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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I had dreams that are now coming true! Were they telling me something?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Sometime in July or August I had the same type of dream about someone who I thought I was in love with. I had it 3 nights in a row, and the dream was about me trying to get her attention and trying to say that I'm sorry to her, but she'd always walk past me, ignore me, or act ... (155 words)

My boyfriend and I had sex without protection, but I had my period. Could I be pregnant anyway?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so me an my boyfriend had sex without a condom cuz we didnt have 1 like a week and a half ago. he pulled out wenever he was ganna cum and ive had my period already but cud i still b pregnant? because hes ben freakin out cuz ppl have made it seem like im pregnant or i cud ... (71 words)

Can you feel it if your soulmate dies without having ever met them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A very weird question I know but my friend has recently been telling me that she has these really bad aches as though she has lost someone in her life, which she hasn't, and she says it feels like she can never love anyone again but she doesn't know why. She also said that she... (91 words)

I'm head over heels in love! How do I muster up the courage to ask her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and nuts, crazy over a girl a year below me but goes to my collage or sixthform if you live in England. I have a similar situation to a person you help about asking a girl out I dont know her at all, well i over heard her saying she wants to get into law but ... (242 words)

I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have a dilemma. I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts. He's really sweet, kind, generous, loves me for me, I can be completely myself around him, he's dependable, smart and hard working with a really good job. He's got ... (310 words)

My abusive girlfriend broke up with me and I can't forget about her. How do I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I was in a relationship for over a year. At the ending she was very abusive to me , and it didnt feel good anymore, but when she broke up i was devestated. Now, 3 months later, i still cant forget about her. I think about her every day at least once, When I ... (124 words)

Is he backing off from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi ive been together with my boyfriend for one and half years, we were good together, but for the last four months or so i do not feel as though we are the same. we would text each other at least ten times per day, and he would ring me when he could during the day. we woul... (260 words)

I made love with my friend in a moment of weakness. What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay me and my boyfriend have been going on and off for a year and a half. we always get in yelling fights and everything but at the end of the day its all better, but when we were in a fight i went to my friends thats a guy and he made me feel better and he told me he loved ... (142 words)

I'm 17 and Confused about the relationship between me and a very good friend, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right, Hello um...where do i begin... i am a recently turned 17 year old studying art in my second year at college. When I started my first year, theres this girl that was in my course but not in my that i found attractive but was to shy to approach her, so started talking ... (420 words)

Advice for getting around girlfriends mum ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi basically im completly in love with my ex who broke up with me today but it wasnt on our terms about 5 weeks ago her mum found out we were having sex and found out about a morning after pill had been taken she has completly flipped and is causing her daughter so much ... (204 words)

Have I done a good job hiding how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have, well i wouldnt describe it as a crush but i wouldnt nesicarily say it was love either, I spend all of my spare time thinking about this person and imagining what it would be like if we were together. The only problem is i dont know how she feels. I am female, 21 and ... (229 words)

I don't know whether he's a perv or maybe he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, today in the morning an old friend of mine came by to help me with math and I thought it was very kind of him to do so. In fact I learned a lot from him, but somehow we ended up slacking off. Then all of a sudden he pops a random question to me: "How far have you gone ... (228 words)

Why can't my wife and I simply be alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife and i have been together for 6 years now. ever since we've been together either her sister, her brother, or her mother is living with us. we've been by ourselves for 5 months out of the 6 years of our relationship. her mother is 41 and she can't support herself. shes ... (422 words)

Is there some secret to figuring him out without scaring him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My emotions are on a roller coaster right now. I have a great guy friend. I've fallen head over heels for him, but don't know what to do. He is a great, friendly, super nice guy, not just to me but to everyone. We've known each other for almost 10 years, but have gotten much ... (286 words)

To kiss or not to kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - UGH!!!!!! I hate this, I hate this, I hate this! I just started dateing this guy i really really like, lets just call him S, but he is a little bit of a geek and not as noticable but those are just the guys i always seem to like. The boyfriend i had before him, lets call h... (377 words)

I'm pregnant but my husband wants me to abort the baby!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 38,my husband 46, we both has a daughter from previous marriage, 15 and 13. Now I am pregnant, but my husband does not want the baby. He wants me to do abortion. what I should do? He even wants to divorce! Help!... (44 words)

Will my boyfriend eventually get bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we had our ups and downs but have decided to stay together and work on our relationship. Our sex life is wonderful we both make sure that the other is properly satisfied. We do everything including oral and anal. Ive been watching ... (96 words)

What should I believe? I'm disgusted and don't know if he's cheated...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found an email conversation between my boyfriend and another Guy that was very sexual. He told this Guy where we live and told him to meet him in the 24hr gym to have sex. My boyfriend says he never went but a follow up email from the other Guy asks if he wants to ... (103 words)

Did I experience an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I just wanted 2 ask a kind stupid question, but oh well...well basically it first happened when my bf was rubbing me over my trousers, i got this amazing feeling which made my whole body get hot and it makes me feel so tight kind of tensing and untensing on my ... (119 words)

Should I be heartbroken over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I got together in 2005 and honestly i had just broke up with a guy who had cheated on me and obviously was looking out for myself when i snooped. I know it’s wrong but I had to. I found a couple texts between him and his then best friend (a girl) who was ... (636 words)

When can I take a pregnancy test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. So, here is my situation: my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex (stupid, yes) the day after my period ended. Ten days later, even though I know it is unlikely that we conceived, I feel weird. PMS-like symptoms, nausea/hunger, everything smells and tastes different (my ... (101 words)

Why is he so intrusive when we are only FWB?

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9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have this guy who ive known since i was 13 (im 31 now) and we've been friends w/ benefits in the past but now we're just friends. He wont tell me nothing about his own life... absolutely NOTHING but when it comes to mylife hes gotta know every lill detail!! WHY?? He also ... (137 words)

What does an escort do in bed? My fiance uses their services.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age - I found out my fiance using escort many many times. He said the sex with them is simple. No pussy licking. Just doggy style and bj. Is this true? what exactly does really escort do in bed? ... (42 words)

Do you think he will really leave his wife for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me ad my first luv lost communications two years ago .he married i got married .i got divorced later but he is stil in his marriage .we are nw back togather again but he has his wife .he promises to come and stay with me .i luv him so much but i wnt to ask if u think if he cn ... (66 words)

How do I approach the most gorgeous guy on earth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this really gorgeous guy at my school (university). I have been seeing him around campus and I think he is simply the most gorgeous guy that has ever walked the face of the Earth. I don't know anything about him, not even his name...but I reaaly wanna get to know him ... (108 words)

Am I in "best friends for life" territory?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, i'm probably in 'best friend for life' territory with a girl i know from uni. i'm 21 (soon 22) and she's 20. i have feelings for her, massively. i told her over the phone in summer, and she took it very well. we're not together but we still see each other r... (245 words)

Should I stay because I did wrong and I deserve this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello well i feel really confused and i need some advice. I have been married for 2 years. After a couple of months of marriage i found out my husband met up with another woman in an inappropriate way (he says he didn't sleep with her) after that i forgave him but i was still ... (469 words)

Can a lost tampon make me ill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - On Tuesday my b/f and I had sex and there was a really bad odor. My b/f didn't say anything because he is too polite, but it was definitely coming from my vagina. So after he left I used a douche. Yesterday we had sex again and the smell came back. This time when he pul... (155 words)

Why would he knowingly hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Since I got such great advice on my last issue I felt why not try this again on another that is a bit more complex in my eyes... I met my boyfriend about 4 years ago at work and we were just really good friends for a couple of years friends with "benefits" let's say. There ... (1155 words)

Is there a big chance I could get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so last night my boyfriend and i attempted to have sex but the problem is since it was my first time it wouldn't fit. we did use a condom and it didn't go in. is there a big chance i can still get pregnant. because i have an irregular period so the whole wait till you get ... (65 words)

Am I mistaking friendly behavior for something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy i've liked for about a year is giving me hopeful signals but i don't want to misinterpret them so i hope you can help me. I've read a lot about body language and how it can show the way someone feels about you. I know the basics, such as eye contact and laughing at ever... (465 words)

I'm 19 and my parents won't let me hang out with friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I found this website yesterday and I think it is very well organized and very helpful as well. So I decided to get help with this question. I am 19 years old and I have very strict parents. They don't let me do anything at all and I can't have a boyfriend. (Th... (667 words)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any advice or helpful tips for first ... (72 words)

I lied and told everyone I had a brother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started college and am living on campus. I am an athlete and also play on one of my college's teams. I don't know why I did this, but I told some of my new teammates that I had a twin brother back home in a coma. I also said that my parents think he is gay, but I don't... (240 words)

In my dream I had sex with my sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am really really freakedout by a dream I had last night. It was so vivid it seemed real. And the sick part of my dream is that I knew what I was doing and with who and I didn't stop! I feel creepy this morning. I gotta find out what this dream means! It was my sister. ... (573 words)

He bled during sex, what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with a guy who is uncircumsised,and he started bleeding from his penis inside me... I am scared to death! Why did that happen? What does it mean? What should I do?... (35 words)

She only visits my boyfriend when I am at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age - I have a girlfriend of my brother who comes over to my house to see my boyfriend while I am at work only, My brother used to live with us but he moved away, He has since moved back and she is still coming around. I asked her months ago not to come around while I am at work, ... (150 words)

Is there a small amount of hope for us yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recentley asked a few questions surrounding my ex, to cut a long story short after living together for a year, he kicked me out, blaming me for the problems in our relationship because we 'argue too much'. We argued around once a month, which considering the stress we ... (407 words)

Something is missing I don't feel as close to my husband as I should

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help needed, I've been marrige for 11years now and was with my husband for 8years before marrige. We have two children together. I'll releationship is great, we share alot of time together, but something is missing cause I don't feel as close to my husband as I should. Some day... (159 words)

How safe is a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How safe is it to use the condom during sexual intercourse? Im' rather curious as some people do get pregnant using condoms at times.... (24 words)

I'm going mad! I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi ,i'm in love with her , i proposed her she told she's engaged.but i can't beleive that.i'm going mad for her and after somedays i asked her best freind about her .she told that she is in love with someone else but she didn't tell him that she loves him till now . at first ... (96 words)

How do I make it obvious that I like this girl? I'm shy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My problem is little long. Well i am 20,still single. My first luv rejected,from then i never found any girl attractive till last week. I go to college, so there is this new girl in my class . I liked her a lot. Its kinda luv at first sight or something. But i cant take her off ... (151 words)

My fiance's sister hates me!

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9 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I have a 7 month old baby boy. I remember when I gave birth my sister in law told me that she wanted a boy and instead had two girls. Well now 7 mths later I found out that she hates me. I've never done anything wrong to her, as a matter of fact I never got clos... (390 words)

I'm very lazy when it comes to sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and have been with my boyfriend whos 26 for 5 years....the problem is im very lazy when it comes to sex...he wants it everytime we see each other...but when i go to bed all i really want to do is sleep is this bad? my boyfriend is very attractive in great shape etc i ... (99 words)

Pregnant and dreaming about sex. I woke up having an orgasm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

- Hi my problem is a weird one............Im 10 weeks pregnant and in the last week, on two seperate occasions, I have experienced an orgasm during my sleep. I am having sexy dreams when this happens and I wake up to find myself in the middle of orgasm! This has never happened to ... (65 words)

He has a child with another women and I don't like sharing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im sharing my boyfriend with other woman and im not happy because she has a child with him. What should I do? I love him so much I dont want to loose him.... (33 words)

His penis didnt go all the way in, could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf tried to have sex but his penis cant really fit into my vagina, but it did went in alittle if i'm not wrong,while we were trying. But he took his penis away after awhile. Im just curious if I can get pregnant this way? cause his penis was not really inside and I ... (67 words)

Had an abortion, now I'm craving chocolate. Am I pregnant again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm due my period on the 12 oct 09. I'm craving for chocolates,and I've done a p test but it's negative. Am I pregnant? Because I had a abortion on the 10 aug 09.and im trying for a baby.... (39 words)

Is it safe to use a vibrator when you are pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is 3 months pregnant and we are starting to introduce sex toys with each other, we have a vibrator but I was just wondering is it safe to use that whilst she is pregnant???... (36 words)

How do I tell him I lied about my dad dying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m in a real dilemma. I met this guy about 4 years ago. He thought he met the love of his life. Me, I was just coasting. I’d just been dumped from a long term relationship (six years). My head was all over the place. He always bent over backwards to accommodate me, he was ... (413 words)

How can I find out the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started a new job a few months ago and met a guy there who I got on really well with. I knew he had a girlfriend of a year and a half so I wasn't expecting things to go anywhere, but we started talking outside of work and eventually met up. He told me he'd broken up with his ... (397 words)

How do I make it obvious that I'm interested in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friends were at the mall the other day, and they bought me this purple and fluffy tiara to wear. They dared me to go up to this cute guy that and ask him to greet me. And I did. I just like ran up to him and his friend and asked if he could greet me. His friend... (369 words)

I hate her but I want her to move in with us for threesomes. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. my husband had a relationship with his baby mom behind my back for some time. Now they have two kids. but before they had kids all three of us had threesomes (they were having sex before we all slept together). I miss having them. We moved out of state but I ... (199 words)

She's threatening to leave me if I don't stop drinking. Will the marriage last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i usually drink only on the weekends and have tried to talk with my wife but she dosen't want anything to do with alcohol of which she used to entertain before. she has gone as far as telling me that we will leave on the condition that i stop drinking of which my drinking... (106 words)

Will I look crazy if I confront him about this secret email of his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend now for 3.5 years. There were rocky moments when we weren't supposedly a "couple" and we were just sort of a best friends who sleep together thing. After moving in together and things well over a year ago, we became a committed couple and have not ... (315 words)

Am I an alien?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old. i have been sexually active for about two years now, and i have had three partners. when i masterbate, i always make myself cum. and when i recieve oral sex, i always cum. but i have yet to get an orgasm thru intercourse. the other night, my current partner ... (118 words)

How do I handle this very awkward situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - What do I do when I know that one of my siblings has sought treatment for severe pedophiliac urges? I am older, thus have known them for their entire life. They were a great kid, very sweet and polite. We were raised in different households (parents divorced). I don't know how ... (213 words)

How can I get the courage to buy condoms?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody i'm 19 now and i had sex 5 times till now with 3 different girls although i never tried to force any girl but being very much attractive i have few girlfrnds but do not date with them but every boy knows we can't deny if a girl proposes for sex.Well all the 5 sex i ... (127 words)

Does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i liked this boy and he liked me and we were flirting now we sit in diffrent seats in class and we cant really talk that much anymore but we still talk though my friend says he look at me and i know he does how do i tell if he likes me. does he like me?... (58 words)

Cheating or not? Walk or Play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So this girl and I have been hanging out, having sex, acting like we are kind of in a relationship, but never really stating that. It's been weird in some ways, but for some reason, I really might like her. Anyways, I went out of town and she slept with someone else. She told ... (490 words)

I can't seem to stop calling it off! What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I realized I have a huge problem. It all begins with remembering how long each of my boyfriends lasted. Never did it go beyond three months. I've only had two before my current one. My current one and I were best friends before. I can't seem to stop calling it off after I know ... (165 words)

He says I'm amazing, but doesn't show it. Does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys! im 20 years old. I've been talking to this boy for like 3 months now, he's perfect, sweet, and stoburn there's times we fight a lot but we make up right after I have never felt so right in my life....problem is that he only says that he wants me and he adores me and ... (100 words)

I am in the perfect relationship. Why do I feel so needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in the perfect relationship, we have perfect chemistry.I just don't know why I have these overwhelming feelings of need towards him... He does everything right by me, he is faithful, he is loyal, he is loving, encouraging and supportive. When I was single, I was in... (117 words)

Why did he delete the sexy photos I sent him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i took a sexy picture of myslef in lingerie for my man, put it on his computer for him as a surprize and he deletes it!!!!! what the flying fuck? i'm not fat i'm not unattractive so what the hell? i've asked him about it but haven't got a response yet. man i feel like he ... (82 words)

How would I go about telling my parents about my LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, it's me again. This is a Long Distance Relationship Question. Just to give a little background information, I live in the US and she lives in Canada (579 mile[932 km] separation). We are both 16 years old. We met on a teen dating site 6 months ago and chat with each other ... (304 words)

Could this tale be the beginning of something even greater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Yeah so had this real good friend of mine for 4 years and we have always shown affection to one another, yet never have done anything about it. We are at the stage of our friendship where we are both real comfortable with each other and tell each other everything. We both ... (555 words)

How do you ease the pain of heartbreak you brought on yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - simple question haha what can u do to ease the pain of a heartbreak that you brought upon yourself? what i mean is i treated my ex like crap and he broke up with me because of it. i had plenty of opportunities to stop, but i didnt, and just recently(like 2 months ago)i sta... (119 words)

Should I go ahead and do it already? I'm a virgin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

9 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 34 gay man and haven't had a sexual relationship yet. Being this age now, I feel frustrated for not happening. I have a kind of boy friend who doesn't want commitment but likes me and I like him, we've being seen each other but since I don't let him get to that point, ... (87 words)

Is this a Big Red Flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a strange question My man (of 1 yr) who is kind, caring, gentle, fun, etc. Has what I think may be a problem... Hard to put in words.But if he thinks someone is Disrespectful he overreacts even if it was unintentional. His reactions are not violent or yelling.... (171 words)

He thinks if we continue the relationship I'll end up cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i just broke up yesterday. He says that he cant so the things that a boyfriend should do to make me happy right now. He rants about how he hates his job and how he wants to quit, and stresses about school constantly. He says he doesnt want to hurt me, he truly ... (118 words)

What is happening when a man can leave his family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 18 years has moved to another state "to pursue" employment. He has been depressed, unemployed and did not like the town in which we were living. He hated that we were able to live for free in my childhood home. I have a job that i love and our 2 daughters (11 ... (146 words)

How do I find a girlfriend without having to go out?

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9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm at university and hate "going out". I seriously hate it, but I do it anyway so that people don't think I'm a hermit. I was at a big party, and our group split up all around the club. I felt retarded since I hate clubs and paid to get in, so I just decided to go crazy and ... (330 words)

Do all these excuses mean he's not into me?

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9 October 2009 (F)

age - ive been dating my guy for 8 months now, we are in a long distance relationship, for the first few months everything was great he was so passionate, it was Hot and heavy, now all of it has slowed down. he says that he is just stressed out, and tired, and doesn;t want to have ... (96 words)

Is this a sign of possessiveness?

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9 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been out with this guy about 10 times. However, I wouldn't consider us to be "in a relationship" yet. Well, I just recently got out of a physically mentally and emotionally abusive relationship, so I'm really sensitive about things. When I called him last, he said, "... (118 words)

At what age can a girl get pregnant?

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9 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - at what age a girl can get pregnant?... (8 words)

How can she accuse me of being clingy when we rarely see one another?

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9 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been going out with a girl for about 1 and a half months, not that long, but we have been friends before this and it seems recently that she just doesn't take me seriously at all. This started about the time we hit 1 month, she acts as if my considerations d... (292 words)

Is it possible to be aroused by a girl who you simply don't see the sex appeal of?

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9 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a new girlfriend and she is great. She is beautiful, funny, cool and I am really proud to introduce her to my friends and family as my new girl. I have literally never dated a girl I feel such a strong connection with. Everything should be perfect. Unfortunately,... (379 words)

This guy teases me and looks at me... but then he's talking to this other girl. I'm so confused

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9 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - K. Im in highschool and im 14. I like this guy...lets call him....Mike. So I liked him since secondary 2 and I we would never talk. Only a few times we had our little conversations but it was nothing much. He did talk to other people but with me, he was more nervous and laug... (470 words)