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - For the past few months I have been very close friends with this boy. As you have probably guessed, I like him alot. The thing is, he is a real flirt and alot of girls also like him. We open up to eachother alot. He tells me that he flirts to give himself confidence, and that ... (331 words)

Can't figure out whether I like this guy or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy that goes to my college, i see him around sometimes. well about once and we said hi. We've been speaking on msn for like 5 months though, and we are always chatting and getting on well. He flirts sometimes, not lots but a little :) It has pasted my mind quit... (390 words)

What to expect with a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm planning on a having a threesome with two men this weekend. I'm really nervous and I don't know what to expect. What should I expect when I have this kind of threesome?... (40 words)

Am I totally out of line here? Uncomfortable about a text my girlfriend received.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age - well it started bad in the first place because i looked on my gf phone at a message that a male friend of hers sent to her. the message said and it was forwarded to her ....you and i do it in the bedroom.we do it in the livingroom we do it all over the house.we even do ... (765 words)

What does "exclusive" mean while dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating this guy and it was funny when he said we were exclusively but now i feel dumb cuz i dont know what exclusively means. help me?... (29 words)

Feelings for my husband's brother but not an affair...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I don't really know what to say.. A bit of background on this situation. My husband (married for 2 and a half years) and I met in Hawaii in 06 and he immediately fell in love with me. I didn't have feelings for him for about a year. His brother came to Hawaii while he ... (327 words)

What did I do wrong and how do I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this girl for about a month and a half now, and everything is going great. She is 26 I am 22. She has a kid and works 2 jobs. Its hard to get time for us to go out so we spend most times at her house just hanging out. We are not offical or anything yet, we... (320 words)

Should I continue to pursue my major or give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i know this isnt a relationship question but i really need help. right now i am studying to get my BSW degree. but im conservative. i am constantly surrounded by liberals that attack me for my beliefs. all i want to do is get this degree and help child abuse victims. ... (119 words)

How do I have sex if I'm not comfortable in my own skin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys. its a bit long, but heres the issue. its quite personal so please be serious and give some good advice. im 17, i have never had any sexual experience, mainly because iv never had a serious boyfriend. obviously iv kissed guys, but nothing really further. i think iv ... (308 words)

What are some ways to take a relationship to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship. We have fun together. We are to the place were we want to take are relationship to the next level. What are some ways to do that? We are both curious about sex. We think we are ready for that as part of the next step. What are s... (77 words)

Should I leave my wife and is she up to something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age - This is hard for me I have been married for over 20 years now my wife has secret e mail is dressing diferantly wants to go out more is spending on clothes and says she needs to find herself, lots of fighting,should i leave... (47 words)

Am I just a rebound for my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - .... About six months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me (which took a while to get over) to start going out with my ex best friend. But my ex and I still stayed close friends, and we sometimes refer to ourselves as 'brother and sister'. But today, I was at school, talking to ... (198 words)

Pregnant at 15: how do I tell my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there. I'm a 15 year old girl and I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm preggers with my ex boyfriends baby who my parents forbayed me to see a long time ago. my ex boyfriend want anything to do with me or a baby. I've decided I'm going to keep it and that I'm going to go ... (79 words)

How can I get him to really like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do I really like this guy...since last year but I do not know if he likes me? At my homecoming I was grinding on him and felt his boner and just about exploded down there. But that is not why I like him it is not at all just because he turns me on. He has a ... (100 words)

Submissive males: what about kisses after licking butt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age - I recently posted queston about submissive male. Well here is a new one Now He wanted to lick my ass and then proceed to the vagina is this safe. What about kisses after licking butt. Not trying to sound bad just new to all of this and want to know what is safe. Perhaps some of ... (75 words)

Parents won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend. Is there a solution?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 2 weeks. Nothing has escalated from kissing yet let alone sex. None of us are in a rush but the problem i face is. My GF's mum is away for a week, obviously my GF wants me to sleep over. My mum and dad dont want me to thoug... (120 words)

How do I control my excessive sexual desires?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have excessive sexual desires and I have no idea how to control it. I am 28 years old but there’s no sign of me getting married soon since I am still not financial well off....doing part time jobs here and there. Most of the time , I masturbating imagine having sex with my ... (139 words)

How do I save a relationship that's going downhill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need help with my relationship, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 month now. but i feel it is going down hill and i dont no what to do, when we first started going out it was good but he kept joking about this girl he slepted with befor we got toge... (204 words)

Suspicious letters...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - okay. so i was searching through my boyfriends room the other day and i came across a letter, behind it was more . there were about 7 or 8 of them saying "i love you " and such. His mom claims that there has never been another gurl come to the house and i believe her bc so ... (98 words)

My family is convinced he just wants me for sex! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im im 15 years an a sophomore in high school. and i recently have been seeing this guy that is out of high school graduate. He is 18. He is really sweet an cares about me. But.. its my parents. Like they think all the guys want me for sex. But this guy doesnt. He is waitin ... (88 words)

Why is it so hard to let go of a person who's not treating you right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im stuck in one of the worst situations ever. i think im in love with this man who doesnt care at all about me. all he wants is sex and because i care about him, i neva minded. but now im so hurt, to a point where i cant do anything but cry. i want to move on, and find somebody ... (96 words)

How do I move forward and meet someone new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old, and I really want to be in a relationship right now. My only problem is that I sort of have anxiety issues when I'm forced to interact with other people in public situations, so I often find it hard to make friends and meet new people easily. A lot of the ... (322 words)

What do the guys in porn movies do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I m 21. I have a simple question. P.E is a common problem nowadays. I want to know what do the guys in porn movies do? I mean they keep it inside the girl for a considerable time and stroke at 90 miles/hr. How do they do it? Are there some pills, creams or what? How do they ... (69 words)

Should I be alarmed by this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile even though we live in separate countries..recently he hit my cousin up on facebook sayin..i love ya pics keep lookin good love... he didnt kno she was my cousin... so when i confronted him he said it was only"small talk" ... (54 words)

Follow up: am I wrong for loving the time I spend with my husband's brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm sorry to post the same question again but i'm not listed as a follwup so no one saw what I wrote. But now I am logged in. I put the question I asked and the answers I got and my followups: My husband's brother is literally the nicest guy I have ever met. He's is g... (1402 words)

I walked in on my husband having sex with another woman. Will he ever apologize to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I dated for 4 1/2 years and have been married for 1 yr and 7 months. Recently we seperated and have been living apart for 4 months. I am 24 with 2 kids and a baby girl due in November. We've still kept in contact since we seperated and he tells me he doesn't want ... (366 words)

Is this how "Grown Up" relationships work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) i'm Trixie and im 16 (17 in a few days!!) Basically I have started this "relationship" with a really great guy who is 20. The thing is we have been acting like boyfriend and girlfriend for about... 5 weeks now, although were not going out. Now i'll freely admit I d... (367 words)

Does sleeping around mean a man is not happy in his marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anybody tell me, can a married man who sleeps around still be happily married. Or does his sleeping around automatically mean that he is not happy in his marriage?... (31 words)

What can I do to stop getting worked up about stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To cut a long story short I slept in the same bed as this guy one night. Nothing happened and I didn't intend on anything happening either. I didn't sleep that night anyway. I have a lovely boyfriend who Is a great friend as well. I told him what happened as I am always hone... (185 words)

Do you think we are moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known this girl for about 4 or 5 months, we both felt extremely attracted to each other from the day we met (this was later established). we only recently began to hang out quite often and 5 days ago decided to start "dating". however, since we've both talked about our ... (105 words)

My wife is in love with another woman. What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some advise! I've been with my wife for 20years married for 16. Right now she is involved in a relationship with another women for over a year, I've known about this from day one, It was orginally gonna be the three of us and it was, but now its just the two of them and ... (174 words)

Long distance disaster...is he over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, here is my story.... me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 years now. we have grown up together since we were 15yrs old. we are eachothers 1st bf/gf...1st EVERYTHING! i am SO in love with this boy and i thought he would say the same about me. there has ne... (847 words)

How can I get through this first date without thinking the worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi im going on a first date in a few days after being single 6 months and coming out of a mental and verbually abusive relationship. Ive been mentally drained and lost my confidence and self esteem.and i am alot better now im out of it but i am worrying myself to death about ... (76 words)

Should we be more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this guy for about a year and a half. We hang out one or maybe two times a month, but exchange email messages daily or every other day. I guess I knew from the beginning that he was attracted to me, but throughout the course of our friendship we have ... (373 words)

Why don't you think he wants to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex dumped me a couple of days ago because we had a silly fight and he said he didn't wanna be in the relationship anymore. I love him so much and i can't bare not being with him the thing is after he dumped me he still rings me loads everyday. Why do you think he does that ... (139 words)

My boyfriend has women at the house while I work. Is he leading a double life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend has women over my house (where we live) during the day when I am at work. He doesn't work. He says he should be able to have over the house who ever he wants, that I should not dictate who he can and who he cannot see. The girls have been told by me not to come ... (206 words)

I had sexual experiances with my aunt!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - it is long time back when i was a teen i used to get lot of sexual urges to ,my aunt. she was not a super beauty. we used to stay in the same house. i remember it started after when i noticed that she, when such a situation occurred, kept her breasts pressed on my hand and... (450 words)

I can't shake these feelings!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for two and a half years. My BF has a kid. I don't want to be around her nor do I want him to bring her to my house. It really hurts him and I know it. I know what I'm saying is wrong but I can't shake my feelings about this.... (58 words)

How do I cope with our libido difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, and we've never had a particularly rampant sex life. By all means, we both enjoy showing each other how much we love each other physically, but in the past few months it's been on the decrease. The frequency has be... (275 words)

Should I try to bury the hatchet and send my daughter a card for her 21st???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age - My daughter's birthday is coming up Monday October 26. She will be 28 years old and she and I don't talk, her decision, not mine. She moved out June 08 and only speaks to my sister. I'm torn whether to send her a birthday card or just ignore it. I've had advice from a ... (121 words)

Crossdressing husband worries.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age - Several years ago my husband/bf said to me he liked to crossdress and at first I was okay with it because I thought it was like some sort of sex game between us until I discovered he started secretly taking some of the clothing to his apartment and ripped one of my sexy tops. ... (550 words)

How do I convince my friend that he shouldnt take this girl back as she is holding him back from finding the girl he deserves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, i have a friend who met this girl about a year ago. When he met her she had a boyfriend but he was only trying to be her friend at first but then he started liking her. They ended up getting really close and the girl started liking him as well. When the girls boyfriend ... (436 words)

My ex still has a hold over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - The first time I posted, my now EX was really distant and pulling away (shes 30, I'm 28). The second time I posted she ended it by stating she didnt feel like she was the type of person who could be in relationship because of some issues in her life (which she stated she is ... (363 words)

The guy I like is in a class I help teach. Is it ok to pursue him once the class is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so this isn't the typical student-teacher question but I thought I'd ask and see what happens. I help teach a vocational course for adults that will run for the next two months or so. I find myself very attracted to one of my students. I know he's single, and I th... (168 words)

Do I just have a crush? Why am I feeling this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm so confused, I've been with my bf for nearly 2 years like just head over heels for him. It's my first relationship but it felt like I would be with him forever. Just recently I met a guy who for some reason I find interesting. Just get along really well, can... (147 words)

She's hit me with a bombshell. Do I just need to give her some space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

- Hi. My Girlfriend of almost 6 years has hit me with a bombshell, she says she doesnt feel as though she loves me in that way any more, I love her more than I can explain, she's my world, I have never done anything to push her away and she openly admitted she doesn't think she ... (151 words)

Its only day 2 of our 'break' and I already cant cope! I feel so sad and confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

- I been with my bf for 5 1/2 yrs. I am now presently 22 and he is 23. We have had a strong solid relationship for the most part. No one ever cheated or nothing it was good. But we recently decided to take a break. this is day 2! and i been crying off and on throughout the day. ... (305 words)

We havent spoke in nearly a month, does this mean its over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a long term relationship. However I got mad with him, and I sent him a message saying that he might one day not hear from me again. He never replied my text. Its now close to a month since I last heard from him. Does this mean its over? I have also not bothered to ... (64 words)

Can someone impartial tell me whats going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I had been together for 7 years, but broke up about 4 months ago. We have since been seeing different people. He contacted me about 3 weeks ago, and we did some talking about getting back together. He said some very important things about how he feels, and he says ... (154 words)

This hiccup in our sex life is getting to be a big problem...any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My sex life with my boyfriend has recently gotten to a point where there's a bit of a hiccup. He is frequently coming too quickly. In the beginning of our relationship this would happen every now and then, but a lot of the time we'd still have some pretty long lasting sessions... (160 words)

How long should it take to get over a break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I hope you can help me. My girlfriend split up with me about a month ago. We'd been together for well ove two years. It hit me hard cos I was (and still am) so in love with her. I've read all the advice on how to deal with a breakup- I've written my thought... (286 words)

Does anyone know why I'm still huring?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i had my appendix out a month ago...the surgeon says my inside will be healed... on the removal of my appendix they said it was abnormal but on further test it showed to be normal i am still in severe pain anyone have any ideas as to what it might be?... (53 words)

I love him but I don't want sex anymore, I am not interested in being around him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I am a girl and I have been in a relationship with my first boyfriend for about one and a half years now - pretty much for the most part I have been at university, as I am now finishing my second year. However, I am finding that although I love him, I keep havi... (513 words)

Met this guy at a pub, has he lost interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a bit confused by this guy. I see him around my local pubs quite a bit and he always had lots of girls around him. I thought he was a bit of a jerk. I had a feeling he had a thing for me because he would always stare at me and look at me when he was hugging other people. ... (248 words)

What is the right age for a serious relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 boy. I never had any girlfriend. I want to make only one relationship in life. So if I get a gf now , will i be able to carry on the relationship untill marriage? I'm not gonna marry before the age of 26/27. What your experience says? ... (49 words)

Is it really my fault he fell out of love with me? Where did this come from?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 37 and have been married for 17 years with a 15 year old daughter. My husband had a breakdown 5 weeks ago and told me he didn't love me. Since then he has been to the doctors, one minute saying he doesn't know what he wants and saying he doesn't want to lose me the next ... (170 words)

How often do girls fall for their best male friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have been in love with this girl for a whole year already. I told her that a year ago but she wanted to stay friends. We became the very best friends and I'm the most important person in her life apart from her family. We go out on dates all the time - she sleeps on my ... (110 words)

Why don't I trust women when it comes to their relationship status?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I'm a friendly, well-liked individual, I'm 23 years old and do volunteer work. Somehow I have a knack for being able to talk to new people well. Once a woman stopped me in the street when I was in the city centre asking for directions - she was friendly and thought I was h... (182 words)

My girlfriend's twin seems to have issues with me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I have been with my gorgeous girlfriend for a few years now, and she has suffered with a disability all of her life which is quite painful, and which I have more than supported her through. But on a recent night out I had a blazing row with her twin sister over th... (315 words)

He says he loves me. Why isn't he ready for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So im still having trouble with *parker* it had been over six months since we spoke and he turned up to where im living now. I avoided him for 3 days i was so worried about seeing him . So i go out and he's there, he grabs me and we start to have a conversation and he turns ... (266 words)

Is this coincidence or fate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a man I can't be with for various reasons. My mother recently passed away. A couple of days after her death I found a note from her aunt's solicitor who works approx 200 miles from where my mother lives. His name is the same Christian and surname of the m... (172 words)

I think the age difference is immoral. Is my intution right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 20 year old college junior and i have no problem with getting men's attention. however, i like a 17 year old high school senior. is this wrong? we met through mutual friends, which are all 19-21 years old except for him. at the time, we had so much connection and w... (317 words)

I don't feel that he gives me the time of day. Should I take him back anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice please. Me and my bf have been ‘together’ for almost 3 years. We’ve been through a lot of things breaking up and making up again. The longest we’ve been apart was 2 months. I broke the relationship with him 2 days ago, I was so sure about that decision, ... (421 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me a few months ago and I've forgiven him. How do I move forward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my boyfriend cheated on me a few months ago, a girl kissed him and he obviously let her, he did however push her away afterwards. either way it doesnt really matter what happened anymore the point is that im trying to move on, because ive forgiven him and im trying to move ... (184 words)

Is she just playing with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help and i have no idea what i am supposed to do. My ex and i broke up about 4 months ago because i believe we were spending way to much time together and small fights turned to big ones. We dated for 4 years and everything was great up until about a month before we ... (243 words)

Does he want to have sex with another woman because he doesn't love me?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it weird that my boyfriend told me that he was thinking about me having sex with another man and how hott it would be? He said that he doesn't think he would actually be able to ever do that unless we both knew that it wasn't emotional and just physical, but he said that he ... (177 words)

Should I drop her, wait for her or be her friend?

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20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that I met about about 6 weeks ago. We've dated for about 3 weeks and we really seemed to click. We have so much in common it's crazy. We liked the same things etc. Then things came up, we didnt spend much time together, she said she was busy with school ( I ... (394 words)

Is he being truthful or is he saying it just to get into my pants?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a man since a year and half. We have known each other since 3 years. I have never been in a relationship before and I am a virgin too. Initially , at the start of our relationship every thing else was good except the sex issue. He being a non virgin ... (253 words)

Is oral sex as bad as I imagine?

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20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What does oral sex feel and taste like? Previously, I fingered a girl and smelt my finger after and it was horrible so I havnt even tried to use my mouth. Can anyone give me advice on what to do? thanks to everyone that helps me out.... (68 words)

Should I just be patient and continue talking while giving him more time?

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20 October 2009 (F) - my ex and i have been recently talking----i reached out a year later (he ended it but our problems didn't consist of anything that couldnt be changed)b/c i still had feelings and took a chance..well basically he said he can't just jump back to this which i agreed with and he ... (398 words)

He treats us well, but why do I feel left out?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend and he has a 7 year old daughter who's the cutest and I also have two children of my own. Why do I feel so left out all the time when he pays more attention to his daughter and everything else around around him? Do not get me wrong, I love his daughter as ... (101 words)

Could too much sex cause his testicles to hurt?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay here we go, I have a few questions all wrapped in one. Me and my husband are going through a rough patch. I told him I didn’t like him watching porn he said he would stop a week later I saw him masturbating to pictures of his ex. He said he didn’t know why he did it and h... (391 words)

Should I get back into contact with my mother?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom moved out about 2 years ago, stopped talking to my siblings and me, and we have only heard from her to help herself gain money or dirt on our father for the divorce. She's crazy in quite a few ways, very unstable, and she thinks she's doing better now that she's not ... (258 words)

Is he interested in me?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's the story folks. Met a guy a year and a half ago. I could see it on his face that he was attracted to me the moment he saw me. Things went REAL SLOW. Saw him around. Ended up hanging out with mutual friends more until we were in the same group of friends. Then this ... (277 words)

My husband finishes too early!

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok first off all i love my husband we've been together for two years, im 20 and he's 27. but lately he doesnt please me, he finish waay to early. im pretty sure he knows because he asks me if im mad. i dont know how to talk to him about this im sooo sad. please help me what ... (118 words)

Will this LDR work out?

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20 October 2009 (M) age 51-59 - I'm having a terrible time in my LDR. I "met" a woman a few months ago through on online dating service. When she started her account and up until about two weeks before we contacted, she lived only 40 miles from me. After moving (again, a couple of weeks before we started ... (1148 words)

I don't know why I'm feeling this way! What I should do?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - At the beginning of summer vacation, I was dumped by my (now) ex-boyfriend for confusing "reasons". I had very limited contact with him over the summer, and we didn't see each other in person at all. With the lack of contact, I was able to get on with my life and get over him. ... (133 words)

My girlfriend's parents absolutely HATE me!

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my girlfriends parents absolutely HATE me. Over the summer they even managed to break us up. But when school started we got back together again. Things were great until her parents found out a few days ago. They took away her phone and her mother sent me a text reading: ... (129 words)

Why do I change so much?

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20 October 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Even when I try to avoid it, my entire life prior to a relationship feels like it gets erased-my relationships with friends and family change so much. It seems I change after the breakup now, which is an improvement as I used to change during the actual relationship. Still, it ... (206 words)

When should I break up with her?

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20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a 5-year relationship with my current girlfriend. However, our relationship has ultimately deteriorated, and she has developed erratic behavior (she has stalked me once, she now throws tantrums in public, she has severe mood swings, and she tries to make me feel ... (116 words)

Will it hurt the third time?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Oks o i had sex a couple times already. My problem is that on my first time the tip only went in. My second time only the tip but it really hurt and i got scared to put it all the way( i never had put it all the way). Ok so im going to do it my third time i wanna do it all the ... (107 words)

Should I be more patient? Or is it over for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently, about nine months ago, i met this truly amazing guy in school. i was attracted to him in class immediately before we even spoke to each other, having a crush on him already, and i knew i had to get to know him. i was so nervous that i shook around him before i even ... (464 words)

I am acting like my parents! Help!

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - HI, everybody. I am studying in a different country from where my parents live. My parents never really have a peaceful relationship. They argue almost all the time for everything. I didn't really understand why do they argue and fight. What does their relationship affect me, I ... (620 words)

What should I do to get this girl?

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20 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - She says that she doesnt want a relationship right now but things can always change, she says she has feelings for me but doesnt act on them. i dont know how long to continue playing this game but i think shes soo special and it would be tough to get over her. what should i do. ... (64 words)

My Father is controlling how much time I spend with my bf!

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - today my dad angrily informed me that my bf and i shouldn't see eachother like we usually do. my boyfriend is important to me, he's my rock, my best friend, my support, and the person who keeps me from going insane. he's downright perfect and somehow he feels like i am ... (468 words)

Is it ok to feel this way or am I crossing the line?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband's brother is literally the nicest guy I have ever met. He's is genuinely sweet and nice to me when no one else is. I have never in my life been treated so well by someone, not by any friends not by and family members. I've never had a true friend to care about me. ... (200 words)

Should I take a chance or ignore my instincts?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, ok so here's my problem. I have the strongest feelings ever for my best friend. (he's a guy). I know it's not love but it sure feels like it whenever i see him or talk to him. He just came out of a 1 year relationship so i know he's hurting right now. What should i... (126 words)

How can I become more outgoing?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanna be more outgoing but i don't know how. I'm really outgoing with some of my friends that I don't go to school with but the group I hang out with makes it feel impossible to be out there and when I try to be people don't seem to like me. What can I do?... (56 words)

Should I be worried he might be cheating?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so here is my question... my boyfriend called me drunk one time.. and his nephew was on the phone because he had me on speaker)and he was talking about this girl named let's call her "b", my boyfriend was like hush boy your about to get me in trouble .. so after that i hung up ... (137 words)

Should I compromise and give him a call or ignore him forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been sort of seeing this man for the past 5 or so months...we never slept together but the chemistry was so there-it was on a mental level maybe the most intense relationship I've ever had. Part of the reason is he's 15 years older than me (I'm 24) and he has had bad past ... (446 words)

What makes someone a good kisser?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

20 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. What can someone do while kissing to make if very enjoyable for the other person. What should we do with are hands? Should we bite your lip? Any tips?... (33 words)

How can I tell my husband it hurts me that he hides porn?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is how do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he watches and hides porn? I have told him I would watch it with me and that doesn't work. I have tried dressing up in sexy clothes and that doesn't work either. I have found porn under my couch in my den under the ... (208 words)

Hard sores on the inside of my vagina?

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20 October 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Hello,this will probably be the most embarassing question, or story, or what ever I will ever ask or tell about in my teanage life. So lately a year ago, I have been having hard sores in the inside of my left vagina lip(or however they say it), well both sides of my vagi... (117 words)

Any tips on female masterbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I'm not in a relationship right now, and I'm having a lot of trouble lately with, to put it bluntly, being very horny. I can't stop thinking about sex some days, it's rediculous. Some people have suggested that to help with this to try masturbating. Honestly, I never really ... (77 words)

My boyfriend cannot get it off with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now. there's only one problem.. our sex life. for a year now hes probably only gotten off 5-6 times outta the plenty of times we have "tried" having sex. idk why he cant get off. idk if its me or if im doing something ... (94 words)

Do you have to have sex in order to orgasm?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you have to have sex in order to have an orgasm? Why can't I remember dreams when I want to....... (21 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him constantly!

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend always thinks im after other guys and cheating on him constantly. Ive honestly never cheated on him i love him so much. I go to school and i got a little close with one guy, we would hug longer than other people would or talk just to eachother when we were around ... (171 words)

Does he sound like he wants a relationship?

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20 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing someone for about 2 months. We talk daily and usually see each other 2 or 3 times a week. When we do get together it's for hours on end. I haven't slept with him and have told him that I'm not ready and he's said he's ok with waiting for me. Recently I met some ... (232 words)