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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend doesn't show me he loves me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 2 years knows i love him to death and would do anything for him. we've had our ups and downs, mainly downs lately, and as much as i love him im sick of having to convince myself that he loves me too. i used to tell him all th time that i love him, he always s... (384 words)

How long does it take for a broken heart to heal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im still not over my ex and its been nearly a year and a half since he dumped he i feel like im falling for him mre which is bad i no i cant he dont like me like dat. I've tried everything nothing seems to work. He cant understand why i got so attached coz we didnt do anything ... (138 words)

Should I avoid hanging out with people that are gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I need some adivce. I'll try and make this short and sweet and to the point. In March of this year, I was diagnosed with OCD, more specifically HOCD. It's been a problem ever since it started and while it's gotten better, it's not 100% better yet. When I ... (450 words)

How should I handle her being upset with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey ive been seeing this woman for a little less than 2 months now and i am really into her. she has a kid and is 3 years older than i am. We are not official yet because she basically wants to make sure i am the right guy. we work together and we want to keep our relat... (362 words)

How can I get my husband to support me more?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Iv been with my husband for abt 5 months. It was a love marriage and we both have come from different religious backgrounds. I'm currently livin with his family, the first few months were great but a lot has gone downhill, me n my husband argue all the time abt his mum, I kno ... (263 words)

I already know he's a womanizer. Should I go for it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a divorced man who is well educated. I love him and had sex with him. Recently he has been saying about his past relationships and it appears that he had sex with two other women when he was married just because he had a serious fight with his ex ... (182 words)

What do you do when you are torn away from your soulmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm so upset at the moment as i recently got back from an amazing holiday where i met the greatest guy ever. But i only got to know his first name and where he came from and i just del so down without his presence. I feel as he i have been torn away from my soulmate and i ... (85 words)

How can I get over losing this man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I get over losing this man? He has a partner already so I knew it would never work out long-term but I didn't expect it to end the way that it did. Basically we were both out one night (with seperate groups of friends) and I grew increasingly resentful throug... (139 words)

Anyone heard of constant, negative pregnancy test results before?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. This is very mathematical so i apologise already. *I made a summary at the bottom Secondly please dont judge due to the age bar up there. Im engaged, we both work, we both have qualifications and we both pay our bills and tax. So lets get the prejudging out o... (560 words)

Instant Love: what should I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - When i first joined my high school in 2006, i met this girl that i instantly fell in love with(lets call her A), however, since then, i have discovered that one of my best friends also likes her(lets call him B). My other friend (lets call him C) has been in love with another ... (253 words)

He's still not listening when I tell him to slow down!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend last year because I did not want to lose my virginity and he is used to sleeping with his ex-girlfriend (I have now found out he has a reputation for being more interested in sleeping with his girlfriends than the relationship side). He didn't seem ... (369 words)

How can I deal with angry family members?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi im having a bad time at the moment my brother pasted away 12 years ago and my family cant get over it my brothers daughter came to see us and she stayed with me because her mum only trusted me to take care of her and not say how he passed away because he took his own life ... (225 words)

Is it possible I can get pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i need some idea. i have sex with my boy friend 3 days after my minstration and he forget to withdraw it. is it possible that i can get pregnant? thanks... (32 words)

I thought I met the man who could change my life and solve my problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 2day, i have a big problem that i can not solve by myself. i need help from u guys. i am 17 yrs. and my boyfri he is 17 yrs too. i am living in Maryland, USA. and my bf living in Cambodia. we love each other almost 3yrs until now. since we're going 2gether in Cambodia he was so ... (405 words)

Condom came off...could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My name is jayde and im only 16 and i need help on a question i got to ask okay well me and my boyfriend had sex 2 nights ago and the condom came off inside me and it all went every were is there a possible chance that could make me pregnant because i was ovulating... (100 words)

How can we make anal sex better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my boyfriend wonts anal sex and we tried but it hurt real bad. what can i do to make it feel better. we tried changing position but was the same.... (31 words)

I can't let my abusive ex go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok basically this is a long one. I met my ex on the internet, back in january(big mistake im never going to do that again!) we started off and friends, we got together in april, even then he used to tell me about this girl that girl, which shouldv'e rang some bells then. we... (451 words)

How can I unborn a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i unborn a baby i am 2 month of pregnat and if i tellmy dad he willkilll me and send him to jell i dient know i was pregnat me and him was pretecting are self but i dont know what happing and when plz help me dont tell me to go to a clinic because i can bay 500 dollar ... (86 words)

How do I get him to admit his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I'll try to make this short and quick. I've liked this one guy for way too long and I just want us to date already. We are really good friends and I don't see how we can't be really great as boyfriend and girlfriend. There have been times when he has liked me, but has ... (90 words)

Sex with cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i need some help am confused, i dunno if i love my cousion, we have not had sex yet but we've come close quite a few times,we've kissed and pleasured each other, this has been happening for a number of years this started when i was about 11 and she was about 13, we was left in ... (151 words)

Will she leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - we've been together for 3 years now and we are still both in love but now she's decided it is time for us (or her really) to merry but I am not sure I want to, I dont feel I am ready but at the same time I know she has really put her mind into that and she will leave me if I ... (96 words)

Desperate to start a family! Am I rushing things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im 20 years old and im desperate to start a familly i am in a serious relationship and living with my partner we get on amazingly and have been together for 2 years the only problem is i told him how i felt and all he said is hes not ready for babys hes proposed... (135 words)

What can I do to feel less lonely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so lonely that I am starting to feel very down. My Mum and Dad are both from large families yet they very rarely do anything socially together. They aren't nasty people, they just aren't social people. I have 14 first cousins, yet only one of them I could tell you ... (316 words)

Girlfriend's past: threesomes and drugs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my names Sean and i've got a problem. My girl friends 26 and I'm 24. She's slept with around 30/40 guys a similar number to me. I'm not bothered by that, but recently we were talking about past experiences and she told me she's been involved in 2 (i suspect more) threesums ... (222 words)

Involved with married man. Where do I go from here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i'am 22 years old and i am breaking over this situation. 3 years ago i got involved with a married man 14 years older than me @ one of my previous jobs. everything just started, we both knew it was not right. I kept on because i liked him and then fell for him throught ... (467 words)

How do I save this relationship from retroactive jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I just don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend very, very much. I just wish our relationship was normal. He has issues with my past. I was never a slut, I was a virgin until I started dating him. However, I did kiss some guys before him, guys who were much older, who I ... (884 words)

Is he moving too fast again or am I just paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and my BF is just older than me. He has had relationships before but I am still a virgin. I went out with him a few years ago, but broke up with him because I am highly insecure (depressive, not open with people touching me) and he was moving way to fast, but I didn't ... (228 words)

How do I stop wondering what he's doing when I'm not around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with this guy for 2 years and ive caught him cheating on me twice. but last time he left me for a girl because i didnt want premarital sex but then 4 mnths later he came back to me and apologized i took him back. But i told him that i am not going to be ok wth him ... (278 words)

Distant boyfriend. Is something going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months now but lately he has seemed really distant. He rarely talks to me anymore, when we walk together he doesn't even try to hold my hand, and then last night after talking on the phone for almost and hour he didnt say he ... (88 words)

I love an extreme jerk. Should I go back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this boy.. i'll just call him uhm. David. I've known David for 3 years, my best friend in middle school's cousin. It began with me talking to him just as a friend, and eventually, we started talking more. We were going out for about 6 months, and then he got real... (372 words)

Shouldn't we be cementing our relationship by now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey 32 yr old male here..quick story and I need some honest advice...been with this girl for 8 mo now and things have gotten pretty seious..i feel like she is a great girl all around..i am a very busy guy at this time in my life..2 jobs, 2 houses and i work my ass off! she ... (359 words)

Should I stop spying and let trust develop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have another issue. You see, I have sent my girlfriend a keylogger and it was secretly installed on her pc. The thing is that I know she wouldn't be cheating on me, but I just needed to have evidence to verify that she was being honest with me. I really lov... (264 words)

I'm disgusted with this relationship. Can anyone shed some light on it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i just turned 16 and my boyfriend is 19 almost 20. we have known eachother for almost a year now and have been dating for 5 months. things have been very bad between us lately tho, as i am still dealing with things from the recent past that he will not stand to hear about. w... (423 words)

Does this signify she is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a guy of 20.there is this same girl of 18 who attends the same church with me without knowing our names. we usually say hi to each other.certain times looking at each other in church .i know that am cute too and she is pretty too which made me saying hi to her any time ... (153 words)

Help getting over insecurities?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help getting over insecurities. I've been with my boyfriend for about 16 months, yet still I panic whenever I know he's around other girls. He's never cheated on me so I really don't have any reason not to trust him, but for some reason I'm still ridiculously ... (302 words)

Is there such thing as a good man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just feel like I will never find the a guy that knows how to treat me. As I posted before I met this guy that I really liked and he ended up being my first. After the sex he seemed to lose interest in me. He pretended like he wanted to be with me when all he really wanted was ... (195 words)

Why did he lie to me about the way he felt about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.....this is a realllllllly long one but m DESPERATE for help. 4 yrs ago i got in touch with this awesome guy n we really hit it off. he is 3 yrs elder to me.... n we've been togther for over 3 n half yrs now....n its always been in a long distance relationship. we live in ... (651 words)

I finally cut off my sponging ex, but I feel awful

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - am i horrible ? the reason i ask is because today i have told my ex i will not be paying his rent anymore. he has bled me dry-left me insolvent and yet for the past year i have still done everything i can to support him. for the last 4 years he has been emotionall abusive ... (112 words)

I asked him to delete me; is that it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i need some advice please. i recently come into contact with my ex after 4 years of not talking- i discovered he got married. ive always felt bad for the way we split even though it was both our faults. i was feeling low one night and sent an email pouring my heart out and inst... (115 words)

My ex is all depressed because I'm back with my b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started going back out with my boyfriend (we broke up a while ago. Lets call him X). And he's best friends with an ex of mine (let's call him Y) And he and I have become really close friends again this school year. About two months ago, Y told me that he's in lov... (166 words)

Should I wait his LDR out, or has he told me I'm second best?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently started at university, and met a guy on my course who is just amazing. We get on really well, similar interests and we just 'click' He's told me he has a LDR with a girl in Eastern Europe and even though he likes me, he wants things with her to work even though i... (91 words)

HELP! Is masturbating this way normal???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 21 years old guy. From the age of 12, I have started masturbating. Sometimes, i just feel that it is a wrong thing to do, but nevertheless, I still continued. I have been masturbating at least 5-6 times per week and can go as much up till 6-7 times per day. I have ... (197 words)

How to move on from my ex, but I still love him in a weird way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I'd just like to thank people in advance for the help. A month ago my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. He had tried on several attempts over the course of about 2 or 3 weeks, and i'd been so upset at the thought of us breaking up that i pretty much begged him n... (822 words)

Respect for your boyfriend or bucking a culture trend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend seems to think that i don't respect him because i always have an opinion to everything he says.in our culture "men" get much more respect but i dont agree.could it be that im trying too hard to pass the message on to him?i feel so angry ... (50 words)

I don't know how to make his family like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

- My bf's family don't make me feel very welcome when I spend time with them. My bf can obviously see that me and his family don't really "connect" type of thing and this upsets him that I don't get along like as if I am part of their family. The thing is though, he blames... (552 words)

I am ready for a relationship, but have I waited too long? And should I call him and re~establish coo

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm approaching my mid-twenties and I've never had a relationship. Sometimes, I wonder why I can't seem to get into a relationship, while most people my age are already married or committed to someone. I have just finished my master's degree and I have a good job which I enjo... (350 words)

All work and no play, with no end in sight...

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25 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi friends, sorry but you'll need to read a bit long. Okay, I am 22 and I have a sister who is 24 and I have my mom-dad. We are living together. The main thing is all about my father. He never earned a penny and he never bought us any single thing even a pin. WHile my mom has ... (557 words)

Dont know how else to slow it down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hello everyone,I met a girl a few months ago and like her alot.I use to ring her everyday and she use to ring me the same. Before we went on holiday we had a talk about things thats on her mind and that she want to slow the relationship down a little.So I now ring her once eve... (286 words)

What first? Remaining a ladyboy or castration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my age is now 18 i want to be a female please say me what i have to do first is achieving feminity possible or only i be remained as a ladyboy please say to me about castration also please... (40 words)

Is he guilty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I just got back with my bf ever since we split for 3 months and its just been a month together, and iv noticed hes begging to be needy and abit controlling when it comes to me talking to certain guys im friends with. we go to different colleges and he told me it breaks h... (195 words)

How do you tell guys you don't like certain things about them without hurting their ego?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well here's the thing. I am currently with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He is about 11 years older than I am and I'm in my 20's. I am very happy with him he treats me better than most other guys but lately he's starting to be a bit controlling. He has forbade me to go to ... (373 words)

B/f's boyfriend says he loves me behind her back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend is going out with a boy I've liked for 2 years and its very awkward to be around. He would say he loves me in proper behind her back once and again and I don't know how to re-act to this. Any advice? ... (46 words)

I've hurt my cousin and now I feel badly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here it goes im 16 and mycousin is 19 we don't see each other very often but he is very protective the other day i went ouy drinking and my ex-bf(beater) texted my cousin he got really worried and told my aunt i got really mad i told him to fuck off that i hate him and other ... (143 words)

I can't get over my ex-fiance and now he's married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i cant get over my ex fiance. i have tried really hard. when we were together he was very matter of fact and not emotionally caring. i did so much for him. we were together about 3 1/2 years. we got engaged together about 6 months after we met and a year later we got a house-th... (436 words)

I can't tell if I'm pregnant and I'm afraid to tell my parents!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my period for the first three months and missed the fouth and got it the fifth month. Could i be pregnant? I havent had any symptoms and my periods are usually irregualar. HELP!!! Im scared that i was pregnant and that i had sex for the first time 5 months ago and had 3 ... (133 words)

2 years and I love him so much but I'm bored!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Ive been with my boyfriend for 2years now and I love him to bits and hope to end up marrying him. However im so confused with my feelings- because im SO bored now and we're having less sex which makes me feel un loved and un wanted. I just dont feel that he loves me... (139 words)

I am scared of potential legal action against me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am with this girl for 2 years and we are very close but i dont love her and are just friends... i want to tell u that the kissing was a mutual decision and i just let her touch on the surface of my pants on my private part.. i am 22 and the girl is about to turn 18...i am ... (118 words)

Sex after having a baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had a baby and during labor i tore real bad. i didnt tear down i tore on the side. and it goes real deep in my vagina. its heeled up now but it hurts to touch it and wipe and i have been holding off on sex till my 6 week doc visit. well its coming up and my boyfriend is ... (83 words)

Is he just being a show off or does he like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This one guy I know is starting to confuse me. We are not very close, but I had a class with him last year and he wanted me to give him a random high five one time and seemed kind of mad when I talked to other guys. On the last day of school I went up and talked to him briefly ... (305 words)

Is this wrong for a Christian?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is my relationship with her wrong? So heres the thing. :) I'm 15. I've been told many times I'm extremely mature for my age. I've been best friends with her since we were 3. Every summer she's come and stayed with her family that lives here for about two months. We're all good ... (385 words)

I can't stop thinking that our relationship is doomed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi I am a 21 year old who is terribly in love with the girl of my dreams. I constanly think life will find a way of taking us apart and there is no chance in hell we can be together thoughts like these hurt me alot and I tell my Girlfriend everything she thinks im really ... (232 words)

I wear the pants....But if I don't he sure as heck wont!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. My name is Lea and I am a 20 year old newly wed. I am really confused about my husband at the moment, and to be honest alot lately. I am really independant outside of a relationship. I took care of two parents pretty much my whole life which kind of gave me an edge ... (422 words)

My husband slapped me and left for the titty bar!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I finally say I am done My husband has a drinking problem and addicted to pornografy. Today he slap me and left to a adult entertaiment I know because I call him he was there... (39 words)

I have feelings for my best friend's girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this best friend who i have known for quite a long time actually we're so close that it is like we're siblings,at first i thought that i just treated her as my friend and nothing more but now she has problems with her boyfriend who also happens to be my friend who treats ... (139 words)

First time sex on wedding night

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - first i want to know about the first tmie of sex in wedding night.what shuold i do to be patient for my life partner for prevention of more bleeding and pain. I am waiting for response. Regards, ... (40 words)

Am I straight, gay or bisexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have always seen myself as straight but recently (starting a year or two ago) I been more comfortable around men than women. Like if I were to hug a women or a man I would choose the man. I decided to explore my sexuality so I kissed a man. It was not better than a woman but ... (66 words)

There simply is no answer to the question “Now what?”

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

- I have no direction in life; none. There simply is no answer to the question “Now what?” I’m unhappy, tired and demoralized. I want to change in so many ways. I know I’m not alone as I’ve read this same story over and over in the DearCupid archives but the advice offered d... (243 words)

Differences

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age - Heres my problem, my girlfriend and I have been dating for many many years. We get along great, hardly ever fight. We share similiar values, religious, and political views. The commonalities end there. We don't like to do anything the other person does, and I feel that this ... (100 words)

We are planning on losing our virginity together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all my girlfriend and i are planning on having sex soon, it will be the first time for both of us. what are some recommended positions for first time, aside from standard missionary which will make it fun and enjoyable?... (42 words)

I want her to want me sexually

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i was wondering how i can get my girlfriend to want me sexually any suggestions?... (15 words)

I want to know how people feel about dating your cousin's cousin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello I'm a fourteen year old girl and I want to know how people feel about dating your cousins cousin. I'm currently dating my moms sisters husbands brothers son and I'm really starting to fall for him. I know there's no blood relation but is it too weird what do you think? ... (70 words)

Why can't I relate to so many of my friends that are already settling down?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my 2 year dating anniversary with my boyfriend is coming up. Unfortunately I don't know how to feel about it. I'm acting kind of unstable but I don't know why, and it's confusing my boyfriend. The background is that both of us are in university, close to graduation. Aca... (457 words)

First lesbian sex together ruining our relationship...can anyone help?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Serious issue here :/ I have had a girlfriend for a while now. It's become very serious. one time when she came to stay round mine we decided to have sex for the first time, it was my first time all together, and her first time with another girl. there was no passion w... (232 words)

How did I let my friend know I just want to be friends?!

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone i have a question for you all. I am 29 and i have a late 40s guys after me and i have done told him all i can be with him is friends! We Have Slept Together a time are two! and i just can not see myself with him in a relationship i have told him time and time ... (150 words)

Is masterbating once a day too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone :) i have a question about masturbation. I am a 17 year old lad and i find myself masturbating at least once a day. I usually jus turn my pc on download some transexual porn and have a wank, i was jus wondering if wanking at least once a day is too much or if it ... (63 words)

Why does he still accuse me of looking at other men?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After one year of being together, why would a man still accuse his significant other of looking at other men and trying to show off her body? I can reassure everyone, I do not look at other men. In fact, I see people. I do not look at people to see if they are attractive o... (161 words)

How to revive a cold, evasive, and cheating wife?

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25 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - How to revive cold, evasive, cheating wife of 15 years? A little history. Been married for 15 years. Two kids 11 and 13. Wife 47, me 40. Marriage gone sideways/numb, now for the second time. Wife and I both grew up in environment where parents didn't show much, if any... (1080 words)

Is it normal to get engaged so quickly?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have a relationship question. My ex and I dated for 5 years. We were in love with each other, and he was ready to get married. I constantly told him that I wanted to marry him, but I just wasn't ready to get married by the time I was 23. When we broke up last year, he ... (352 words)

Stamina problem

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25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really hate having sex with my girlfriend because I have... stamina issues where i uh finish early. I really love her though and don't want to disappoint or lose her. What can I do?... (39 words)

I broke up with my commitment phobic boyfriend. Did I do the right thing?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age - I met a wonderful man in his mid forties. He has never been married or in been in a serious relationship, he has very limited sexual experiences with women. He is kind, successful,loyal, honest. When we first met we emailed for two months leading into our first date which was ... (685 words)

"I can't have a relationship with you right now". What does that mean?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when a guy says I cant have a relationship with you right now, because I have trust issues and everything Ive been through? He says that doesn't mean a year down the road that he wouldn't want a relationship with me, because he may. Hes going through a ... (71 words)

Why is my fiance acting like this?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am having a bit of a time with my fiancee he says he loves me and wants me to still live in the house with him than he sits there and says i need to get a different job and get the f out of his house and that i don't do what he says and that the house is not cleaned up at all ... (130 words)

Will he gets what's due to him?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i actually stayed w/ someone who was so abusive to me. he tried strangling me about 5 times all together. how could i do that to me. it just has sunk me in a pit i'll never get out of. i don't feel anything toward men anymore. no one catches my eye anymore. got out of ... (133 words)

Is an hour for sex too long?

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25 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Sex with my fiance' usually lasts 45 min to an hour. She complains that it takes me too long, but i have "trained myself" to last like this, and now its difficult to have an orgasm in a hurry (less than 15 min). She complains about it, but I thought women hated "Minute-... (138 words)

Is my professor interested in me?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm pretty sure that my professor is interested in me, but he doesn't want to make moves because like any professor with an once of brains, they realize the consequences if their passes are rejected. However, I'm completely interested and I was wondering if anyone could ... (165 words)

What do you think he's thinking?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I liked this guy for ages, but was never sure if he liked me... i was pretty sure he did, and so, at the age of 17 (yes, it was humiliating) I finally kissed him at a party. It was my first kiss. He definitely seemed to like me that night, but when my friend egged me on to ... (509 words)

What makes up the juice from a squirt?

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25 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I would like to know whats makes up the juice from a squirt. some of my friends says its pee, other say its plain water and sweat, and my gf asked her health teacher and the teacher said its regular body liquids. I need to know! so what exactly is it?... (51 words)

Am I being unreasonable about his friendships with girls?

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25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that my boyfriend has trouble making new friends, but when he does, they always seem to be girls. I wouldn't normally have a problem with this, but he does get a lot of female attention, and I'm finding it hard to deal with because a lot of the girls he makes ... (201 words)

Should I keep the faith and hold on?

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25 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Is it crazy that after everything that has happened, I still have faith that he will come back? I was with the love of my life for two years, my first love. We were everything to each other. One day he left without any explanation. It has been a year since the breakup. I met wi... (388 words)

How can anybody tell when an autistic person needs them?

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25 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i'm dating someone on the autistic spectrum i know because my dad is, sister and other members of my family so i picked up on a few things. for example my boyfriend doesn't like too many hugs. he can't cope with anyone but me drinking from his glass. certain foods he ... (167 words)

What should I do? I really want to be with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone...im back...well what can i say..this past tuesday i spoke with the professor...she n i was flirting back and forth..she is really cool with my friend but that day when she left the room she walkd with me and started asking me how i m doing.. n that she missed me ... (231 words)