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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We both love each other but are with others, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - me and this boy,he is one year older, were going out for about 2-3months. everyone knew we were meant to be, but rumors got to me, and my trust in him started to fade, so we ended it. then he realised how much he loved me and how much he wanted me back, but i wasn;t ready to go ... (540 words)

Why does he want to sleep with me now that he's married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I have a problem 14 years ago I was in love and thought I had meet the man who would one day make me his wife. We spent 5 years together and had a child, both of us being young and all we made some stupid choose cheating etc.... The relationship ended 9 years ago. He ... (182 words)

My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and peices of it. i am still ... (137 words)

Best friend has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey people, Recently we started back school and everything was going great until one of my best friends got a boyfriend.Now all she does is talk about him and text him in class were all becoming very worried about her because shes failing a good few classes she neve... (217 words)

Can't let go of ex b/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of about 5 months broke up with me a few months ago because he said he 'didn't love me anymore, he loved me as a friend'. Even though it was only 5 months I had completely fallen for him, and he fell for me, or so I thought. So I was heartbroken. We've kept in ... (250 words)

Caught my b/f with vibrator! What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I got out of work early and thought I would surprise my b/f I been dating for a year now by showing up at his apartment last Sunday afternoon. I have a key so I let myself in. I didn't think he was home because the house was quiet. I went to his bedroom where I found him ... (176 words)

She broke up with me and refused to give me a clear answer.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend broke up with me and refused to speak to me in person or even give me a logical reason behind her decision. We are both in our late 30's and have had many relationships before this one. When I met my ex, she was divorced for over 3 years with a young daughter. ... (801 words)

I'm now no better than my cheating husband. I need your help! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age - I don't know what category this comes under, to say my life feels like a mess right now, would be an understatement. I'm desperate for advice or words of wisdom. Have been married fifteen years now and it all started about two years ago, when I found out my husband was watc... (591 words)

It seems like they don't want to hang out with me any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started working! My two best friends think its great but why would they not tell me that they were hanging out together today! They talked about it during school like I wasn't there. I'm mad because I feel left out. What should I do? It hurts my feelings that they're ... (100 words)

After our first big fight, is she still willing to work with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I had our first big fight last Friday, now I feel as though there's no comming back. Here's the situation; we've been dating for about 18 months and living together just over a year. She's currently 30 weeks pregnant and until recently all seemed well.... (335 words)

Should I end this affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I find myself in a hopeless situation . I came out of a divorce six months ago lacking self confidence. My ex left me for a girl ten years ago . I then embarked on a close friendship with a male friend who was a shoulder to cry on . He is married and slowly we began to... (140 words)

Should I tell him I have trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy sooooo much he likes me too couple of days ago he asked me out but i said no he looked kinda mad but ddint say annything..i have trust issues wat should i do i really wana go out with him but i am scared..should i take my friend with me when i go out with him or ... (88 words)

I'm 23 and she's 27

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My Girl says I'm more sexually active than most Men her age. Shes 4 years older than me and we've been together for 2 years now. We're both deep in love. She says I'm more powerful penetrating her. But I can only last up to 45 minutes before I cum and its even less when doing a ... (77 words)

Do I tell my wife the truth or bite my tongue and keep up the deception?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Just over a year ago I married my girlfriend of over 7 years. However I was away with work the 3 months prior to the wedding. It was a difficult time as there had just been a close death in the family. I met a girl during that period who I did something with. Maybe I was need... (212 words)

Do I take my husband back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age - I have been separated for 2 years from my husband of 18 years due to his affair and how much hurt I endured from it all... We have recently been talking about how we could maybe get back together to make it work again.... My parents and brother and sister in law do not want me ... (120 words)

Age gap concerns.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl currently dating a 25 year old guy. I'm still studying and living with my parents and he is already working, has his own home, touring in a band overseas and interstate. I don't drink or do drugs but he drinks and smokes and does weed. He never ... (111 words)

He cheated... whats best for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age - Ive dated this man for 19 months now. When we first started dating, after a month I found out that he was sneaking around with a married woman twenty years younger than him. It didnt bother me too much because I did just meet him and wasnt looking to fall in love. He thought ... (246 words)

Why does he keep laughing at me? Am I missing something here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I talk to this guy every day at work, if im sad he does something funny to make me laugh. He tells me all about himself and asks about my life as well. We get along so perfectly. We're both single and he doesn't talk to any other girl 1/2 as much as he does me. I gave him my ... (137 words)

I just wish I knew where all this was going... Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So i met this guy in my internship, and I felt the chemistry as soon as we met. He is really nice to everyone, so I can't tell if he is "especially nice" to me. All interns usually go to lunch together, but we happen to have a sweet-tooth, so we get cookies together after. I... (561 words)

I am so unhappy in my marriage. How do I find myself again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for a year and a half and I think that I have made a mistake. My husband is "old fashioned" and likes me to stay home with our son and cook and clean and all of that lovely stuff. He likes to guilt trip me when I want to go out with friends, or when I don't ... (147 words)

I like this other guy and I think he likes me too... what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex just got out of a 9 month relationship, i loved him to death, and it still hurt's since he's dating one of my best friend's now... but i like this other guy... and when people ask him if he likes me he looks away... my friend told him to ask me to homecomi... (127 words)

Do girls like bald men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 29 years old lost my hair when i was just 22. becuz of that i have to shave my head every day to look young. just wana confirm from girls here that do they like to go on date with a bald guy? or i should go for plantation to get myself new look?... (55 words)

I feel so worthless. How can I become a more posititve person and happy with what I have?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I hate my body and myself. I hate my body because I have small boobs, which look really ridiculous with my huge thighs. I'm slim, actually my BMI is ok, but I'm still so flabby and no matter how much I diet and exercise I just can't get rid of my thighs and of course my boobs ... (416 words)

She said that our loving caresses were wrong, even if I didn't take her virginity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 21, have a girlfriend. We have been together for 2 years now. We love each other a lot. But she is not convinced on creating a physical relation as this, according to her, would be ditching her parents. On her bday a month ago, I took her to my home, with a surprise ... (126 words)

I just want to get that nasty couple out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi OK Im (19) Ex (23) the girl is(24)ages of us to understand how wrong this is!! ...I would like for some one who has been in a situation some what like mine and how they coped through it... OK My boyfriend(NOw X) broke up and left me after 15 months We never really had any ... (202 words)

Why use my pictures when he has access to much sexier porn ones?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend tells me that he loves to masturbate to half-naked pictures of me. I take this as a compliment, but I wonder; why would he use pictures of me when he has access to porn where the girls are fully naked and much sexier? Is he just lieing to me to try to be nice or ... (79 words)

Am I supposed to believe her about the father of this child? It doesn't help that I'm deployed and away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok well here we go. i joined the army back in may of last year. my wife left me for another man then. she aid she didnt want that kind f life. well she ended up getting prgo from this guy right after i left. well when i was about done with basic we decided to try to make this ... (394 words)

He has cheated in the past and the way he's acting makes me think he is again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. He was in the Army based in Germany for 6years but left just before we met. Things havent been easy and there have been times when we have thought we woould be better off apart but we got through it and everything was fine. ... (179 words)

He never told me he had girlfriend! How do I act when I see him at work next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling like a prized idiot and I need some helpful advice. This is quite long, sorry. Everyone knows you should never get involved with someone at work but my head was tunred by this guy I work with, he is the first guy ever that I have liked, I like everything ab... (491 words)

Would you consider her a slut?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Would you consider her a slut? She has slept with 6 different guys Not including me..So Thats 7... Fron the age of 15- to almost 18 in a few months. One was a serious relationship but cheated on him with two different people includding a singer because she said her fri... (285 words)

Can a leopard change his spots?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I wonder if anyone could give me a bit of advice. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now, and have just found out for the 4th time that he has been texting an other women. The last incident happened about 3 months ago and this time again its with the same woman. ... (309 words)

I don't want to wait for him, but I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, needing a lil advice on this please. Ok a little while ago i asked wether telling my ex i still loved him was a good idea. I didnt tell him in the end, but he told me he was sure he did, but didnt wanna ask me back out incase he was wrong. See reading this, im thin... (194 words)

What should I do about this very troubled marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Sorry this is very long but I want you to know about everything. I have used fake names. I am hurting, my husband Cody and I have split up, it will be 3 weeks on Sunday. I am not eating, and if I do, I puke it up. I drink so I forget him. We have been together almost ... (1777 words)

How does a guy's mind work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When guys are hot and cold, say your speaking to a guy online and one day hes being flirty and giving you a few compliments about how you looked that day, the next day ..hes doesnt seem to fussed. Do they back off because they think they've been too foward? Dont re... (91 words)

My long lost love, my soulmate, has come back, but he's married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Over 12 years ago, as a teen, i was with the man whom i now know was my soul mate. He was very much in love with me and we were together for 2 years then off and on for 1 year after. I left the country and moved away. I was younger than him and didn't really know myse... (336 words)

How do I tell him that I'm sorry for being a snooping jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Snooping is wrong! Well, dear aunts and uncles I made a STUPID move by looking on my man's cell phone, no excuse really but I did it only because he's been acting aloof so to speak for a few weeks and I couldn;t understand why. Even after talking to him I got no real answer o... (287 words)

How can I stay with my parents without fighting with them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help! Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years.But some reason we have to break up.I moved with him in his country.I used to work before but all the money I had I give him to buy cars and rent.I have no money right now.So,Now we have to move on.He don't want to give ... (204 words)

I never had a chance to explain why I blocked him! How do I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hello, I'm currently living abroad wih my boyfriend of two years but we plan on going home the end of next year. there was this guy, we'll call him Jim, that i was really good friends with back home who my boyrfiend asked me not to speak to anymore because Jim and I had be... (324 words)

Does he just need some space to get his head together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,well i'm new here but have started seeing someone in the past 3 months,we both have been badly hurt in the past,neither one of us have been in a realationship in almost 2 years,his ex cheated on him and plays mind games with him regarding his kids,he felt he'd never get ... (102 words)

I'm confused, why would we agree to break up if we can't stand being apart from each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I dated for alittle over a year, we broke up 6 months ago it was a mutal break up mainly because we were both in different points in our lives. He is a lead singer in a band and was very focused on his music and I had to concentrate on my education Weare ... (219 words)

Help! More period problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm a girl of 15. I got my first period back when I was 10 (10 and a half years old actually) but still they don't come regularly. I get my period once in 1 and half or 2 months, sometimes even 2 and a half. Is it ok for it to still be irregular or should I visit th... (63 words)

Desperate to get over the ex - will appreciate any help (techniques you have used)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I am really struggling to get over my ex. I have recently started the "no contact" and it hurts like hell. I dont want to go into why we broke up all I know is that its over and I just want to forget him and start healing. I have tried friends, reading books, I work. B... (110 words)

Hate spending time with boyfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused I've been alone for so long,and have been so unhappy.I finally meet a really great guy,and its all going wrong. At first when I thought he didnt like me, i found him really attractive. We started seeing each other as just freinds and I got goosebumps ... (309 words)

Help! I just can't seem to get over my ex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I feel a bit ridiculous asking for help on this site but I'm not sure what else to do. My problem is about my ex. I'm a gay guy and I met my ex over a year ago (may 08), he was the first guy i properly dated and i was his. He wasn't even out when we started dating ... (735 words)

B/f is always flirting so I accepted another man's phone number and now I feel guilty!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here it goes, I have recently got a number from a guy that comes through my store. I would really like to get to know him. But when I accepted his number I felt guilty right afterwards because I do have a b/f. Here's the thing My b/f writes and flirts with wome... (286 words)

I want to ask her out before she starts liking another guy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey cupid. my problem is i can't ask girl out. her name is ashley. by the way, this is at school. i started noticing that i like her. and later like 2~3 days, she started liking me (im sure about 90%). that was before the big test so about end of school year. so before ... (175 words)

Negative pregnancy test so why no period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know your probably going to think 'oh another typical teenage pregnancy' but i really need to speak to someone for a bit of advice. me and my boyfriend have been together now for 11 and a half months, im seventeen although he is 25, my mum doesnt aggree with me going ou... (353 words)

Madly in love and she just got engaged to someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone this girl who i'm madly in love with has just got engaged. I think about her all of the time and everything that i see reminds me of her. i would like to tell her how i feel but i know that if i do it will just be complicated between me and her and i know she w... (132 words)

I don't want to go through with the arranged marriage for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - please help i am 19year old girl and my arranged marriage is getting closer and closer i am terrified and dont want to go through with it. i come from an indian family and my dad is very traditional and believes everyone in the west should have arranged marriages becua... (173 words)

Strange imagination for self pleasure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid i love my girlfriend and have good sex life but am addicted to strange masterbation techniques.just wondered if it was normal or should i stop. I often put on womens panties (wifes or her mothers(40)and rub my self against the bed in a sexual way until i come ins... (96 words)

He says there is someone else but then says he's lying about it???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, Ive been with my bf for 9mths now, and we are experiencing some difficulties. We got into an argument last week which made me upset, so Ive been trying to communicate all week with him about sorting out the arguement. He says he is busy due to school and work, yet in the ... (190 words)

Is he lying about intimacy in his affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he Lying about the intimacy in his affair? 4 months ago i found texts from a female colleague on my husbands phone. The last one she sent him finished with the phrase ' I want you'. I was one week away from giving birth to our first child. He ended it immediately, she move... (292 words)

Are we together for the right reasons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - we have been together for just over 3yrs now, and we have a 14 month old son. since we found out i was pregnant he changed, i went through the pregnancy alone. since birth, he doesn't offer to help with our son or when i'm ill he don't help me, and this is when he didn't have a ... (179 words)

Is he expecting the relationship to move forward because he's spending money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I just started seeing this guy. Right now I'm unemployed so I don't have any money for outings. I've suggested that we do free or inexpensive activities like walking in the park, the beach, etc. However he says he doesn't mind spending money and has been spending a ... (159 words)

God fails new ways to get amusement out of my dating failures

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - In 2 days im about to turn 19 and im going to collage, i have never had a real girlfriend. I have had countless attempts and an equal amount of failures all of which have fallen apart due to things outside of my control like their ex tricking them away from me, their own ... (661 words)

If he was going to feel something for me wouldn't he have by now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am going crazy. Just had to go to Dr. yesterday and got Rx for Xanax. I have lost 13 pounds in the last two weeks. This is why: I met a guy who really felt like my soul mate. We met July 31 and have gone out every Fri and Sat since then. The first month was ... (372 words)

A girl crushing on another girl..lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been crushing on a girl for a while now. When I see her I get butterflies. When I see other attractive girls at school my mouth drops open but this does not happen to guys. Im wondering if this could mean I am a lesbian?... (47 words)

Is there any help for self inflicted heartache?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I get over the girl I love? I met the perfect girl about 10 years ago at the age of 12 and instantly I was in love. Even though we were friendly and I knew she liked me, throughout the next few years I never once asked her out as I was extremely shy and lacked any conf... (226 words)

Is sex all he wants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on the internet about 3 months ago at first he was very clear about not wanting a girlfriend but he wanted to have sex with me so i stopped talking to him but about 2 weeks later he text me saying he didnt want to lose me and he wanted to give it a chance so i did ... (102 words)

I felt neglected, I cheated, confessed, and now b/f doesn't know if we can get back what we had

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for a while now, and i love him. He will have a baby in less then a month with a women that i know he does not want to be with. He has been staying over at her place for around 3 weeks, and i never get any calls from him or he never calls me back when i ... (252 words)

Trouble getting over summer rejection

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I could use some help. I'm having difficulty getting over a rejection from this summer. There was this girl I really liked, I mean really liked. She was/is everything I could ever want. She's extremely nice, caring, sweet, intelligent, not to mention beautiful. ... (369 words)

Rough sex is killing our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been together in a very close and loving relationship for over 6 years - I am 47 and he is 42. We have a lovely time with ordinary physical affection on a daily basis, lots of hugs, kisses, touches, playing around and fun. He is very kind and sweet. We ... (452 words)

My husband always has an attitude and I've had enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband always have an attitude when he be around me. And when I ask him a question he act like it hurts him to answer me.I'm tired of him because he show me no love. What do u think.... (40 words)

She's upset but still talking to me what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the thing. When you make your girlfriend or wife mad, and even after you've talked it out, she still is upset, what's the best way to handle that situation? Being affectionate or lovey is obviously not the way to go, and I know that saying you're sorry too often ... (74 words)

Treats me like a queen for awhile and then turns into a monster

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married and my husband is a cheater and a liar. I been with him every since i was 16 and got married to him when i was 18 every since we have been dating he have been cheating on me. When i leave he comes to my house and beat on the door apologizing and wanting me to take ... (293 words)

Am I being unreasonable that his decision doesn't show respect for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband decided to be in the wedding of his "best friend" with out even discussing it with me. The issue is the best friend has a sister who has said horrible things about us. When I asked him about it he said he was going and that I can choose to go or stay or take a trip. ... (80 words)

How do I NOT creep him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for only about 2 months, but I have known him for about... 8-9 months. I have always liked him since I met him, I want to tell him i love him, but I don't want to creep him out or anything. I know that I love him and I am 8/10 sure he loves ... (120 words)

Going to have sex on 10/31 and have lots of first time questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am 16 and i have a few questions about sex...what is it like?????? does it hurt???? what is lube??? can he hurt me down there?????? what can get me in the mood???? how can i get an orgasam??? what does it mean to come??? plz help me out here i am going to have sex on ... (65 words)

Any ideas for two to sleep comfortably in a dorm bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I spend every night together, sharing a small twin dorm bed. He's a really heavy sleeper and I'm a really light one. I've been having a TON of trouble sleeping through his moving around since he likes to roll into the middle of the bed within an hour of falling ... (88 words)

How long are you supposed to help your adult children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) age - I wonder how long you are suppose to help your adult children? My children are all over 20, but they don't seem to make it out there. We are keep helping them, but they don't seem to get stronger from this.I know people who are supporting their 50 year old ''children '' ,but ... (81 words)

Riding lessons wanted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i love having sex with my boo. but we always do the same position, doggy style. i recently had sex with an old partner, and we i rode him for a little while but i didnt really know what to do. i want to try it with my boo, but im kind of shy and unexperienced in that area. can ... (78 words)

How do I tell this guy that I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, I have been crushing on this guy for about a year now, and I believe it may even be love at, well, second sight. We're really good friends now and he seems to be flirting with me a lot. I don't want to sound like another obsessed teenage girl, because I'm not. ... (146 words)

Does it mean he likes me when he acts jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

2 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Before I dated a guy once and that was all. We did not meet again. Now I am dating the same guy and today we went out for together (this is our second date) and he asked me some questions like when was your last boyfriend, and how long did you meet him, and why did you ... (104 words)