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writes:I'm 17 boy. I never had any girlfriend. I want to make only one relationship in life. So if I get a gf now , will i be able to carry on the relationship untill marriage? I'm not gonna marry before the age of 26/27. What your experience says? Reply to this Question
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reader, Phait  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Age is not important, what counts is maturity. If you know you're able and ready for it and you're of legal age, then its okay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): just throwing it out there. Would be the best option
I wanted the same thing as you once, lost count of gfs now (dont like to think about it) Hopefully next one will be it...... or the next one.
Take your time and have friendships with girls that way you get to know them ok
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThx for many nice answers. arranged marriage is not the solution i'm looking for@ thenot
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (20 October 2009):
 I forgot to add in my experience guys should be at least 25 when they marry!!
It also depends on the maturity of the guy but i'd say 25 years is a good age for a guy to marry!
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reader, Starlights +, writes (20 October 2009):
If you had a relationship now noone here can truly say 100% if it will last to marriage.
It depends if the girl you are seeing has the same views on marriage and love as you do (ie like you she just wants one love for life)
-if so you two will have a higher chance of sticking together and married.
I would say choose very carefully the girl you want to be with as you take it very seriously and want a longterm partner.
Hope this helps,
Goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): If you only want one relationship in your entire life then you had better make sure you meet the right person - but how will you know they are the right person unless you have other relationships to compare them to?Have fun and nothing too series in your 20's and look to settle down and get married in your thirties.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): For you an arranged marridge at 26 would be best.
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (20 October 2009):
 it all depends on the girl and you no one can tell you yes or no, cause it all depends on how you and the girl work things out, but usally the first time you date someone you will not be wit that person for long time, so if you want to find only one girl then you really need to work on the relationship and she does to, when you find someone you want to be with then explain to her what you want in life and see if she wants the same thing
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): If you are serious about only having one relationship then I would say yes, you are too young.
I'm a champion of the 'see what happens' philosophy but if you really are limiting yourself to one relationship then I would suggest you live a bit more first. Enjoy time with your friends, see other girls in a 'no strings way', or not if that's not what you want, that's fine.
Being in a relationship is great, it really is, but there's so much more to life that you need to experience first. I was 20 when I had my first relationship, and in hindsight, that may have been too young.
Anyway, I hope this helps a little bit.
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