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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I've known this girl for about 4 or 5 months, we both felt extremely attracted to each other from the day we met (this was later established). we only recently began to hang out quite often and 5 days ago decided to start "dating". however, since we've both talked about our feelings for each other we've spent 5 nights (spending the days apart) together and have already had sex. is this too fast? it feels like it might be for me but i know i really care about this girl. now i'm wondering how long i should wait before seeing her or calling her again. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 October 2009):
Don't wait long to talk to her or she'll think you used her for sex. But if you want to go slower, just spend time dating. But don't make her think she's been used.
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