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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What are some specific kinds of birth control that make boobs grow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some specific kinds of birth control that have made boobs noticably bigger. Me and my best friend want to know. we both have been on birth control for over a year.. and no boob growth.. we need help!!! ... (40 words)

Who do I chose? He divorced his wife to make me his.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - please help..to make this story short here it goes..i had a relationship with a married man...we parted went our seperate ways painfully he broke it off...he said that i deserved better and that if he got divorced he would come back to me because he loved me. well time passed i ... (176 words)

How can I be more assertive, to people outside of my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I be assertive to people outside my family. At school people pick with me a lot and I don't do anything because i'll get nervous and scared. With family people I can get mad and assertive fast. I tried to act like the people at school are my family but it doesn't work ... (65 words)

Should I beg for a second chance, and hope its all a phase on her part?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im just here to vent. It's prolly obvious that it's over and nothing can be done. I fell in love with this girl years ago... gave her everything I had, planned my future around her, would do anything for her. I looked forward to spending the rest of my life with her... I would ... (397 words)

How can I stop myself being so nervous about everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and i get so nervous about everything. When im at school i get so nervous that somebody will talk about me or hit me or just plan mess with me. See im a quiet person who doesn't say much in some classes because or certain students.In some classes I talk and don't get ... (339 words)

Help! Is he leading me on, or does he want to date me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I have been talking to this guy for a week or so through the internet, we met through a social event so its not an online thing. The other day he asked me for my number because he was asking me about going to the movies together. I gave him my number and he texted ... (148 words)

Totally confused by all the mixed signals...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I am 16 and a sophomore in high school. I have liked this girl for a while and we have become pretty close over the past month. One of my close friends is also pretty close friends with her and he says she told him she likes me and always asks for help with me. So the ot... (223 words)

Can you suggest me tips on how to raise my chances with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I passed by our company during my vacation leave when I met this beautiful, smart, and interesting lady in our office (so far she is the most beautiful woman in our office). I successfully established communication with her through chat and text messages and she's cordially ... (356 words)

If you can afford me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Women with healthy self esteem (not narcisissts) - What do you think of the 'You must pay to get with me' attitude of Katy Perry in 'If You Can Afford Me'?... (31 words)

Since I lost my job my marriage has gone downhill...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I lost my job 10 months ago and since then my marriage has gone down hill. We have been married for 15 years and have 4 kids. We have lost everything we have worked so hard for. We just filed bankruptcy and our home is in the process of foreclosure. My husband is stressed ... (171 words)

Did I cheat on my boyfriend, and if so does that mean I'm not happy with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very much in love with my boyfriend, we've been together for 7 months and it feels very right, like I've found my soul mate. I've been through enough abusive/controlling/violent and generally unhappy relationships to know that I'm definitely onto a good thing and really ... (660 words)

Our sex life seems to have gone out the window...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 5 months now and its all been going great until the last couple of months. Our sex life seems to of kind of gone out the window. As in we hardly have sex anymore. This makes me confused, are we just past the honeymoo... (322 words)

Is he jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I told the guy I am dating that I will go to a party and asked him if he could help me by giving me his opinion about the hairstyle. He acccepted. I thought he will ask me something about the party, but he did not. The only thing he knows that I will go to a party. Why didn't ... (200 words)

How do I get an exit strategy underway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has been burring us financially for years now. I cannot understand him at all. I gave him till Christmas and me and our children (5 and 1) are going to leave. But now I need a plan. I cannot go on with his lies and selfish behavior. But he has buried me in debt ... (195 words)

Opinions gratefully received. Should we stay together for the sake of the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my fiance a few years ago after a divorce. I was working at a tattoo studio and was "making up" for all the fun I missed out on in High School and College (I had "saved" myself for marriage). When we met, it was her intention to have a one night stand with me, and I j... (616 words)

Return of my first love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I love him to bits but my first love is now back in my life and I'm falling in love with him all over again and we have started sleeping together. My head is so missed up I don't know what to do. I need help.... (58 words)

Anal sex is far to painful for me and I feel like a failure but I can't do it any more... help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, despite him working long hours on most days. he's wonderful, like mr. perfect, and i really love him, but i have a really big problem. He's really keen on anal sex, but i've tried it two to three times, and every time it's been ... (129 words)

She does not understand why I am upset. Should I be upset?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age - My wife slept with my best friend, no sex, no touching. I was not present. The sleeping accommodation was not the best. First nite she called me and told me he invited her to the bed, there was only one. She was cramped where she slept. She told me by phone she did not feel ... (94 words)

Virgin... or not a virgin???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question regarding my virginity. I am not really sure if I am still a virgin or not. My boyfriend and I tried to have sex but he couldn't get his whole penis inside, only a bit went it and it hurt me. He slowly tried to put it more inside but because of my discomfort ... (119 words)

She tells me she needs me... but she's got a boyfriend! How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - help!!! there is this girl who has had one boyfriend all her high school career, they have been going at it for over 2 and a halve years, i started talking to her 8 months ago. i have relaized that im and absolutly 100% in love with this girl, and she tells me that she is so ... (213 words)

She's giving me the cold shoulder for no apparent reason... any ideas why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I started a new job about 3 months ago and met an attractive woman there. I found out through the other coworkers that she is single. For the first month or so I was working under her supervision to learn the ropes and we came to find out that we have quite a bit in common w... (359 words)

I feel like I have been "cheated" on, even though we aren't really a couple anyway. Help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, and I have never had a girlfriend before. But during this past summer, I met this girl at my work who was amazing. I was very shy at first when talking to her, but as I started talking to her I could see we were making a connection. We eventually started ... (610 words)

If I like her should I convey my feelings or will she think I'm rushing things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I am in late 20s. I have been chatting with this girl for almost 3 months now. We initially chatted almost every other day for 2 hours. We also talked on phone for 4-5 times (everytime for more than 3 hours). We have never met due to geographical distances. We got each other's ... (216 words)

I simply don't know what to do or say to take it to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 41-50 - There is a girl that I have recently been introduced to and I am pretty sure that there is chemistry between us. I am basically a 26 year old adult that does not have much sexual experience. I have absolutely no idea what I am doing, I can't read signals, I can't send si... (209 words)

Help! How can I get her to open up to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have been talking to a girl for while now. She used to text me every day and we would talk for the rest of the night. She knows that I have feelings for her and one day when we were talking she told me about how she had sex with someone three weeks earlier and she wont tell ... (142 words)

How can I tell him I really like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I met this guy at a wedding, he was the Best Man and I was the Maid of Honor. We hung out all night and he made gestures that made me think he likes me. The problem is, he lives 3 hours away from me and im afraid im falling for him. We just talked the other night and he didnt ... (129 words)

I don't want a relationship based on sex - how do I avoid this? Are we moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Okay, so I used to work with this guy for two months and well, that's how long we've known each other. When I first met him, I really liked him, a lot. And last weekend, he told me that he liked me since we met, and the day after,, he asked me to be his girlfriend. And so f... (262 words)

Is she just a play around buddy or does she really want a serious relationship with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 41-50 - So 3 week ago i met this really pretty girl at a pool hall. She was alone and i was with 2 buddys. Well this girl happens to live on my street too (wow). So anyhow she invites me back to her place after we chatted, which was surprising. So i ended up goin to her place after ... (422 words)

Should I get a friend to arrange a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I saw this girl in my friend's birthday party but I could not speak to her, because this guy kept sticking to her all the time. I don't think she likes him more but he was just the guy who kept tracing her! I don't think she likes me or dislikes me because I didn't have the ... (107 words)

I wonder where this is going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl in college for about a month now and I've been spending a lot of time with her since we both are in the same program. We've already kissed and stuff and we are very comfortable with each other. My question is when I introduce her to my friends ... (689 words)

What are good ways to show affection that women like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I was just wondering if most women like lots of affection from someone there dating..... What are good ways to show affection that women like ?... (26 words)

Is there any way I can save this? Whatever I say is falling on deaf ears!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - (i posted a few days ago, but have reposted with extra details) my boyfriend of three years works very hard, and long hours. he has a son who lives with him, and money is tight. i also work but part time, i have three sons and we usually see each other every second week... (724 words)

I'm starting to wonder if she doesn't like me, that would be nasty because I really like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and this girl have been texting for a while and we really like eachother. She's really cool and she always tells me I'm sweet and amazing. But when we meet eachother in person she barely makes eye contact with me and she freezes up. She barely talked to me and was biting ... (105 words)

Is she just on the rebound / bored? Is this moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok ive been good frends with this girl for a long time and she just broke up with her bf and me and her have hung out a lot the past few weeks just as frends like we go meet up with frends and get some drinks but last week we made out at my house and last night she gave me a ... (163 words)

Worried about the aspect of my genitals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it normal for one side of the inside of the vagina to "hang" lower than the other?! its made me well paranoid lol.. dont know if this is normal or not! also, do boys care about girls having a fat vagina?! coz i mean im a bigger girl and yer i was just wonderin! sorry if this ... (73 words)

She doesn't love him so should I tell her what I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i fall in love with my best friend, its great when im with her but it is also confusing.i love her soo much.. and sometimes i feel like i got to tell her what i feel, but i dont know if she feels the same way. she loves me but not like i love her, we are truely best friends we ... (145 words)

Should I have a threesome to not lose him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My live in boyfriend and I have been together almost a year now. We have a house and have been living together for about 3 months. When we first started dating, the "have you ever?" conversation came up and he asked me about my past experience with three-somes. I answered ... (397 words)

She's horrible so why can't I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I know this girl. And shes really, really talented. and attractive. charismatic. And, even though she had some obvious red signs, I thought we clicked and became friends. Eventually this turned into something more and unexpected. I got to know her, and looked past her ... (257 words)

I have fantasies about giant women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure how else I can say this. I have a foot fetish, but on top of that, also deal with macrophilia, where I have fantasies of giantess. The problem is, I get extremely aroused by the thought of being eaten by a giant woman, or stepped on/crushed, etc.. I eve... (121 words)

Should I leave my wife and live with her sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married for three years to who I thought was the woman of my dreams. Over the three years our sex life has declined to non-existant. I've tried talking to her about it but she just says that she doesn't feel like sex anymore. I've told her that she's still beautiful ... (412 words)

What are the chances of a false positive on a pregnancy test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i had my last period on the 13th of september, my next one took longer to come around so i did a pregnancy test and it was positive. i know it sounds silly but i found it hard to believe, even though i am in a secure relationship and we are happy to not use anything. i did ano... (150 words)

Should I end it if he doesn't trust me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me, i'm 16 and have been going with my boyfriend for 1year and 9months, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i really regret this and would never be unfaithful to him, however, my boyfriend has trouble beleieving this any really doesn't ... (157 words)

What can I do about the rumors being spread about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi am 15 and i have been having a hard time at school a girl has spreaded a rumor about me, the rumor is that am a lesbain it was ages ago but ever since then everyone has been shouting names at me like lesbo lesbain it really upsets me my mum and dad tell me to ignore it but ... (190 words)

Should I practice patience or tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Okay so two years ago my mum made this friend and it was just a coincidence that she had four kids two of which are the same ages of me and my sister (both boys).The moment i met my mum's friends son i was very attracted to him when i met him, we got to know eachothe... (353 words)

How do I get over his mistakes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together off and on, ups and down for 7 years. We have a daughter together which is 6 years old, that we love so much. Before he went to prison our relationship was going down the drain, he never was home, he sold drugs, he was cheating on me ... (350 words)

Could he fall back in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Do you think it's possible for a man to fall out of love with a woman, and them fall back in love with her? My boyfriend and I have a house together and we've been having major problems. He's told me that he doesn't love me anymore, but says he might be ab... (123 words)

I fancy my driving instructor...does he think I'm stupid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I've been having driving lessons for a while now (over a year - embarrassing - I was crap at first). My driving instructor has been really supportive... But I really fancy him! I know he's married and I'm engaged but I can't stop thinking about him. He's always lovely to... (195 words)

I want to escape, but is it love or fear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I wanted to get feedback from the readers. I'm seriously thinking about splitting up with my wife. She and I have problems even though she may not admit she does anything wrong. She claims she is always very patient and loving, obviously her Mom agrees. She is very close to... (356 words)

How can I show her we belong together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my ex were together for 2 years and broke up bout 3 months ago. she wanted to get back together and i didnt want to and she said she would wait to work things out. then she get another boyfriend which made me jealous. so i wanted to get back with her. since we been ... (184 words)

Boyfriend gave me an unwanted hickey?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK hi my name is mimmy.im 20 years old.and me and my boyfriends been together for 5 1/2 months. and he gave me a hickey.that i clearly didnt want.but If i tell him no he will stop and look at me and tell me why? why? you have another man at school...i dont know what to do.is he ... (93 words)

Single for so long! What can I do to get guys to notice me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ok so iv been single for a long time now, bout 4years and even before that I have never been involved in a proper relationship. Ths is rally starting to get me down. I feel that I do have issues with my self-confidence and at times do not feel attractive but I feel that ... (193 words)

How do I keep myself from contacting him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Oh help me! He is at it again. How do I keep myself from any contact with him - I think I need to be hospitalized! He is texting me again this morning. About what they are doing and their jobs etc. I think it is a desperate attempt from him to make me think he is happy... (145 words)

Why does my ex argue with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i agreed to just be friends - we talk to each other a lot, but whatever i say he always argues about it, even if it's just my own opinion, and i dont know why?... (38 words)

Should I let her past bug me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I found out that the women that i am dating for 6 mths has had 22 men in her past,some where relationships of 1 to 2 yrs in length but most where only a few mths in length and then she tells me that she has had 4 one nite stands.She is 35 yrs old and has never been ... (82 words)

Will having sex with him give the wrong impression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have lots of problems and I just recently had a child. My husband has lots of lying issues and verb. abussive towards me..we my question is..I havent had sex in almost 6 months and I dont want to mess around with just anybody would it be stupid of me to have ... (70 words)

How do I tell my dad about my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with one of my best girl friends since early May, though we admitted we had feelings for eachother late last year. It's been about 6 months now, all our friends now know about us, after having kept it secret for around 5 months. The problem is our ... (91 words)

Is there anyone out there not looking for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a gay guy that doesn't drink alcohol, but has nothing against it. It tends to be the reason i can't find friends. It also effects my love life. Why is it that all of the friends that I meet eventually just want to have sex with me, then after about 6 months of friendship, ... (82 words)

G/f's past experiences have made her resentful toward men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of one year has some built up resentment towards men from the experiences she has had. I love this girl, care for her enormously and would really like to help her with this. She has been disrespected sexually, not in an abusive or cruel way, but simply never fe... (231 words)

Why is one breast smaller than the other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old. and I have come to know that my left breast is smaller than the right breast, it worries me. what should i do.... (28 words)

B/f thinks its weak to say he misses me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid me n my bf have been seeing each other for almost 9months. he seems cold to me, we dont talk to each other every day, not even a text! he told me once that he thinks it is weak to tell me he misses me! i am a flight attendant, he asked me what would i do when ... (224 words)

How do you know if your guy ejaculated inside you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is for the column: How do know if your guy ejaculated inside you? I recently had sex with my guy and we finished and he said "I came." I wasn't sure if he was telling the truth or not. 1 because I didn't feel it. 2 I didn't feel anything come out. So is there... (90 words)

Is this the beginning of physical abuse in the relationship?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had a fight. It was bad, I would not give up without talking, he wanted to sleep (had a test the next morning) so he ignored me and my tears (I am extremely depressed lately and feel like I have no one to turn to, so there is a lot of crying and it feels like ... (292 words)

After having sex my vagina is inflamed, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there something wrong with me? I had sex, not for the first time and now my vagina is really painful and the labia minora can be seen, its kinda inflamed. I don't not what to do. I am not under age but my mum would still go mental, help please... (52 words)

To cheat or not to cheat? Can mongamy really exist?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Monogamy - can it REALLY exist - or is it natural to struggle with this? I'm asking this question because it seems like everyone cheats. On a marriage, in a relationship, etc. And if they don't it's usually because they "don't want to hurt" their partner, not because they tru... (191 words)

Do girls draw a line between "it doesn't matter" and "too small" for a guy's size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls, would you think that there's a line that separates when a guy's penis size "doesn't matter" and when it's "too small"? Some girls have told me that it doesn't matter to her, and some just flat out told me it's never gonna work. (mine measures about 4 inches both ways... (93 words)

Am I too needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - simple: am i too needy of attention? i tend to get rejected from my boyfriend all the time to me it seems as if he'd rather go to a billiards than to just hang out with me.... i SWEAR he goes at least 4 times a week!... (49 words)

The signs are all there that he likes me, how do I make the next move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to step things up a bit. (sorry this is long!) Theres this guy I like and I am pretty sure he likes me too. All the signs are there, hes just extremely shy and I think hes new to the whole dating thing (I am relatively new to it too...so I too am a bit nervous). (hes 1... (532 words)

No sex, is it still considered cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a dilema If a guy we had been seeing sees someone else but has not had sex with the other person. Is this still considered cheating?... (28 words)

Who should I believe, my boyfriend or his ex wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends ex wife told me that she and my bf had sex since weve been together. When I confronted him about it he said he almost had sex with her one time when she tried to seduce him. He said he stopped himself. However, months later she said that that they had sex ... (249 words)

Why is he ignoring my texts and ca

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been talking to a guy for 3 months now, but I have been putting way more effort into it than he is. He never comes around my family and always expects me to come see him. All the sudden for the last 4 days I haven't heard from him. I've tryed calling him twice and ... (97 words)

Should I try to chill will her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Well school started not that long ago (2 months or so). So she sits two seats away and her friend sits in the middle between us. So I say hi here and there. I ask her how she is. I am always nice. And not to long ago maybe last week she was like your so sweet. T... (203 words)

How can I show him I moved on from the past?

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29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My boyfriend and I will reach our one year anniversary soon .We really love eachother but he lost my trust a while ago. Four months ago or so, we had a break where he was sexually engaged with another girl.. although they did not do anything after the first day, he... (361 words)

My husband lies all the time. How do I tell him it's over?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi you all! maybe some one can help me.I have talked to family and friends about my husband and no one can help me.I just realy need to talk to some one.Well here it is my husband lies to me realy bad.In a mouth I have to tell him good bye.This lieing he does has gone on for ... (109 words)

I like him and he doesn't know!

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29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need major help. My bf dumped me 2 months ago for someone else after 3 years of relationship. I was hurt very badly, but tried to stay friends. I thought it would be very hard to fall in love again, but I hated being lonely. I’m an extremely shy and introvert person... (740 words)

Why doesn't she like me?

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29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is kinda complicated. There's this girl that I've known since she was born, we'll call her connie and I'm in love with her. She is my best friend's sister, we'll call him Ted and I know things will NEVER happen between us. It's kinda complicated, we both have the ... (647 words)

Should I let my guard down and give it a try?

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29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend, who is a male, is soo great. we have been friends for about two and a half years. hes easy to talk and has always been there for me when im with "the other guy". when im hurt by somebody else, i run to him and he comforts me. he has shown me hints many times ... (195 words)

Does he still hate me this much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Been really good friends with a guy for many years. No romance. Finally he professed his love. I was stunned and shocked and kinda rejected him cause I was dating someone else at the time which I told him about. It's been 20 years and he just rejected me on Facebook. Does h... (58 words)

I lied to her... and now she ignores my messages.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i found a book of hers. when i told ... (92 words)

Should I give her a chance... or tell her no chance?

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29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i fancy this girl and ive been told she fancies me back but i am fightened to go with her becasue she has a name for herself in out community and has been known to cheat on her boys :(..........should i give her a chance or just tell her to f*** off ... (52 words)

Is it true that men like women with a few more curves?

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29 October 2009 (F)

- My b/f and I have both gained about 25 pounds since becoming involved with each other 4 years ago. (What can I say, we both love to cook, eat and drink). But I've decided enough is enough and started watching my calories and making time to work out after work. My b/f seems to ... (270 words)

Does it sound like he told his brother about me?

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29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - All last year I had a really big crush on this guy. There were a lot of reasons that led me to believe that he liked me too, but we are both REALLY shy and never went any where. I thought I would get over him over the summer, but I didn't. This year I hardly ever get to see him ... (267 words)

Should I go to Spain to be an Au Pair?

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29 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi. I hope you can help.I am 25 years old and i'm from England, and I have recently got a job as an Au Pair in Spain. I'm supposed to move next week! The problem is, my mum doesn't want me to go, as i haven't had any childcare experience, and i don't know much Spanish, and ... (418 words)

My boyfriend cheated with me on his ex!

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29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex wife 2 or 3 times that I know of. He has kids with her and sometimes talks to her 4 to 5 times a day, but not when I'm around. I told him that if he has nothing to hide he would talk to her in front of me. She hates me and has tried ... (222 words)

Did I do the right thing by staying with my husband?

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29 October 2009 (F)

age - I'm very confused, and feel like my brain is not functioning properly, I make a decision know it's the right one, then change my mind. I really want your advice. Should I stay with my husband. I want to stay and be happy together, but don't know if that is possible. 12 ... (1254 words)

So do you think I'm pregnant?

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29 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i might be pregnant. I had sex about 5 months ago and i was on birth control and he was using a condum. I got my period for the first 3 months and than missed it the fourth month i than got it at the begining of the fifth month and i was suppose to get it again on the ... (160 words)

I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

29 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I believe this other person was... (296 words)

Should I go to his party? And if I do, my two dress choices may make me look like I'm dressing to impress!

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29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going to a formal dress party on friday night, hosted by the guy I like. Things have been eventful lately with us - we got together and then he freaked out a little and said it was all going too fast and we should just be friends, get to know each other and he didn't want ... (252 words)

What can I do to get girls interested in me? And when do I go in for the kiss?

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29 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So this may sound like a familiar topic but I am a male who struggles with women. I have struggled my whole life but it seems like women just have absaloute zero interest in me. I can talk to them, I joke with them usually in a sarcastic form (not anything insulting) and make ... (407 words)

How do I let the other man go without hurting his feelings?

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29 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am / was in a relationship with a great guy. but had another on the side. i love my man and see my self even married to this man but i don't know how to let the other one go. l have feelings for the other one but i don't see a futre with that person. i don't want to loose my ... (78 words)

Telling me about a BJ he received at work, is he trying to make me jealous?

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29 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here it goes, and sorry if this is long. Last year i dated this guy for 3months (i new him before this and i fell in love with him). Anyways I dumped him on new year's. I felt really bad about doing it and i never got over him for the longest time. (I am now over him... (191 words)