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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need some help, I am stuck between a rock and a very hard place.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is complicated so bare with me. When my sister was 13/14 a guy of 18 manipulated her and several girls in her grade at school into several situations. He manipulated them into sending naked and sexually explicit photos to him, as well as into having sex with him. He al... (784 words)

My gay friend keeps grabbing my boobs!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i have this friend he is amazing and i love him to bits. he is gay but i have quite big boobs and he keeps poking at them and grabbing them i didnt really mind at first but now its getting to me and its got worse cause he has asked if he could see them he is my best ... (102 words)

Should I tell her how I feel or should I let my feelings fade?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i had a thing with a friend and then broke it off, but recently i have been thinking about her allot. she however is in a relationship with someone. i dont know what to do. should i tell her how i feel or should i let my feelings fade?... (49 words)

My cousin wants to have sex again! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I whent to see my cousain yesterday me and her realy like each other and we've had sex before safe sex ofcouse but she won'ts us to have it again and I don't no what to say should I or should I not plzz help me ... (46 words)

Should I wait for her to come, or wait for the eventual breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, My gf wants to break up with me because she really think that I cant trust her... We are together only 2 months and it took us 3 years so we can be together. We had a fight because of my best friend and so during a year I ignore her completely but then she's the o... (486 words)

I'm 16 and paranoid. Should I see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and suffering from paranoia which has only recently started, will it get worse? do i need to see a doctor about it? x... (26 words)

Does she like me or am I just mad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Situation overview University second year Me: 20 years old, never had a relationship her: 20 years old, six months older than me, no idea about past relationships Well me met about 9-10 months ago. We started just meeting every week or every fortnight for a coffee ... (811 words)

How can I help my brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My brother really needs help. Last Sept got his heart destroyed by some girl, and now he's become a complete recluse. Before her, he was a bit of a shut in anyway, but now he won't talk to anyone, my friends tell me that when he's at uni during his free time, he just goes and... (95 words)

Can a submissive male maintain a longterm relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age - I started dating a man who wants me to dominate him. I have read that a male submissive is almost certainly incapable of truly loving a woman. It was said that they would be incapable of longterm relationship, I need to know if this is true. I am falling in love with this man ... (70 words)

Does he want me or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i know if my boyriend still wants to be with his ex? My boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost a year now. I love him with everything i have and he tells me he does too. Im living at his house but theres one problem.. his ex girlfriend. she keeps calling an... (148 words)

I think my boyfriend might be gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I just need to get to the bottom of this. I'm going crazy-I have suspicions about my bfs' sexuality and have for awhile now. I feel so alone. I am just curious if anyone else has had experience with men lying about their sexuality and if there are any "real" ways to tell. ... (57 words)

What do coincidences mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hey there ,I wonder if someone else has this problem... Coincidences are driving me crazy regarding to my relationship. they are so powerful and devastating ,that I almost can't believe it when it happens. I'm married and having and I have some really weird connections to t... (189 words)

What can I do with a mate who wants to replace my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont really know how to explain this so im just gonna come out with it. me n my mate are really close like brother and sister recently he has split up with his girlfriend n recently he keeps asking for things like blow jobs sex and other things, he knows i have a boyfriend n ... (144 words)

I lied about being pregnant and wanting to abort...can I fix this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i think my relationship has just ended for some shit i have done but it did not happen just like that he he push me to it,hear it goes just at the start of my relationship my boyfriend told me that he had sex with my ex-boyfriend's mother but at that time i was still living ... (290 words)

I perspire profusely and nothing helps. What do you recommend?

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18 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - dear agony aunts, please HELP ME! i used to sweat alot on my underarms and hands. I went to the doctors and they perscribed drysol. After only 1 day it completely went away on my underarms but after 5 days of use it STILL didnt go away on my hands. my hands started to peel a ... (117 words)

I feel so lonely and ugly because I cant get a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just need to get my feelings out so if anyones got any advice on how to get through this, or have been in this just leave advice or tips please :( well im going trhough depression, aniexty and low self esteem. ive honestly never felt so ugly, i have really short rhiann... (469 words)

Is this bleeding normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - been checked out: clean. I've never had sex without a condom thus wasn't worried. had sex with my boyfriend before but it was gentle, slow. recently hes taken to fingering me with more than two fingers and it hurts alot, he tends to do it before im wet and it makes me sore but... (234 words)

Is he not interested in hooking up again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm looking for some advice... I met this guy at a friend's wedding back in August and we got drunk, talked for hours, and hooked up. The next morning we had the usual 'if we're ever in each others cities, we should meet up' chat (we live in different countries so it ... (359 words)

The girl I love is my best friends daughter. What do we do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 42 yrs old and have been best freidns with my co worker Dan since high school. I was even his best man at his wedding. I was in a long term relationship that ended 10 months ago, Dan was awlways trying to set me up with different people but none ever clicked. 4 months ... (312 words)

So in love, must we part?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) age - I love my guy very much. He loves me very much. After three years he is not even ready to live with me and I am ready to get married. Today I am crying at my house and he is crying at his. because how can two people break up who are so right for each other and love each ot... (75 words)

What could I do so hes no longer mad at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if someone(person A) you liked started to anoy you by texting and im.img you all the time how could or what couuld this person(person A) do to get you to not be mad and or like them again? ok well this guy and i started talking over the summer and i really really liked hi... (244 words)

My husband wants to have anal sex with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband wants to have anal sex with me.We have never done it before,and I'd like some advice on how to go about.I'm a little bit scared about,is it safe or healthy for my body if he cums on my back?... (41 words)

Could she be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i had sex a little more than two weeks ago, she's not on any birth control, but i did use a condom. I pulled out with the condom still on, and i made sure the condom wasn't ripped or anything, and NO sperm even touched the vaginal area. BUT, she told me she ... (81 words)

Does this plan have disaster written all over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and in high school. ok heres my problem, i like this guy but he likes his ex-girlfriend and he only likes me as a friend. theres this other guy who likes me but i dont like him at all. the guy who likes me wants to set me and the guy i like up. so we made a plan that me, ... (179 words)

How can I tell if my feelings towards him are reciprocated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just gotten out of a pretty serious relationship where the guy was someone I thought I could possibly change from his overbearing and controlling nature to the sweet guy that I knew was underneath his obnoxious exterior. During said relationship, I began having feelings ... (255 words)

Why can't I just lose my virginity when virginity is not a big deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, everyone ! Thee's one thing I don't understand about the relationship. When you have a boyfriend / girlfriend, people always say their pasts are just the past. If the person is not a virgin, then it's not a big deal as long as you love them. So why can't I just lose my v... (67 words)

I'm not that girly, but I want to become more girly.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and in my second year of high school. ok so i'm not that girly, but i want to become more girly. i always wear a black shirt and blue skinny jeans. my shoes are black converse and i wear lots of black eyeliner and my hair is covering one of my eyes. all my friends say i ... (104 words)

He uses porn for sex instead of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Since me and my partner have been going through a bit of a rough patch for the past few weeks, we haven't been having sex. I recently found some porn websites on his phone...(I was borrowing his phone, as mine broke.) and he had googled up 'hot naked women'. I'm very upset... (253 words)

His Wild & Strange Push/Pull Behavior!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Husband's best buddy has been sweet and a teensy bit teasing and flirty with me for over a year - like a very mild crush. Recently we got to be better friends and I let him know that he was someone I enjoyed being friends with. Now sometimes he's suddenly acting like he's ... (310 words)

Does my teacher fancy me as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im a boy, 15 yrs. old...i really fancy my male teacher and i don't know why..i think he also likes me as he looking at me when im walking down the corridor, and when i look at him, he smile at me in a shy way then his face turns red. When he's talking to me during our lesson he ... (197 words)

Why is he playing these games? I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - soo sorry this is rly long, had a helllll of a weekend!! me and my bf had been together for 4 months. but we had been fighting all the time and started to get less close. so on friday (its sunday now) he came over after school and everything was good. he was supposed to leave ... (949 words)

Started as a purely sexual relationship. Now she has feelings and I want to bail!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman that had stated from the beginning that all that she was looking for was for fulfilment. OK, with me. What man will turn a foxy woman down? Not many!! Anyway we have been having our weekend get together-s at my home for the last few ... (232 words)

Could I be a lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old and always considered myself straight. However i found when i look at pictures of girls with there boobs out i get really turned on and so wet, i always want to masturbate so badly!! However recently i split with a long term boy friend. in an effort to cheer my... (155 words)

Could I be pregnantwith my second child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a baby almost 8mths old, i since stopped breast feeding(at since months to be exact) ive since have my period once 1mth ago, i am now five days late and wondering if i cud hav a problem or pregnant, (i havent seen any symptoms of pregnancy though) since my baby was ... (106 words)

I'm gay and in love with my tutor-councillor from an educational summer program!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm gay and in love with my tutor-councillor from an educational summer program I go 2. Over the 6 weeks there I became really close with. He's so gorgeous and my knees grow weak just thinking about him. He's 20 and a junior in college. I'm 17 and a senior in high school. ... (551 words)

Do her feelings for me extend to me being a possible boyfriend or longer term partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Firstly, I'm 30 and maybe a little older than the regular users of this site but in my desperation for answers I'm giving this a shot. Heres the story so far.... In March 09 I started a new job, one of my first days was a training induction on which I met a girl (lets call ... (996 words)

Does he think I'm cute or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys! Ok well first ill tell u a little backround info and then ill ask my question. Alright well i just started highschool in september and i saw this guy in my science class who i instantly thougt was hott. For some reason i have trouble talking to hot guys because i a... (205 words)

Will we ever have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, well i am 16 and have sort of just got into a relationship with a guy named matt who is 20 years old (so a bit older then me) now i just want to state for the record we are both not together for the sex or anything like that we both are inseprable and really l... (219 words)

I want a child of my own but everyone says not yet!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i feel so strange, im in college at the moment, in my last year. me and my best mate are both in serious relationships, she always says how she would never have a baby at this age and she thinks its stupid, however, i would do anything to be pregnant and be a mother. i ... (152 words)

Do you think he has had 'affairs' with both these women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, About 4 years ago I was going through my husband's credit card statements (with his permission looking for a purchase for which he had lost the receipt). There was an amount for £65 for a piece of Tiffany and Co jewellery. When I mentioned it, he said that it must be ... (826 words)

Girlfriend cheated with her best male friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me the other night. She was out with her best mate of 10 years (a bloke) and they went to a club, got drunk and snogged. Prior to this they have sexually flirted via text, nothing that explicit just that they found each other sexy and w... (181 words)

Am I just now seeing my ex has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, im Jessica. i am finished with my boyfriend (jus say his name is Sam) nearly a year now i was with him for 6 months and i was truely in love with him and i knew he felt the same way. i am only sixteen and people tell me i dont know what love is but i do, i really do, ... (271 words)

Husband cheated, filed for divorce, judge said go to counseling! I want out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out off a very close friend that my husband had been having an affair with another woman. She works in an Italian restaurant/pizzeria [her family runs it] and was serving another customer when she recognized my husband with another woman and overheard him saying to he... (221 words)

I want a real boyfriend so I don't have to lie about having one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want know if i will ever find the guy that makes me not be able to think about anthing else. I have never had a real boyfriend its got to the point where my friends think i am so sad that i have started lying to my friends bout having a boyfriend i shouldn't need t... (107 words)

I don't want to be in this relationship any longer, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What should i do? I have been in a relationship for 3 years and out of the 3 most of it has been arguments over me cheating. I have not cheated and stayed true through out the relationship, now its to the point where i dont wanna be in this anymore. There is no fun and ... (79 words)

What to do with a difficult friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't have really relationship question, but more friendship. I have quite bad problems with one of my best friends. At least for me these problems are such a bad, that i often loose my confidence for couple of days. Even my confidence is not high anyway. It's kind of hard ... (603 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me because his friends don't like me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

- My bf broke up with me because his friends didnt like me. They put an enourmous amoutn of strain on our relationship. Obviously, his friends and their opinions are important to him. And I can understand him wanting his friends to like me and for me and his friends to get along ... (374 words)

Wife spending alot of time with male friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 28, my wife's 26, we've been married for 5 months now, all's been good so far. However, I've become concerned with her about the amount of time she spends with a certain male friend. I'm not normally jealous of her interaction with other men, far from it, I'm usua... (372 words)

Am I crazy or is he tripping?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just need opinions as to whether or not im crazy or is this dood trippin? lol Met up w/ this guy as a movie buddy.Wednesday: met at a bar to see if we meshed.He said he'd stay a bit but stayed all night and txted me after to say he had a good time.Thurs: we planned to se... (331 words)

Why is he so affectionate in front of others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey folks, ive been with my partner since march. he lives in another country but we visit each other once a month. when we are together during those visits he shows me little affection which im happy with at the time. then when we are in company he tends to become very affectio... (105 words)

LDR suddenly no contact at all from her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I live in England, the girl I love lives in America, we had a great thing going between us for over 1 1/2 years, but then she suddenly stopped all contact, any attempt at contacting her have been meet with silence. I wasn't given any explanation and her friends don't kn... (75 words)

In the bedroom boyfriend just isn't interested

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I was wondering if someone could help! I have been dating my new boyfriend for 2 months and we have a real problem in the bedroom...he just isn't that interested!! We waited a month before we had sex - he stayed over quite a few times and nothing but kissing, when we... (444 words)

Is she a selfish bitch? Or just messed up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my question may not be as alerting as most, maybe even average, but i still need help, this has been stuck in my mind since april this year, I started dating this girl in november of last year, nothin to big at first, actually just friends, long distance for a c... (667 words)

Her engagement is broken, how do I proceed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

- Hello everybody, I(39) met a lady(Denise,27) about 2 weeks ago. I hired her for for a part time position in a small business I own. During the first week, she shows great enthusiasm and seems very diligent in her work. She also seems like a very nice person. At the end of th... (641 words)

Was my ex jealous?

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18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok on thursday nite i receved a random text from this guy caled ian, and my ex and his gf was there, i was talking to his gf bout this and all of a sudden he became very intrested, in this text his gf said get him 2 come down the pub to meet me and stuff, even tho ive never ... (245 words)

Is it normal for an ex to carry on sleeping with his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm just wondering if anyone else does this, I still speak to my ex on the phone most days, and see him somedays too, even though he has a girlfriend, but the past couple of months we have been having sex, I know it's wrong but we just can't seem to help it. I still have f... (97 words)

Why do I get bored during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for almost a year now and at first we couldn't get enough of it and I had a high sex drive but now I am suddenly uninterested in it and I cringe if he even tries to touch me. The last time we had sex it felt like a chore to me and I got ... (135 words)

What sorts of things are normal for first dates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering what sort of things are normal for first dates? Like what you should say and do... I only really had 1 first date before and we went to the movies. He hand my hand the whole time because at first he tried messing with my leg and I didnt like that too much... (201 words)

How likely is it they will get together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. still on the same stupid boy. so quick background info. im 18 hes 21 we moved in together about a month ago. i didnt think i was ready and wanted to get my life together first so i broke up with him and moved back with my family. i realized i loved him and he said he ... (734 words)

Am I not good enough for a proposal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have known each other since we were 12 years old and liked each other since 12 years old but only dated for the last 3 1/2 years. We are both 24 years old. He is turning 25 next Feb and I am turning 25 next May. We have been through so much together: breakups... (479 words)

Boyfriend over analyzes everything. How do I not sweat the small stuff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a new relationship with a great guy and have been dating him for the past 2 months. I am new to the dating scene but he treats me right, talks to me everyday and constantly tells me he cares for me. I really like him and want this to work. The only problem is that ... (163 words)

I think I like him, how do I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - so theres this guy...lets call him Andy.....he's like, he's a really good friend of mine...me, him and my female best friend (Julie) sit together in almost every class... I've know him since last year when we had to organise a school function together (as in in the same gro... (183 words)

Why did he suddenly stop talking to me after our date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't have a lot of dating experience because I had been in a long term relationship for about for years, so please bear with me. A few weeks ago, I met a guy at a friend's birthday party (he's her friend). We danced pretty much exclusively the entire night and he end... (505 words)

Incredibly possessive girlfriend...how do I get space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so background. i have been in a relationship for about a month now with one of my bestfriends. we met thru a JROTC thing when some of the underclassmen and my self went streaking before and after the ceremony. we were pretty good friends from there on out. then summer hit ... (331 words)

Do lack of actions show lack of care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question, if someone that claims he loves you but then never calls, writes, or does anything to initiate contact, do you back off???? Very confused and told that it is your not believing in the love or trusting that is the fault. But when there is no communication, ... (68 words)

Do men also brag about not getting sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 1 of only 2 women working in an Army office with about 8 men. I've been there 3 years and I'm the newest. We are all "pals" - nothing romantic going on - and we talk about everything. On several occasions recently all the men have commented that they get no or practically ... (213 words)

Does he mean he still loves me or was the comment past tense?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I are separated and we were having an indepth e-mail conversation, so I asked Do you Love me? He replied: I always did... even though I had a terrible way of showing it. Does that mean past tense - he doesn't love me now. He says he keeps thinking ... (80 words)

Do I tell my new boyfriend my ex was abusive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex told me he would hit me if I cheated on him and he forced me to do sexual acts I did not want to. My bf wants to know more about my past relationships and how they ended. Do I tell him? I was also sexually abused and I don't know if that's something I should share.... (78 words)

Is my jealousy pushing him away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid: I went on my first date with my boyfriend three months ago. During the four first weeks we had great time while getting to know each other. I was always happy and smiling and he told me that he will always like me as long as I remained like that. Many times he as... (603 words)

When she's with other guys I get pissed! How do I get to know her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

18 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl, we met a few weeks ago, I say hi whenever i see her in the hall way, whenever we see eachother she looks at me, and sorta gives me a smile, and then looks away. I told her best friend i liked her and her friend over facebook, and i think the girl i like was ... (162 words)

Why would he say something and take it back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

18 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i really need someone to help me with this as i'm not sure what to think. ok, here goes! I recently become friends with my ex, he was having trouble with the relatonship he was in, i listened to his problems and helped him through it. I knew i still had feelings for h... (190 words)

My heart still wants him but my head says no...

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18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I have broken up after 2 years. He cheated on me once with his best friend (female) and I forgave him. The second time I found out he was dating her at the same time as me and called it quits. Both times did not involve anything physical like sex. He claims ... (192 words)

Is there a possibility that I'm pregnant?

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18 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here is my dilemma, i took 3 hpts and they all came out negative, if i were to be pregnant i would be a month and a half now. i have montgomery glands and i know every woman has them, but theyre raised like never before. i sleep almost all day [literally] beca... (215 words)

I fancy him but it would be social suicide to go out with him!

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18 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy at school really fancys me but theres one problem. Hes a geek. I think i might fancy him aswell but it would be social sucide going out with him! He's asked me out loads and i keep saying no. I know your just going to be like well if you fancy him then go out with him ... (76 words)

She seems to get along better with my friends than me. Should I just give up?

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18 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and this girl have liked each other for about 5 years now being at school and we have gotten really close online and talking like we want to be a couple. but when we talk in person, i just get the feeling she dosent want to be there, we dont say much in person together, she ... (343 words)

I'm having doubts about living with my boyfriend...

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18 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im kinda a bit confused with this the thing is im not sure if i really want to live with my bf permantly i stayed at his for bout 8 weeks he lives about 5 hours away b4 coming bk home to my parents it was gd and all but now im back home i keep getting doubts about leaving my ... (172 words)