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female
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36-40,
*urt2009
writes:My husband and I dated for 4 1/2 years and have been married for 1 yr and 7 months. Recently we seperated and have been living apart for 4 months. I am 24 with 2 kids and a baby girl due in November. We've still kept in contact since we seperated and he tells me he doesn't want anyone else he just needed a little space. He told me that he wasn't having sex with anyone but me. Everytime I try the no contact method he calls and sends me messages back to back saying he is ready to come home and he misses his family but when i give in and let him half way back in my life he never mentions coming back home. Well last week he spent 2 days with me and the kids and then he left Thursday night b/c he said he had to go back to work Friday morning. The whole time he was here all he talked about was us trying to get back on the right track and him coming back home. Well Friday less than 2 hours after he sent me a text telling me he missed me I got a tip that he wasn't at work and the girl that i heard he's been seeing car was at his house. So I got in my car and drove to where he is staying. When I arrived I walked in on him and the girl in the room having sex. We argued and he kept throwing up the text that i sent him that said we need to completely leave each other alone for a little while so that we can think about what it is that we really want but i sent that text a couple hours before and he already had someone else in his bed..so i just left..the girl was sill there looking crazy. It is now Tuesday and he hasn't contacted me and i definitely haven't tried to contact him. I feel like he atleast owes me an apology. Does he just not care or is he too scared or ashamed to try to contact me???? Will he ever try to apologize???
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 October 2009):
He won't. He was playing you. If he loved you, he wouldn't do this. Don't look for an apology. He has treated you appallingly, so why not just end it with him. You need to keep contact with him for your child's sake. But you can do better than a guy who has lied to you and treated you like this. Don't be his toy. Be your own woman and ditch him.
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